Should I divorce my wife?
Not getting sex regularly, paying all the bills, if I want the place clean, gotta do it myself, do half the cooking, or have to buy food, and having to do my own laundry too now.
Didn't start out this way, she used to cook, clean, give me back rubs, and sex regularly. Getting pissed that I feel like a sugar daddy right now with no benefits.
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Or you know.. talk to her about it?
yeah sure
or dont
Real talk her. Lay it out for her. If she isn't willing to restore balance either start fucking around or serve her ass. Don't waste your one life unhappy playboy
Do you have kids?
If not, do it in a heartbeat.
If you do, you have to balance how fucked up your kids are gonna be.
I've got kids so I'm trapped.
Here's a tip; fucking talk to your wife, you yokel.
Instead of bitching about feeling like an ATM, go and say, "I don't feel like you're investing as much as I am in this relationship, and though I love you, I would appreciate it if you reciprocated by x, y, z...."
You fucking faggot.
Yes, dont be a faggot and divorce you are being a beta male
Depends.
You got kids? Is she the love of your life? Does she contribute in any way that you haven't mentioned?
Is she letting herself go? Is she becoming an insufferable cunt (bitch). What do you look like? How old are you both? Are you making good money? These are all things that come into play.
That's how it always works. At first they pretend it's a partnership but then she notices that she's got you by the balls. So she takes advantage of you and brow beats you to death
Been trying to, whenever I get into that she starts playing the victim card that I'm being mean to her, and she starts crying and shit
No kids luckily
Congradulations my friend, you have achieved the location known as "Post-Honeymoon Phase". This phase is when life is no longer about the attempts to procreate in the hopes of making more of your genetic kind.
No, this phase is about learning to respect yourself and your partner, and this involves slowing down, on most things. You will find life to become tedious, things to annoy you easily, and that love is hard to get sometimes cause "the mood" is never around.
Cure: Sit down and tell her how it is and that you need to do something, or don't and simply decide to cheat/divorce and move on with your life. I usually pick the first of the two.
Ohh wanted to add, that I know a guy who recently got a divorce for kind of the same reasons as you. Granted I actually feel a little bad about his wife, she did not see it coming.
>Friends friends dad is in his early 50's.
>Been married 20 some odd years
>Wife gradually started doing less and less as he became the primary bread winner.
>Kids graduated college
>He still works alot, but he's earning 300k a year and is in good shape, full head of hair etc.
>She's not fat but just generally does nothing all day, watches tv, gardens a bit
>She apparently argues with him because she doesn't feel the need after all these years of raising the kids to do shit anymore
>As mentioned before he's still a stud
>Finds some 27 year old bimbo at his office who sucks his dick like a champ
>Leaves his wife
>She moves back in with her elderly mother
>He keeps house, cars and bangs bimbo and her friends regularly.
It's not a love story, it's just the reality of his existence. He was fed up wasting time and energy. Weight your options.
And what? You just end the convo there without calling her out on such obviously manipulative bullshit?
How long has the sex life been dead?
If it's longer than a couple of months, it will never recover.
My wife has been frigid since our second child was born, nearly 4 years ago. We haven't had sex at all in 9 months. I've lost all love, or even like for her, and only have hate.
Talk didn't help. We've talked plenty about it.
I just don't want to fuck up my two young kids, otherwise I would disappear. I don't even care about money.
Not much, I do love her, and that's really the only reason I've put up with this shit. She hasn't let herself go or anything. I'm making good money, she only makes about 1/4th of what I am. We are early 30s
Let her victim it and cry, that's not your problem. Keep it real and start cutting her off until she understands the damage she is doing to the relationship.
Yup and eventually you'll find her cheating too
Damn that girl is hot
"I WAS FEELING LONELY AND VULNERABLE, YOU ARE NEVER THERE FOR ME!"
Same shit, different woman.
When I press it she storms off, locks the door, if I try to bring it up the next day it's shortcut the civil talk straight to accusations of being mean and crying shortly after
>my tool isnt working as I have intended it to work
DO you see emotional worth in her? The only reason for people to be together? You know, unconditional emotional partnership to keep the rest bit of humanity left in the hearts of those, who have the luck to experience it and ultimativly, give reason and moral to move on and see more then there is to see? No get fucked. No wander she cucks you with jamal
It's not an issue of sex, men cheat too.
I was married for 12 years, and that's where we wound up too. Getting out of that was the best thing I ever did, and I've never been happier.
You should ask her boyfriend what he thinks.
First of all, congratulations on actually having a life worth fighting for. I have no marital expertise, but you should talk to a counselor, pastor, or trusted friend just to get another angle on how to deal with her. Some of the other anons have said some good shit.
Just start discretely fucking other women on the side. Eventually shell go back to her old self and if not then no harm done.
In the same boat as you pretty much. Except my sex drive has gone to shit and isn't in sync with hers so sex is frustrating because I'll be horny and she won't or vice versa. She won't do anything at home unless someone else helps (being me or a friend). Gotta wash dishes for meals for me and kids. Gotta dig through a fucking mountain of clothes to wash my own shit. Whenever I bring this crap up she bitches that she is not going to be "a perfect little house wife" in which I wouldn't mind if she just cleaned up her own messes and not mine, but she just doesn't fucking get it and decides to be a god damn slob.
If we didn't have kids I'd fucking leave.
Divorce her. She's already got action on the side, I guarantee you.
divorce time!
that's what women do, they put on a mask and do the work and things, but they slowly take of that mask and reveal themselves, all women are, are leeches, except 2d women ofcorse.
Had a few beers is probably the only reason I'm asking b. I'm amazed most replies have been rational.
Counseling works, bro. Look up a reputable counselor in your area. Hopefully you can bounce back after getting to the root of things.
Have the bitch killed, trust me it's cheaper
Jesus fuck OP, you're wife has really gotten control of your head.
You sounds like you take at least 10 cocks daily.
that's what men do, they put on a mask and do the romance and things, but they slowly take of that mask and reveal themselves, all men are, are pigs, except 2d men ofcorse.
seriously
she is clinically depressed.
anti-depressant meds will help
Says the virgin fag so never had long term relationship and only knows about women from what the media taught him
Only by women (feminine penis, he, them)
0/10 bait.
Aw, did some 3/10 slag hurt you? Did she promise to love you forever and ever until she realized what a terrible human being you are? My poor baby~
Kids having parents who hate each other is way worse than having parents who are divorced
married for 6 years. You seem a little angry, take it easy.
the same shit.
My problem exactly... I have a lil girl that is my only light in my shitty marriage.. I miss the good days I had with wifey... Now I just am tired
Introduce your wife to BBC
Men don't make a half assed excuse about it usually tho.
Not everyone is intelligent enough to escape their angry, bitter virgin perspective for a moment to view life with a different lens. I get it, mother's basement is all some will ever know.
Cant confirm. If the parent can keep their shit to themselves the kid can only profit. Since both parents are able to sustain better life quality then each on their own which results in a more stable childhood. A divorce will fuck the child up since its finite, a difficult marriage, controlled, will at least invoke some illusion of a healthy familiar relationship
They usually do, yeah. There's really no justification for being a piece of shit, but plenty of men and women try anyway.
>having to cook and clean for yourself
Oh boo hoo, this isn't 1739 where she stays to be a home maker while you go out and hunt faggot. Regarding bills though that shit isn't cool and sex should be at least once a week if no kids. Talk to her ass, negotiate, reason as best as you can, and then consider divorce if things aren't going well.
ha ha
i mean that sucks dood but we all warned you this is what would happen.
t. virgin n33t unmarried nerd
i cant wait till all my ex friends who got married have this happen to them and they will be unhappy as me [spoiler]again[/spoiler]
nice dub-dubs, but once again, terrible bait.
You forgot your anime avatar this time. You can't escape who you are, you cannot go through life in denial.
woops, i guess i did forget my Mizore.
I look at relationships as a partnership, as long as they agree what a split should be (one side cold and cleans, other is bread winner is fine, or everything is split 50/50) but when it gets unbalanced the are problems.
Dayum, brutal.
>not getting sex regularly
you're either a pervert or pedophile
>having a wife with problems
Thank God I'm single.
Maybe it isn't all her OP maybe she feels stressed from the energy your putting off. Maybe try a vacation or a romantic night out not totally geared towards your desires maybe she will open up to then. Women are hard to understand mine gets super deffensive to but she knows she's like that. She gets fired up I talk her down and then we can actually talk
Real talk OP? Check if she's okay, not depressed or anything of the sorts. If she is, try to help her. If she isn't, it's time for the talk. If she doesn't want to talk, write it all down. If after that she doesn't want to read and talk, you should get out of that marriage ASAP. You do not want to be with somebody who doesn't want to invest or improve your relationship and sees you only as a source of income. There are a lot of women on this earth user, and marriage is a raw deal for men nowadays.
That is classic manipulation behavior.
If you can, lawyer up.
You think she's bad now? You should see her when it's half your stuff or more on the line.
If not... I know how sad this sounds, but it's cheaper to keep her.
That's pure bullshit. When in a relationship there's 0 excuse for not doing any household chores for either party. A romantic dinner and vacation are great stimulants for having sex, but shouldn't be the sole reasons to get it. The only agreable reason she's acting like op described is if she's clinically depressed.
You could tell her all this shit instead of some fat virgins you dumb fuck face?
>Not getting sex regularly
Grind up viagra pills and start to lace her food with it, she'll either start fucking you or someone else. If she fucks someone else then you can dump her ass with no come back. But if starts fucking you, let the training begin. You need to figure a way to pavlov the bitch and make her your slave until she's giving it up without drugs.
If this aint working at all, you need to dump her ass.
image is so ideal for me
its funny because its true
What are you married to a kid? Leave her dumb ass. Its not like there isnt other woman/men out there in the world :^)
hey op, i think you should divorce her. unless the problem is you. are you a limp dicked fatso? if yes maybe she just doesnt feel attracted to you anymore
not knowing how sex works
not knowing how viagra works
go to school
if she makes you do all of that she probably doesn't respect you or even love you anymore. and sadly probably cheating on you already. i say get a divorce
hahahhahhahha OP - youtube.com
ya being an adult must suck
Shit, it worked for me
get her on her back making you money son.
start pimping her out.
you got a thousand problems but Sup Forumsitches aint one
>profit
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>ya being an adult must suck
underage b&
sex has a neural component and a physiologic component. you can have the best hardware in the world, but if you're not into it, good luck. vice versa, you can be so into it, but if your hardware doesnt work, good luck. Viagra inhibits the enzyme that breaks down the molecule that keeps your vessels dilated and your cock diamonds. Men need an erection to penetrate.Women just need to be wet, but i guess this is Sup Forums and women have cocks too. There are currently no drugs that treat the neurogenic component of sex for either men or women. There are currently no drugs that treat the physiologic component of sex for women. It's all geared towards men. OP, is your wife a tranny?
faggot this pic is old as fuck
Here is what you NEED to do.
>Accept that she is leaving you.
>Hit the gym hard.
>Get an inventory of all the people you trust like brothers.
>Sell your trusted friends all of the shit you love for $1.
>Liquidate all of your assets and savings. Turn them into casino chips.
>Get your side story straight.
>You and one of your friends have developed a drinking/gambling addiction.
>Start looking for another woman.
>Stay out late. Drink a little. Watch the game at the local casino.
>Eventually your wife will admit to cheating or file for the divorce.
>Be friendly and cooperative.
>Pay what needs to be paid, sign what needs to be signed.
>When the divorce is over cash in your chips and invest them immediately.
>Have your friends sell back your shit to you for a dollar.
>Start treating women like the sub human cunt-whores they ALL are.
>early 30s
>NO KIDS
I see the problem, she wants a baby. That biological clock ruins women
this
the moment you start to love them more than they love you, you lose.
of course she does. what you need to do is make her make you da money. a chick this freaky will do anything. turn her out. charge money for dog shows. make her a total whore. mo' money mo' money mo' money
Slap the bitch back into reality, and either she changes or divorces. Either way you win.
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Dude did you steal my life story and make it your own?
Yea, you kinda jumped to that conclusion, given that he's paying the bills, I'm taking it that she doesn't work as much as him and therefore would be expected to help out more with other shit. Or we can just assume OP and wife are exactly equal and he just thinks she should cook and clean like 1739 (which ironically was an era where women's jobs were to cook and clean because they didn't go out and work manual labor, so it made sense)
DO IT DO IT DO IT BE FREEEEE
I mean if you're gonna sugar daddy it might as well be a sexy young college grad barely making it by, right?
Do it while you're young. 30 is still 20's dating range
wut
I have fat lazy wife also. The thing is, as bad a wife as she is..... she'd be a horrible single mother.
Love my kids to much. Alimony and child support would be insane
Yeah, get out of there. She's unstable and not worth your time.
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GET OUT NOW. DIVORCE IS EXPENSIVE BECAUSE IT'S WORTH IT!
this may be the most misogynistic post ive seen all day. to expect a woman to clean and fuck you is whats wrong with america and why its so hard to be a woman
Well, what else does she do?
She can't be bring in the bacon because everyone (including her) will say you're a bum.
THIS
I know this is going to get buried in a sea of autism, but you could try offering couple counseling to her. Make a point that your relationship could hinge on it.
Otherwise, ensure your accounts are separate and have coffee with your divorce lawyer in the kitchen, prior to filing, and invite her to join you. It will make an impression and she will be forced to make a choice.
I have about same issue as OP but here are some differences.
My wife makes more than i do. She owns the apartment we live in. I do earn good but no savings whatsoever. My wife us fucking hot. I know she cheated on me few years back and are ocer with it now. I cheated on her to. Now she wants sex only when i talk about a baby to enrich our future together. Wife gives me security. Still i am frustrated being sugar daddy. Not sure what to do.
This may be the most misandrous post I've seen all day. To expect a man to support and cater to you is what's wrong with America and why it's so hard to be a man.
This is what women do. They will scream bloody murder at their significant other for the slightest goof but call them on ruining your life and they pull the victim card. Press them on it and they'll do something really fucking dumb and act like it was your fault.
Be straight up with her about your current issues with the situation and take it from there man.