decipher this femtalk:
me going out with a girl for a month. Think I am friendzoned
> ask about her ideal guy
> she says she does not let people in quickly, but somehow she told me lot of things she never told anyone
>me asks why is that
> she says she finds me mature
>me says if she is single
> she says she wants a good looking guy, well mannered and she is not able to find any
do I have a chance, or am I friendzoned?
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Most likely friend zoned but tell her anyway, you don't want to think about it the rest of your life thinking if she might've liked you or not... If you don't tell her its the same as being rejected anyway so...
She keeps telling me about her dates and what she liked and what she did not like in them. I am scared that she will reject me and stop talking. I dont want to loose her. still you thinks I should tell her?
She doesn't want you. Sorry. It's obvious. If you tell her, you'll get rejected and then things will be awkward forevermore. If you don't tell her, you will be trapped in the friend zone forevermore, and you'll be frustrated.
Best to let this one go, user. Don't waste another iota of emotional energy on her. Clean break. Move on to the next cunt, and good luck.
There's always another meercat.
virgin talk
You in a deeper stage of friend zone called bro zone or family zone.In this stage the girl will tell you everything about herself and her secrets but will not date you cause she see you only as a brother or a family member
Yes, do you even have to ask?
She basically said you are not a goodlooking guy.
Thank you for that. It makes sense.
Go fuck yourself, you piece of shit. Virgin talk, my ass. I lost mine at 13, motherfucker, and I'm sure I've nailed a fuckload more bitches than you, shrivel-dick. So fuck off.
Oh!!!!!. Well, thats just sad. I am going to have couple of more beers before I sleep today
I could sense that she she said it, because she kept looking towards me as if for a reaction after she said 'I am looking for good looking guys'(she was beside me)
Is there no escape? I really like her :( . and She asked me if I want to go on a date with her best friend.
Is she black or asian?
Must be the Philippines.
Asking strangers on the internet if you have a chance with someone...
They don't know you. They don't know her.
They don't know what has been said in all this time you know her. Haven't seen bodylanguage. Can't pick up subtext. Don't know any of her reasons for liking a guy other than "good looking" and "well mannered".
We don't know you. And don't know her. You can't really expect any sensible advice from internet strangers on a topic this complex. Let alone from Sup Forums.
South Asian
>am I friendzoned?
Are you attractive and do people seem to like you?
If so, probably not.
If not, probably so.
All of the other things you're considering aren't very good predictors of what you really want to know.
Agreed . I am just drunk and am a normie with no nearby friends irl
It's a good thing you're not overly sensitive about it, or someone could use that to troll you.
Fuck her, just be a douche to her. Girls don't give a shit how kind you are, only if you are a stud.
Ah... duh. I think we all know where we are, user.
I want a refund from Sup Forums after reading the useless paragraph you wasted your time typing.
What the fuck is that supposed to mean? I've been in Southeast Asia and East Asian and even India, but I've never heard of a "South Asian."
I dont know if I am attractive to her. I dont find myself attractive on a physical sense(skinny as fuck) and balding.
Why would she ask if I want to go on a date with her best friend. A best friend I did not even see. She is playing match maker ://
I don't know where I am. Please send help.
Hello? Internet police? Where are you? Where am I?
en.wikipedia.org
You have learnt a new word today. Congratulations :)
Also, type south asians in google.
Not.
>says she does not let people in quickly
You're just betabux
ask her out or kys
As I said, I've been to fucking India. They're not fucking ethnically Asian and I don't care that some English pricks are so sensitive about Paki feelings that they can't use the word "Indian", which has served quite well.
Interesting that one of my friends who is a girl told me that same exact thing 15 minutes ago.
Does not sound good :/. plus I did not spend a dime on her yet. Lessons learnt from past.
>then things will be awkward
if that was the case you certainly wouldn't be worried about some small bullshit like that. In fact you wouldn't be worried whether she "wants to talk to you" or not
thank you for the >kys
C'mon. Stop playing. You don't have any friends at all, let alone friends who are grils. Just go back to the Xbox, user, and ask mom to bring down another 2 liters of Diet Pepsi.
Living large on a Saturday night!
wow, thats a new word I learned by looking at urban dictionary. wow
Haha she think u gay mah nigga
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Lol.
Lol. good one
Best advises so far. You anons have made me feel good. I will raise a toast for you and have more beer
At this stage, you either abort or just go ham like an "asshole". Nothing in between.
I've been friendzoned all my life. Did everything for a girl who I really liked in HS. In retrospect, it was really cringe.
Now I am living somewhere else and found another female friends who happen to be my only friends here... Anyway, three of us grew kinda together lately and the two girls started talking about sex and buying dildos outta nowhere in front of me. Like, one of them hasn't had sex since January and shit like that. And then I was asked if I am comfortable with them talking about this sort of stuff.
>Friendzone lvl 69
I would fucking block out that bitch real quick.
I can feel you user. Something similar happened to me multiple times. I will go asshole from tomorrow and ask her to stfu with her date informations. My friends who are girls asked me to do the same thing. it sounds like the best action plan right now
Damn b/ro lets get out of the zone somehow... gotta figure out some sort of way.
You have balls. I would like to know how it turns out, but I bet I will miss any continuation thread tomorrow.
the girl I am talking about right now asked me three times if I want to date her best friend. Its confusing cos if she thinks I am good for her best friend, does it mean I am good for her? or is this a stupid ass girl test . cringe
Good luck, man. Hope you're gonna get wet.
I don't know... It sucks even more so cuz I'm a virginfag, but I don't feel sexually attracted to them even though they're not bad-looking. And one of them said she wants a fuckbuddy lol.
I'm just glad I have someone to talk to here.
Not tomorrow, Monday is when I will get to talk to her again. I am gonna ask her to stfu if she starts talking about any other guy or her secrets which 'she does not tell anyone'
I wish I knew
I am a virgin fag too.
Yeah I feel, I have opportunities myself, but no game. I want to work this all out while I am still young enough but just seems like I have no luck. I won't settle for a gross chick.
here we go, even if you don´t know him, you gave him good advice
Have you seen the best friend yet? Chances are if she's ugly, your target thinks you're ugly as well. Also watch out for obvious red flags such as, "she has a great personality".
PS Bitches love to play matchmaker. They are also usually fucking awful at it as well.
Same here, man.
Let me tell you... I've got one big chance... Years go. Could've fucked a girl with whom I was sleeping in a bed after a party, haha.
No game no luck no sex
Keyword: fucking awful.
Fuck girls who try to "help" like that.
I slept together with the same girl twice. Just had no interest to take it to that level, while it seemed like that is all she was looking for. Needless to say the morning after the 2nd night she said peace lmfao.
I did not know that Bitches love to play matchmaker. This is the first girl I have met who said this to me. I did not see her bestfriend yet. I was rooting for this girl and so I said 'not right now' everytime she asked.
and wow for :
>Chances are if she's ugly, your target thinks you're ugly as well
That did not occur to my brain at all.
She did not give any description of her best friend. The three time she mentioned her were like this:
> Do you want to go out on a date, I think you will like my best friend
> I think you should go out with my best friend
> She would love you so much. we all should hang out together.
I dont know who the fuck this best friend is, dont know if she is beautiful or ugly, absolutely no information whatsoever
OK, I have just realised that I am spending too much time on studies and work and did not learn anything about women. sigh!
Here, everybody seems to know the mentality of women pretty well. I feel like a downer
Getting fucked in the ass by your dad doesn't count as losing your virginity.
I'm writing an essay and watching porn at the same time so can't focus atm but did you ask for her name/instagram? just check her out bro
Haha it is not your fault. If you look too hard you'll just stress too much, and probably come off as desperate. Just be your normal self, let things come to you as they do. If you get lucky you'll run into someone which is how it usually always happens - out of no where.
im this samefag btwI've found this a long time ago, a "tutorial" how to pick up grills. It's kinda red-pill-esque but it makes sense imho.
What is success rate? What if you just come off as a real asshole and end up with a bad reputation and less friends in the process?
I will ask her details on Monday and then see how it goes
Wow, thank you user . Did it work for you
Just keep in mind that we are all very salty faggots on Sup Forums. It couldn't hurt to take a chance, but in my opinion it doesn't sound to good. I'd say don't try to investigate to much cause then you'll seem "shallow" and if you do go on date with the bf be very careful because everything will get reported back to the first girl.
thank you for the good feels user
I wont investigate. I am going to see the best friend and I will remember the point about being careful. Thank you for that . that makes sense
I think that's just about practice. Going out to parties, clubs, etc, and just talking to grills. Trying to be interesting and confident.
Not yet. But I'm trying just to do small talk. Slowly getting better at just talking to random girls!
Even if she's ugly... Might be a good starting point if you know what I mean.
No problem, Sup Forumsrother. Best of luck.
I guess I do understand. I will try to make the best friend laugh and then say bye bye on normal terms after the first date
I wish I was in your position, haha. GL with everything. Hope I'll catch your thread on Monday. Where you from may I ask?
UK
> "Men think, women feel."
Ive heard that multiple times from men who are very successful with women. As long as you judge a woman's behavior by men's standards you're gonna keep losing.
Me too!