How bad is it to be a virgin at 28? I feel depressed about it a lot...

How bad is it to be a virgin at 28? I feel depressed about it a lot, I'm not really sure what to do about it to be honest.

wait 2 years to obtain wizard powers
I lost mine at 24 and regret it

So, what do you do? Do you have a job, friends, anything that helps you socialize?

If you have no game (and given that you are a virgin, you have NO game), you need a circle of people around you to help you meet other people, including girls.

I have some friends, I have a job the problem is I just have shit self confidence. I've had multiple opportunities to get laid, I've even eaten out a few, but when the time comes I just cannot get an erection and the few that have found out that I'm a virgin more or less wanted nothing to do with me and never wanted to see me again. Kinda killed what little self esteem I had left. I'm actually pretty good looking, most say I'm even handsome. I've just more or less given up.

Whoa Ill become a a wizard, cool

>can't get an erection when time comes

Try it with a dick, maybe that's more up your alley.

Huh.

Your problems root deep inside then, especially if you have already gotten to the point of intercourse, but certain things have prevented it.

If I were you, I would probably ask my friends first for suggestions. If that doesnt work, ask family for help. Third step, I would probably look for professional help at least if the erectile dysfunction still exists.

I'm not gay.

>How bad is it to be a virgin at 28?
Try to think about the positive things of being single instead

Yeah but how could he compare if he never been in a relationship. And dont forget, both sides have pros and cons, but its up to the individual which side he prefers more.

just become a celibate I don't know why this isn't a valid choice to most

I've observed many a relationship. In most of them the couple is either always upset or one of them owns everything so other can't leave.

Just see a hooker man. Even travel somewhere where its accepted like Amsterdam and fuck.

I was fat as fuck at a very young age, I weighed about 310lbs when I was 16 years old. I started working out around that time and I lost 120lbs and kept working out. I'm about 12% body fat on 5'11" 215lbs today. That accounts for most of my issues but there's other stuff

Society, and peer pressure is probably why you are depressed about it. It's really not a big deal.

Sounds like performance anxiety.

Anyone can leave unless they are threatened and they fear punishment.

Being upset sometimes is part od the relationship. But when you are through the hiatus, your relationship will feel even stronger.

Have you considered having sex?

Well guess what, same fucking situation here, except for that I lost 55 kilos under 7 months and once I did that, the girl I crushed on realised my potential and we are together since (just celebrated our 2 years anniversary).

Your previous weight issue could be a factor, but thats not the real problem.

>I'm not really sure what to do about it to be honest

Nothing really changes when you lose it you'll still be the same person I had mad delusions when I was 16 in all thinking that it'd change my life completely but nothing really changes you just become more comfortable around women and the realtionships not even worth the headache dumped my misses once I got confirmation that the red rivers where flowing for obvious reasons and try viagra if getting it ups the issue

does viagra have side effects?

It can have a set of side effects, but afaik it can only be aquired by prescirption, so you do need to visit your gp first to hammer out if its harmful for you.

what side effects have you experienced?

Don't tell women you're a virgin you dumb fuck. Women want what other women want.

The problem is it becomes obvious eventually when it goes far enough, I honestly don't know what to do because they all just end up wanting nothing to do with me after they find out. There is no sympathy or compassion.

Not quite as bad as being a virgin at 31. Keep doing what you're doing. It only gets worse OP.

how much worse?

I feel about 7% more miserable each year.