So.. I fucked up Sup Forums

So.. I fucked up Sup Forums.

I was finally about to get laid for the first time ever (I'm a virgin.) I'm in my room making out with my girl of 8 months, just going at it. Shirts were being taken off. Asses we're getting rubbed. But each time I would try to take her pants off, she would stop me. Call me a tease. And proceed to make out again. But after a while, I finally managed to take em off, and I just felt how wet she was. And I thought I was getting it. Then all of a sudden, I'm just laying on top of her trying stick it in. I just couldn't. I was still wearing my sweats, I joked about how they were getting in the way, she laughed and I took em off as fast as I could. Got her next to me and just try to feel my way with my finger at first as a guide for my tool. Didn't really work as well as I thought. After some struggling, she straight up said it's not working out. I just felt my shit go limp and I'm just there rubbing my shit trying get it going again. Just couldn't Sup Forums. After i realized my shit was going limp I got down on her and started eating her out. She wasn't feeling it though cuz she kept checking her phone, saying she had to leave soon. Fml. After a minute I just stopped, joked about how I at least had to help her get dressed since I got her naked. Got her dressed and walked her to her car. She noticed it bothered me cuz she kept asking what's wrong and I'm obviously putting a front by saying nothing. This shit just fucking sucks Sup Forums, the whole relationship is ruined just because of this. I couldn't even look her in the eye after that. I don't even know why though. Like was my shit not big enough or wtf. Was it cuz it wasn't lubed? She's not a virgin so wtf is wrong. I'm obvious the one who's wrong. Does being high have anything to do with it? I was taking heavy dabs and had woken up from a nap to her. Was it a combination of both? I don't even fucking care, my homeboys been messaging her recently, but I don't want it happening with someone else.

You were just nervous man. Just relax. I couldnt get it up the first 3 times with my current gfs (using condoms). we dont use condomsa nymore, shes on birth controll. Just try and relax and dont think so much about it. focus on your pleasure. She also sounds like a bitch you should be able to talk about stuff like that

Hehehe, you dun goofed kiddo. Such a horrible feeling going limp

I had the same problem of my dick going limp too. It's just nerves and it will get easier over time. You may think it won't but it will trust me user. Only thing I think that could have happened is that you didn't put it her actual vagina you tried to put it in her urethra. The vagina is at the bottom of the "slit" closer to the asshole, not the top. And to hope save your relationship talk to her about it and tell her what's up. Sense ya'll have been going out for that long she won't laugh and just leave you.

Same thing kinda happened to me. Actually, I was in a really similar situation.
Yeah, lube really helps. Like, a lot. If you weren't wearing a condom, then you should know that condoms actually help you get it in too.
Yeah, use lube next time though.

You gay. Go fuck some hot boipussy.

sounds like some teenager shit.
don't worry OP. you'll laugh at this shit one day

lol, was this your first time trying to have sex? Are you familiar with female anatomy?

This girl is the type of girl to hit on and tell them she has a boyfriend, I trust this girl with my life. But after that happened, I just couldn't get it out of my head. We're texting now, but she's asking me if I'm okay and hopes I'm good. She's at least trying to not make it obvious

read the first sentence again you fuckin retard, he said he was a virgin.

How old are you OP?

I wasnt even this scared when i was a virgin... and i did really fucking good in my first time..really dropped the ball OP. Need to redeem yourself

First time my man. And I put on a front the whole relationship, had her thinking I was a stud and pulled hoes and shit like that. Just to have her find out how lame I am smh I've fingered past gfs, I have an idea of what I'm supposed to be doing. But I recently fell out of the second floor during a work related accident back in march. Managed to not break a single bone, but had contusions all over my left shoulder and had 14 staples on my head. All I needed was bed rest but I think I could have done a lot more better if had more back strength put into it

Seems pretty understandable to me. When my wife and I were still dating (we were both each other's first for pretty much everything sexual), it took us having sex a few times before we were able to both fully climax. What was working for me wasn't working for her (and vice versa), so it was a lot of trial and error before we found something good for both of us. We would start off having (or at least trying) to have sex, and then have to finish each other with hands/mouths. I know that doesn't make it any less awkward (and I am not going to lie, it was completely awkward for the both of us the first few times). We did end up buying different types of condoms, like those multi-packs of different kinds, to see which ones we liked/worked the best. Once we found a type that we both liked it also helped. So unless you and I are the only ones who has ever had this happen to them, I like to think it is pretty common. It just all about trying different things/ways until you hit your "jackpot".

I'm twenty fml and my girl is turning twenty this year. We both stay with our parents but go to work and school. She's a nurse. I'm just a labor who's getting his ged.

oh lol, I'm illiterate.

>Then all of a sudden, I'm just laying on top of her trying stick it in. I just couldn't. I was still wearing my sweats, I joked about how they were getting in the way, she laughed and I took em off as fast as I could. Got her next to me and just try to feel my way with my finger at first as a guide for my tool. Didn't really work as well as I thought. After some struggling, she straight up said it's not working out.

Sounds like you don't know where the vagina entrance is actually located. Pic related, vaginas. The entrance is near the bottom (towards her anus), like lower than you would initially expect it to be. If you were having trouble getting it in you were probably just flat out missing.

Just hope she didn't bail out because she realized you'd be a shitty lay and banging you meant she'd be stuck with your ass.

You could have avoided all of this by putting more work into the foreplay. The fact that she was trying to keep you from pulling off her pants and calling you a tease probably means that she thought you were skimping on the foreplay.

She feels bad for you now but probably won't give you another chance unless there is either something more to the relationship (i.e. a real romantic connection) or you come clean to her.

Why are you using condoms with a girlfriend
I've used a Condom maybe twice in my life

I was going in raw and dry without any lube. Maybe if I had one things could have turned out differently. I just wouldn't know where to begin. I've never had to worry about condoms and that was never an issue with my girl, so I would lean more towards a more natural feel. I would just have to start experimenting

So let me get this straight. You couldn't find her vagina?

Reread it moron. He couldn't find the hole.

Sounds like you're sterile Mr. Blanks.

You shouldn't need lube unless she's not getting wet enough because:
>she's just not into it
>some psychological issue/trauma is fucking with her
>other medical problems
>she's a post-op tranny
>you are fucking her ass
>etc...

We were both still in college at the time and didn't want to totally fuck our lives up.

sounds like you were stale-baked as fuck and that combined with your nerves probably fucked you up. pro tip (coming from a piece of shit daily stoner): be sober when you lose your virginity. it will be better for all parties involved and honestly the memory will be better. plenty of times to have high sex after that, just the first time is not ideal.

No women just have birth control in the first world it seems
Honestly if a girl wanted to use condoms while in a relationship I would force her into anal instead or just not have sex till she got on birth control

>(I'm a virgin.) I'm in my room making out with my girl of 8 months
>(I'm a virgin)
>my girl of 8 months
>(I'm a virgin)
fucking moron

Amazing how 99% of posters in this thread don't realize his problem was he could not find her vagina.

Me again just wanted to add that what I said above doesn't mean that lube isn't fun or that there aren't other occasions to use it. Only that if you show up with lube to bang a chick you've never had sex with she'll probably think you either don't know what you're doing, can't into foreplay, or are a total sex freak who is not into anything resembling normal sex.

You're right man, I rushed it. I just wanted to get laid and completely forgot her. I thought I had it but when I couldn't find it, I panicked and lost my cool. I only regret having to put up with the awkwardness between us now. I should just take my time with it next time and just focus on pleasuring my girl

>that mini-cock at the top of the middle one

clits are disgusting, as are women in general.

How the fuck have you finger banged girls but couldn't find the hole with your dick?

You need to cut back on the dabs my man, that shit has made you retarded.

Super common.

Be less high ...
And with your finger and thumb, wrap around the base of your cock to stop the blood from leaving. Like a cock ring. Rub the head up and down the pussy to spread the wetness.

Then jam it in.

Once your thrusting, you will stay hard.

Go get em, champ.

When she's on her back, start at the bottom where her legs meet and move up slow. Dick should slide right in.

yeah man ur stressing over this a little too much
i had the same problem rofl. jacked to too much porn i guess
if she rly leaves you over this shit she's not worthy anyways IMO

I realized I was stoned after I tried sticking it in. I noticed how awkward it must've been for her and that moment entirely just killed my buzz and my confidence and self esteem went out the window. I've never been more anxious in my life man. I'll definitely sober up next time

Sup Forumsro just get a little spit on your fingers and wet the tip of your dick (generously but not gross like). Sometimes she can be wet but need a little bit of lubrication on your dick on the way in.

Do this and it's a little more forgiving when it comes to getting it at the right angle. Once your in that first time you'll get it. I had trouble with that first penetration my first time.

If you're lucky she'll just think you lost your boner and won't realize you couldn't find her pussy. Either way, you shouldn't mention it. Tell her you want to make it up to her and do things right this time. If she asks what happened say you're not sure, like panicked or not thinking clearly or some shit if she keeps prying.

Worse case scenario is this shit gave you trauma and now you can't get hard, lol.

Yea, or you could just rub her some first to get her surrounding labia wet.

also by the sound of it she is a virgin as well? if so there's even less pressure so just enjoy it. if you're both 20 year old virgins its probably gonna be awkward the first couple times tbh. just power thru and you'll be fine. hopefully she's hot, that helps a lot too lol.

OP left to commit sudoku

use spit. on ur hand then rub it in