(Feels?) Tell me about your problems, user. If you need to vent about anything, feel free to do so, I'll be listening...

(Feels?) Tell me about your problems, user. If you need to vent about anything, feel free to do so, I'll be listening. If you need advice, I'm really not that good at giving it but I'll try. If you just want to talk, that's good as well. I'd just like some people around.

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Hi user

pls no die

Hello user. How are you tonight?

I'm good, just watching tv. U?

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I need money to get out and get better but I can't get a job because I can't leave the house without having severe panic attacks, dizziness, anxiety etc. Work from home just isn't available and if it is it pays shit. This makes me upset

Do you like my comfy pic? I made it before the tournament began and Northern Kentucky was eliminated

Glad to hear it. I'm okay, just a little lonely. Thread has a bit more people now, and that makes me happier.

We're alive, for now. Hopefully the thread can stick around for a while.

Understandably. Are the attacks caused by anything specific? Or is it more of an ambiguous anxiety and dread? If it's a vicious cycle, or hell even if it's not that's still terrible. And of course you need money from an outside job for help. Damn.

I'm terrified of losing the love of my life.

The love of my life left me, and I can't get over her.

Of course, user. Not all that into sports, but I love all things comfy. Are you from Kentucky? So am I, as it turns out. Cool.

The love of my life is a member of my friend group and I don't want to pursue her in case I destroy the group and lose my friends

's op here
I have severe social anxiety and depression (formally diagnosed by a psychiatrist) and I'm doing what I can with doctor and counselling but it's not enough and I just hate myself and have no purpose. It would feel so much better if someone needed me and I could do what I do (like writing) from somewhere I feel comfortable.

But no, just keep downing happy pills, wait until you feel slightly less suicidal, mail a bunch of applications you're overqualified for but you feel low panic about,wait, meanwhile symptoms go downhill again, 'sorry your application was not successful at this time', self loathing, depression, rinse, repeat

It's a reasonable fear to have, user. Is the relationship going okay? I know some people who worry about losing their partner even when everything is fine.

I'm so sorry, user. We're here for you if you need anything.

I've heard about this situation so many times and it's never seemed like an easy one to deal with. What more specifically are you worried about?

Both my brothers got involved with a multi-level-marketing company. I haven't because most mlminvestors don't get their money back and the money is not as easy as they market it, plus it's really just a disguised pyramid scheme. Mlm people sell their friends and family to this scheme ("hey, come do as I do, just convince others to join and get rich trying to convince others...") and I want them to fail because if they succeed I will hate myself for not joining in.
I'm a horrible person

I'm fucking tired of cancer treatments and surgery. I'm 32, i worked hard to break free from my lower middle class, labor roots. I finally got my PE license, I started making good engineering money, then this shit. I just want one good year to enjoy the fruits of my labor, maybe a vacation. Some time to pretend everything works out when you dedicate yourself. Instead I get this shit. Kidney cancer, adrenal cancer, pancreatic cancer, glioblastomas . I'm so fucking tired on so many levels. If I was the only person it affected, I would have given up and rested a long time ago.

I don't think that the girl I'm dating is the right one for me. She's my first love and has already expressed that she wants to get married and have kids with me, but I can't imagine only having being with her my entire life. We're both young and I love her more than anything else. I wish that we met when I was a little older...

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Where are you at?

I work for a company that can help in situations like yours, but it depends on the country.

Apparently she had a thing for me a few years ago but I was too much of a spacker to pursue it so I don't know if she has any interest in me anymore. Also there's the fact that we've all headed off to uni so thats bound to cause issues in any potential relationship we might have it fuck man I haven't been able to get her out of my head for fucking ages.

im in a relationship with this girl, i like her and all but she frequently makes me feel sad. I love her, shes nice, yet i dont feel like a want this kind of relationship
>inb4 dump her
i know, i know that if you are not enjoying something, then just leave but... why is it so hard to do it? Shes just one in a million, why do i care so much if i leave tho? Why if i know that is not healthy for, why i dont just leave?... man i think im stupid or something... i dont know... I mean, i know the answer to my problems but yet im not taking the solutions... is not that pathetic?
just wanted to say that...

I know the feelings of hatred and purposelessness well. Not to the same degree, though. You said you've put in applications for jobs you were overqualified for and can't panic about. Are there any openings for jobs that offer more flexibility so you can work comfortably?

I have relatives who are involved in the same thing. I think it's sleazy and annoying too. Would you be willing to take part in it despite describing it as a pyramid scheme? What's stopping you from joining once they've hypothetically succeeded?

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I'm in the same boat. I have been for about 7 years.

I don't have an answer. But you're not alone.

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How long have you guys been dating? Also, what does she do to make you upset? Have you tried talking to her about it?

Very simple. Afraid of change. You have a 6/10 happiness in the hand, it's scary to let it go for an 8/10 in the bush.

It's never anything rational, it just freaks me out to go out alone. Nothing horrible happened to me to trigger it either. I just have this overwhelming feeling of being threatened and in danger and the only thing that makes it go away is telling myself ok fine stay in then. I feel sad nd disappointed and upset then, but no longer in crisis "I'm being hunted" animal brain mode.

I'm in the UK

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Fuck yea, perfect get timing

I'm sorry to hear this, user. Staying alive for others is extremely hard, and I respect you immensely for thinking of the people your death would affect. I know how hard it is to do that, but the cancer must make it a hundred times more difficult.

Unfortunately this is where my advice falls miserably short. I would be paralyzed in a situation like this. It's a tough spot to be in, for sure. Does anybody with more experience than I do have any advice here?

Hi user, how's your evening?

I'm 30-something, married for 5 years (been with her 10 years) and about to ask for a divorce.

Over the past several years, due to external and internal factors (and her family and upbringing) she's been sinking in a massive depression, coupled with borderline personality disorder. While I've held it together for as long as I could, I'm about done, just can't take it any more. After 3 years insisting she finally went to a psychiatrist, but her initial round of meds caused allergy.

She's going to another one this week, to try new meds, I'm waiting for her to stabilize and improve somewhat before ending it all. It is sad, I loved her so much, but the love is mostly gone now.

The weird part is that over the past 6 months, my life - except the marriage - is now the best it has ever been. I'm making about 1/4 million $ a year, and about to be promoted. I'm now working out everyday, and I'm at my lowest weight of the past 10 years.

Anyway, just venting, I still have a little bit of hope, because sometimes, just for a very brief moment, the girl she used to be, and who I fell in love with, appears and lights up my world. But I think that's just a ghost from the past.

Relationships are my weak point. I can't give any good advice on them because I don't have any experience with them. If you're all going off to university, would you have more or less to lose if you should decide to pursue a relationship with her?

I dunno if I would be willing to join, probably not, I feel it goes against my principles -not that I'm a white knight.
Even if I was willing to join once the've hypothetically succeeded the "good" opportunity would be lost, because the company (Jeunesse) is new in my country and people are joining like sheep. MLM people can sell their ideas like a religion, in fact I get a very cult-like vibe from them. In addition to that, succeeding in MLM requires lots of time and dedication, none of which I have right now (my brothers do have both, however)
My younger brother joined first about a month ago, I went to one of their meetings but didn't join. I tried to convince my middle brother not to join and he agreed on everything. Today he went to a meeting as I did and decided to join. Those people sure can sell their ideas.

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>I'm in the UK
ah, ausfag here.

I'm not sure if you have a similar arrangement there, but here if you're on disability benefits you get access to an employment agency that specialises with disabled people?

anxiety is downplayed as a disability, It's crazy how much it can fuck up your life.

Okay so this isn't as life treating bit my crush who comes to me for advise all the time made a deal to find out who I was crushin on. She made a deal with some big black dude who knew because he saw my phone. Anyway, I tell her to pay him and ill tell her myself. Welp. She finds out, says ok. I tell her ima kms and she calls me one of her best freinds and how she doesn't want me to stop talking to,her. Rip me.

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That's agoraphobia. It's highly treatable with therapy and meds, got get it.

Odds are pretty good.

I feel that, because we're both young and inexperienced, we'll end up regretting not being with other people if we do stay together. There might always be resentment toward her in the back of my mind because she (indirectly) prevents me from experiencing relationships with other girls from how much I love her.

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The issue isn't the girl being right, it's you. You could spend another 10 years with her before getting married and having kids, that's just a life choice.

How long have you guys been together? Also have you talked to her about this?

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I'm doing fine, thank you for asking. As much as it hurts to do sometimes, putting your own personal best interests forwards is something we need to do. I'm very sorry to hear about your wife, depression and other disorders are exhausting for both those affected and those they're close to.

Yeah, I can completely understand. These businesses are much too deceptive for my liking, and I would prefer not to get involved with one either. Sticking to your principles is good, though. If you don't need to get involved in this to succeed, it could be best for your conscience if you don't. It's terrible to be involved in a business you dislike and distrust.

Forgot to tag myself.
Woe is me

I cant handle this anymore There is this girl i like a lot. at some moments she can be the sweetest thing in the world. But then completely change, she fucking toys with my feelings. She probs thinks thats shes joking around but she doesn't know i love her. Its hard not taking things personally with her

For about 9 months, we've known each other just about our entire lives though. I haven't brought it up, I've asked her if she'd ever feel like she'd miss out by being with me forever and all I got back was "nope, never thought about it", "I want to be together with you forever" and "I love you". I don't want to hurt her, especially if it's a feeling that'll fade with time. It's not even that I doubt our future together, it's just all of the "what ifs".

5th grader detected

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I know I could, I just can't shake off the idea of never experiencing another person in the rest of my life. I don't want to throw away my relationship with her because I really love her and I know I'll regret it. Will I regret staying with her or only having experienced being in a relationship with her for the rest of my life more is the question that bothers me at night.

Thanks (I'm the first reply), I never thought I'd be the one writing in a feels thread.

Gilt hits me sometimes when I think of leaving her, she left her home country with me as I went to grad school abroad, and that did take a toll on her mental health. I've supported her and now helped her find a job that she likes, doesn't pay that well but she'll live comfortably with that cash plus half of what we have.

Yesterday I was looking at old pics, of some of our trips together, and is sad to think that the person in those pics barely exists anymore.

Maybe I should have pressed her harder to go to a psychiatrist years ago, and we wouldn't have reached this level.

I feel like I'm losing the love of my life, but on the other side, I feel like the love of my life no longer exists as a person, just as a memory.

This thread is dead. I'm out.

Sounds difficult user. But Ive been in your position before. The feelings you have will never be met with reciprocation from her. The best thing you can do is move on, leave her behind, forget about her. The first months will be crushing, but you will be fine. We'll all make it brah.

Not OP and definetly don't have the life experience to give you advice. That said, if you stay with what seems to be the shell of the girl you fell in love with, I feel that you'll regret it. Your situation sucks man, good luck.

asshole detected

> I just can't shake off the idea of never experiencing another person in the rest of my life

Shake it off, for real, I'm this guy:
Being with the person you love is better than being with a thousand girls, or even a million girls.

Once we were in a threesome, me, my wife and another girl, and as I fucked the other girl I couldn't stop noticing how her skin didn't feel as "right" as my wife's. Her body temperature, texture, smell, everything. It was good sex for sure, but it just couldn't compare to doing with the person you love.

So drop the shit, bury that feeling of wanting to try more girls, nothing good comes out of that, only for missing one chance with someone you really loved.

Unless, of course, she's willing to try a 3some, then you've hit the jackpot, you can try more girls and her.

Don't lose your chance, user, good love is hard to find.

Thanks, that's why I'm ending it, just trying to be sure that she'll be in a good position, well supported. I owe her that, at least.

God, it hurts.

i've been with nearly 100 women... I stopped near the last and dated her for 3 years
We split up just a month ago, kind of naturally.
She told me the other night that we fought a year ago and she slept with my best friend to spite me.
I caught him hitting on her last year and she and i fought briefly over it. I quit speaking to him and she and I recovered a couple weeks later.
Turns out I was right, but worse,
I went and got tested... HSV positive. I was negative before her. I have fucked nearly 99 women and got off scot-free but the girl to burn me was my girlfriend.. with my best friend's disease.
These past few days have been very hard for me, it just feels good to vent.
I've never been so driven to murder, before.
She doesn't know I tested positive. I told her I wanted to get her tested just to make sure she's ok. But really I just want those results delivered in a gift wrap box that her little plan backfired.
I'll be lying to her and telling her I tested negative... As I will probably be lying about it to everyone for the rest of my life...
I'm sorry.

Don't be sorry, but know that it won't make you feel any better after.

The best revenge is living a fucking awesome life and not giving a fuck. Everything else will just drag you down and burn your soul.

you can actually go to jail for that
>not telling people that you have hiv

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hsv1 is not hiv. i've herpes without outbreaks. it wouldn't be so bad if I did, to my chagrin, because then i can save my partner from it.
but i don't know when or where it is.

My mother treats me like utter trash no matter what I do, but treats my two younger brothers like gold. My youngest brother is a lazy fuck with 3 kids and still lives with her because he's too much of a self absorbed asshole to get a job. The middle brother is also a lazy fuck who weighs almost 400 pounds and just sits around playing video games in his (literal) basement, again at our mothers house. Meanwhile I have my own house and make 30/hr. I've, on multiple occasions, had to pay for her rent because she can't afford it and groceries some checks as her hours vary. There are some times when I can't afford to give her money and when i can't she knows just how to make me feel lower than shit on her boot.

There was a time when I was 16, working at a shitty call in center. I'd been using my checks to buy games and shit. Youngest brother decided he needed some quick cash so he could get some pot. Goes and sells my 360, ps2, gamecube and n64 to a local game shop. Then, when I had to go and buy all the shit back, gave me crap for not having our mothers Christmas present bought yet. When I brought up the fact he stole my shit he broke down my bedroom door, beat the shit out of me with a frying pan and left me there. Mother came home a few hours later, I'm still in serious pain but unable to do anything (brother disconnected all the phones and I didn't have a cell at the time). Mother dearest then comes and gives me shit for bringing up the fact he stole all my stuff. Decided I had enough and left. Lived on the streets for 6 months before my grandparents took me in.

Grandparents were the only ones in my family who ever actually cared about me. Grandmother passed away a year ago and now my grandfather has lung cancer. Sitting here with a nice long length of rope trying to find a reason not to hang myself. Looking in the wrong place, obviously, but I know some of you fuckers are good people.

thanks man. i agree. i have done a lot just to stay occupied. i joined a gym (rip zyzz lol), started another language, bought a good phone. covering myself with friends and cash to cover these scars (in this case, herpetic lesions)

Don't do it man, life might suck but there's nothing on the other side. I'm this guy:
You can help people, but you can't save them from themselves.

It isn't your fault.

You're not to blame.

You did what was right.

I've been in love with my best friend since the beginning of the school year. She has a boyfriend (douchebag) and I fucking hate his guts. I probably have a bias, but this motherfucker pisses me off. Anyway, my friend keeps bringing him up to me. She says shit like "Oh my god, user is so cute rn" and then shows me a picture of him. I kind of hint to her that I don't give a shit but she tells me anyway. What do?

I feel like I'm wasting my youth.
I'm still in my mid-late teens and have three friends, but they're all extroverts and have plenty of other friends so they're not often available for me, during which time I don't know what to do with myself. I also have social anxiety and worsening schizophrenia. I feel like all I really need is a really compassionate, understanding girlfriend but I attend a college campus full-time even though I'm technically enrolled as a high school junior, so there're nobody

Thank you user, those are wise words. I would hate to live of bugging others and having to explain to people that my business is not shady, when I think it is myself.
My problem is that I childishly worry that I have "make it" in life before my brothers since I'm the oldest

Nope, gf won't solve you problems, get treatment.

Suicide seems like the best option there. Too late to do anything now

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Nothing sounds better than the insensate gnawing loneliness I feel when ever I'm around my family. At least before I had my grandparents, but now I have no one.

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Ask her why she's showing you. And youre not in love.

Then find people. People are out there, like me, like others. Don't lose hope.

Im lost, I don't know where i belong in the world. I just want someone like a GF or a bestfriend. Im slowly turning insane within my own thoughts. Im scare that i may turn into a killer,so im planning on killing myself

I made a thread about my story a while back, here archived.moe/b/thread/712011818

You're right, love is a strong word for the time being. I feel like if I ask her it'll be awkward and our friendship will end.

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Your family sounds, for lack of any better words, terrible. Tying to associate with them as little as possible seems like the best course of action. You don't need to help your family if they're assholes, because they're going to try and use you as you well know. I would tell you just to stop supporting them financially but that is infinitely easier said than done.

I think the same way very often, "well if I had a girlfriend I would be doing better." I can't speak from experience, because I've never been in a relationship before. But I've been routinely told that it won't just solve your problems.

I feel as if that might just be a kind of natural competitiveness between siblings, and I know I'd feel the exact same way as the oldest brother. Stick to your guns, and if you end up happy it won't matter in the end who made it there first.

I don't know if anyone remembers me but we had a similar thread a while ago. I have cancer and have less then two or three months to live.

I'm pretty fucking dumb, like I'm just really dumb in school. I dont know what it is, I dont know if I'm just lazy or if I'm actually just fucking retarded. I guess I just get shit grades because I'm lazy. I have a nice family, every one if them is loving, but I could tell my parents are slowly hating me. Everytime I show my grades, it just disappoints them. My bad doesn't even even lecture me anymore, I don't know why I cant just be a normal student. I hate being a dumbass. I try to be happy, everything in my life is perfect, I love it, I'm happy, but anything academic in school just depresses me so much. I could feel myself slowly becoming a fucking loser. I browse Sup Forums a lot now and I dont even try to do anything with friends. School just makes me feel like shit.

You need to make a move. She is having sex with other guys and will be open to fucking you as well. That's what you want, to fuck her. It won't mess anything up, it'll enhance the relationship.

I'm not the user youre talking to btw, just asking a question. What the fuck is the point of having sex in school? Am I the only one in the world that wants to have sex with only they're partner after marriage? Is that weird?

Probably ADHD, for real, I have it, only diagnosed it last year, at 30-something.

I'm this guy:
I was able to compensate it for most of my life by being pretty intelligent, but it just takes way too much work. Started treatment recently, my life's changed.

Sorry for that, hope you have and awesome 3 months. Really, live them, live them to the max.

just watched welcome to nhk, even though i'm not hikkikomori, I know them feels

Fuck, I forgot to mentions, she accidentally sent me a semi-nude once (yes it was an accident for sure), She said she was saving it for her boyfriend or some shit. They're at like second base at this point. I overheard her saying something about how her boyfriend was trying to fuck but she turned him down.

GF lef t me a month ago now im fuckin high as fuk but its ok breakup happen