I need help b.
My gf recently took a trip to colorado and upon coming back she messaged a guy saying she wish she could have gone home with him and she bi annually goes to colorado. We argued about it and she said she would delete and block him and never talk to him again. And is now refusing to delete him simply saying she just wont talk to him. Shell go back to colorado again and this concerns me. Should i be worried about her faithfulness to me?
dump her
Yeah definitely
Sounds like she's cheating or planning to cheat pretty soon. I'd dump her personally
Go to Colorado and fuck a bitch, and break up with her.
not even lowkey fucking - she's said she wishes she could've gone home with him and after your argument you can bet your ass that they're gonna fuck the next time she goes mate, no other reason she won't delete lol
OP is a faggot
The answer to this question is obvious
You just want attention (and that is understandable)
This. The relationship clearly isn't stable, but like a typical whore she's trying to have her cake and eat it too rather than just ending it and moving on.
How about you talk to her about it instead of Sup Forums, you fucking retard.
DUMP HER, YOU FUCKING IDIOT
Manipulate her with the threat of breaking up. And why'd she's purposefully try and just you, and question her live and commitment.
If you are serious, she is 100% going to cheat on you. Maybe not now, maybe not 2 months from now, maybe not the guy in colorado but she will. Cheaters have a strange way of justifying shit, and you getting mad at her is only going to make it so she resents you.
Most guys don't get the privilege of such an obvious warning sign. Break up with her now rather than later and save yourself the self-esteem issues.
dump her
Don't dump her yet, that's for faggots. Hire a hooker and make sure she catches you fucking her, then you dump her.
And tell her that's not the first hooker you've fucked and that she might want to get tested.
You must play mind games with her.
I was in a situation similar to this once. Dump her early so you don't go through the heartbreak of losing her to some fuckboy you don't even know,
Bump
Dump her but not yet.
Girls like guys that already have gfs. Use her to help you line up another girl, cheat on her, then dump her.
depends on how much you invested in her. sounds like you dont want to break it off with her. do this, start playing the field but keep her as your main. keep fucking her and fuck other women too. do this as much as you can. even start booking escorts. ones that get as kinky as you are. start a fetlife acct and find other women who share the same kinks. but dont break up with her. maybe you find a cool girl you would rather be with. this is fine start putting more effort into her instead. dont break up with her yet. fuck her until she leaves for colorado. then wait for her to come back. ask her if she has fucked the guy. then when she says no then tell her you been fucking around on her, show her pics. break her! she will eventually come clean. then break up with her and treat her like shit, make the bitch cry. then go off with your side piece
If this is real, then yeah you should be concerned.
Really, you just need to weigh your options, and be rational. Do you care that much about her that if you two weren't together anymore you'd be sad and lonely? Or do you think you could have an equally (or more) fulfilling life in a relationship with an entirely different and better person, or at least to be independent from someone who thinks so little of you that they are willing to go and have sex with other people, and lie to you?
the truth is that she likely doesn't care enough about your feelings. You have to ask yourself the question of whether you want to stick around with a person like that, who might just keep doing it and doing it and making you more and more insecure and jealous.
Don't get me wrong, she has every right to cheat on you. But you must know that that's exactly where her priorities seem to lie.
if she fucks someone else, and you end up sticking around with her long enough for her to break up with you... well... i can't think of anything sadder than that.
You should probably do something.
O.P., please listen.
I'm an ancientfag. At 52 I'm probably old enough to be your father. I came here to troll/shitpost like I always do when I'm bored, but I feel the need to respond to you honestly.
The worst mistake you can make when you are young is to bind yourself to the wrong person. I know because I did it.
The right person would never make you feel this way, O.P.. You would never have mistrust if the person was right for you.
Get out now before you waste any more time.
It's going to be tough, user, but you'll eventually move on. I don't say you'll get over it - you never do - but you can just move on and make the rest of your life better.
This.
20 year old here. Oldfag is right; I was once tied down to a bitch for three years and I was miserable. She was hot and smart and nerdy but goddamn she was a slut. I'm alone now, but at least I don't get knots in my stomach wondering if my girlfriend is cheating on me while I'm faithfully waiting on her ass.
Take this dude's advice. Let her go, man.
smartest man on Sup Forums
This. I got cheated on twice and she ended up with some fuckboy in Jersey. Screw that bitch. Don't do what I did, mang, take the initiative.
Simple, fuck her while not being serious about the relationship an cheat on her when you get the chance. Keep her as some guaranteed side pussy while you find someone better.
what you need to do user is track down the guy and fuck him up the arse to assert dominance
it's what lions do
Oldfag here: Oldfag #1 is right, but I'll step up the wager.
Dump the bitch. She's already cheated on you.
Do not look back. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200.
Sow a garden. Work out. Start a business. Invest in your all-time number 1: YOU. Because nobody will, and because you'll become older, wiser, more hardened to the bullshit and that shit will never work on you again. Right now, you might thing that's the only bitch in the world. Newsflash: You drowning in a shotglass full of water. Get out, party, become a fucking legend. She can have her colorado fling, and since they're apart it will not work. Do not, under any circumstance give in. Do not call her. Do not give her sympathy. Do not buy offers that somehow, shit will get back to where it was. It won't. It is degrading for you. Believe you deserve better and dump the bitch. And not even a year later you're gonna look back and she's gonna be in the same place and you're gonna be miles ahead. Invest in yourself, user. Because no bitch ever will.
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She cheated on you. Dump the bitch. Move on.
Also, post her nudes.
>OP tries breaking up with her
>GF pulls some gaslighting maniupaltion bullshit telling OP that hes overreacting
>OP starts questioning whether he is sane or really is overreacting
>OP starts to lighten up and the idea of breaking up makes him sick
>OP remembers this comment
>Strengthelixir.png
>Realizes hes not crazy
>Starts remembering why his GF isnt trustworthy
>Realizes if he continues the relationship this will always be at the back of his mind
>Wont ever be the same
>Has the foresight to understand if he doesnt break up hell be prolonging the miserable
>Bad news doesnt get better with time
Break up with her OP. She will never be the same after that argument, for the reason that you had the argument. Good luck
Ancientfag here again. O.P., you have abandoned you thread.
Oldfag is 100% right.
Listen to the wizard, OP
Dubs never lie
Op here. I did it
>you never do
44 here. Yeah, you do. It takes time, and more importantly doing many productive things to occupy it, such as just hooking up with as many women as you can.
Shes trying to fuck around on you now. Do you honestly believe it will get any better in the future?