Is it worth having a girlfriend?

Is it worth having a girlfriend?

wife is much better tbh

Why?

Nope, they only cause pain and trouble.. life is better alone with an occasionally fuck once and a while

So the best way is to MGTOW it?

bump

>Is it worth having a girlfriend?

it's like having a foreign car... lot of maintenance but it's fun

Hardly worth it, all fun and games till their emotional problem start and they drive you Fucking nuts, call me less of a man for it but I'm too mellow for dramatic bullshit, or what she remembered i said a year ago etc.
Fucking whack cunts

Is there a way to stop the emotional and sexual need for women?

yes

Depend on the girl. If you pick the right one it's pretty awesome. If you don't it's miserable.

Death

For sex and attention, yes. But not for anything else really, unless you want kids. But the older you get, the less useful having a steady gf will be. When you're young and fuckin stupid, you think your entire world revolves around having one until you get older and after all the shitty experiences you've had with them, you find them to be mostly annoying to deal with just for the sake of getting laid. These days it's even harder because women get attention in so many more ways than they used to that they're either very conceited or promiscuous before they've even graduated high school, and it gets worse in college, until they've either been used up or their biological clock is ticking by their mid 30s and they decide to settle for a guy with enough means to take care of them until that guy eventually leaves them when they get flabby wrinkled by their mid 40s. Of course by that time, you'll be older and more established in life fucking 20 year olds, which was why you couldn't get laid when you were that age. For the most part, women are mostly useless. You can jerk your own cock better than a good one can suck it and you'll live with that because if she could you wouldn't respect her. Then you get older and learn it really doesn't matter because they all end up the same way.

every relationship has an expiry date whether it's 6 months or 6 years, enjoy the ride till the sex becomes tedious and/or you can't stand the bitch anymore then move on and repeat

And is being in a relationship at least once a must for every guy? I'm a 23 year old male and I kinda feel the need for sex and a little need for emotional support of a woman but that leaves me right when I finish with pleasing myself. I only had sex once when I was kinda drunk and it was a meh experience. Getting a blowjob was weird. I thought that it would be amazing but It was a disappointment.

Tbh, I was worried about being alone for a while - then I got involved with a girl. A few years later, a lot of stress later, I just feel like I wasted time and energy that I could've spent bettering myself or pursuing my career, w/e.

I'm kind of enjoying planning my future with 0 concern about a significant other right now.

Yeah I think it's worth it....if they're your best friend you get to spend time with them and their presence makes you happy...everyone here is making it all about the sex which it isn't. Yeah I had the best sex of my life with my ex and yeah we fought a lot and fighting sucked but when we weren't fighting i just wanted to spend every minute with her she made me happy and just cuddling here when we're bored kicking it in bed wasting time together. Yes its worth it, especially if you find a good one that gives you your space when you need it

What is goal?

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i don't think you have to have a relationship if you don't want, i'm in my late twenties and get into a new relationship not too long after the previous one ended, i need that emotional bullshit as well as regular sex but once you know everything about the chick there's no more mystery and you've done everything in the bedroom there's no point being in a dead end relationship unless you want kids i suppose

>etting a blowjob was weird. I thought that it would be amazing but It was a disappointment.
This pretty much sums up a relationship. It's okay to want emotional support and affection from a woman, but you don't need that all of the time. Women do. We put up with them for the meh experience of sex and having them around to maybe tell us we're awesome in bed and wash our underwear, but are left disappointed overall by the experience. A relationship really only has a two year maximum shelf life, 6 months to a year being the sweet spot. I'm 40 and most of my relationships last about 9 months. The only reason people get married is having children and societal pressure. But that shit is changing and I'm so fucking glad it is.

Also, I'd rather fuck a chicks butt than get a blowjob. I'll admit that much.

Fuck no, dude. I have my first girlfriend of a month right now at 21. She's an amazing girl, extremely understanding and all of that good stuff. But unless you're an amazing match (we aren't), then it's hell. The sex isn't even worth it. I thought I wanted the sex and emotional stuff, but fuck. It's so much better to go your own way

thanks still cant believe i saw

And do you have lowered sex drive? Or do you think about sex less often because of your experience?

Yes, to both. The older you get, the less you absolutely need sex. The less you absolutely need sex, the more discerning you become. You want quality sex more than this burning desire for it. I stay in pretty good shape so I don't have any physical limitations, like needing viagra and whatnot, but I'd say I'm happier with really good sex less often, which further minimizes the need to have a woman around.

I definitely have a lower sex drive. But since having sexual experiences, I think of it even less. Listen, unless you find a girl that you think is actually worth it, don't try to date. Dating is fucking hard. Issues that seem like they're easy get fucked up because of emotions and shit. Your emotions will fuck with you, so unless the girl and the relationship is truly worth it, stick to being single. It's so much fucking easier than being with someone. Come to understand that you can be very happy alone, and you'll be a hell of a lot less unhappy in life

Thank you dor your input guys.

I dunno haven't found one yet man

No problem man. Relationships aren't great lol, so stick with tending to yourself

What do you suggest if I just started a relationship where I already want to leave again?
I don't wanna hurt her thou

You realize how much fucking bullshit women are. They're fun as hell if you're single. Ever been in a relationship or had sex?

Dubs checkum

I've been single for a year and a 1/2, , and haven't gotten laid in year.. Shit had been pretty tight although craving some pay like no other these days , really just focusing on traveling and money . Sad but getting better, don't trust women they all cheat on me.

Pussy* not pay

Im 24, I've been with my girl now for 5 years and we moved in together last year. I love her to pieces, and the thought of not waking up next to her or have her come home makes me sad, but she drives me fucking nuts and a majority of the time I think its not worth it and would rather enjoy being single. Evenly split for me.

Leave the bitch

Nice trips.
I suggest you leave. Make up whatever bullshit lie you want to, pretend you're really hurting or you just can't do it or whatever. Whatever lie that's not too hard to keep up, and that will ease her pain. But I suggest you leave as soon as possible because it will not get better. Things can turn around, so maybe give it a week or so without progressing the relationship and see if your feelings change. But, generally, they don't. It's going to cause you pain, which will turn into turmoil and eventually hate for her. Being stuck will eat you alive and will eventually hurt her worse than if you broke it off now/soon.

I had sex once as I said.
>I only had sex once when I was kinda drunk and it was a meh experience. Getting a blowjob was weird. I thought that it would be amazing but It was a disappointment.

You think it's gonna get any better from this point?

Thanks user, I probably needed to hear this...
I'll take the "one week" advice

I'm not sure. Whenever she talks about our relationship on the third person to people, like in the future if we have kids or get married, I shudder and give a look like "you fucking wish." I just dont see that. I'd much rather have a dog than a kid and to be married to one person for the rest of your life terrifies me. We get along very well but in terms of things that we like, we're pretty different so atm I can't help but think just break it off abd atleast be with someone who enjoys the shit you do. She already says its reslly obvious she needs me more than I need her, which kinda made me laugh and be sad at the same time. It's just a really difficult decision and time at the moment, I'm not sure what will happen. I know which direction I'm leaning towards but she doesn't want her future to be without me. Stalemate.

Oh shit, I just woke up, sorry man. If you really want to get rid of them, then date someone. Just for a little while. Its all instinct/thinking that's what you want. No real way to stop wanting something until you experience it and realize it's either for you, or not

Sometimes leaving and not trying is the best option. Trust me, that unhappiness is going to turn into something bad. If you're in an adult relationship, where you can talk like adults without either person getting mad, then I suggest you talk to her about it. But if she's just going to flip out on you, that's even more reason to let it go.

Shitty thing is, that I met her through some mutual friends, so we probably won't be able to hang out much anymore.
But I guess it beats being unhappy

That's just rough, man. When love comes down to choosing the lesser of two evils

Sex friends and one night stands are much better.

You can break it off and still hang out with friends and her. If she's an adult about things, then be honest. Say it's really not working out for you, not right now at least. You definitely don't want to end being friends, but being in a relationship isn't whats making you happy. And definitely let her know it has nothing to do with her, even if it does.

Cheers man, glad its not just me who sees it like that.

iam 24
my gf is 33
first year was great
2nd year was meh
3rd year was bullshit
now shes pregnant
wtf should i do
dubs decide.

Abort baby

that would be correct

Thanks for the advice user, I really appreciate it!
Made me hate myself for a week because I didn't think it through before we "officially" dated

Punch her in the dick.

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These.

This. If women could be like they were in the 50s, where they understood their place and didn't raise men to be such pansies, keeping one around for a while wouldn't be so much of a pain in the ass. I'm not sure if the problem is we're less capable of putting up with them, and as a consequence they become even more convinced they're special snowflakes, or if it's just that there are too many lesser men among us to keep them in check, but something's fucked up right now. I do however have reason to be optimistic. Liberals found audio of Trump being chauvinist, treating those pageant women like the attention whores they are, and talking about grabbing women in the pussy and more women voted for him than men did! Women don't want to be put on a fuckin pedestal. Women want to be ruled. They want to be servile, and to be taken care of. It was the fuckin homos that ruined women in the 20th century. Lesbians not content to be ruled by a man because they can't be pleased by one. Well somehow 1% of the population convinced the rest of them they could do better and just fuckin look at them. Whores and cunts mostly.