How much do you miss your exgf?

How much do you miss your exgf?
Im talking about a real girlfriend, not some random pussy or girl you've fucked in your teenager ages.

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And as for me, a lot. Specially on sundays. Days where I am alone at home and I dont want to cook, just a simple thing like ordering food makes me remember hundreds of moments.

Theres no way of forgetting 6 years.

I was about to call her this last hour. Decided to turn off my cellphone instead and come here.

A Lot, many little things force me to remember her and the time we had, makes me wish to have her again. It still hurts.

I was engaged a few weeks ago. So a whole fucking lot.

I had her. I lost her. It was my own doing, but I'm fairly sure even if I still had her I would be unhappy because she unto herself was a rather annoying person. I'm just not a man who is becoming of the norm that you must be socially accepting of people you don't like. I happened to not like her whore friends and she sided with them on just about everything, including their mutual agreement to not like me. Which of course they are entitled to, in turn worsening my relationship with my girlfriend which was the catalyst in it's end.

Oh well.

No. I dumped both of my loves when I realized how much beneath my level they were intellectually, spiritually or morally. Never looked back... a gorgeous exterior will fool you into going so far for someone.

A lot man, a fucking lot. We were together 5 years (almost to the day) and ended things after it got really toxic. I know we're bad for each other and I know that we won't even get back together..but I still think about her daily, I see so much in my daily life that reminds me of her. She hooked up with her best friend of 10+ years and it kills me inside every time I think about it. It's been 7 months now, i'm in a new relationship but I still find myself missing her, wanting to be with her again..

What I realized was, it's not that you actually want to be with her..it's that you want to feel "normal" again, getting back into an emotional safe-zone, even if the relationship was horrible and ended horribly, that level of drama becomes the norm after time.

When you start to miss her or think about her, just remember that it's not HER you miss..it's the normality of life that you miss.

I will say this though, I was her first in just about everything. First love, first kiss, first to fuck her, first to fuck her ass, first to face fuck her. It was great. I rather enjoyed that part more than anything. There are certain memories though that haunt me. 5 years worth of them where she really did blind my eyes with the glimmer she reflected, if not shined from the heart she possessed within that ugly shell.

Hell, I'm just as ugly, and have no shine.

She herself is just the ghost in my head. Not who she is now, but who she was. I'm sure the ghost of me and who I was when me and her first met still walks around her mind from time to time as well, but I doubt it hurts her as much as this hurts me.

That's actually really well played. The friendships your gf keeps will tell you volumes about her character. Shitty friends = she's most likely shit

It will pass in time. Don't look back my dude, look forward. Lift weights, work hard and stay happy. Love will flow effortlessly into your life.

On a break with my gf of 2,5 years. I miss her quite a lot most of the time and feel quilty when i dont. But i don't miss the fights and the constant bickering about small stuff we had.

OP here. I was 6 years with her, she ended everything this december. Ive been meeting girls trying to feel something again and theres this huge void. I always end up comparing all them with her and theres no way anyone can win over her.

And yes, its not all her, in fact most of the time we have lots of arguments and our problems, but I wish I could go back to september 16 and try to fix everything instead of thinking
>This is just another argument like any other, everything will fix alone
but now Im so alone, I just cant live the same way, I cant work properly anymore and it hurts like a knife all the time. And Im still at the appartment we used to share.

She writes me from time to time, just asking things like "how are you doing".. she still remembers me a lot, but I wish I could go back with her again.

It was well played. I played right into the common fallacy of it all. Never ask someone to turn away from the persons they identify with. You're asking them to rebuke themselves. They won't. And they will resent that you ever even pondered such an idea.

It was well played. It was a good game.

Ton but I need to get on track
No sesne repeating if im not up to it

Why break up?

Good idea user,
Leave love left were love dies.

And her friends did influence her in the end.
Can you blame them? They need each other.
So they move each other to not lose each other.

And in the end I was right. And she knew it.
Which infuriated her.
It's broken.
Our love.
Broken.

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You need to move. Too many bad memories attached to that place. My Ex and I had lived in the same Apt for nearly our entire relationship. I had to leave. It was driving me crazy. If moving isn't an option, re-arrange the house. Move your bed into the living room, do crazy stuff. Make it feel like a new house. Do it for you Sup Forumsro.

As for making contact with her, unless you absolutely have to..try to avoid it. Do not reply to her requests, do not answer her texts. My ex and I still share a phone plan that we can't get out off, so literally the only time I talk to her is over facebook (not even as friends), to tell her when to pay me her part of the bill.

TLDR; Move out or re-arrange house so it looks like a different house. Find a hobby you enjoy doing, put more time and effort into it as it will distract you from the pain and the loneliness... which WILL pass. For me, things are so much easier now than they were a few months ago.

A lot. But that's life, the world still turns so gotta man up. No contact is the key

I agree and I don't. She was rebuking herself by not protecting the choice she made, the choice to make you her partner. She is absolutely wrong about her friends being entitled to their opinion. Disgusting absence of loyalty towards you my dude.

It is the duty of a friend to be civil and polite to their friend's partner, and if they have cause for concern or opinion, they may speak to the friend, not showing their attitude towards the partner.

A lot. Even thoughit was 10 years ago and I'm now married with kids, if she showed up I'd go off with her

miss her a good bit. she was super sweet and incredibly kind to everyone. we didn't do much sex stuff because shes a good christian girl, but she was amazing regardless

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Once you live together with someone for 6 years you end up relaxing too much. So all I was doing was working hard, coming home and going to sleep. I didnt treat her well.
She thought I wasnt for her, I dont really know, she took some decisitions and once everything is done you cant go back that easy.
I still think of that a lot.

Her friends were previous lovers of mine.
Can you blame them for being bitter?
I take the one who instead of just touching my penis, touches my heart as well.
I leave them, the move physically attractive, and goal oriented ones behind.
All 5 years of our relationship did they try so hard to poison it.
Every moment alone she had with them was like having a rabbit alone in a pitch black room with starving copperhead snakes. Hissing at me with anger and anticipation as I close the door behind me. The rabbit smiling back at me as I do so, walking to the center of the room.

Horrible.

But it's over now, and I've ravaged my town as much as I could to forget I ever even met her. It's not working. It never will work. It's just adding to the space of things I regret doing from now to the point where everything went wrong.

But I'm in a better place now. A much better place.

Bad friends for a girlfriend is something horrible.

One time I was travelling because of work matters a friend of my gf told her she saw me hugging another girl. She repeated that lie a lot until she decided to do the same and worse.
Girls are so dumb..

In fact it's my day off, and I think I'll go for a stroll.

Afternoon Sup Forums, have a good one.

>How much do you miss your exgf?

There was one I wanted to fuck more than I did. Other than her, no, not at all.

I did really miss her, for a long time. Its been almost 9 months now, I think I fully stopped wanting her back around the 6 month mark. She was a mean person, she was really cold and always distant. She always put people down and had a lot of personal problems. I didn't really notice it until a month before we broke up. I was hanging with a friend and she called me and wanted to meet up, she dropped by and hung out with me and my bud for a little while. She soon left for work my friend was like "Dude, are you okay?" I was confused, he said "You were so talkative and full of energy, then when she showed up you didn't say a word the entire time. You like, shut down." That's when I realized how bad it was. I was so afraid to speak my mind or be who I was cause she made me feel so bad about it and made fun of my personality. I was not myself around her, I was just a complacent little bitch. Before you know it we were broken up and within a few days I was moved out and sleeping on my sister's couch.

Don't waste your time on a pretty face or a nice body. She was the most attractive woman I've dated, and I realized that was the only thing positive I had to say about her. I'm very happy to have her out of my life. The only thing I miss is the friendship we had, I wish we could talk again but she wants nothing to do with me. She dumped me by the way.

I miss her now and then when I'm alone. I miss having her around to experience and share things with But life goes on and you learn how to suck your own dick.

even though nobody asked, we broke up because she still had feelings for her ex. hes an ugly ginger and shes fine af, its a shame

Nice get. He looks like a bearded ginger faggot, user.

very much and i cope by hating her.

>bearded ginger faggot
accurate

I missed one once, but I looked her up on facebook and she got ungodly fat. Aside from that, no.

Sometimes I miss em then I get laid or jack off and go back to not caring about em

Seeing that he´s tall, well-built and handsome, and that red hair per se isn't ugly and that he looks really fucking manly, I get why she´d break up with a basement-dwelling fuckhead like you over still missing that god of a man.

I have a question for all of you here.
Why, after this loss, would you ever bother to be in a relationship again? Gambling on fickle feelings that are supposed to last years into the future? I don't think I'll ever get into a new relationship. I just don't see the point.

I had a relationship of six years break down in January. I asked her for more commitment and she told me she's in love with me but that I'm the right person at the wrong time.

We'd been together since we were 18 and were each other's first everything. She said she wants to have a wild couple of years before she settles down.

To top it all, I had picked out the ring I was going to buy her. I'd planned a trip to NY for her birthday next year and was gonna ask her to marry me.

Emptiness doesn't even describe it.

Damn, thanks for advice, just got year full with my gf and don't want to lose her like that.

He honestly looks like a good guy, sure man it hurts, but better she be with him than getting buttfucked by drug addicts.

I miss the sex because she was really good at that. I don't miss anything else. She's fucking insane.

I am curious as to how it´d be to fuck my first girlfriend now. We were each other's first and together for 2 years. Now I´m at #15, she's at 2, I wanna know how the sex would be now.

Kinda regret not having gotten together with one of my affairs more seriously. Fucked that up a bit, but with the same info I had back then I´d make the same choices again. But goddamn she was fine. Nice pussy, nice hair, nice face, style, intelligence, smile, everything was just perfect. Also perfectly similar political opinions, internet nerd and she was french.

im 6'3" and used to play football, objectively speaking i think im better looking but maybe its just jealously speaking.

he is a nice guy tho, i wont shit on his character. they broke up about two weeks before we started dating, we were together for a little over a month, and then she got back together with him and they are engaged now

not 100% of the time

It's likely tho. If all of her friends are party animals, she's likely to be one too, etc.

i just hate that she had those feelings that whole time we were together, probably why she didnt want to do sex stuff (and/or the whole christian thing)

Yeah, when the friends you've had all your life are telling you your behaviour has changed, and you hadn't intended it to, then you know it's not going to work.

Better to be single with good friends than in a shitty relationship having fallen out with all your friends over a woman.

In my experience the only relationships that work are those where you were friends already, but with social network friendzoning there is now no movement between the friend ladder and the fuck one the way there was when I was younger.

you were a rebound.
Also what exactly did you do?
Cuz just going on 2 dates doesn´t mean you´re "dating", you know that, right?
You also sound like a giant faggot.

Been there Bro. Nine years wasted. I fully sympathise but at least it wasn't longer. I got into another a couple years later, this time for 6 and with a kid involved.

Now nor bothering with relationships is just that much less hassle in my life. All I want is warm, dark and peace n fucking quiet most of the time.

How did you get over it bro? It's been three months and it's still so raw.

A little bit. i mean, on a real note, loves like that (y'all niggas know what I mean) never really fade away. regardless of what happens, that person still kinda has a part o' ya

For me the worst is thinking I wont find another girl like her. I know this is what everyone says but for me she was so special at everything.
I tried to find another girl who I can feel confortable with and its so hard.

Specially Im 33yo and I dont get the same girls as in my 20s, so Im afraid I'll end up single or having to be with those girls nobody wants just for being loved again.

not much. i only remebered her just now because you brought her up. we were together for 3 years. im 21 rn

I know its hard, but its been 4 months since the breakup after 5 years and I still look her facebook, her profile pictures or the "new guy" ones. I fucking hate him so much. I dont really know what she saw on him, its just an easy replacement, I dont even think she really loves him as she doesnt write a single thing about him or puts that stupid line on FB "In a relationship"

I hate sundays too.

My ex was sex maschine... better looking as sasha grey - i won't upload any pic, but belive me - she was really bettar than sasha. She also was quite good in kitchen and taking care when you were worried. But that's all what was good... she was fucking whore, fucking with more than two guys at once.When i found it out - i wasn't strong enough to dump her in a moment, but when she dumped me and in next month asked me if i want return to her - i declined.


What is interesting? She had after me over 2 guys and she's still missing me. EVEN if i warn her that i will go to justice and force her to stop message me - she is still trying to catch any contact with me.

How do you know they're together then bro?

Also think it's for the best to delete her from FB, Instagram, etc.

always when my current gf is a sleep or not home with me

Its the guy who is posting everything instead
>You are the love of my life
Or commenting anything she posts like a vulture. He has posted pictures of them together from time to time, but she doesnt seem to give enough attention.
Besides that, she still writes me from time to time or deletes my number in her contact list for contact me, so hiding me from that asshole looks like he is always there.

I dont really know, she always said if we werent together she wont find anyone else. She also mentioned we should give us a time but I never cared about that being true.

It's been 12 years now and I still sometimes miss her.
Don't know why, because almost everything I have now is better.
The bitch cheated on me, while I thought I was gonna marry her, so she broke my heart.

The one thing that was better, was that she had a sister.
We had regular threesomes during the last 18 months of our relationship.

I trust my friends insight more than anything. A buddy and I have always had really weird relationship timing, him or I either get into or out a relationship within a month time frame. After my last relationship failed, his did a month and a half later. This has happened twice now. Lukily we both always stick close to each other. It seriously helps a lot to have a close friend sympathize and go through all the motions right next to you.

I agree with you, I simply haven't been looking for anything since the break. No sayings apps or anything. I recently started a new job in the city and I met a girl there that has really peaked my interest. We're good friends so far and I hope it evolves into something. Her and I both aren't big into social media so it actually feels genuine.

Im 24, i am not socially akward or autistic or annything.

I have only had sex with 1 person, and that person was my gf.

The relationship lasted 3 months, until i broke up with her.

Turns out i dont like people being attached to me emotionally, it makes me tired.

the only downside is that she had the nicest tits, ass and pussy i have ever seen in my entire life, and i have seen alot of porn.

I only had sex during those 3 months, during my entire life, and i loved it, but i love being single more.

I have never felt like a weirdo before, but this is the only aspect in my life, that makes me think i am weird.

I have no urge to ever be in a relationship again, and i truly believe i can manage without sex all my life.

I have been hit on by counltess woman and gf's of my friends, and their friends, but i dont ever act on it.

I will never never marry, but at the same time i have this intense urge to adopt children and care for them and provide them with a good life.

When you meet the right girl, all of that will change bro.

I'm and let me tell you, I never thought I'd fall in love. But that changes when the right person is there.

damn bro, you are wholesome.

Fucking pussy boiisss all of you

We were together 3 and a half years. Broke up because I wouldn't commit, was too invested in my family. Would have had to give them up for her. She begged for more, often cried and got very bitter towards the end. I'd like to think what we had was special but sometimes Idk. The breakup was amicable but she slept with someone a couple weeks after so she was obviously thinking about it for a few weeks. Now she's basically engaged to another guy ten years older than either of us and its been like 10 months. We're in our early twenties.

She made me promise we'd still talk etc of we ever broke up, but now it's barely happening. She initiates maybe once every ten days, I never initiate. I think I'm not in love with her anymore, I think I realised it after she told me about the guy she fucked. That that part of it was dead. The conversations we do have now last a few sentences. They're boring and blasé, perhaps because I give her nothing to go on. But Idk. I always feel like she's only talking to me because she's bored or her current bf/fiance whatever is busy atm. I feel like a performing monkey so I close it down and make it formal and courteous. Sometimes I wish she never messages again.

Learn to cook

ITT: who is the most pathetic beta male..

you just didn't love her and were unwilling to even explore that possibility

good thing that you didn't waste more than just 3 months of that poor girl's life

Once you know your gf has cheated on you or you find out, its never the same again.
Do you think after a break up and some time between you can go back and start it all over again like if nothing happened? Like resetting and forgeting?

I find out as she told me, it wasnt sex but it hurted like hell. I couldnt sleep in the same bed with her anymore.

You should cut contact, that's not good for either of you. Once she fucks someone else it's over.

Jesus Christ user, that girl is mental.

I only hope it wasn't you who fucked her up.

This
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Tough to do unless you truly forgive her. It's probably going to be tough and you'll probably need to fuck someone else as well.

If I cut contact I look immature and childish. And I'm able to compartmentalise her 99 percent of the time but when she does message its never natural, just awkward. It doesn't hurt me, tbh. It's just a shame because we used to talk for ages and were good friends as well as lovers.

No, you can't.

The sad thing about people is that they won't know any responsibility until you give them consequences for their fuckups.

Letting it slide is always like handing them an invisible license to be assholes - and no one wants to have a relationships with assholes.

No great loss buddy. You'll be ok.

Been together for 6 years. Split on new years eve. Sadest 2 months of my life followed. Now I'm a new man. Happier than ever. I guess reading a lot on red pill philosophy brought back my interest to try this shit out. It works.

How did you get over it bro? I need help

how? me too, 6 years, she decided to dump me on christmas, only 2 months for you? already april and I cant ger over the sadness.

>Split on new years eve. Sadest 2 months of my life followed. Now I'm a new man. Happier than ever. I guess reading a lot on red pill philosophy brought back my interest to try this shit out. It
I got really angry. I practically begged for her to come back to me for 2 months. Then I took a look at me and understood that I'm fucking miserable because of her. I found this blog - the rational male - read a ton. Reality I've lived in for 25 years crumbled and suddenly I could understand why we split up, some of the actions she and other women demonstrated with other men and that the way I was acting brought this on. I decided to better myself and trust me - when you decide to become a better man you find joy again

mean to reply here.
Anyway read up rational male. And art of seduction for general comprehension how to communicate with the opposite sex. Look at the women. Smile. Flirt. They'll respond and soon you won't be thinking about that other one

I started lifting weights, bought new clothes, find new hobbies, started going out, dating girls.

And guess what, I still miss her like a lot. Everything Ive done these months only makes me wish she could see the new version of myself. And how much she would like me now.

In older threads I posted these things, everyone on Sup Forums said I should stop messaging her or answering her text msgs, and thats what I did. Its been 40 days or so without an answer but it doesnt really help.
I know she is with another guy but in the end I hope we can be together again.

She turned out to be loser, which is poetic because she left me when I was going through one of the most loserish, low points in my life, and utterly betrayed me. (She was literally all I had, and I was sure she'd always be there for me.)

It was ages ago. Now my life is all on an even keel, and she's just some aimless, directionless idiot. it's hard to believe that I was once someone who pined for her for the better part of 3 whole years after she left me. Even harder to believe that where I'm at now started with a need for vengeance. None of that even matters anymore. The path it led me is so much better and so far removed from the reason of origin that it's almost shameful to admit it was such a base reasoning. She doesn't matter anymore. When you're that in love with someone at a certain point, it's like remembering yourself as two completely different people.

she was the love of my life.
the one who got away.
everyone else is just 3rd place finisher.

kliene

Thanks bro, I'll take a look. Appreciate all the help I can get. How was the first fuck after your ex? Weird?

You should stop idealizing women. Only afterwards can you let go. I thought my fiancee for 6 years was the most perfect women I've ever seen but after I've had a hard long look I've noticed her flaws in looks and even more in personality. She might be the best I've had until now but I know there's better women who can help me grow.

i've been in an on/off relationship with someone for 3 years, they broke up with me for just stupid reasons, they were kind of cold/distant at the end anyways and turned into a complete asshole, nothing is left of the person i fell in love with.
so idk why i still miss them 2 years later

i dont really feel like im attracted to anyone else either, in those 2 years i haven't gotten further than a few small crushes

is there something wrong with me?

First ever gf, great relationship without any fights for more than a year. Out of nowhere she felt she needed freedom and did not yet want to commit, which of course means: " I want my young, wild and free college years in which I am free the suck all the cock I want". I don't blame her for that since she is attractive and can have a great time like that if she wants but it still hurts I was not enough.
We stayed "friends" for a while after, I did act like a beta bitch sometimes (trying to text her everyday and such) which I regret. Had sex a few times after the break up.
After not speaking to her for weeks her whole family suddenly blocked my number and facebook, don't have any idea why.
Can't say I am too sad now. When looking at old pictures of us all I see is a person that does not exist anymore, but is forever a part of my history and memories, which is somewhat comforting.
My trust issues and skepticism towards relationships are at an whole time high though.

weird. And exiting. I wish I could say differently but after 6 years of sex with the same person it wasn't anywhere near like it was the first year or so. You can experience again that exciting, wild sex you've once had

the whole idea of searching for "the one" is bullshit. Don't be a sniper. Be a shot gun.

I miss her about as much as I miss having pimples

I doubt i will ever find a girl to love, she was full of empathy, kindness and love, and attractive, but it did nothing for me.

Don't feel bad man, she was trying to be with someone else. Sounds like a pretty normal bird, that she was with you makes me think you are a good fella yourself. Chin up tiger, the next one will come with less baggage.

Fuck that whore man. You acting like a little boy crying while she is going balls deep with some dude. FUCK HER! If she writes you that shit asking " How you doing" just don't reply man. She is fucking with some othe dude and asks you how you doing? FUCK THAT BITCH. MOVE OOOONNN!!!

Does the weirdness lessen with each new girl? I'm a pretty confident guy so I don't think I'll have too many issues getting girls, just wanna know if the secret to getting over her and the sadness I feel at the prospect of her sharing her body with other people is to fuck as many girls as possible.

bare with me, my written english can be appaling.
i met her in university, she was an international student. she was an amazing person, we were together for 3 years before it ended. i have never met anyone who was willing to give up so much to be with me, she did anything for me, if i wanted food in the middle of the night and i called she would go to a macdonalds or whatever and come to my place. she applied for jobs for me. she found a job she hated but let her stay in the country and paid ridiculous amount of rent in an expensive area to be next to me. i was too stupid to see what she did for me. i pushed her away, used her, cheated on her, hurt her intentionally - not physically but mentally. the way it ended was she saying she loved me and i said im lucky to have you. didnt say i love you back. this was after she had to leave country and go back. now i am haunted, i have terrible nightmares and daydreams, on the train i am staring out the window and i get a flash back to something i have done to her and i cant help but sigh loudly and wish for death.

Looks like a slut to me. I bet she is sucking some big cock right now.

shes sucking ginger cock now

story time:
I was with her long enough to travel the country to live with her without other plan, she kicks me out after 6 months. I found a new flat and new friends but I was really deep with only drugs and alcohol to deals with daily shit. Several month after lots of abuse i went to PH. since this days I stopped everything (except marijuana) but now i have the energy to work and go out for my activities. Sometimes I miss here because it's now 2 years without a gf, but I have plenty of time and money for me and it feels pretty good