Can i get a feels thread please? Feeling kind of down today.
Can i get a feels thread please? Feeling kind of down today
I just got a bj from my girlfriend a few minutes ago. Feeling pretty good right now.
>be me 18 in HS
>long time ago (last year december)
>meet girl on omegle because I'm a lonely faggot
>we talk and it ends
>felt sad for awhile
>hit me up in march
>know I shouldn't take her back
>do anyway
>hit it off great
>until now
>leaves me on read and her snap score jumps up a shitload
>starting to get depressed again
>know the ending is near
>texted her and ask 'is something wrong?'
>still no reply yet but she's on facebook
>probably ignoring me
>snap score keeps climbing and doesn't open my snaps
>know damn well this is the end
>starting to get sad
>at this point I'm leaving her one way or another
>once I do
>gonna block her on everything so there's no way she can contact me
>why?
>so I'm not tempted to talk to her
>and if she talks to me I will never know and that way this will never happen again
>don't wanna let her go but its for the best of me
>oh well at least I had 2mo of some sort of joy and happiness
>now its gone and back where I was 2mo ago but worse
>fucking hurts man
>first girl I ever had a 'thing with'
what should I do Sup Forums? just block her on everything right now and just move on or wait til she leaves me on read or says something?
Update: she replied to my snap saying "if you don't wanna talk anymore let me know instead of leaving me on read" open it now or wait? Kinda hoping she says doesn't wanna talk anymore so I can just move on instead of clinging to the hope we may get passed this
opened it and said she's on a class trip and didn't realize and she's at home..this was 30min ago well boys how do I tell her I don't feel like talking anymore? She's active on messenger and didn't open that...won't open my snap back to her should I just delete her and just slip away without notice?
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Congrats on your girlfriend I guess.
what the fuck is wrong with you
youre overthinking everything user
get to know other girls via apps like tinder
once you have 3 or 4 girl so choose from - losing one doesnt hurt as much anymore
God Damn. This Hurts me.
I overthink every little fucking thing and look what it fucking does to me..I'll get a tinder and do it that way but I have every right to overthink this in our 2mo she's NEVER left me on read, always responded quickly except for the last few days
Should I just delete her now and just slip out or tell her then slip out?
Saved for a ylyl thread!
Imagine having a loving family, a wonderful wife, a beautiful daughter, and losing all of it.
These feels are the worst feels.
Why would you not delete her if jt makes you act like this?
give her another chance dude dont let her slip this easily if she means something to you
keep a little distance and keep your mind occupied with other things
she will come back - maybe she is kinda busy right now like she claimed she is
girls dont like being pressured by klingy boys keep that in mind
a part of me doesn't wanna let her go and tells me maybe she's just busy and will get back to you...you know the feeling of delusional hope?
what really pissed me off is she sits on facebook, her snap score can jump 20+ and still hasn't opened mine or replied and been left on read for awhile now
this happened earlier I started becoming cold and distant and she started becoming clingly again and it was all good but I don't see this happening soon plus she's at home and not on a fucking trip (her senior trip was yesterday)
Just unhealthy jealousy that will get worse
Fuck this ruined me
I know it will get worse and the reason I haven't left yet is if I do I have no one. but then again she could just be busy but that's my delusional hope speaking
I've made up my mind, if I don't hear from her in an hour and she's still sitting on fb or snap score goes up/leaves me on read I'm done and I'll just slip away
you need to calm down user
from your messages i can tell youre really insecure about this kinda stuff and you lack selfconfidence
- start talking to more girls or go to the gym, you need to feel good about yourself before you can give back to other people
Dude, let it go. Dont cling. Its bad for you and bad for those you cling to. Its not worth it.
oh shit, look how fucking cool and above everything you are.
on a serious note, I bet you're hurting, worse than anyone else here. SO bad you have to keep up the facade even as an user on Sup Forums
I am insecure but I HATE admitting it but truth is I am...this mixed with overthinking and assuming the worst fucks me over on everything
>inb4 stop overthinking
stop breathing then sure you can do it for a little bit but in the end you will do it and can't avoid it
refer to
Story?
everyone is insecure and has flaws
thats whats being human is like
you really care about her dont let a moment of rage take that away from you
- sometimes you gotta take the risk
Probably some dude died and his girlfriend/lover is still hanging on to what they had.
>if I don't hear from her in an hour
DO NOT do that, let it go. You say that now, but it wont stop there. Just let it go. Its hard, I know, but it is the best thing to do
Yea I imagined, but I thought maybe there's a specific story behind this one.
when her snap score goes up and leaves you unopened it kinda hurts and her just went up and isn't opening my shit I think I'm just gonna end it between us I can't deal with this emotional roller coaster I know the ending of something and this is it yeah its gonna hurt like hell I'll just cry my ass to sleep and move on
Mother.
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>5 months ago is a long time
>omegle to actually seriously meet people
>whatever the fuck a 'snap score' is
This whole fucking thing is barely coherent
... Youre upset that someone you have never met, just an online friend has shit to do and youre gonna throw a hissy fit... Dude, just kill yourself. Itll make the world a better place.
Man up do it and dont try to apologize to her tomorrow when youre feeling lonely
No idea what snap score is either
I think your relationship is much more intimate in your head than hers, and you being this clingy and over dramatic is fucking weird for her. You're 18, you're a kid, just stop worrying about it
Anyone got any ideas how to help me? My girlfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me around christmas. She said she just doesn't feel the same way anymore and wants it to end. She was crying her eyes out and it hurt to see. But I wanted her to be happy and told her everything is alright, and that I am proud of her for choosing her own path.
But the thing is it did hurt. I took her picture out of my wallet and I realize what we had won't come but why does it still hurt guys? I can't see myself liking girls right now, none of them interest me. The gym definitely helps a lot but I wanted more input from you guys.
good, i feel like less of an old man
I'm guessing Tyler was some beta fag who wanted to get with her but she never gave the time of day while she fucked other dudes. But she liked using Tyler as an emotional release so even after he died she kept texting him. Notice how her perspective isn't like "I just talked with your mom." or "I was at your funeral." So she didn't even care enough about him for that kind of shit. She just missed her friendzoned betafag.
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God damn, hits like a truck
Huh. How oddly well-timed for me to see this, after my girlfriend died without me knowing (at the time)...
if she texts me over I'll tell her I don't feel like talking anymore and that kinda shit if she doesn't text I made the right move
when you send and open a snap it goes up by 1 (if you send it adds 1 if you reply it adds 1 more so send and reply it adds 2 basically a great way to know if you're being ignored
wouldn't surprise me if she found another guy that's local and honestly what I think happened
(me)
well fellas its done..won't be needing these feels threads anymore
its your decision user but i wouldnt write her off completly
start talking to other girls and if she ever comes back just be honest tell her that you felt hurt and you liked her
- ive got a feels story myself maybe you can relate: ive got to know an girl that was in my class after we finished our A-lvls, we kinda started seeing each other kissed and cuddled, but then she kinda broke up with me because she went to england for a year, i promised her that i would wait but she didnt want to - i always think of would could have been between us if she wouldnt went overseas
thats tyler's mother apparently
I just deleted her off everything didn't block her though in case she inquires why I did it but I've went to far now...there's no going back
Post her tits now
we never got dirty
Fuck man
>I am proud of her for choosing her own path.
I don't think you were too much in love with her (or the quote was a lie), so it should feel better soon. With summet coming depending on where you are you might see more girls and one will pick your interest. Then you'll be over her.
But after 5y with the love of my life, i did everything i could to keep ber, and it took me a looong time to forget her
well fuck
guess who FINALLY opened my facebook message?
>is something wrong with you?
>what the heck user?
welp no going back now
another guy? At this point I'm convinced you guys werent even a thing, that you got attention from a female for the first time ever and you misinterpreted it as something more. I've seen it happen many times before.
Of for fucks sakes
about a year back I got dirty with a girl and kinda fucked up our relationship so I avoid it
if one door closes another opens user - keep youre head up friend
Its an ONLINE friend. Its not real you fucking spaz. I hope she blocks your ass then goes and fucks the whole football team while you sit there and cry like a little bitch.
looks like was right
Tell her everything you told us and post the screenshot of her calling you a psycho
She was fucking someone else before she broke up. It's even possible the other guy knew, and he's a better person than her and forced her to break up with you so that's why she was crying, because she wanted to keep using you.
Severe emotional distress can have a very strong effect on your sexuality. Guys don't talk about it much, but it can kill your sexuality. Like you won't even get boners anymore. It happened to me once. Lost all sexuality for over a week. Finally I manned up and stroked my dick to porn even though I didn't want to. Raped my own penis until my dick finally started to respond. Shit got back to normal after that and my sexuality began to return. Within a few weeks I was talking to new women.
You need a doctor and medications
Too long, didnt read
topkek, I was just about to say the same shit. Like jesus christ, what a fucking pussy. Being obsessed with a girl online that he never met - and cry when she doesnt reply.
I undersand. I did love her though. Every day I would tell her and we would talk about all kinds of things. Her family was super traditional Japanese and while they liked me, they did not approve of me dating their daughter. It pissed me off cause they wanted her to date a smart asian doctor, not some white curly haired goofball. All I wanted was for her to be happy. Thanks user maybe I should write stuff down.
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Sounds like me, my sex drive is almost nonexistent right now. Ill see if what you said can help me. Thank you.
like i told you user
your insecurity just drives you crazy and you go mental because of it
- just chill and talk to her
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to late I ended it but haven't opened her messages yet not sure if I want to...amazing how responsive she got...
if I take her back me leaving and doing this is just gonna be the elephant in the room no ones gonna talk about
The best way to feel better when you see a feels thread is to not join a feels thread.
This shit again. You guys do realize that the whore obviously sent all those messages, screen capped them and then posted them on her fb wall just to get some attention, right?
That pic makes me mad more than anything
True. Post more motivation.
You never "had" her. If I'm reading this right you've had some conversations on the internet with someone since last December. That's virtually nothing.
I can't take your emotions away, but I can plea for your rationality and intellect to kick in. It's hard for many people to hold a lot of value for something like a chat buddy. I've had friends irl that I entirely forgot existed. I once had an online friend I forgot about for 5 years. When people are on the peripheral like this, they can be lost.
1. It's not malicious.
2. It's normal.
3. You need to find ways to up your situation so that such tentative connections aren't so desperately important to you.
I suggest starting online friendships with several people. This way you won't feel alone, and you can better put into perspective the nature of such a relationship. It can come and go. We enjoy sunsets because they are so brief. There is something loving and beautiful about short term human contacts that make us feel better.
Next step you need several irl friends. Friends are lot easier than "loves". But it's a start.
Shes better off without a clingy faggot Luís you probably fam
Obviously. Unless the dead guy screenshotted his phone.
what should I say to her I feel kinda bad just ditching her but I think it was for the better and look now she's texting me holy shit I didn't know I needed to do this to get her fucking attention
if think you made a mistake here user
- but thats just my opinion
Holy shit I hope this is bait but if not grow the fuck up you massive FAGGOT
Oh then if you really tried and she still left, then fuck her. Forget, not about her because obviously that's impossible, but about your feelings for her.
And decide to be happy. Even if you're not. Even if you have no or only one friend, no job, no (potential) gf, just be happy (music really helps). Just try to nkt stay awake until 2-3am, this is the only time when it gets really hard to stop your brain from thinking too much.
I know what i'm talking about
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>tfw literally never had a single friend in my entire life
probably but its to late
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Ill be your friend user. How much money you have?
It might take a few tries. It's really weird but it's like jump starting your sex drive again. We are designed to lose our sexuality in times of extreme distress. Start intentionally thinking about sexually positive things like people you've been with or wanted to be with, imagine yourself with someone in a positive sexual relationship. Your body should eventually positively respond to this, then return you to the lifelong burden of male sexulaity.
just calm the fuck down and act like a normal person
- talk to her about how you felt and why you felt this way
believe me youre just making things way more complicated most likely shes insecure herself and has no fucking clue what is going on
be nice to her and she will be to you
Man sometimes I'm glad that I never jumped on the social media wagon.
I might miss some stuff, but most of the time, the shit I hear people doing and talking about on there sounds so inane.
This might make me an old geezer, but I'd much rather hang out at a campfire in a public place and just chat with the people who join me there.
Theres absolutely 0 chance that he does not message her back. Just let him be. Pretty sure its just a troll anyhow.
Anyone have the really long Ellie greentext? Taht one cuts deep. Or the one about the blind guy whose lover was the donor for his eye surgery after she died?
Edgy
It sucks but it will pass. Take the time to be sad and focus on self improvement it's important to let yourself feel things in life positive and negative. I got out of a 3 year relationship a few years ago and it took me about 6 months to be ready to start seeing people casually again. Focus on your hobbies and friendships you'll be fine user.
How is that edgy?
Sorry not on my phone.
I second that motions about Ellie though
Edgyposting is edgy you massive FAGGOT
That's me right now. But I have my family and that's all that counts. And I am not talking about my cousins and shit. Mom dad sis. No one else. I will never make a best friend, never have a really good friend a gang or whatever.
Why do you think you won't ever have a friend?
sad story
being black
I just told her why basically and she seems pissed off (ending her texts with a .) so no going back now part of me regrets this...
Who hurt you?
>look at me I don't need friends
>look at me
>please look at me
Lol same
>mfw