I am 27 with 2 serious ex girlfriends and currently in a serious relationship with a girl im about to move with. Thing is I am still just crushed about the loss of both past relationships and I think about them both literally everyday. And I don't think it has anything to do with my current gf because I felt the same way about my first relationship while I was in my second relationship. I've been taking opioids since after my 2nd relationship, not to relevant because even when I was clean I still felt this way. What I want to know is what can I do to just fucking be happy, I dont have a bad life by any means and shit can be much much worse for me. I am currently getting off of the opioids (which totally fucking sucks btw) so that definitely doesn't help. Anyway, someone please help me
Also general feels thread
Zachary Bennett
anyone?
Logan Murphy
like inner peace? what do you mean by inner piece?
Evan Bennett
haha, god my bad, been working since 5 am, yes, I meant inner peace
Robert Torres
You don't.
Sebastian Ortiz
would you say your past gf's are better looking then your current
Nathaniel Miller
Good job on leaving the opioids, just do it ! Then inner peace is not something you achieve, it's something you work for your whole life.
Then again, i wish you all the luck on leaving drugs, it's for your best, you can do it
Levi Murphy
>How does one achieve inner piece?
>I am 27 with 2 serious ex girlfriends and currently in a serious relationship with a girl im about to move with. Thing is I am still just crushed about the loss of both past relationships >and I think about them both literally everyday. And I don't think it has anything to do with my current gf because I felt the same way about my first relationship while I was in my second relationship. I've been taking opioids since after my 2nd relationship, not to relevant because even when I was clean I still felt this way. What I want to know is what can I do to just fucking be happy, I dont have a bad life by any means and shit can be much much worse for me. I am currently getting off of the opioids (which totally fucking sucks btw) so that definitely doesn't help. Anyway, someone please help me
>Also general feels thread
Join the navy
Logan Bell
man, dont worry. my dad died 13 years ago and im still saddened by it. move on.
Nicholas Smith
I dont think its any big deal. We all think about our ex's. The trick is though that if something happens with your new partner, you'll be thinking about her in the same way too. Live in the now OP, enjoy it, the past is the past.
Logan Ross
>How does one achieve inner piece? Stop giving a flying fuck.
Buddhists agree.
Parker Nelson
ouch lol
they're were more my type, both blondes, which I love. My current gf is different, looks wise and personality. Red head, skinny (the other 2 were skinny but not this skinny), and sweet and naive. The last 2 treated me like shit and I feel like the passion we had in our relationship was based around fighting and making up. My current gf and I never fight, she treats me like a king. I really think Im just a hateful masochist.
Thanks! I agree, Im doin my best!
John Wright
at 27?
Juan Parker
>at 27
Enough excuses you pampered baby, get in some trouble and you will know that your current life is inner peace.
Join the navy.
Thomas Ramirez
treat her like a queen then. you never know, you might actually live a successful life with her. keep it up.
Thomas Nguyen
I'm sorry for you loss. Move on is good advice but my brain doesn't work that way. This is very true. towards the end of my 2nd relationship I was thinking about my 1st relationship, no that Im in my 3rd realtionship I'm thinking about the second one
I like it, I've tried... I need to try harder.
Hunter Baker
>with a girl im about to move with.
NO NO NO NO NO
NEVER MOVE IN TOGETHER
Joseph Carter
I do, probably should be better though. I hate myself for my opioid addiction, I feel like I could be so much more for her if I was clean.
Asher Jackson
lol why?
Blake Jones
damn, your a real badassif you could get through a opioid addiction.
Henry Walker
Fed Ex me the oxycontin(?), theres one problem solved
Dominic Torres
Thanks! It's a daily fight. Got rid of them (sold them) Sorry user. Good guess on what they were though.
Joshua Jackson
rip thread. oh well best of luck to you.
Aaron Peterson
Thanks, Im going to try a healthy life style. They say, healthy body, healthy mind. Maybe if I feel better about myself I'll feel better about the present.