Hi Sup Forums I have a problem
Im dating the best girl Ive ever meet and everytime we have sex I just cant cum. Theres no way, even when she is trying hard with mouth or hands.
I tried to not fap in days but the results are always the same, I end up giving up.
That really worries me as she doesnt understand why Im not cumming or if I dont like her enough. Any solutions?
That worries me
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try a guy. perhaps your just barking up wrong tree
That is a great hole
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Sounds like you masturbated so much that you broke your dick
Doesnt matter, when I was 13 and lost my virginity I didnt cum for like 4-5 fucks maybe? Doggystyle did the job for me eventually. If you get worked up by it, that will also have an impact on it so try not to think too much about it. Consider this the day you got actual advice from Sup Forums
Godspeed user
Im afraid that could be a reason...
There was a time I even fapped to the most strange thing so I couldnt even get hard with my exgf.
I guess I should try to compensate her in another way like eating or massaging her
lol do this OP.
nah but rly man how new is this relationship? are u nervous when ur with her? if so try a different head when ur with her, take a couple shots, maybe smoke some even. but nip it quick user, u dont want to just associate this dream girl with not being satisfied. youll wind up w some bullshit complex whenever u two are fuckin.
Had to same shit with the first girl I ever fucked. We tried oral, vaginal, anal, handjob, buttjob, etc. and she only got me to cum once with a handjob after like a solid hour. I think the issue was that I was just getting too hard, which deadened the nerve endings. I could definitely feel it, and it felt good, but there was also a sort of numbness to it that made it really difficult to get off. I've heard of other people having the same problem, and the solution was always to just keep trying. I'd also suggest jacking off really lightly (not death gripping your dick) in the same position you normally fuck her in.
It could be that you are holding her to a standard that is unrealistic and somehow you feel like sooner or later you will find that "ohh" Moment. So Subconsciously your stopping your own breaks in fear of that. Or your are a faggot that hasn't come out yet and needs cock in their ass.
you're gay
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you kinda just have to want to cum
its just 2 weeks, and yes I have to admit I feel pretty nervous with her, thinking she is going to get tired because I dont cum and she is already wet just by touching her a little.
I cant help thinking too much everything instead of enjoying.
Also, when Im eating her pussy my dick goes soft in a matter of 1-2 minutes which is embarassing too
and for the rest of you, no, I dont like guys. I tried those trap threads but couldnt even get hard.
Did anyone save this pic that was just deleted? Just seen it as I was scrolling.
Try different positions? Try an aneros?
so like i said, try a different head when ur fuckin next time. when i drink i have that same problem, hard as can be, but wont cum. will fuck for an hr, or to the point where im physically fatigued and just want to cum already. but wont. give it a go, a few shots will take away those insecurities, and once u start droppin loads in her, next time will go smoother, the hard parts over with. just dont go bringing it up w her unless she does, and dont tell her that's the reason u wanna get buzzed before hand. bc just like ur asking these questions on Sup Forums shell start asking her friends abt it, if it becomes a topic w u guys. then her little know-it-all friends will just put shit in her head, you dont need that.
Sounds like there might be an issue. I'd better fuck her and see if she's defective. Send me her contact info and I'll get right on it.
this happned to me op
just lay off porn for like 3 months
>i can't cum from vaginal sex
this is bait, right? this has to be bait. OP is your gf a fat ugly hambeast? maybe if you dated a girl you were actually attracted to this wouldn't be happening. in the same light, this user might have already stated the problem
no. Im using a XL condom which doesnt let me feel a damn thing, so its like fucking with a car wheel on your dick
This. It's just a little PA. If a drink doesn't help, just being honest about it probably will.
>Also, when Im eating her pussy my dick goes soft in a matter of 1-2 minutes which is embarassing too
eh, this usually happens to me, too, but it's just because you're focused on pleasing her. It's a good thing.
Oh, and I wouldn't worry that you are lasting too long. Most girls see that as a plus. She might be a bit concerned that you aren't cumming, but she will probably understand if you say it's just a little PA/nerves.
How bad does it look to a girl to have the guy fapping next to her?
She told me she doesnt mind and actually likes it, but I cant help feeling strange
>XL
stop trying to show off and get a condom that fits you
>XL
this is definitely bait, but whatever. why the fuck would you have sex with a condom on? of course you can't cum. condoms are the devil. never buy them again. if you can't trust your girl to not give you something while fucking bareback, get a different girl.
Try a smaller condom. If perchance, you're using trojan magnums, try a bigger, different brand.
You either have one or two problems if you are only having the problem when you try with a condom. The condom is either too tight and restricting the necessary bloodflow, or the condom is too loose, along with your girlfriend, and you need to tell Tyrone to fuck off.
Someone just post the fucking pic.
fapping next to her in what context?
Try moving more slowly to build up. Worked for me
I've had it happen over the years with select girls.
Nothing wrong with them in appearance.
What I've figured out is it was some subliminal thing that turned me off and in retrospect I was right to not want to fuck them. One had two types of hepatitis... a couple others turned out to be home wrecking whores that I heard had stds.
Guys will fuck anything, but sometimes little things like not getting hard for a chick you have no reason to not get hard for have deeper meanings.
Probably death grip because of too much fapping in the past.
yeah lol this
Obvs you aren't attracted to her on subconscious level
Or something seriously physically wrong with your penis
Durex Sensi-Thin is great if standard size condoms are just slightly too small, they're as wide at the base as Magnums but they dont' have the wide end.
Damn dude, your cock may posses the gift of prophecy, but I don't think it works like that for everyone.
Had the same problem.
You're caring too much.
Your goal is to please her and ultimately fail because of that.
Try to look at sex not as something you're doing for her. Grab her where you wanna grab her. Put her in the positions you like. Take her feelings out of the equation completely.
Just do what you wanna do and simply do not give a fuck if she cums or not.
She's a hole to please your dick, nothing more.
Have a fantasy you've always wanted to try? Don't ask and just do it.
You'll end up exploring what feels good to you and she will be thanking you in the end because you've showed dominance.
They say sex is a 2 way street, but that is only true once you're together longer. Because by that time she'll have a good sense of what you like and will be pleased to give it to you. And you will be able to consider her a bit more since you know what you can refer back to when you wanna cum.
Have fun getting yours.
just mastrubate till u cum.. do it hard.. tell her what to do.. if she complies that should help u 'relax'. keep giving her instructions.
dont be a fag.
When you feel like giving up on not fapping that's when you go have sex with her? try to figure out how long it is you usually give up, and have that be the start of staying with her for a few days to a week, then don't let yourself jerk off, only have sex until you cum eventually.
Also until you can do that no death grip for fuck sake.
I don't think you got the point of that. Magnums are designed to fit regular men. They're purely marketing, they're horseshit.
Are you on anti-depressants OP?
Try alcohol or weed to calm you down.
Should relax you enough to enjoy things. Not too much, though. Don't want drunk dick. lol
yep, this.
Are you on any antidepressants, OP? I know from personal experience that some (and escitalopram/Lexapro in particular) can cause anorgasmia (i.e. inability to reach climax).
I had a similar issue in high school. I fucked this small Jewish girl and her vagina just didn't feel good. Couldn't go very deep either... Dunno, sometimes it's just not a match.
you're afraid of her dude. your mother was probably a real fucking cunt
Get her on birth control and do it bareback, you'll cum in 10 seconds
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Im guessing this is your first serious GF. It's probably nevers, im guessing you go soft aswel ?
Truth being its a self confidence issue but don't worry that can be fixed, just relax. When i was with my first gf i barely ever came and went soft. after we finished i got with another girl who i didnt really care about but she had a nice body, i was rock hard and came all the time. I was nervous around her because i felt like i shouldn't be with her. Now im older i literally don't care but looking back on it, it was a self confidence thing.
Might be the same for you, just try and relax and feel sexy with her.
good observation. you have to hate the woman a little to really have fun
Alright here is the fix, go nofap for at least a week, don't even look at porn or pictures of girls. Just straight up non sexual for a week or two, if you still can't nut you are most likely bi or gay.
>OP's probably just a faggot
the problem for me was, i was brought up quite traditionally. So going into it i thought woman didn't like/want sex and if they do it was a gift for the guy. Now i know woman are fucking mental for sex, especially around the 19 - 24 year old bracket. So when she wanted sex all the time i was nervous because i felt like i had to perform because i liked her so much (again a self confidence issue).
Pretend she's your brother or father. You'll cum buckets.
that's your shit parents ruining it for you.
Seratonin levels can fuck with your ability to orgasm.
Just relax
*le sigh*
A girl who isn't ugly/trashy/chubby and guilt trips you about her eatin gdisorder butter face and 20-+ partners....
and writes shitty fan art/fan comics about it while ridiculing you.......god I wonder if she even masturbates or just fucks a random guy when she gets horny.
I wish someone else could get me off toot hough..... like the vagina in OP pic is so pretty but I had the same problem the one weekend I got with a woman I actually liked...except no blowie... or anything :(
This is clinically impossible.
I have that problem too. I have this stupid disorder called dysautomia :(
Mostly chicks have it so they don't have as many worries.
shes' bleh in the face but goddddd.......
serotonin sucks. I think I'd rather be dead than worry about worrying about being committed if I confess how I reallyf eel about life and living to be 50, 60, even 70 to my shit tier fattie 40+ year old md with her two or three bastard little rednecklets.
Just chill abd try not to focus on it. I get like that if im nervous
sounds like a great problem to have
That's your problem OP, you're not in the moment, you're performing. You keep on thinking about what she's thinking about you and it distances you from the experience.
She likes you already, you have no reason to stress/hold back. Just dive in it, lose yourself into the sex, enjoy it at the max, think about the both of you.
OP is homosex
This is what happens when you beat the fuck out of your dick to hardcore porn every night since you turn 14. Sex no longer compares to being able to jerk it just right to dozens of different sluts for an hour.
BS. I have been masturbating for as long as I can remember and never had this problem. OP is just putting to much pressure on himself. Also, no condom will help, A FUCKING TON