What is your biggest current problem user? Are you hopeless?

What is your biggest current problem user? Are you hopeless?

i got caught drunk driving and now they take my license away for 3 months. i need to drive for my job quite a lot. i plan on not telling anyone and hope i won't get stopped by the cops.

apart from that im fine

Don't speed, you should be fine. Best of luck.

I lost my job 3 weeks ago and before that I lost a few other ones after only working a few days.
I don't know what's wrong with me or maybe I just keep getting stupid employers. They all seemed uncertain and not prepared whenever I got hired and scrambled to find me things to do.

Now I don't know if unemployment is gonna accept me.

My friends dislike my girlfriend. They told me that I'm in a toxic relationship with her, I just can't see it, because of reasons a toxic relationship brings upon itself. I almost broke up with gf because of this.

I have put a lot of energy and effort in both my relationship with this girl and friendship with these guys. I don't want to lose either, but seems like I will have to choose in the long run.

I'm a pussy., and can only blame myself.

I joined the army with a ranger contract and quit so now I'm stuck at fort bragg with a 3 and a half year contract not deploying and hating my life every day with douchebag ncos and the gayness that comes with Army life. Join the Infantry, clean the world.

im a tranny and not cute. fml.

how good is this

>unemployment in country is 50%.
>need to bribe people to get job as street-sweeper.
>worked as security guard, got rib broken, fired from job so employer doesn't have to pay medical costs - he can do that since he made us all sign resignation papers with blank dates on our first day.
>didn't get last paycheck
>no money, no insurance, can't visit doctor.
>my only hope is winning the lottery or selling my kidneys
>would buy cottage in country and live off the land.
>also virgin at 27, withdrawn from all friendships.
>parents can't hide disappointment in me anymore.
>wake up every morning thinking how great it would be to just die.

I have to be away from my girlfriend for 2 years only being able to visit her on holiday and long weekends kinda sucks. I would break up with her but her fams rich and she has promise so I kinda wanna marry her.

I have to pee, but im really comfortable on the sofa right now. Fml.

what shit country is this

Glorious Bosnia.

>>no money, no insurance, can't visit doctor

Wait, did they at least set you rip back in place?

Also just go to Germany like all the other people from the Balkan. Claim asylum. Will be denied of course but while you wait for the decision they will give you medical care plus a few bucks so you leave on your own.

It sort of depends on why your friends are against her. If it is a race, or class issue then they are the assholes

...otherwise they are probably telling the truth and you won't see it until it is too late. Take this from someone who has dated a total fucking bitch and not realized it more than once.

>grew up in Germany
>speak native level German
>parents were hard workers, got offered Aufenthalt or greencards to go to US
>decided it would be nice to move back to the old country right after war
Don't want to be asylum nigger, too proud. Would work as a construction worker or anything - but no formal qualifications.

I've been working at a job which pays less than minimum wage for almost two years. When I had a job interview for this job, I got promised a promotion after a year.
On monday afternoon they promised me a pay raise in june and then another one after 7 months.
On wednesday some bitch who is in charge in my department decided to screw me over and now I can forget about that promotion that I was waiting for for the last two years and obviously I will have to change job to have a semi-decent pay check. Life sucks right now.

>Would work as a construction worker or anything - but no formal qualifications.

Since when do construction workers need formal qualifications. As long as you work for less than German's they'll hire you. Also you probably understand the concept of Schwarzarbeit.

I dont know what to build in minecraft

i'm trying to get out of the military and have my old life back, this shit is driving me insane. i can't deal with unorganized retarded stupid shit.

I got pulled over for speeding. I had been smoking bud too. I didn't get arrested but now I have $800 in citations to pay off by June 21st.... I don't make that much money...

No friends or relationships, live with parents.
Nothing bad besides that really atm, graduated last year, decent paying boring job and have plenty of money for vidya and saving, just the same shit each week.
Never really bothered by the no friends or relationship thing until someone brings it up and realise that everyone else around me has those things

i dont have steady/permanent work,
and a family to take care of..i'd say im fucked

BPD

Yes

nice boots...where can I buy a pair

>As long as you work for less than German's they'll hire you.
Looked around the internet - every legal job listing requires formal training or documented work experience as a mason, electrician etc. I could get a trade diploma here, but that requires a year and a couple thousand euros which I don't have.

>Schwarzarbeit
Don't know where to look.

Mentall illnes cost me 6 years of my live. Because of that I graduated University at 32 as an engineer. Now I have a hard time finding a job because there is a shitload of graduates looking for jobs in my state.

Also no friends, no gf, waking up wanting to die everyday, etc.... the usual

>Looked around the internet - every legal job listing requires formal training or documented work experience as a mason, electrician etc. I could get a trade diploma here, but that requires a year and a couple thousand euros which I don't have.

Erntehelfer? They have to pay you at least 8,50€ since the introduction of a minimum wage.

Also did you get your rip at least reset?

I work way too much and don't have time to pursue my hobbies

I haven't been laid in 3 yrs because last time I had sex I had difficulty getting hard. Even if I could I avoid it.

My auto insurance is really expensive because I am a drunken idiot

I don´t understand people here and can´t return to my ancestor´s homeland of Bavaria to make family, because of the shitskins

>ancestor´s homeland of Bavaria

You dumbass wouldn't even get the difference between a Frank and a lower Bavarian.

>Erntehelfer?
They can't hire non-EU foreigners over domestic and EU workers for unskilled labour - plenty of Bulgarians and Romanians to do those kinds of jobs.

>Also did you get your rip at least reset?
I didn't know you need to reset ribs.

Some of Lower Bavarians come from Sudetenland
They´re more Slavic, more brunette

>>Erntehelfer?

>They can't hire non-EU foreigners over domestic and EU workers for unskilled labour - plenty of Bulgarians and Romanians to do those kinds of jobs.

You obviously know a lot more about that than I do. You have one big advantage though you speak German. Try to use that somehow. Maybe the need a translator at construction sites. That could cancel out your lack of experience.

Anyway, whatever you do. Don't give up.

>>Also did you get your rip at least reset?
>I didn't know you need to reset ribs.

Well I assumed it would have to be done. But if you think it's "just" cracked but still in place it probably isn't necessary.

Whoops, wrong "uplifting" quote.

Graduated from college and looking for job. GF paying all the bills, so I feel like useless ass. Not entirely hopeless though

the bourgeois

down with capitalism

>GF paying all the bills

Actually I find that kinda sweet.

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>You have one big advantage though you speak German.
Half of all Yugos speak German, 60% of Bosnians speak at least some German since it is taught in every school. Hell, my grand-grandpa 100 years ago spoke German because he was a sergeant in the k.u.k. army - died somewhere in the Carpathians.

So it's not really an advantage, still kinda confused that you let in all those work-shy immigrants when there is literally millions of German speaking European whites willing to work minimum wage just a 10hour bus ride away.

>Anyway, whatever you do. Don't give up.
Thanks mate, but not really hopeful. 10 years ago I wanted to be happy, 5 years ago I wanted to make my parents proud, now I just don't want to be a burden anymore and live somewhere quietly.

>Well I assumed it would have to be done.
Don't really know, got a bruise and the middle has more "flex" than the ones around it. Hurts like hell, but I doubt it is dislocated or I have internal bleeding or anything.

>can´t return to my ancestor´s homeland of Bavaria to make family
Where are you now?

Can't your parents pay for a doctor visit? Aren't there any charities?

>Can't your parents pay for a doctor visit?
They can, but I'm done leeching off them, I'd literally rather die.

>Aren't there any charities?
Lol. Even with insurance - I had to wait 3 months to get a kidney ultrasound when they suspected kidney failure. Luckily it turned out to be just an UTI. Last two surgeries I had all ended up with sepsis. Our healthcare system is falling apart just like the rest of the country.

Ich wünsch dir auf jeden Fall alles Beste und gute Besserung.

cmon user where did she buy her boots

Danke. Und falls du je den prasident von Osterreich triffst: sag ihm die sollen uns wieder Kolonisieren.

I started working for a company 4y ago now they are paying me double Wich quite a lot of money but I can't do a shit with my money cuz I'm an I alien

graduated from university and had to move back home

...3 years ago

Been working at a school ever since for shit pay and no insurance... oh and I'm with dangerous kids who have emotional break downs and hit us without consequence.

I lose the insurance in a month, my parents are long since fed up even though I do my best to help around the house to make up for my presence, and even though I've been applying for 3 FUCKING YEARS I keep getting shafted.

I'm basically on the verge of homelessness (my parents are totally fine with that option), I can't afford the health insurance I'll soon be mandated to buy, my school debt just keeps accruing, and I just obviously feel like a worthless pile of dog shit. Also I'm completely friendless now and haven't had a girlfriend in years, I'm entirely socially cut off.

Czechia
Extermination of the Jews and Communist purge made this country basicly plain retarded and minimalised the parenting to only talks about their good little bastards, who support the communists like their parents do. This made the society full of retards, who just want to exploit the poor chicks for sex and not the representative relationship

You can´t have a proper conversation with anyone, because their IQ or their temper can´t just fucking handle it

>graduated from university

In what?

I dont want to share my problems, but I sometimes think I am hopeless. I dont give up though. Something I should practice more is not telling myself anything negative. I could try to build myself up and think highly of myself.

i just turned 23 and i feel like a failure, i lost 2 yearss of education because i was kicked out from my mother´s house, im studying engineering and im on my 6th semester, im not doing good tho, my passion is filmakeing but i went for mecatronics because i kind of liked it. Im currently living alone and im smoking pot like a maniac, i know that this is not a good way of living just watching the days pass without anything else in your life, i dont know m8 im feeling like i should be doing something else with my life.

Good porn though.

Lol pussy.
If you stay there you're gonna be fucked by the competition for the rest of your life.


Be smart and move somewhere better.

Only thing cultural about this country is the culture of Consumerism, that´s why women crave for money so much, so they turn into whores and pornstars

I want to leave this place and live in some preserved European country to ensure that my descendants will not become this or more degenerate.

pre-law

I backed away from trying to go to law school because it was right when tons of articles were going out about how law school graduates were failing left and right to get jobs anymore. My parents made it crystal clear that they'd offer no assistance so I figured it wasn't worth the suicide by $120k debt.

... 2 years later my brother decided he wanted to go to law school and got a good scholarship (lower tier schools are desperate now that they know students understand how little those schools can help them in careers). But before that my parents were scrambling about what they could do to help him... really made things clear about the family

I can see her flaws, but I don't think it's all that bad.

Or at least, I keep telling myself I know her better than anyone. But yeah, my friends did try their best to not hurt me during the process, but it ultimately backfired.

So now I feel like, as always, all the blame is on me, bringing back my almost forgotten depression.

I have restless leg syndrome.

Only get it now and again, maybe once or twice a week and only when I'm trying to sleep.

Shit drives you FUCKING INSANE!!

The only thing that helps is taking codeine or tramadol before going to bed...here lies the problem. I love the feeling of a dunt from opoids but I cant exactly take them every night and getting a hold of them is a pain in the ass. The docs wont prescribe opiates for anything but pain.

Might start growing poppies in my garden...

Used to have that. Then I lost my excess weight (was morbidly obese), and now I'm pretty fine.

If you are fat, it causes lots of problems. Problems you wouldn't have thought that it was because of your weight.

Smoke pot.
Lots of pot.

>My parents made it crystal clear that they'd offer no assistance

Why are they such assholes?

I'm average weight for my size and excersise regularly. Tried altering my diet and taking vitamins but nothing seems to work apart from opiates...they do something with your dopamine receptors which inhibits the 'bubles under the skin' feeling.

Weed stops me from falling asleep sadly...fuck knows why lol


Another thing that helps is Valerian root and four beers but I cant exactly drink beer every night.

i love your cock post it please

you think she's into daddy daughter roleplay...i'm askink for a good friend of my

I'm not from a rich family or anything, we've always hovered around working class to center-middle.

They never went to college, and my older sister did but then dropped out of community college within a year. I was the first to graduate. They made me a deal before ever going (after my sister fucked them over). Go and graduate, they'll pay (state school of course, can't do private). If I leave without a diploma, I pay for everything.

So I was good about, worked hard knowing they were putting so much into it. Then I graduated... and they said the money went to my sister's wedding. Anything in my name from the government loans was now my problem (they legally can't thrust their own debt on me, so I didn't have to take it all on).

Now I expected to help out when I got stable employment, but didn't expect that. Got fucked hard.

With my brother... idk. They straight up suggested I go into the military to pay for it while my brother, hearing that for some years, suggested he would do that if necessary. They immediately panicked. Guess they just don't like me.

They are of course allowing to live at home for now, but the threat of getting kicked out is always hovering around despite working around the house as much as I can.

If i was 27 with an appetite for construction id try a working holiday visa Australia/New Zealand

Don't worry about it. 10 years ago I was a broke and unemployed living with my girlfriend and she paid everything off a shitty $17/hr job. I felt worthless. Fast forward to now. We're married with 2 kids. She doesn't need to work, I make over $150k/yr and we own our own home and cars. It's her time to invest, just make sure you remember this time.

>They are of course allowing to live at home for now, but the threat of getting kicked out is always hovering around despite working around the house as much as I can.

Threaten them to tell everyone your dad molested you and your mom looked away when they tried to force you out. You got nothing to lose.

dude can you find fresh "black mustard seed" ? just a tea spoon black mustard seed twice a day. no chewing, just swallow. morning and evening. this is the recipe. no alcohol, or weeds.
just give a try. if the symptoms get weaker(after one week or two) then just once a day a tea spoon seed.(no yellow or brown mustard. it has to be black mustard seeds.)

Try different weeds.

Some has more caffeine in it naturally.

If you are of average weight and build, then you should try some form of athletics.
As a child I would have similar issues, but took up kickboxing and Kung Fu and have gotten to sleep alot easier.

My parents not liking me isn't something new, and I have no reason to be that malicious. Pretty sure I could just claim squatters' rights if I were desperate, but it may also be healthy for me to just leave.

My father has spoken fewer words to me than are in most short stories through out my life, and though he hates me I'd never call him a bad person. I can't imagine a single person believing that about him. My mother is a different story, people would assume the worst from her without much provocation.

Things actually get quite a bit more fucked than just this college stuff, but it's that sort of thing that requires explanation and people may easily shrug off, so I just keep quiet. I'm the defacto black sheep despite my sister being a failure, so it's better to just play my role and leave if it comes to a head.

Probably. At this point I'm just seeing where life will take me, if things get too bad I can always just kill myself.

I'm addicted to the drugs that were supposed to help me get off heroin. Oh and I'm pregnant

My biggest problem is the name of this goddess

Eh well. It happens. Good luck.

Fun fact: I still have nightmares about this time that a Finnish girl (I'm Finn American) called me and told me she miscarried a child that I had sired to her.

Rough moment in my life.
Sometimes kids save lives, rather than fuck them up.

>No Job
>no life outside the house
>Depressed half of the time
>Rarely see friends
>single

list could go on

Hopeless alcoholic I don't leave the house either

Holy fuck, good luck user

how far along are you? do you think abortion?

Abortion is murder.

Damn I'm sorry that sounds awful. And I'm hoping this kid might stabilize me I just need to get off my medication cuz I can't stop abusing it and I feel absolutely awful about it

i have no job, have only had a job once, never graduated highschool, no IRL friends to lean on, and my dad can't support me anymore

Same here user. Getting to the point where even games (my hobby/escape for years) is getting a tad bland. Apparently, finding a new hobby is the way to go. I'm too far anti social for all that tho.

14 weeks 4 days. I thought about it but I'm too scared. Plus I know it's sad but I'm hoping that it could change my life. I'm only 21 tho.... also my husband wants me to have it so atleast the kid would have a dad in her life

Thank you. I needed that, as a man it's hard to reach out.
I think that you should just find an outreach program, maybe some group therapy.
Likely, as it was for me, it's some like childhood issues or other old, fucked up burdens that start this same pattern of behavior over and over again.

Lel churchhell. The guy who helped destroy the British Empire. Fuck that fagget ass.

lack of money and proper education
some weird shit on my dick
other than that, it's pretty fine

>I'm still Finnish.

I'm in rehab currently and they provide my housing so I can't really tell them or I will get kicked out. And are you a drug user too? Do you have or want any kids?

Telling a bunch of Indians what to do.
I'm sorry to break it to you, britbong, but that's hardly an empire.

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I drink too much and I'm a bit lazy sometimes. I hate myself because of it.
Other than that, everything is fine. I have no financial problems, I have hobbies, good friends, a place to live.
I wish I had stronger will, to resist the urge of drinking

I've been cheating on gf with hot coworker for 6 months. We use an app that let's u rent 4 star hotel rooms by the hour. We grab one during lunch at least twice per week. And I'd feel way guilty...if i didn't know that my gf (of 3 yrs) was DOING THE SAME THING. Caught a text exchange while she was in the shower - getting ready to "go to yoga". Nope, she was meeting up w some guy at a hotel to get her fill of dick. Said nothing about reading the txt and now get to sometimes taste just a hint of semen when going down on her after she's had a lunchtime quickie. Makes me diamonds for both of my bitches at the same time. But now, i realize it must eventually cum to an end. Which makes me sad.

....you get off on getting cucked... and also resent it so you revenge cheat? The fuck am I even reading

Like, you want the taste of some other dude's cum? What the fuck?

I have severe depression, 5 years now. Missed every opportunity I had so far. My best and only friend was raped. I don't know how to help her.

Seriously considering murder-suicide since I know who did that to her.

I would have loved that little girl and loved her mother a lot.

And yeah, I was a big cocaine and ketamine user, and all around big druggy.

That's not to say though, I didn't fall in love with someone else, which I did, different story though-fucking English people-but Viking rules apply and it essentially doesn't matter, we could still have a happy life.

It would have made things easier, sure. But I still want a little girl. Even though I basically know better.

And no, I have no kids.

I have eye problems. The pain is intense and there is a lot of sensitivity to light. Almost lost my eyesight a few months ago because of a crazy doctor. Ended up losing my job because he incapacitated me. Unfortunately I have a fast-paced computer job now that puts extra strain on it. I have to wear an eyepatch right now to use the computer. Sadly my comp is the only thing I have in my tiny microstudio. Barely keeping up with bills, tons of aggressive crackheads outside so I hate going out there, nothing to do to relax, got abandoned by all my friends after I lost my previous job. Fuck my life.

Wtf wtf. Thought this was a problems thread.

You have a pretty decent level of English, I can't believe you can't find a job with this level of English. Unless everybody in Bosnia speaks in English