Just started having frequent sex for the first time in my life. Maybe I just watch too much porn...

Just started having frequent sex for the first time in my life. Maybe I just watch too much porn, or maybe its just the fact that condoms take away from the pleasure, but I can honestly say that sex with a condom does not feel as good as just rubbing one out to a kinky porn video. (I also cum quicker watching porn). Is this a common belief or have I just spoiled myself?

Yeah condoms fucking sucks, but they're better than herpes.
Just put a drop of lube inside the condom before you put it on.

Condoms suck for feels. Raw dawg it is best

It's because you've jerked off so much you now need an unimaginable amount of stimulation to cum. Congratulations OP, you're such a virgin you can't even enjoy sex now that you have it

obviously, its called iron grip syndrome, if you fap too much you lose sensitivity so it takes ages to cum using a real puss

all you have to do is stop fapping. just dont do it at all, if you are getting meat on the regular you dont need to

>implying condoms don't reduce sensations from sex
Found the real virgin

Honestly op I struggled with this for years. In high school I was constantly trying to fuck girls but I had been jerking off to porn so much that when it came time to real pussy my dick remained a wet noodle no matter how much they sucked. My tip for you one stop masterbating in general. Two don't watch porn don't even think about porn you develop unrealistic expectations when it comes down to it with a real woman and your instantly disappointed. Three you gotta be comfortable with yourself. For your not confident in your self and constantly worrying about how you perform then you'll lose your erection. So I say stop masterbating watching porn and go do something that'll boost your confidence i.e. Hit the gym, go to bars or local hangout spots and talk to REAL women and just gain some confidence in yourself. trust me I hate condoms, but I'd rather strap one on any day then be swimming around in an std bath. Ain't worth it bud hope this helped!

Both, condoms suck and you've probably desensitized yourself physically and mentally.

>when it came time to real pussy my dick remained a wet noodle no matter how much they sucked
That's not the problem he's talking about.

you need time to acclimate. stop fapping and get her on birth control.

>So I say stop masterbating watching porn
>stop masterbating watching porn
>stop masterbating
>masterbating

If you're in a monogamous trusting relationship, and the both of you have been tested... you've done that right? Then buy the trojan lambskin condoms.

They're ONLY good for pregnancy prevention, NOT disease prevention. And they feel a thousand times better than latex or poly condoms.

After the lambskin, the next best are the bulbous ended poly condoms meant to slip around a little during sex. Then regular poly, then all the latex ones.

Always put some lube in your side of the condom before application and keep a little bit of room up front to allow for a little motion.


And as the other anons have said, keep from jacking off. If you absolutely kust jerk off then use a good sllippery lubricant and jerk off with only light pressure and a sliding motion over your skin and glans, don't death grip it.

Additionally, moisturize your shit on a regular basis if you're cut. Coconut oil is the best. Ever since I started using it to jerk off every day I've noticed a major increase in sensitivity.

Not OP but what's it mean if you dont feel anything from sex, or masturbating?
I've tried going weeks without masturbating but it does nothing. It's been like this all my life too, i only figured out what masturbation was when i was 13 because everyone else was talking about it.
I'm able to ejaculate and that feels "rewarding" but that's the extent of it. I only realised something was wrong when I noticed sex in my dreams felt really good in a way i've never felt before even though i never finish so for some reason it's not broken there.

There's articles that describe how to get your cock and mind back to normal after suffering from IRON GRIP syndrome

Wouldn't come here for help see a doctor bro

ur lucky. i come too fast and cant even get fully hard when im fucking my gf. the end is always dissapointing and she always says "its okay"

Eh, i'm only mildly curious.
Probably unsurprisingly I dont give a shit about my sex life.

It all depends. When I would jack it I would last maybe 2 minutes. When I was fucking a girl I'd usually go 10 minutes. But if i was fucking my sister I wouldn'tlast 10 seconds.

>Getting meat
>Nigga you gay?

Being uncut I don't get a very severe death grip, feels good man. A few days to a week is enough between furiously fappin and thunderously tappin

Congratulations on having sex :'(

OP, you need to try to cut down on masturbation. You've come associate orgasm and pleasure with jerking it & the visual stimulation, instead of what it's meant to be: physical stimulation. Don't grip your dick so hard, don't masturbate too often, and you'll be fine.

Also, just trying fucking more in general. Figure out what really turns you on. Ask your gf/bf to help you.

Dude, if you don't really feel anything and you don't really care then you're probably asexual

Congrats, you get to live a life free of the bullshit of romance. How I envy you.

>Dude, if you don't really feel anything
>then you're probably asexual

seems legit

you just need to start beating it with a condom on. not only will you condition yourself to enjoy wearing a condom, but you are gonna be fucking fast as hell putting that fucker on.

Never fucked without a condom and I still cum too fast even with the thickest condom available on the market. I fap regularly and it doesn't help. The other extreme sucks just as bad. I'd rather have your problem to be honest.

It's the fucking condoms. Sex without a condom feels good, sex with a condom doesn't even come close to feeling as good as fucking your hand. Lose the rubber.

condoms suck. I'm circumcised, on the large end of the scale and jerk it more than once daily.

It takes time to get used to the pussy sensation. But I can say after 15years of fucking 100% that condoms ruin the feel makes doing whores a waste of money. I've turn down girls because they want me to rubber up in the past its just not worth cheating for. Even with the wife the times we used condoms because of missed pills were meh.

Not op but today I was wondering if genital herpes works the same as oral. If I suck the pussy of a dirty slut that has no symptoms am I likely to be ok? just like checking if there's a coldsore before kissing.

Have the same problem as OP. Honestly in my experience the extra "stamina" it gives you actually helps with sex in general and definitely in getting her off through actual fucking instead of foreplay. It doesn't feel as good for you initially but the trade-off is that you're more likely to actually get the bird you're banging off this way.

Swings and roundabouts pal

yup, you can catch herpes from sucking pussy

Use these, sagami 0.01

>Just started having frequent sex for the first time in my life

tl,dr: fapped twice a day

That's not what I'm asking. Is it the same risk as oral from kissing? Does it work the same way?

Advice: use dental dam

most oral herpes is hpv-1 (cold sores, yada yada) hpv-2 is transmitted through the genital area because they store themselves in nerve cells (glans, clit, base of spine). so yeah, it works the same way, except if you suck pussy that has HPV-2, you'll have hpv-2 on your mouth. if you kiss someone with hpv-2 on the mouth, you'll catch hpv-2. gl

Thanks. But can I see if she has it? Also is it worse to have hvp 2 on your mouth?

nope. some people who have hpv-2 herpes don't even know it and transmit it like an sti hotspot. if your immune system is strong, you don't have to worry about it too much as long as you are using a condom.

also, yeah it;s worse to have hpv-2 on your mouth, because hpv-1 isn't bad at all and your immune system can keep it in check. Hpv-2 will lie dormant for a while and pop out on your dick and you can only get rid of the sore through a surgery.

Fuck man I guess I won't be suckling any pussy. I was hoping it was the same.

If you've just entered a relationship just go to the clinic together and get tested.

No I'm talking about just the next whore I'm lucky to get naked with next. I'll have to wait until I'm in a relationship. Could be years, could be never. Feels so bad man.

Well if you're socialising enough to where you can pick up random skanks you should be socialising enough to where you could meet a girl to connect with.
Shitty sex with randoms and rubbers Vs Sex with a girl where you know what gets each other off and you can cum inside her? No comparison m8.

Is it possible to attain these in the UK? Where'd I get some? Could I buy some online?

Ok you want to make me say it. I pay for it.

Better than wizard status I suppose.

I mean the lambskin condoms. Sorry

Does lube work with regular condoms?

Yes it is. Missing out on kissing and oral though.

two different things. sex is more work, more emotional investment, foreplay, etc. Half the fun is knowing you're making your partner feel good.

but it's nothing like the rush of fantasy related to to a good porn video or public stroking.

That's why I just keep the girl for the regular 'gotta get off' type stuff and chase whatever crazy fantasy or experience I can get from porn, or hookers, or a drunk night out.

Yes. You should always use lube with condoms to help prevent breakage.

a small dab inside for you, and some for her.

You should be able to.

"Trojan NaturaLamb Lambskin Condoms"

How did I not know this.