Do you feel you are wasting your life Sup Forums?
Its been 4 months and all I did was staying at home trying to look for work, and watching porn/videogames/films.
Everything went wrong the moment my gf dumped me. I need a change.
Am I the only one? Tell me your stories
How can you waste nothing? You're not being logical m8.
also sage this emo shit
>Do you feel you are wasting your life
No, I don't feel that I'm wasting my life, I AM wasting my life. But that's what happens when you're a disabled gimpy mf'er.
I wonder.. What could you do that in your opinion ment that you didnt waste your life?
How rude of me. No OP. Im not wasting my life!
Got laid off two months ago. Fiancee is being understanding but I feel the clock ticking. I may have ruined my career
You only need some time.
Do exercise, you will feel so much better.
I self-published 3 books in the last 4 months, as well as cleaned up my first book by giving it a thorough edit. There were grammatical errors in there that I didn't know were grammatical errors.
Honestly, I kind of feel what you're going through right now. I think what's happening is just a fact that she's out of your life now you have a lot more free time without her around that you just don't know what to do with since you become so accustomed to spending it with her. You should try doing what I'm doing, and just pick your favorite non video game non porn related Hobby and just pursue it with as much enthusiasm as you can to take up that free time that you have
Me too, stopped to go at university since 2-3 months
Re started to at boxing gym, but since 2weeks I can't quit smoking weed, and all I do is smokes weed, do nothing, fap on twink porn, and also goes out with my friend car to better smoke and drink, i also stopped reading even if I am in Literatury in university , I mad and i felle the same thing
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your english is broken as fuck
I know, don't give a fuck
Faggot.
Married to a 8/10 finance manager for couple years now.
Been looking for work for 9 months still nothing thanks America.
I have a double major and have years of great experience.
Own part of a mmj dispensary. Prob pull in anywhere from 4-6k a month. Guess I dont really have to work. Doesnt feel real though.
Get bored all day. Go to casino sometimes and bet online with sports. I don't really bet big.
Knew about Sup Forums since 2008. Just recently came on again about 2 years ago. Cuz boredom has gotten worse. Only ever really lurked.
Video games bore me now. Pretty much have watched every great show and film.
Have a lot of friends and great family. But lost many great ones at that.
I hate the world really. I just want to make a lot if money and buy a big house in the woods.
Rate my life
thanks user, OP here
in fact Im still living in the same appartment we used to share (its my own so I cant move) and its hard as hell trying to do new things.
started lifting weights and doing new stuff, but most of my friends are already engaged and going out with other couples is depressing as shit.
same thing happened to me
moved to another country, changed my life
I have 2 friends living in Stockholm, and Im currently thinking in going there. But Im not really sure about the place, I think it could be depressing when being alone.
They say that it takes about three months for a broken heart to mend. How long until your lease is up, I know that a change in environment oftentimes helps me get motivated to try new things. Perhaps you should look into a new place for me right now I've been getting back into photography, I know a lot of people get into weightlifting and fitness after break-up to try to make themselves look better, but for me being able to creatively express myself has been really enjoyable maybe try something like that, wood working perhaps?
I've been full wasting my life for the past few years. Manipulative parents and mental illness doesn't make it easy though.
Travelling is fun, user :)
Chill bro. Everyone's been there. But seriously. Get a hobby or 3. Dumped ex when she moved away cuz she cheated. Started gyming gaming and looking pretty dank now. I'm into boxing, surfing and swimming. I taught myself piano and I'm fluent in French and Tagalog (cuz current gf is a Filipino). My career picked up and I'm currently a month away from immigrating with a huge bump in pay. I am into philosophy now. Just keep that up for a while and even when you get another qt keep that life style up to some extent. It will save you from becoming a codependent fag and repeating this if that qt leaves you.
Wasting what? I'm not smart enough to make a break through in anything scientific or mathematical. I'm not literate or charismatic enough to empower and motivate people.
I'm happy living my life of no meaning because I'm happy with who I am.
Oh and that ex is now a single mom of a boy who's father is the guy she cheated on me with. He's a pilot and got caught with his dick in a foreign broad and now she's on the next guy. She's doomed to be an "empowered woman of the 21st century". So these things work our nicely. Gf now is a non-crazy resturestauranteur who owns a branch in Singapore, France and cape town.
>all I did was staying at home trying to look for work, and watching porn/videogames/films
Look man, you at least are doing SOMETHING. You're trying to find a job...I don't know how much effort you're putting into it, but you're not just existing, you're trying to take a step forward.
> I need a change.
yeah you do, my dude. My advice is to spend everyday 8-5, applying to jobs...not just dumping resume's on Indeed. I mean a targeted, intelligently planned job hunt using online boards, personal connections, your school's career services office etc.
If you find you need more education or training, start applying to schools or tech programs ASAP. Don't worry about funding, you can figure that out how to make the numbers work later. Right now you just need to start making changes and giving yourself some fucking hope.
I got in to a legal basic year that, with good grades, could get me into the best law programme in my country.
Basically dropped out.
Played computer games and jerked off instead of studying.
Now I'm 26, living back at home with mom.
Still playing computer games. Making up for missed classes by writing complementing memorandums from home.
Only reason I'm doing it is so I can take new student loans in the hopeful case that I can get into the full law programme next year...
Wasting life?
>implying this life you call yours matters more or less than anything else in the universe
>into Alan Watts m8
Seriously though, I've had trouble dealing with life, and I've come to find most troubles are self inflicted. Who says just doing shit alone for your own fun is wrong? If you crave company, there's billions of people out there. And at least like 400,000,000 out of that are good people relative to you. You're unnecessarily separating yourself from everything else, mentally. That is to say, it seems you're stuck in a mental trap that humans naturally will fall into.
Yes, everyday, but not like doing nothing, but doing something I hate, instead of doing the thing I'd like to do.
life is pointless get over it
do you believe your life is worth more than an ant on the ground? or a vegetable growing in a garden?
were all going to die someday , just enjoy your time while your here
you are right about that, it is depressing alone, butt you might as well have a wonderful experience
its sort of like a roulette, you never know
Nahh not really..
Recently got a PhD job in theoretical physics.
My girlfriend just finished her thesis last week and is waiting for a reply on her PhD scholarship in two months. She went looking for temp job this morning at a restaurant, and is already there for a trial period.
I also recently found out that my gf is into bondage, latex and all things lingerie.
I'd say things are going quite well.
Yeah I'm in the same boat OP, my girlfriend dumped me last last summer, just before i went holidays, since then i would go out minimally or not at all.
But she was sort of a gf just to have a gf and actually try to blend into the normie life and make myself into something. But she was there when i had an hero thoughts and a few try outs.
Been even more depressed because now all i talk is with people in Sup Forums and Sup Forums just to hear from other humans out there that feel the same which kinda helps.
Not having anyone to cuddle at night is a hard thing when you are depressed. God damn i hate normies..
yes
i can't drive for 2 years and insurance goes up (DUI)
im gonna have a criminal record for 7 years
im a skinny waste youth virgin with no friends
my schooling is going terribly, no good career prospects
im resigned to a degenerate, boring life of depending on mommy and daddy
I've BEEN ready to die
Me 5 months ago. Felt like the biggest piece of shit.
Got a lucky break. Working a good job, studying at uni and going to gym 5 times a week. Still feel empty though.
Just keep trying, hang in there user tough times pass.
I have a crippling fear of driving, I'm horrible at it, but I'm kind of forced by the circumstances to drive, and that's one of my fears is that someday I'll mess up so bad that I can never drive again or for quite a while. which I'd be happy about, the thing that would suck is that I couldn't help my parents who constantly need a ride.
why was your licence taken away?
DUI
>DUI
yeah I just saw that after posting. drug or alcohol?
Im 30yo
>Not having a drive license
>Knowing I wont have a car
Afraid to drive but I really need to.
alcohol
also assault but I'm trying to get a discharge for that (i gotta do couseling and community service)
>I have no gf or friends
>no one lives around me so I dont go outside instead I sit in my house and play vidya and masturbate to porn from time to time
>tfw still virgin
hot rich wife, earning 48 to 60K/annum without lifting a finger, and you're "bored"? Sir, you're indolent. and an asshole. Go work with a charity. OR get a job, you said you have two majors. Unless they're french lit and philosophy, you can get a job.
I never wanted to learn it, I somehow felt that I'd be horrible at it, but it's such a basic skill to have nowadays..
even though my future job probably won't require me driving a lot (just an office job), but still. I would take public transport any day instead of driving though. Driving is just stress for me, I literally get headaches and shit.
lifes a bitch and then you die
so fuck the world and go get high
Well la-dee-fucken-da!
Some of us ain't, some of us got health and/or mental issues that make every gotdammed day a massive fucking slog!
made up/10
The first step is realizing you need to change. You're on the right track.