Hey b, if I am 23 is it weird for me to be dating a 17 year old? She turns 18 in a few months

Hey b, if I am 23 is it weird for me to be dating a 17 year old? She turns 18 in a few months.

No it isn't weird. Though I'm curious how you met her.

bump

no

my friends aunt and uncle are 20 yrs apart

Weird? No. Illegal? Yes

I met her on tinder. Mostly I just use it to slam whores but she seems really sweet.

It varies on a state-by-state basis. Also, world is bigger than america

Even if we don't have sex until she is 18?

But America #1

Yep it's cus just being in a relationship with a minor

Rule of thumb divide your age in half then add 7 . If she is that age or older you're fine .

That's pretty weird

It actually is legal, but It's also fucking weird. The difference in maturity between 17 and 23 is massive

shes clearly too old

Kek

Do it, brother
I'm 22 and a 17yo came onto me and I wish I took the chance when I had it

jesus christ this always works

Just don't do anything illegal with her and you'll be fine. Unless you two happen to be in two states where the legal age allows something like that.

When I was seventeen I was dating this twenty-one year old, technically. The law says we could fuck but only if
1. They're within four years of my age

So as long as you're in that rule, go for it.

when i was in school there was a bitch chicks who would go out with older guys

and then you grow up and you realise that only creepy fucking weirdos are dating high school girls because they cant get any their own age and these girls always look back with disgust

it gets less weird as you both get older because of life experiences but the difference between a 17 and 23 year old is massive.

her friends and your friends will likely think your a fucking weirdo, as do i

35 fag here.
i would date seventeen year olds all day if i could.
enjoy it while you can.

when your 9 you can only date a 12 year old?

Not weird but potentially illegal tried carefully

It depends on what else you do. Holding hands ok. Tickling her tonsils not so much.

It's fine man just proceed with caution. I would recommend not touching her until she comes of age. Save yourself the headache.

lol what?

I have classmates that are dating 40 year old guys while beeing 18

I agree with this. A 17 year old is a child. Atleast at 23 you're some sort of functional adult

Why do you think its cool for kids to brag about dating so and so from grades above them

i think its not weird.two years ago i was 21 and knew a 16 about to be 17 years old girl.i proposed to her when she was 17.not that i waited for her to be 17 or anything just bc we became really close and started to develop feeling bout her.in my country is not weird..its normal.

im sure when you grow up you will realise that these whores are actually dating massive weirdos

Sauce pls

Also I forgot to mention I look really young for my age most people think I am about 16-17 so people just assume we are the same age.

Im 23 and had 14 year old come onto me at work.

Agreed.

Id date 15 year olds all day.

Is 25 too old to pound me a good wholesome 17yr old slut?

15 is too old. I'd date 11 year olds all day

Yessss any sauce to some?

They do that, they just want to know that they are likable.

Fucking Rick.

They definitely are. Sometimes i let em do what they want

Really depends if you're up to not only be this chicks boyfriend but also her father. I.E don't be a douche

I wouldn't do that, they're temporary sociopaths because of the hormone soup they're in.
Way too much drama, plus I'd feel like a sick creep.

Old enough to bleed old enough to breed.

It is weird to ask b/
you should go and see a doctor
I'm not sure but you might be retarted
better safe than sorry

Nah, I actually tend to find women my age more attractive. But that is a combination of thinking with my dick and my brain.

Nope. I was 34 and dated a 17. Still together 10 years on

25 year old boy dating a 16 year old boy here

AMA

at what point did you think, "shinkies! i sure do feel like becoming a rapist today" ?

I find the younger (no less than 13) more attractive.

Are you the power bottom?

They tend to fall into the snot nosed kid category in my mind. Sure I can talk to them and respect them as people, but they're not attractive to me.

...

age of consent is 16 in my state. when he first started dating he told me he was 18, but later revealed he was only 16. we looked up the age of consent and realized we were ok.

you dont date young so you can bottom

Just go on Omegle
I've wanked to a few sexually-curious children on there. They'd finger their pussy too, its fucking amazing

but you didnt actually answer my question

at what point did you decide to become a rapist?

I need that in my life. Like a lot.

How is he a rapist if he is within the boundaries of the law and isn't fucking anyone against their will?

>if I am 23 is it weird for me to be dating a 17 year old?
Yes.
If you are 23, you should not be dating a teenager.
This has nothing to do with the age difference, but rather the maturity difference. A 17 year old is clueless. A 17 year old is immature. There is a reason one is only considered to be an adult once they have achieved the age of 18. It is not arbitrary, but rather based on an enormous amount of overwhelmingly decisive data.

You cannot take the "age" difference, and lots of fags here will claim 6 years is nothing, but then they have a self-serving agenda. If one is 37 and the partner is 31, it's nothing. The maturity level is on par. The 31 year old may be more mature than the 37 year old. But 17 is neither an adult (as you are), nor is the maturity disparity tenable. Further, in the eyes of the law this can be a huge problem for you if things don't work out and somebody makes up a story, or parents get twisted, or a million other things.

Last, this says a lot about you. You come to the asshole of the internet's board of most loathsome degenerates asking for advice on what you already know deep down is wrong on so many levels--not least of which is that you are taking advantage of a minor for your sexual gratification. Yet this board is full of pedos, animal torturers, porn addicts, stalkers, psychopaths, fags, trannies, sexchangewhateverabominations, and mostly just losers living in their mom's basement to adults who don't function well in society if their inner mind were allowed the permissions it seeks that are knowingly evil.

Even if she was 18 now, I'd say it still speaks volumes about what a loser you are. Find a 20-30 year old and stop coming to Sup Forums. That's be a start.

Okay, but a 25 year old dating a 5 year isn't quite the same.

I'm 22 and I'm dating a 15 year old.
Don't worry OP.

liberal apologist in action

>I met her on tinder
/thread
OP admits to having a dating app on his phone. Confirmed for massive loser. Confirmed for desperate stalker type.

Don't worry guys, it's not weird at all if you're a loser

Not weird. I had a 15yo girlfriend when I was 25

Kek, salty anons because they can't get that tight teen pussy and have to go for single mom cunts.

Top kek.

Date? No. Fuck? Yeah sure whatever.

this says it all
nothing more to see here
/thread

That's not an argument, that is just ad hominem.
Explain to me how it is rape if it is legal and with consent?

Yeah, that doesn't mean they know their ass from their elbow. It just means their hormones have kicked in.

Yeah, had some lil sexually curious girls pull that daddy bullshit and ask for a show. They enjoyed it and we all moved on.

>weird
No, that's getting pretty close and there is a biological imperative telling you to fuck fertile chicks. Doesn't mean you should act on it, but it's not weird. I would keep that shit down to a phone relationship until she turns 18 though. All it takes is one person to get pissed about it and you're going to get jammed up.
>but we're not having sex
It doesn't matter, I'm not telling you because of some moral objection to it, it's just a really, really bad idea. If even one person says that you're fucking, they will automatically assume that the girl is a victim and you are a predator and shit will get ugly fast.

OP you is a Creep

I'm almost 22 and been to college with mostly 17/18 year old chicks and I found it somewhat weird. I couldn't bring myself to asking one of them out because I could see they were still kids mentally, like I've grown out of all that school talk nonsense and trying to impress people and all that shit you'd do in high school. They still do it at that age and it made me think "shit, I've done similar things myself but that was a life time ago" and I just couldn't get past that feeling that I'd be going out with a 17 year old KID while being an adult myself.
Not that I thought she looked too young or whatever, its just the mentality that fucked with me, like I couldn't even talk to them.

I don't know about that man, its actually easy to find 18 year olds, and I know a few people that say they've done it but a girl your age is always going to be better.

The line has to be drawn somewhere

>tfw 23 and smashed a 17 year old thot last december

This is incorrect

>Atleast at 23 you're some sort of functional adult

heh, yeah...

All im saying is when them young girls come onto me i let em. They just want to be loved at that age and no boys their age give them the attention or the desire they need. Boys their age dont know how to treat them.

Why would it be weird? It's only 6 yrs difference. As long as it's legal and you are happy who cares what other people say

my girlfriends 17 and im 23. shes mature as fuck for her age. Her dad bailed, she has to pay bills with her mom, shes on every sports team, cadets, different extra corricular things. she works. and takes calculus and physics and chemistry. I just got out of school for marine engineering and im pumped. first girl I ever trusted and im a slut myself but ide never cheat on this one. unless i already had a boner and didnt know her name, but who wouldnt. i wouldnt plan to cheat ever hats for sure

No, I'm not.
:^(

Better than most virgin losers on this board.

Half your age + 7 = your a perv

i dated a girl (arguably my first love) I was 18 when we started and she was 16. Told her i was leaving for the military soon-ish, don't know the exact date could be next week or next 3 months. After I told her on fucking facetime (wanted face to face but she was slammed with midterms and work) she wanted to break up
>feelbadman
She later hooks up with her 26 y/o boss who's a manager at pizza hut (which I was also a delivery driver). I was so disgusted, I really couldn't take my mind off it. I was already feeling depression from the breakup but after learning that it was like I didn't know her intentions.
>TL:DR I will never believe a 26 y/o would want a meaningful relationship with a 16 y/o

How old were the children?

You don't have to be, you just have a brain that should enable you to do so.

I dated a 16 year old at that age (legal here)

We're still together, it's perfectly fine. People's personalities are pretty set once they reach around 14-16, so if you like them then you will like them for life.

Weird? Not really.

Illegal? Technically, yes.

Be careful, user.

>implying 99% of people haven't used dating apps

what is this, 2005?

half your age + 7 -x
with x=(how old you think she is you think she is divided by her real age)
but only if x is greater than 1

duh...

It's not illegal to date.

Illegal? What's the AoC there?

Wow, this is the first time I'm in the 1%.
I don't judge people for using dating apps though.

>People's personalities are pretty set once they reach around 14-16, so if you like them then you will like them for life.
Try more like 40 junior

>age of consent is 16 where i live

>fucked my gf the night before her 16th birthday

who /devilish/ here

Do some research fag. It's CakeOfCakes

Are you actually retarded?

Tinder is literally the fourth most normie app available, after fb, snapchat, instagram.

If you don't have/use Tinder, then you're the massive loser.

Thanks for the advice Sup Forumsros, I will tread lightly

Half your age plus 7.

11.5 + 7 = 18.5

It's a little weird.

It also fucks up in the other end of the spectrum.
If you're 90 you can date someone who is 52.