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>Advice >Conversation >Happy Thoughts
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Charles Thompson
Mornin'
Or Evenin'
Adrian Martinez
*wraps her arms around you tightly* Appreciate it, sis.
Have a good day?
Jason Richardson
Time for the after hours thread!
Henry Morris
I had some vodka & orange earlier. Here to give advice, good evening anonymous.
Grayson Gonzalez
hey sweetheart
Mason Smith
How do you know if a girl likes you?
Jayden Peterson
i'm here, but you also know where I am as well... so I'm a bit distracted.....
Austin Davis
Yea, definitely seems to be trending positively for me
I assume you want a status report?
Christian Jenkins
Ask her.
Ayden Brown
asking her seems to be a solid way to find out. it sounds dumb, but starting off a potential relationship on open communication is a good idea. no pressure
Joshua Brown
Following your lead. Busy day at work; had to stay over an hour. But otherwise, I'm well.
Only if there is anything worth reporting.
Grayson Wood
How do you know if a girl likes if without asking?
Jason Evans
It's easier to ask, trust me. And besides, if you are both cool with eachother, as in, friends, it'll be easy. Just ask her out, go get some fries, share, chat, and ask her.
Adrian Russell
I love all of you anons The world may hate us, but the bonds of Sup Forumsrotherhood keep us strong even under the harshest conditions.
Stay good my friends
Jason Morris
well... at least it was just today then, right? I hope it improves. find a way to get her to tell you without you asking. I... don't know what you want me to say, user. you can't communicate an idea without it either being offered or asked for.
Cooper Nelson
You got screwed huh!!
Thomas Murphy
Thanks! Comments like this give me the heart to keep going.
Isaac Bailey
I think there was. Not too sure if you would agree though.
I texted her yesterday, but she didn't reply till early today.
We had a lengthy conversation, and she seemed really interested in it. She went out of her way to further "research" something I mentioned, and rebooted the conversation after it fizzled. Also, she seemed open and told me exactly what her plan with the FDNY is.
William Parker
Evenin' everybody
Joshua Nelson
I'll be straight with ya OP, I got it bad for this girl I've been friends with for years. We worked together at several jobs. Been wanting to tell her that I have feelings for her, but not sure how she'll respond. I was her shoulder to cry on during her last two breakups, and let her sleep on my couch when her mom kicked her out for two months (they got into a pretty bad fight). We share a lot of the same interests, laugh at the same jokes, cry at the same movies, have long talks together after work sitting in my car. What should I do? Pic related: It's her. Domonique, my lil 4'10" sweetheart
Samuel Bell
If you're asking for covert signs, then usually it's slight head-tilting when she's listening to you speak, fidgeting with her hair, plenty of eye contact, leaning slightly forward, feet pointed towards you, several instances of smiles and laughter/giggling, and non-defensive gestures.
A little more overtly? Is she striking up conversation with you? Perhaps suggesting making plans? When you sit together, does she choose to be in close proximity? There are several tells.
But as the others have said; the best way to find out is to ask. Why not take the risk?
Ethan Nguyen
>you can't communicate an idea without it either being offered or asked for.
IDK, your attitude and behaviour tells a lot. I'll probs will eventually. Just not kinda sure how to.
Elijah Jackson
I screwed myself over, isn't that what drinking is about anyway?
Henry Jackson
Waking up is hard...
Christopher Perez
wtf no dude stay away that bitch has "i will say yes out of pity but still fuck black dudes" alllllll over her face. dont do it, conceal dont fuckin feel man
Jacob Morgan
Funny thing is that I'm at the bar right now.
Blake Carter
Agreed
Jaxon Price
A fitting place to hang around the after hours thread at.
Ryan Nguyen
love you too, bud. and thanks for the kitten picture, I love me some kittens
Angel Wright
I've got my last final of the year tomorrow. I've had five already and basically gave up on it. I studied maybe 3 hours today and that's it. I somehow am both nervous and don't give a fuck anymore.
Jack Rodriguez
Actually, it's ramping up. Talking with my doctor about another surgery, my company is sending me to Seattle soon, and I have a presentation this Friday. So much going on, sis; I'll need you to transfer your multi-tasking skills to me.
Sounds great. I bet you're feeling a bit more confident.
Hey Rock *nods*
What are you having, user?
Isaiah Hughes
Because it's a gamble and I don't like gambling if I think I'll lose.
But she does seem to do most of those things. Maybe I'll make a move.
Do it, ask her out. >but you're pussing out on this gi- Do as I say, not as I do.
All I need is some implicit stuff to get my confidence stat boosted.
Luis Jackson
Hi 2B, how are you?
How's everybody doing? Sorry, it forgot to say that earlier.
Levi Miller
Sis?
Carson Garcia
I'm sick a tired of being a virgin. I'm 20 and feel like I'm wasting my life by not going after girls while they're still in their prime. Im not that ugly, i try to put myself out there, i also try and dress decent too. I think my problem is first impressions, im pretty awkward around new people. I've been to third base with a few girls but never had intercourse. 2/3 were ugly as fuck and the third was a girl I was in love with but she didn't feel the same...she still hits me up sometimes, I dont talk to her anymore.
Noah Ortiz
Give me a list of the fast food joints around your location. I wake up at 6:30 am everyday, and sometimes I go to sleep at 2am, so, kinda. Ask her? Such is life, be confident, study a bit more and ace that bitch.
Mason Wright
Yea. Definitely am. I was close to inviting her out for my bday shit, but still is a bit too early.
Still waiting until I can say that we are "official" And that seems quite plausible even
Bentley Torres
how do I be happy with my life?
Joseph Roberts
That sounds like something that you should try to stop.
Jaxon Scott
I don't have money to ask her out to Carl's Junior+ she watches what she eats, so I doubt she'd be all up for it.
besidesialreadyhaveaplacesortof
Gabriel Wright
ah... I really wish I could help. is the surgery the same kind of thing again? are we gonna be missing out on you for another week...? get coffee and hang out or something, just as friends. see how it goes. >I don't like coffee! go to a nice pizza joint.
Logan Ortiz
I'm drinking a nice Canadian Club on ice.
What about y'all?
Lucas Anderson
I'll allow it, I guess.
Thomas Ward
You're my kind of guy, Pory. You take calculated risks. How about this: if you get shot down, we'll be here to mourn the defeat with you. Deal? Then I'll help you strategize to get the next one.
Not bad Rock, getting along just fine. How was work today? A bit better I hope? Not too back breaking?
Dating is one of those statistical things. Much like getting a job, you just have to keep submitting your application out there. And you'll get shot down a good 80% of the time, make no mistake. But don't take it to heart; you just move on to the next one.
If you're awkward, take heart in knowing that there are several girls out there who find such traits endearing. Now, how will you find such women? By staying on prowl. Don't get discouraged, user.
Carson Smith
>something that makes me come alive That sounds really tough, any advice on that?
Tyler Martin
I've done everything I want to do so far, I have some crazy life experiences, ive done and seen some cool ass shit in the past few years. And I already play an Instrument. I'm going to continue to stress about it.
Brody Young
Hire a cute prostite. I still get in time to work and I don't fall asleep, I can just buy a coffe if I think I slept too little. You don't think about it, the less you do the happier you'll be. Ask her out for some frozen yoghurt?
Luis Torres
hello
Jordan Perry
I have morals and i want ti work for my first time... Or have at least be with a girl thats into me. if I become more desperate then I'll consider it.
Brandon Jackson
Yeah, I think I'll study for one more hour then call it a night. I didn't study at all for the midterm (again because I was swamped with other exams) and ended up with an A, so we shall see how this goes tomorrow.
Austin Williams
color me jealous. I've got water. hey... vague question, but would a car randomly stop accelerating for any reason? I'm thinking they just bumped the shifter out of place, but it freaked them out. it's just something that you can pour yourself into. I know people who can do it over how guitar pedals are wired up, or how parallax scrolling worked in SNES games, or model plastic horses. you know how sometimes, you talk to someone, and you can tell they're so passionate and it makes them just light up? try and find that subject for you. that's up to you, then. I'd suggest trying to focus less on the societal compulsion to lose your virginity, mostly. hey user
John Russell
>the less you do the happier you'll be I've been trying that for quite some time now and I want things to change, but I really don't know where or how to start
Xavier Phillips
Just saw what you said your doctor told you, I hope you'll be okay.
Work was good today, it went smoothly. I feel myself getting a little stronger but I'm still tired.
I'm also in a bit of a lonely mood.
Angel Peterson
let me eat you out
Daniel King
>coffee I'm more of a Tea man tbh. but the place does serve coffee. You better be ready to mourn hard. I'll make a playlist for mourning and everything, full of sad nirvana songs because she likes nirvana. And a super feel good one if she says yes, of course. Froyo is legit. I might do that. just gotta figure out her favourite froyo flavor.
Michael Peterson
Its not society. Its the fact that I need new experiences in my life. I want to be intimate with a female, I want to know what's it like to have girl really into me, I want to be able to have my way with a girl and have her be into it, I just want to fuck plain and simple.
Jayden Jackson
forgot to post a pory
also running out of pory
Thomas Moore
When is your birthday again? I don't recall you mentioning a specific date.
I'm waiting on that day as well. Fingers crossed for you, EMT.
Thank you very much for the sweet sentiment, but I've got this *smiles and waves her hand* And yes, this time it is for the other eye. Most likely I'll be out for another two weeks. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't dreading it.
*salutes* Evening.
Asher Carter
hey what's this thread about
Carter Williams
what I want is people who can actually understand what I pour myself into. I have had friends before but not one has cared about the things I do as much as I do, and I feel like that's numbed me to enjoying those things as much
Cameron Brown
enough with that army bull shit let me fuck you
William Anderson
Hi Jill! I almost missed you! How bout a nice black coffee?
Mantis
Juan Sanchez
5/17
So Exactly 3 weeks from today (The get together is that weekend.)
And yea, thanks. I do believe that it may happening soonish. Like Possibly over the Summer
Brayden Ross
Hello babe~ Sounds like a plan, I hope you get a good grade! That's silly, just do it user, it's not such a big deal, and if you keep going after those false ideals you will actually end up being a wizard! Get yourself busy, with your job if you have one, responsability, silly stuff like horoscope, stuff that old people do, you know? Ask her out, let her pick it, dummy. Friendly enviroment for anons in need. (Shitposters as well sometimes)
James Russell
About 2 hours or so. Have a seat, and relax awhile.
Mantis
Levi Robinson
>implying there's places that sell froyo here
Gotta buy it particularly.
Oliver Jackson
nah. tea's good as well! I just say coffee because it's the easy "let's just have a relaxed hang out" I... guess I can understand that, then. still, don't stress about dating or finding someone, because it'll make you act more anxious around other people to begin with. I mean, you can always find people somewhere! you just gotta find people willing to listen and learn. you think I actually gave a shit about any of those examples until people started explaining it all? now it's all so neat to me. what are you into, then? coming right up
Carson James
*smiles sadly* Thank you, Rock. I'm dreading the down-time that follows more than the surgery to be honest. Aside from being forced away from work and research, I'll be forced away from you all.
Why the lonely mood though? Is it just one of those days?
I'm going to hold you to that.
Warm conversation and, if needed, advice and encouragement. I find it relaxing after a day of work.
I'm afraid I'm not that type of android. Might I suggest another member of the community who you would be more compatible with?
Noah Morgan
give me a tall glass of pure karmotrine
Josiah Powell
Hm... I'd ask Mako, she's more knowledgeable about the mechanical side of things. I can imagine it happening if there's something up with the engine, but I don't know
Kayden Wilson
hmm sounds nice. I've been having a stressful day; gotta decide whether to go to college or university by tomorrow. :c
Blake Hughes
Aren't they the same thing? THE POINT IS, JUST ASK HER OUT AND ASK IF SHE LIKES YOU.
Colton Parker
Chek'd
Halloo 2b!!
Mantis
Nathan Lewis
*clutches her chest and sighs softly* A summer romance? Could there be anything more perfect? I was cheering for you, but now I am an absolute rabid fangirl.
Planning on giving her two weeks advanced notice? Good call on waiting.
How are the trains running, Mantis?
That seems like a no-brainer to me. University, of course. Where is the hesitation coming from?
Cooper Ramirez
ah... I forgot to reply to this one, sis. you able to do anything when you're recovering? do you listen to stuff or anything? coming right up! I'll ask her if I see her around later, and I'll try and verify the information from them. I can't... remember if it made a noise or not.
Gavin Diaz
everything I'm into I eventually fade away from because nobody gives a shit about it But right now futurefunk, JoJo (manga), and Sup Forums related things And about finding people that listen, I've always had trouble with that. For some stupid fucking reason, even if I don't like the person, I'll act the right way to get them to like me and always end up with fake friends. If I don't do that I realize that I'm a boring nothing piece of shit, so it's really hard to find people.
Luis Hill
Eh, I'll bug her for you if you want. I have a habit of bugging her about stuff anyway.
Wyatt Brooks
Vodka
David Sanders
Not in Canada; university is more generalized and usually higher education. 2 years of education versus 4, and living on campus as opposed to renting an apartment and living with others. I don't like other people.
Ethan Bennett
Notes from today. >BMW 328s require an 8mm allen key to disassemble the brake caliper >4runner wheels are fucking heavy >fuck fiat >manual crosstreks have weird gearboxes
Zachary Rogers
yeah but how do I ask THE question
this is my last pory switching to celebi now
Ryan Mitchell
Running well 2b. My car however has bad clutch pedal linkage. Sometimes its down near the floor, sometimes it pops up really high. Gonna have to check it out tomorrow, because I work tonite.
Mantis
Mason Rodriguez
I just started getting into futurefunk today, finished a macross album like 5 minutes ago been meaning to read jojo as well, caught up with the anime but only read to right before DIOs world
Jordan Richardson
You reading in color or b&w?
Brody Powell
nah, don't worry. I'll ask her later
Zachary Bailey
color when I can but the site I was reading on didn't have all the color ones translated, which was pretty jarring its also been a fat minute since I was reading so there may be more now
Dylan Martin
I may just be acting a tad optimistic when I say over the summer, but she seems to kinda be coming around to that idea. Would be nice. Especially if I borrow my Grand Fathers F-Type. Would be so nice. Driving out east with her, just for a nice day away from the City basically
And Yea, 2-3 weeks notice. She is very busy, so i want to try getting it in early enough that she might be able to get time off from EMT shit for the night
Robert Moore
"Hey, do you like me? As in, more than friends?" If she says yes, say you have feelings for her too, if she says no, just say "Oh well" and carry on with a different subject, don't give another response, ok?
Samuel Barnes
Damn, I'm honestly sorry that's happening to you. To be away from the things and people you love. I hope you're not in pain.
Kinda, I mostly feel lonely since i dont really have irl friends, it gets to me. I'm not very good at reaching out either.
Isaac Jones
You should finish part 3 and start reading 4 asap. I got through it in 2 days, it's better than all the other parts (that I've read) so far
Kayden Jackson
Absolutely nothing that involves seeing. Essentially blind for 2 weeks. Tactical visor on at all times. Except it's white. And it's a bandage and not a visor.
And I have a good supply of audiobooks to keep my company. I might also tear into those podcasts you recommended a while back. I could use a playlist though, of music. I was thinking of asking you all for some of your favorite tracks.
2 years for associates, 4 for Bachelors. Surely you're going for your Bachelors?
Checked.
And your problem sounds like a puzzle Mako would enjoy solving..
Thomas Scott
sounds like a plan i'll carry out one day.
Thanks yall!
-the one spic from the discord. The other one.
Juan Bennett
Don't do this, don't ask "Do you like me" Ask if she wants to go somewhere, be specific, for example, "Do you want to get coffe with me", with confidence, no anime head scratch. She'll say yes or no, as she'll definiteley know you mean a date, and she'll be more open to it as it feels more natural and less rushed.
Dominic Richardson
I probably over the summer, been wanting to for a while now but pretty busy with uni. pt4 was pretty great animated but my friend whos read up to like part 8 said they cut a lot of stuff
Jeremiah Jackson
ah... I'll try and piece something together in the coming days for you, okay? just give me a hint towards things you like.
Henry Williams
yo amma make you THE playlist, just tell me what you like to hear and I'll make it for ya.
also I'll make your follow my own on spotify.
Eli Davis
Cut a lot of stuff when?
Elijah Bailey
I dunno.. this sounds cringey but I'm either doing 4 years for a bachelor in compsci or 2 years for a diploma for game development.