>ex starts texting me again
>haven't had sex since december
>relationship was horrible, sex was ok with her
>she's a control freak, and a gains goblin, i would never get together with her again
>i'm on 1 fap/week and noporn
>my urges are hard to control
Is it possible to make this a fuckbuddy only relationship? Should i just go back to fapping more often?
Pic?
how long were you broken up for?
a bit over half a year, but barely talked for a month before that.
won't post face, but if you get trips you get one injured tit, only nude i have.
Also she's a slam pig.
No. Don't do it.
Dont do it user. My girlfriend of 3 months broke up with me then I found another girl who I dated for 2 months who was batshit insane, the sex was ok, but I broke up with her and moved on. She texted me so much I changed me phone number.
I'm going on no sex for 3 month now and honestly my life is great. Ive been going to the gym, I got a new car and my mind is clearer. Do things for yourself and you'll find a girl who sucks and fucks you without being a fuck up in the head.
Do not do it
>>ex starts texting me again
>>haven't had sex since december
>>relationship was horrible, sex was ok with her
>>she's a control freak, and a gains goblin, i would never get together with her again
>>i'm on 1 fap/week and noporn
>>my urges are hard to control
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>Is it possible to make this a fuckbuddy only relationship? Should i just go back to fapping more often?
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da fak, yu pingeon nigger fag !
don't take her bak, or you want to be fucked for eternity for sloppy snail holes ??
grow a pair, masturbate sometimes (it clears your mind) and improve yourself
>Do things for yourself
Work, school, exercise and driving lessons consume all my time including weekends. I practically can't meet anyone except my colleagues and classmates, and this is not going to change for at least a year, so i doubt i'll meet anyone anytime soon.
But yeah, all in all i agree this is not one of my brightest ideas.
just getting desperate i guess.
you could save yourself a lot of time and money if you just fucked a hooker
Yea, but jerking off kills my motivation.
I agree but i fucking hate condoms.
I mean shit, the time you'd be wasting fucking your ex could be time wasted on going somewhere social for 30 minutes and talking to other people. Also classmates arent a bad idea to meet for a relationship user. Just create boundaries.
Don't do it bro, she just uses sex against you.
Fast forward a few weeks and bam "im pregnant"
Or she infects you with an std.
Just get the snatch dude, tell her straight up you're not looking for anything except friends with benefits.
ask her if she wants to have sex and dont make any attempt to seem interested in a relationship.
if she is ok with it then things will go good, if not you just return to nothing between you two.
it is very simple OP, you just need to be forward and straight with her. dont get into a relationship and waste each others time
Work on yourself and the bitches will come. Learn a new language, get fit, learn to play an instrument, hell nigga learn to be self sufficient and you'll soon realize that bitches are just a dime a dozen
Don't masturbate like a fucking bunny with every occasion, yu dumb fuck !
Get in control of yourself, stop wasting resources over her memory and by wasting time.
Be productive and proactive. Be content !
Shit , dumb trash fucks at every corner in need to be lifted !
GROW A FUCKING PAIR and stop with excuses : "It kills my motivation" bla bla bla yu cunt
Oh shit that's about all the convincing i needed...
She was big on prego scares, i'd rather cut off my balls to have a kid with her...
Done/doing all of that, i just have no initiative when it comes to being social. The kind of person who only answers calls, unless i really need something from someone.
It's not worth it, man
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What the fuck is a gains goblin?
Someone or something who is detrimental to your gains. Mostly applied to physical gains, but could be used for mental gains somewhat.
It's a word used on /fit/ for people who sabotage your diet/workout in any way.
I, too, was wondering this. I like the term. I'll use it.
Ah, okay. I'm from /lit/, and we usually call that type of woman (as far as 'mental gains' go) v a p i d
Is 1 fap a week and no porn self imposed?
If it is, then you're only using this ex for masturbation.
Just jerk off.
Or
Keep it just for sex,
Make sure you tell her it's just for sex,
Don't sacrifice things in your life to meet up with her,
Show up,
Have sex,
Cuddle a bit after if that's what you guys are comfortable with,
then leave.
>gains goblin
is that way
I'd just fuck her tbh and try your best not to get romantically involved with her.
But I find its hard to not get the feelz if you were head over heels for her before. but if you broke up with her because she was annoying that should be easy enough to control.
We will need a pic of the girl to give you a proper answer however.
Started out as noporn only, due to trying to practice mindfulness, and i realized i was sexually stimulating myself while watching other men having sex.
Jerking off without porn wasn't as appealing though, so i skipped a while and realized i was way more energetic and confident this way.
Don't want to increase the risk of prostate cancer though, and not getting stimulation at all can lead to EDF so i settled for once a week.
Anyways i've been talked off, anyways so ex can go find another retard.
Kek. That works too m8.