Crossposting from /adv/ to see what Sup Forums thinks

Crossposting from /adv/ to see what Sup Forums thinks

Is it common to realize you're a different sexuality later in life?

So I'm a 23-year-old male. I grew up in a really accepting family, always open to different ideas about sexuality etc. so I've never had any reason to deny if I had any feelings towards the same sex. I've exclusively dated and slept with women, except for a single time I kissed a male friend playing spin-the-bottle (it was disgusting). I've been attracted to trans women so maybe that was a "first step" of sorts towards whatever I'm at now.

Anyway I've been convinced for years that I have almost no attraction towards males. I found recently however that I feel sexual attraction towards a very specific type of guy, and have even fantasized about dominating one. The idea of being dominated still repulses me, but for some reason I get turned on at the idea of fucking this certain kind of guy. What the fuck is going on?

tl;dr thought i was straight for 23 years, suddenly want to fuck a guy. wtf happened

Im 23 too and in the same boat.

KYS FAGGOTS

It's so fucking weird. I have two sisters who are both bi so it's not all that strange, but they both knew from a young age (12-13), so it's hard for my to grasp why I'm just now having these thoughts and feelings. My parents were incredibly accepting of them coming out so it's not like I had some kind of internalized fear.

idk. sexuality is fucking weird man

Sup Forums makes you gay

committing homosexual acts is a choice

This generation is so fucked.

Yes, the same way performing heterosexual acts are.

The innate desire to perform those actions for some individual, however, is not a choice

>If you don't adhere to my ideal standards you are what is wrong with the world.

If I could just trade op with my current one that'd be great.

...

prove it

Sounds like a forced stimulus change. An ex of mine loved the idea of forcing a sexual reaction based from a non sexual action.

I.e she trained me like a dog to get hard when she snapped by snapping her fingers than giving me a blow job. Now when ever someone snaps I get hard. You are fapping to much on Sup Forums.

I miss the old days when we drug freaks like you behind a truck.

Undisputable tumblr mentality

See I can definitely say Sup Forums has exposed me to a lot of porn I wouldn't have sought out on my own. But the thing is I'm rarely here anymore, and I only watch porn maybe a couple times a week. My current girlfriend has a high sex drive so I don't really get the urge unless she's away or asleep etc. And when I do seek porn out, it's always straight porn.

There is no species free of innate homosexual desire. Homosexuals have continued to live despite hundreds of years of violence persecution, even though there is no rational reason to be homosexual, people still are. You didn't choose to be born straight, you were straight when you hit puberty.

Weak bait.

Saged

Have you recently smoked marijuana? it does that to some people.

If you don't procreate death to species.

GG evolution.

>Wants everyone to adhere to their rigid social standards based in a dumb book about a dead Jew and some sand people.
>Rejecting these illogical, barbaric values makes you a SJW

I love how you CC's do this. Either you live a boring miserable life under our rigid social norms or your an evil sjw set out to destroy the fabric of society

sexuality isn't black and white

rule violation.

It's a long game user, habitual fapping over an extended time frame with what ever male figure you've come to like making appearances in various ways. You've programmed your self to want to fuck the lady boy. My guess is if you go back through your porn you will find either the type you like doing the fucking, or in an add on the side.

I have not smoked nor injected any marijuanas in around 7 years. I have heard of it causing the gay though.

I'm like you OP. I used to think I "just like dicks" and "only like submissive guys" or this and that, but thinking it over it was pretty obvious I was gay.
I didn't really realize it until I was 24. I didn't truly accept it until I was 25. I'm 26 and it still bugs me, but I'm a faggot. No point in denying it.

>I'm rarely here anymore
we are in your mind dude

You realize the vast majority of your genetic possibilities will not present themselves over the course of your life, right?. If your brother is gay, you are still most likely heterosexual, but are more likely to be gay and have gay kids.

Also, a study found homosexuals sisters tend to be more fertile.

I grew up in a rigid Mormon family, yet I'm still gay. I've tried my while damn life to be straight. Yet I'm not. Nobody else in my family is gay except for my cousin. And I've been completely isolated from them because of my sexuality. Old friends won't talk to me anymore because of my sexuality.

You have no idea how much I fucking wish I was heterosexual, but I'm not. I never can and will be. I've tried conditioning myself, I've tried prolonged pornographic abstinence , I've tried every damn truck in the book. Yet I'm still gay

well shit. hopefully it teeters on bi. I really like this girl I'm with and I don't want sudden gay to fuck that up.

fucking mr. bones was right all along. we never truly get off the ride.

You'd miss us if we were gone user.

until the whole white genocide thing started happening (LOL)

who thought we needed MORE population?

FUCK OFF NO FAGGOTS ALLOWED
FO OUT OF HERE

i should of said until the whole white genocide meme started happening

If you're turned on by her then you're bi, it's that simple. Being gay or straight doesn't mean being attracted to people the same was as everyone else. I'm not tuned on just looking at guys, I get turned on by their dick, seeing them get hard and erect, knowing he's feeling good. There's a physical attraction but it takes the back seat.
Either way you're bi if you have these gay thoughts while fucking a girl. I can't even imagine being naked with a girl. To me it's the same as imagining being with an elderly lady in bed. It's disgusting.

I went through a similar phase , I was straight then bi then gay then bi then straight. It takes the right woman

You a gayfag
>That said am 24 and my sexuality is complicated, I need women to treat me like men treat them. Words and scenarios have become painfully arousing, as opposed to when I was younger where tits got me hard and vagina's could make me cum.
I'm constantly told how pretty I am, but apparently it's not enough.

oh fuck no I recognize that first panel. I don't need no feels on top of finding out I wanna fuck dudes like 1/3 through my life

those are all really good points. with as experimental as my girl is, I wonder if I can convince her to let me experiment to figure this shit out

Hole is a hole user, I'm Bi and have a wife and son.

This is what relationships are for. Tell her you think you're bi when the right opportunity arises.

btw which kind of mens do you like?
just curiosity

Back when I was 16, I had a few girlfriends, whatever. Nothing too serious and I broke up with them over a few general things like moving and stuff.
That summer, I went on an older scout camp and I shared my tent with a guy I'd been friends with for awhile, no supervision at night at all.
Admittedly, he was pretty cute and he was doing the whole mind game thing to see if I was interested in doing stuff over the trip.
I decided to just go with it and we ended up cuddling and making out over the whole trip. No one else ever knew.
Unfortunately for me, he ended up dating a girl and stopped talking to me.

you guys are right. i'll see if I can work it into a conversation when she's around. funny thing is she's very openly bisexual so I don't know why I'm being so dramatic about it. just seems like a big thing.

well like I said before I'm attracted to trans women. I generally "ignore" their penis if they're pre-op because I like anal with women so it's easy to mentally "blur out". strangely though when it comes to men, I'm attracted to more toned, somewhat traditionally masculine men. light muscle tone, stubble. I also find tattoos and piercings attractive on men. yet when it comes to the idea of "submitting" to them the fantasy fades. I'd strictly have to be dominating them in the fantasy I have.

damn. sounds like an interesting albiet somewhat disappointing experience. have you been exclusively attracted to males since then?

Eh, it's debatable. I do have an attraction towards women, but It's diminished and I clique better with men in the first place.
The experience was pretty big for me since I realized I can appreciate a male touch, and since I've never been interested in
having or dealing with kids . Honestly, I'm not that interested in pursuing women anymore.

It took me seeing like 3 threads there before I fucked off for good.
No thanks.