Just lost my virginity... i don't know guys it didn't really feel THAT good...

Just lost my virginity... i don't know guys it didn't really feel THAT good. Like i mean sure it was nice feeling it around my dick but I feel like its pretty overrated. Anyone got any first time experiences to share or advice?

losing your virginity sucks, you dont know enough to really have fun and there is pressure to perform. good for you tho

My first time was incredibly disappointing. It gets much much better as you get more comfortable and your lady/s get more experienced.

You've probably watched too much porn and have desensitised your brain. Try not jacking off for a while and maybe you'll enjoy it. Also, why'd it take so long?

>has never had sex

more like learn how to make your woman cum and then never have a dry dick ever again,

Thanks man
I sure hope so
Can that really happen? I mean sure I jack off like once a day or so nothing too excessive. Also it took me a while to get up the courage to get a girl and then get to a level to actually have us trust each other to have sex.

Sex irl isn't as good as porn. Porn is a perfect fantasy. Sex is smelly and sweaty and awkward. Even the tightest vag will never compare to the grip of your hand.

It depends what kind of hole you stick your dick in. Younger the better.

you need to be drunk or drugged to have a great sex. if youre sober your brain fucks you up. you need to be able to fuck like a retard. Drooling farting and howling.

Bs

Who did you have sex with. Sex is 90% mental, I mean I've had days where sex was garbage cause I wasnt feeling it and some days where it was AMAZING just because the mood was right.

Alot of ppl think sex is just about getting that dick in the pussy. It aint.

/thread

As you get experienced it just gets better and better. Once you and the lady are really able to get in the mood together and neither of you worry about a fuck in the world for awhile, it is the most pleasurable thing in the world, for the both of you. Part of the pleasure is knowing the person you really care about is feeling just as amazing as you are. Just keep going at it bud, it only gets better.

Yeah, daily masturbation and porn can definitely effect your sex life. Most people's first times aren't that great anyway tho. It gets much better from here.
Maybe cut down on masturbation to once or twice a week. If you start having sex regularly, you won't need to whack it as much anyway.

Faggot

I don't know man I'm telling the truth, maybe I was just really nervous.. but it really didn't feel as great as I had hoped.
with my girlfriend, it was my first time and as I said before I was pretty nervous tbh

Next time will be better. The nerves are out so now you guys can focus on experimenting with each other to see what works.

I've been with my girlfriend for about 4 years now and just recently we found new things that worked and old things that didn't.

It going to get better

Absolutely no one has a fantastic first time, at least relative plot what's to come. Pun intended.
>be 16
>flirt with cute nigger in class on the regular
>just kinda think it's playful and not serious
>one night I'm hammering the old noodle
>cum with satisfaction
>two minutes later she texts me
>she wants to come over to fool around
>dont wanna say no, even though my dick is already satisfied
>i sneak her in without my family noticing
>heart beating a mile a minute
>we start making out in my bed
>tastes like she coulda brushed her teeth
>penetrate her with a semi
>almost immediately fall out
>go through three or four condoms trying to apply them to my flaccid dick
>after a while we give up and she leaves
>i immediately shower and try to robe the scent of her pussy sweat
That's when I learned how important smell was for me during sex. Felt somewhat proud that I had at least gotten some action.

My first time was pretty decent... Was 16, smashed w a 15 yo chick in the family bathroom at the mall. Locked doors and all.

There was a chair in the corner and I just sat on that, she sat on my lap and grinded while we made out for a bit.. didn't intend to have sex going in, but one thing lead to another and pants came off.. licked the pussy for the first time, just for a little bit, and then she sat on my dick.

Came super quick first time ofc, finished her off w my finger... Then we went back and continued having lunch with our friends we came to the mall with...

Not special at all, kinda weird, but still a good time. Proceeded to fuck this chick about 100 more times before we broke up, got a lot better, but always in weird places cause we had super strict parents.


Usually in the back of my car at a park, family bathroom again, darklit movie theater, etc. One time she even got butt naked and we were fucking in the grass at the park when a ranger pulled up, we both freaked out and ran for the treeline, her completely naked, me w no pants or underwear, our clothes in the middle of the field a ways away.. somehow we didn't get caught, finished fucking behind a tree in the woods.

Good times were had by all. Don't worry about it not being special, or quite as you may have envisioned it going into it. It is quite overrated, but sex is sex and it's fun. Just don't build it up or hold it on a pedestal like it's some amazing thing, it's not. In fact, it's so unamazing that almost every species on the planet fucks in some way or another.

>remove not robe

dumb fag

At least you had sex. Congratulations.

fAg AlErT

for female niggers say niggress

Hmm, you must be gay. Wanna have sex?

It's overrated as fuck.

I remember when I was younger and losing my virginity was my number one goal. I would try to imagine what it would feel like to fuck a girl.

Then came the time when I lost it.

I was like "so that's it?". And never really desired to fuck girls after that.

I will NEVER EVER try and spend energy/time on trying to have sex with some girl. It's just not worth it.

The only time I would fuck a girl, is if she is really into me and SHE is the one digging me. It I don't have to spend time and energy, I will do it, because it's served on a plate.

Oh, and by the way, I had stopped porn and masturbation long before losing my virginity. So I was really excited and not "numb" to "real" girls. Also, the girl gave me head, and honestly, that too wasn't special.

I bet all you virgins aren't gonna believe this, and it's normal. I've felt the same when I was younger thinking that sex would be so fucking good...

But, you really need to experience it to see that's it's really really overrated.

Next time try "heterosexuality". It usually smells nicer and there's less hair involved.

bump

good sex is literally the best feeling in the world. the first time always sucks.

you're probably gay.

>Sex with a woman
>Being OP

Did you use a condom or go in raw??

I heard similar things from people who are circumcised.

My first time was great though.

First time sex is (most time) pretty confused and with the stress you can't really appreciate as you should.
Next times you will enjoy sex much better with experience and confidence.
Excuse my english, it isn't my first language

When I lost my virginity my ass hurt for a week.

>I'm 13
>she's 11
>she doesnt want to use condom
>ok
>slowly push dick into her little pussy
>is painful for her but she doesnt want to stop
>she softly cries
>can feel every tiny bit of texture of her vagina
>struggle to not cum
>finally bottom out in her
>is too painful to actually fuck her
>so just make out for like 20 minutes while lm all the way in her
>cum in her as i pull out
sex was meh, experience was awesome

>sex
>overrated

no duh.. hand feels 90% as good 100% less hassle

ur a fucking pedo tho

Welcome to being a grown up and realizing that pussy is actually not worth the hassle most of the time. How good it feels depends on how bad you wanna dick the girl, which basically means you have to actually have feelings for her that usually require reciprocation. Good luck with that. True love in western society isnt real lmao. Its mainly just fantasies that are fed to women to keep them distracted and compliant with futile, childish, entitled hopes and dreams. Men too, but we just call them cucks if they dont figure it out.

Female niggers aren't niggers. Only male niggers are niggers. Female niggers are called hot coffe.

>there's less hair involved
dafuq does that mean

My first time was very similar, you just never know what to expect. Here is the thing also, the way you're feeling OP has more to do with the woman/girl you were with than with yourself.

What I mean by this is very simple, there are women who you can have sex with that will make you wonder when will it be over while you're fucking them because you are just not that into them.

Sure pussy is pussy and its nice when you're horny but fucking a girl you're into and like and are comfortable with is miles away from fucking random pussy that you are not comfortable with.

she 11 years old, not months

OP=Fag.
You're doing something wrong, dude.

>Be me 16, see cute chick hanging around my friends. 9/10. Awesome tits and ass. Cute "girl-next-door" look.
>Talk to her, we start hanging out more often.
>Hang at her place, meet her mom and sister/
>She asks me out while we're leaning on a fence. First kiss was fucking awesome.
>Make out erryday for about 3 months.
>First love.
>Making out in her bedroom and we can't control ourselves.
>Pull her panties down, finger her while kissing. She's moaning and drenched.
>No Loch-ness monster.
>Pull my cock out and say "just the head" as she feebly protests.
>Put head in. Fucking amazing. Can't control myself.
>Deeper with every thrust. She says it hurts but keep going.
>We go at it for about 10 minutes while I kiss her to try to keep her moaning down.
>Her mom was sleeping in her own bedroom. It was mid-afternoon.
>She starts moaning louder and squeezing. I bust a huge nut deep inside her pussy.
>Spend 2 weeks scared shitless thinking she could be pregnant.
>False alarm.
>Put her on the pill so I can fuck her without a condom.
>Fuck like rabbits, everywhere we can and as much as possible, 3-4 times per day for a year until some shit went down and she had to move out of state.
>After 2 months I move in with her and her mom/sister/mom's BF.
>Multi-storey house with an attic and basement. We fucked everywhere, all the time.
>Couldn't deal with her mom and her BF. Had to leave and she was too young to come with.
>She was almost 13 when I met her.

She had some serious fucking issues, though, so I'm glad I left when I did.

Moral of the story is that sex without emotional attachment is just a better way to jerk off.
When you fuck someone you love, sex is fucking amazing. If you've never cried with joy during sex, you're missing out.

Sex is 80% about the overall experience and 20% about genital contact. You really need to spend more time outside and with other humans or your going to die alone...

here. See what I mean, OP?

...and the inevitable misogynist heard from. A telltale of mental illness and it dooms you needlessly to a lifetime of loneliness. You really need help.

The more effort you put in it the better it feels.

Why do you think that? Advertisements in the form of romance stories are illusions and the experiences of many are proven reality. Looking down on me for my understanding just makes you look morally narcissistic. Love is primarily used for marketing and most people in todays society lack the maturity necessary for a true deep soul level connection.

My first time was shit too. Just keep doing it. Took around 4 times to really feel good. I now go 3-4 rounds every time I see my girl

Shut the fuck up.

I bet you're the type of guy that puts roses on the bed of your girl and cooks for her.

Did you know that a romantic relationship reduces testosterone levels by 40%?

We have dicks for one reason...

to PROCREATE

Not to act like faggots and create some kind of "experience" to please the girl. If you're a real man, you would fuck to empty your balls in any girl... and not try to be romantic or some shit.

I bet you grew up in a Western occidental country, where people put women on a pedestal.

The first time is always gonna be meh. For us men is like a pretty big deal as far as our confidence goes.