I know a lot of you are going to hate this thread but for those who will take it serious: My girlfriend told me she...

I know a lot of you are going to hate this thread but for those who will take it serious: My girlfriend told me she wants to do a threesome and then after further talking she revealed she would like to have sex with a guy while I just watch because it would be "fun and naughty for her to show off for me". As a new couple to this, what advice do you have for easing into it. And yes, I'm into it.

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Ditch her. She'll already be fucking the guy and she just wants you to validate it.

don't ease into it
confess to her that all you can think about is her getting fucked by another guys big cock
embrace your whore gf most gfs would be too prude to turn you into the cuck youre destined to be

Dump her OP. If she wants this shit, she is an unloyal thot. Who in their right mind would want to cheat on their partner right in front of them. You might say "its just a fetish" That makes it worse. She is willing to cheat on you and fuck other dudes just to fulfill a stupid fetish. She is long gone, best try to talk her out of it, or just abandon ship, you will probably break up in the coming months.

if you are not a player, you are the game.

ditch her

It's the second most popular searched porn term in the US by hetero males, I dont understand why Sup Forums guys freak out so much

doo doo . it stinks .

US males liking cuck porn is different to US males wanting to be in their own personal cuck porn story. Faggot.

make sure he has a big dick or it will be boring

Thats fine if you are willing to allow your partner in whom youve invested time love and money into, to just fuck other people. All im saying is that this shit will lead to a bad relationship. The mere thought of her wanting to fuck other people is a red flag.

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She wants to fuck him and shes trying to get away with it in the dumbest way possible.

Op im all for threesomes and open relationships and all that but this situation is different.

She has literally no respect for you if her idea lf a threesome is fucking someone in front of you. I bet she would flip out if you aaid you wanted to fuck a girl in front of her.

What a cunt, jesus.

No actually, she's fine if I bring a woman in. As long as she gets a guy too.

Then the issue is she doesn't want you.

Start off by showing her off.

Tits or GTFO!!

She also said if I didn't want to sit and watch then that wasn't for her. She only wanted to do that if I found it attractive to watch her

LMAO at all the responses.

You want to ease into it? First, soft swap swinging. Guy/girl oral sex limit (same room). See how that goes. If you're both still game, try full swap...full fucking (same room), and see how you do with that. If you want to go further, then try go for it, or whatever variation you are comfortable with. It turns me on to hear my girl while I'm getting another chick off or fucking her.

if she's not wife material and you have no desire to keep her around for long go for it. whats wrong with having a slut gf for a couple years? make her do dirtier shit than just that, get your asshole licked or something.

Stop being and dense faggot and ditch her, pussy ass retard

She's a slut who you can't satisfy and is cucking you.
At least she isn't going behind your back to fuck someone...
Yet.
Enjoy being a 3rd wheel in your relationship

That's a good idea. She refuses to suck a different guy's cock though. So that takes oral out lol

She is wife material though

I'm not going to post tits, but for a general idea:

She is fucking lying OP, she just wants other dudes dicks. She does not value you as a legitimate partner. Talk her dumbass out of this shit, you are setting your relationship up for failure.

Your girl can have a 3some with me and my girl, you can watch from a chair in the corner. You will be handcuffed to it. They may tease you

OP, you gotta use this as leverage. Tell her that you'll let her do this ONLY if you get to do it to her. If she says no then she's using you and you'll be better off without her. If she says yes then you'll have a nice little open relationship on your hands.

Then think about the day you're married and your kid comes out of her snatch. Will you be able to live with yourself seeing other guys shove their dicks in the same holes your kids come out of? I sure wouldn't but to each their own.

Good point

Don't really want kids so not an issue

prepare for STDs, especially around the cuckolding scene. Also if into blacks: brace for AIDS

OP where are you located

Do it- have fun. Make sure you get the FFM done first, so she can't back out.
Wouldn't recommend taking the relationship too seriously, but have fun while it lasts.

Louisiana

Why so negative? There's plenty of healthy cuckold relationships

WHere in Louisiana?

FFM = good
FM + you watching = bad

true

Agreed...

It'll be fun and all but eventually it will ruin your relationship

Op, it is a deep hole. You need to be sure it's what you want. Also, it's all hot and sexy until you cum, then it could be very different if he's still going.

In southwest LA here.

Don't be a cuck, user.

You're gonna let another guy use her as a fuck toy but you won't show tits? WTF

New Orleans.

Why will it ruin the relationship though. People say that but don't have an answer

If your girl already has another guy picked out she wants to fuck, then your relationship is already ruined and it's time to end it.

She doesn't which leads to the next question: Where do we find a guy willing to do it?

You really don't know how you will react until it happens. Some people are fine with it, others dwell on it for months or years until it destroys them or right after you cum you realize it's not for you.

I think the previous user had a good idea. If you really want to try it start slow and work up to that. Good communication, set rules, and make him wear a condom.

I'm worried about the post cum feeling of regret. And a condom is must, she made that clear as well. She doesn't want to risk an STD

C U C K

I think you would need to decide: someone you know, or a stranger

Then hit up websites, bars, anywhere really. You won't have a problem with a guy wanting to do this. Hell I bet 100% of the guys in here would do it.

We talked about that and we want a stranger, but someone that she gets comfortable with.

Lol cuck

i got ya, so two ways:
1)online route, lots of websites dedicated to this. Look for what you two want and intiatie. Meet for drinks at a local bar and see how it goes how, do y'all like him and then go to a room. With this ground rules can be established way before meeting up. Plus there is a lot of build up to the meeting, you two will probably fuck think about it a couple of times before the big day.
2) Go to a bar and drink/dance and just let her flirt around you guys talk about it during. Hard to set rules here and it's gonna be pretty random with who is there. But it's easier to walk away.

Guys won't have an issue doing this. If I didn't live three hours from y'all, I'd help!

Okay, here is the objective problem with being a cuck and why it needs to stop. So you are okay with your gf/wife cucking you, or you are into it, or whatever is going on in that fucked up head of yours, fine. You are a weak human, probably with submissive tendencies, who gets off to your partner fucking other guys. Do you think the kind of person who likes this has a strong enough personality and other assets to keep a woman? Probably not. Not anything a woman would really be interested in if something better came along anyway. And thats just it. By being a cuck, you have already basically admitted you arent physically enough for your woman, and now you have opened the door to her being able to find someone with an actual functioning personality. Someone much better than you. This self destructive shit needs to stop. Improve yourself, and she wouldnt want to do this in the first place.

Thank you for the input. Do you recommend not doing it at our house and getting a hotel room? Seems pricey lol And on the big day how exactly do you start? Just let them walk in and go at her?
Option two could be interesting but she's very shy

I'm in the other boat, I'm trying to convince my grill to have a three way with another man. No one watching, just a group activity!

I don't think that's true at all. There are women and men who like the idea of cuckolding even when they are single. Fetishes bro, they always exist. And cuckolding is one of the most popular ones in America. Sometimes yes, it has to do with the couple's weaknesses, but those people will always like that fetish even if they are with the most physically imposing individual on the planet because it has nothing to do with how physical they are

stupid cunt, stop believing what bitches say

know what, fuck you then, go get cucked

Never bring a stranger to your house. If the guy ends up being a creeper it could go bad. Don't want him coming over if it's a one and done.

To get started it's just like any one night stand. If/when she/you chooses start with the touching/kissing at the bar, a little more hands on in the cab or uber. Once you get into the hotel it's kinda what y'all want. Is this a just her thing? Do you want a threesome? What does she want out of it? Some women want to experiment. What are you looking to get out of it.

IF this is what you want enjoy it, enjoy her, hell enjoy the show if that's what you want.

That's a good point. So encourage her to get handsy at the bar. Sounds good. It will start with just her, then I'll join in. She just likes the idea of two penises instead of one for both holes. It's not really to experiment. I just want her to feel sexy and have fun

OP do you have kik? I'm also in Louisiana

You have issues. You're probably a conservative, voted for trump, but you are a closet cuck. In other words, filthy cuckservative.

Eat shit, disgusting freak.

Do it while you're young so you can bounce back fast. I can fucking guarantee you that once you're on that chair in the back of the room you're no longer part of the equation and you WILL regret your decision. It will be awkward after and if your girlfriend is a psycho she will lord that shit over you forever. ALL the guys I've seen who's done this and then grin desperately blubbering "YEAH MAN!!! IT WAS COOL!!" while their eyes beg for death.

1. don't do it
2. if you do - consider it the last thing you do with this girl and call it off after
3. realize you're in the 0.00001 percentalie that can deal with it - in which case, happy trails you magnificent bastard.

She has 100% found a person she wants to fuck and tries to get you to be ok with it.

My guess is she no longer wants you, but your relationship gives her certain benefits. This is her way of trying to get cock from someone else and also your support.

Let's stop messing around: when she says she'd like to "fuck another guy" with you around, you should realsie that that guys isn't random but probably a very specific person she has just wanted to bang for a long time now.

It was maybe even his idea.

i met a girl who told me she wanted a cuckold boyfriend
she said she had fantasies of having a guy in chastity and controlling him when he's too horny to protest

so it's not impossible she just wants to cuckold him

Voted for Bernie.

I hope I'm in that percentile and can have lots of adventurous sex with men and women and her lol

Well considering she wants a stranger and I dictate how we find them I don't think she has someone else.

CUCK CUCK CUCK CUCK CUCK CUCK CUCK CUCK CUCKCUCK CUCK CUCK

Have fun being cucked, cucker.

or OP gf has already fucked this other guy, and thinks if she gets OP involved, then she isn't a cheating whore

nolafun1988

We established if she met with someone outside of our relationship it was still cheating.

You'll end up like this guy from efukt dot com:
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Encourage her to have a good time, and yes act as if it's a one night stand.

I'd set the rule though, if at anytime the other one is uncomfortable...it stops.

The few I have been a part of the SO of the girl tends to cum really fast. Just be ready for it. What usually happens is me and the girl would go until he was ready again and switch in and out. No need to just be one and done. Make a night of it. Don't drink to much either, being limp in that is no fun.

its not gunna be 50/50. she gunna be fucking guys every day and you gonna be left holding the bag.

OP, another thing to think about.

She is going to enjoy this, she will make sounds you've never heard, and she will move and probably do stuff she hasn't done with you.

There's not much we haven't done though lol

Assuming this is serious, I've read the other comments. Experienced individual advice.

OP this is a sensitive spot for you and your relationship. You need to be 100%, not 90%, not even 99% sure that you want to go through with this. If you only think it and then you see your girl getting pounded by whomever, that can seep into your brain often when you see her. This can cause you to slowly resent her until you two break up.

I assume this is a fetish for both of you or it wouldn't be brought up. How do each of you fare with each others fetishes up until this point? Have you wanted to try anal or her try whatever she likes and you're both open about it. I'm not saying you did it, but you could have an honest discussion about it.

What I'd do is start with kissing or a handjob, whatever you guys agree with. Then move up from there and if at any point you even get the thought "oh no...maybe this isn't good" then you all stop there.

If you are 100% sure. She also needs to be open to you having sex with other females as well AND as often as her. It's harder for guys to get laid. The reason I say this is her thinking could be, "Well he'll never find a chick to do it, so I can have sex with nearly anyone I want and he most likely won't find anyone." This is also a dangerous trap, you both have to find and select individuals.

If everything goes through, and this works both ways. I'd suggest when you guys first fuck someone else, you both do it together in the same room. Meaning all 4 people at the same time in the same room so you can see her and she can see you.

This IS NOT IN ANYWAY something you can skip steps in or rush with. Take it 1 step at a time and MAKE SURE you want this. Do it only if you have a girl as well. Finally, for each individual that you choose, the other has to be okay with it as well. Meaning if she has a guy she absolutely wants to fuck, and you say no for WHATEVER reason, doesn't have to be logical (next)

Just curious, what do you want from it? What do you want to see or do?
Be specific, I'm honestly curious.

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It doesn't have to make sense at all. Just if you say no, that's it, it doesn't happen. Same goes for if you have a girl.

Consider how long you've been dating, how honest you guys are to each other, and how open and trusting each of you are. Don't put those lovey bullshit goggles on when doing this either, it will only hurt you.

Treat these as rules, there's no questions or grey areas for these. Good luck for the both of you.

You better fuck a girl in front of her then

a man-woman play in the theater that is love is complex, non of you pudgy little nerd asses could ever grasp, so here is to you OP: whatever gets you off and if it alines with your partner, you are Lucky, you fucking cuck

That is incredibly helpful advice and I thank you for it. That's a good way to approach it. We've been on the same page up until now but it's something we'll have to talk about further.

I want her to be confident and feel sexy and get more pleasure with an additional cock.

Message sent

i wanna succ those tiddies

Bait?

If not:
She wants to make you a cuckold.
You should fucking kill that bitch so there are less of those people carrying the gene that has this desire.

Disgusting to even question this.
I hope you deilver.

Only watch her if she's willing to watch you with another girl. If she isn't willing then there's huge scope for jealously to ruin things.

She is

As a professional cuck, take my word. There are some things that need to be settled before doing anything like this. You need to be sure this isn't just a fantasy to jerk off to. You need to actually be with a dirty, whory slut. If that's actually what you want (like I did), then go for it. Remember that trust and communication are key.

>she would like to have sex with a guy while I just watch because it would be "fun and naughty for her to show off for me". As a new couple to this, what advice do you have for easing into it. And yes, I'm into it.

My advice is to kill yourself ASAP.

Rude

Her name isn't Kylie, is it?

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If you are into it, then go ahead. As simple as that. If you both agree there's nothing wrong with it.
Just don't get surprised if she has sex with other guys or a girl while you are not there.

test each for aids faggot if you really going through with it

she wants you to see what shes already doing and proud of it

No, not her.

solid 10/10 advice user
i have only fucked 2 girls since my wife and i have started swinging but one was the very first time and i really enjoyed watching her get awesome pleasure. she had only been with me and i have been with like 25 girls in the past 8 years so its a win win and we both enjoy it immensly. do what he said OP. if you cant find a couple you guys arent doing it right. look up local swingers clubs or just use craigslist or aff

AGreed

would love that with my wife

I'd stay away from both of those, actually. There's other swinger sites out there. LifestyleLounge.com, Kasidie.com, and couplesnextdoor.com

Those are all good ones.

Fuck no. You and another guy fuck her at the same time maybe. But cucking is just degrading.