Why do you choose to remain in isolation and not socialize at all. Depression? self-deprecation? anxiety...

Why do you choose to remain in isolation and not socialize at all. Depression? self-deprecation? anxiety? or combination of all 3.

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that and desperation on how stupid people are

Been isolated for months, will eventually venture out but dealing with idiocy takes effort

I'm not coming out until all the stupid people stop pretending to be smart.

I belong with the trash not with the people. why the fuck do you think im here.

im not depressed and i dont have anxiety, i just dont care to socialize with people. i enjoy being alone

>dealing with idiocy takes effort

This pretty much sums it up.

I spend like 5 years of my life trying to be a normalfag.
I hate people, constant stupid discussions and the facts that people are so emotional and not very rational at all, especially not in the schools I went to and where I grew up.
On top of that Im fucking ugly so I cant get a girl either.
They really shouldve just gassed me at some point to prevent this miserable existence but hey, I still exist

Is my post a question?

Looks rhetorical.

Nice double dubs. Anyone can get a girl if you work for it, although I do understand your predicament.

Right now some sort of depression has kicked in hardcore, even on medication. Mainly due to current life situations, then I miss work because of it and get even more stressed. If I were to lose my job because of it, I'd literally have nothing going for me. Being a nice or smart person doesn't get you very far when that's the only thing you have.

This too, I have no interest in most people or their bullshit

look at porn and jack off.

yeah anyone get an ugly girl or retard but thats probably not what we want

Looks kinda social for a guy who don't want to socialize at all

You need to change your environment to have a different perspective on life, being around negative influences just worsens the already evident depression.

>different perspective on life
>lel

Honestly that's my goal, I want to find my own house and try to make an improvement. Getting the job I have now was a good start, but out of nowhere depression or anxiety just kicks in and put me backwards. I do things that are improvements, yet still never enjoy anything.

Thanks though user, it's good hearing it from someone else too

I am not having friends for about two years nobody realy likes me, for everithing I am doing I am getting criticised. I dont like the people around me in my daily life but I dont really care anymore.

Now more than ever people are isolating themselves. I think it has to do with social media and the internet more than anything. Face-to-face, in-person communication occurs far less often.

"If you don't use it, you lose it"

For me, when intimate relationship fails, it destroys my life. I'm too pathetically co-dependent I guess. I'll never trust another person intimately again.

Going to a party on saturday Sup Forumsros. I've had gfs and the like before, but this will be new for me. Should I try to be a normie or just not go at all?

fuck off

Damn, I've spent my life working and it has gotten me nowhere. Fuck socializing, fuck people, nothing in this country but a culture of ignorant and arrogant fucks who don't have an ounce of empathy and compassion. It's like I'm living in a Disney channel TV show. Fuck.

>I think it has to do with social media and the internet more than anything

Spot on. If I disappear for a year I can always reactivate my fb account and am able to get in contact immediately. But there lies were I can't be bothered as majority of human interaction as you said is becoming less and less frequent, It is tiresome to have 80% of times to converse happen over messages. Plus I don't like publicizing my life over social media for gratification.

The quality of the people around you just continually decreases with more and more normie shit made available to them so the autists just end up pushing everyone away however there's always at least one other autist in your vicinity you just gotta find them

always been shy so ive rarely ventured out of my comfort zone.

Go faggot

People make me sick, the less I'm around them the happier a person I am.

PEOPLE IS DUMB, SPECIALLY WOMAN, NOT SEXIST AT ALL, there are cool girls as dumb dudes but fuck, the majority of the pussyowners are so dumb

>Why do you choose to remain in isolation and not socialize at all.
I wouldn't say that I choose to. I try to go out and socialize regularly. Got stood up 2 times this week already.

Socializing makes me feel more depressed than being alone. You see the same people every day, have the same conversations and you get sick of it. I wish finding new friends was easy but it's not. I mean I'm boring and therefore my friends are boring. So all the friendless anons should not care that much, they are not missing out on much.

If you're not a total aspie you'll be good. Alcohol makes it easier to socialize and whatnot, just don't drink too much. I always try to stay away from the shots because they fuck my shit up.

Meeting people makes my depression stronger. Just returned from a trip that I enjoyed when it lasted but now I feel terrible. There was this girl. She laughed at my jokes, maintained eye contact, even touched me. I invited her to eat something together next week. She agreed. I feel horrible now, cause I checked her facebook and her life is so fucking full of things and people. I am certain she will cancel this.

27.5 years old now and virgin. If this does not go through then I will give up and start visiting whores. Thought about it for the last 5 years. I do not believe in "the next year" anymore.

Don't overthink and try too hard with her and you should be fine. I bet it's a facade and in actuality her life is pre mundane, obviously not as much as yours but people tend to lead boring lives in general.

Mr. Robot is an awesome show, worth watching.

>be 19yo britfag
>always been socially awkward
>decided to go to shit tier uni to study shit tier degree in international relations
>move from shit tier town to London for uni
>too awkward and beta to be popular.
>lonelyasfuck.mp3
>make friends with indian dude who was also a loner fag.
>start to get fit/healthy and start socialising with Indian bro
>finish shit tier degree and get offered mid tier political analyst job with indian bro
>start work, same office as indian bro, making decent money but boring job. Start saving up and then quit. Decide to set up our own consultancy.
>Mum gets dementia. Move back to shit tier town to look after mum. Savings all run out. Indian bro gives me his savings but still have to work shit tier waiter job just to get by.
>couple years later, mum dies
>same week mum dies, indian bro dies. Went to sleep and never woke up. They say natural causes. His body lay undiscovered for 9 days.
>be 29 still working shit tier waiter job. Met a girl last week, she asked me out... Hoping things will change soon.

until the end of the first season

fuck that autistic fight club cosplay

Damn, that sucks user.
Hope your date goes well!

Good luck to you, you deserve a break.

I have SPD so I just don't like to

Because I am officially a "retard".

I've had a nice childhood, had friends, played sports, etc. I wasn't emo at all. I wasn't doing drugs either. The problem started when high school got harder, and all of my friends would easily pass tests and do what had to be done...

But I kept struggling so so hard. I was studying every day until bed time, and sometimes even spent entire nights preparing exams... only to fail, or barely pass at just over 60% (passing mark in my Canadian province). Kids that were known as "troubled" and that smoked/sold drugs and skipped most classes, had HIGHER marks than me, who seriously prepared for tests.

Now, this was obviously hard to grasp and I believe that it started my depression. My mom sent me to a psychiatrist to see what was the problem, maybe I needed some pills for concentration. The psychiatrist made me pass an official IQ test, and I scored 62.

In case you're not familiar with IQ scores, you usually have three categories: inferior 0-70, normal 70-120, superior 120+. And those categories have their own categories, for example you could be in the normal category, but be below average (closer to 70)... or be above average (closer to 120). Well, I was in neither, since I was in the "inferior" category.

My mom spent nights crying when she learned the result, because she always thought that I was just lazy and not motivated enough to succeed in school. Now she knew that I would probably drop out of high school and end up working in some factory or other kind of manual labor jobs...

and guess what?

She was right. Because I indeed dropped out of high school, and ended up working in a shitty factory with some foreigners that didn't speak a word of English or French. My lower back hurt so much from bending there, that I still have pains years later. And I was payed the minimum wage.

Anyways, to reply to your question, it's a combination of the three, that was mainly caused by a lack of luck during birth. I tried...

this: most people post shit on their facebook that makes their lives look fuller than they actually are. it's a show. just be normal with her, i.e. ask her genuine questions and be attentive. don't expect sex or anything and you're more likely to get it. if she touches you and seems to smile at you a lot and laugh and make eye contact, maybe she likes you. try to flirt back. if she's cool, maybe you can be friends. play it as it goes. don't push for anything but don't miss opportunities either.

The town that I live in is populated by sub-human filth. The only reason I step out the door at all is to go to the next town over.

If you actually had 62 IQ you wouldn't have been able to write so well and spell everything correctly. There's people in university (lots of people actually) that can't write or spell for shit.

There is many jobs that are fulfilling to do that doesn't require much intellect, don't stress it to much. There are people dumb academically and people shit in athleticism we all have are disadvantageous in life.

Your post is impressively coherent and clear for being a retard. You don't sound like a retard. The IQ test was probably off. You likely have a learning disorder that made you score low or something. You should get a second opinion to see what is actually wrong with you.

>people annoy me
>i don't have much in common with most people
>i'm lazy
>i enjoy doing quiet things alone
>i really just cba with their social trend shit and talking about the latest hip reality tv show
>probably a lot of other things too

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>i don't have much in common with most people
This is the worst feeling in a world.
You see thousands of people and you know that you can't talk to any of them

someones mad, guess youre the idiot?