Hi Sup Forums

Hi Sup Forums

I feel bad, I am 22 years old and married to my husband who I love, only to be overwhelmed by the feelings of wanting other people.

I know I'm probably going to get called a slut, but I need to ask.. is this normal? You ever get these feelings? We have been married 3 years. I cheated on him once and I feel like a bitch for doing it.

Ok, I'm here because I've always had mental health problems, I was bullied and Craig is the only guy I've ever had sex with... Well other than that guy.

I just feel like i wanted stability in my life and he took care of me. But at the same time, I feel like I'm missing out. I sort of get horny and want new adventures but I feel selfish.

Craig is oblivious, but I do love him but I feel like this is something I want to do. I don't want to hurt him, but I don't want to split up because he is the only guy I wanna be with romantically and if he knew this he wouldn't want to be with me.

I'm so confused, do you suggest I split up with him or whatever?

Pic is me and him.

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Didn't even bother reading this shit, show me some titties or gtfo.

Jesus Christ , you're a wreck.

Don't cheat you whore.

This.
You don't deserve it.
End it and don't waste his time or yours.

I am not a wreck..

I just don't know what to do. Sensible answers please.

I understand. Ive been with my girl for 2 years and i love her but im bored with the sex. I want to try new weird things but she doesnt. So i get it

TBH it's pretty normal. Just don't do something that would make you regret it. Would you miss what you have now if it were gone? That's all you should think about. Don't punish someone who doesn't deserve to be punished.

Now. I'll give you a sensible answer because i am in the same situation but i found i way to cope with it.

First though, tits or gtfo.

Just flip a coin, whatever you hope it will land on while it's in the air tells you what to do, put him down easy though when you decide to see other people, treat him nice, give him a goodbye blowjob.

Break with him for him . If you really love him break cause your getting more pain and then your partner too.
Sorry 4 my bad english

This is a troll thread but.

Don't be a fucking pussy. If you want to fuck other people, get a no contest divorce. It's cheap, and you'll thank yourself later.

The mistake you made is marriage. I bet now you feel forced into it and feel confined so you want different people subconsciously knowing you cannot have them

ok as i see no one as being helpful, i'll step in. first of all, i absolutely understand where you're coming from and this is definitely a tough situation. definitely do not cheat on him, that really hurts a man although you already know this seeing as you said you have done it before.

it's really a choice you have to make between the romantic relationship with your husband or sex? which is more important to you?

there is no correct answer, and do NOT feel bad about yourself for whichever one you choose. just don't cheat on the guy. if you decide sex is more important, talk it over with him and end your relationship in a civilized, respectful and understanding manner.

actually if you get his consent there is a relationship where you can have another partner (polymorphic relationship) hope it helps, if not then ask him if he wouldnt mind a thresom every now and then :)

Idk why ppl get into marrige if not fully confident that they will be fully loyal and if that is what they want. Also if u are more into polygamy idk what the fuck are u doing with a husband

tits with timestamp or GTFO

You're 22. If you're already married, you're an idiot. All I have to say is you had this coming for marrying someone at 19

Just leave him you selfish cunt. He's a good man and it's not right that he should have to be with you a shit woman.

not you, also sage

Just get a divorce. You're not being fair at all so just let him move on with his life and you yours.

Yep

So, I sort of feel this void in my life and there's not much we can do?

That's the thing, I tried to split up with him once shortly after cheating and I broke down so bad, that I asked him back the next day and he told me if I ever pulled that shit again we're done. I really do love him, it's just I need to know if cheating on him is the right thing.

lmao coming to Sup Forums for relationship advice and not posting nudes come on u know the rules

Ill fuck the shit out of you and I wont say a thing to Craig.

This
>pic says James
>post days Craig
Hmmm really activated my almonds

Typical. You found a guy who treats you right and you cheat and sleep around behind his back.

You are a bitch.

Wow, you're fucking awful. Of coarse it isn't right you selfish cunt.

You are an idiot for getting married so early. Literally as a teenager. That's what is coming back to bite you now.

Don't fucking cheat. If you cannot not cheat then
1. You are a bitch, seriously what the fuck?
2. You should split up before you wreck both of your lives.

Fucking slut. Split up with him before you hurt the guy. Show me your snatch and tits while you're at it like the good whore you are.

Im scared of Sup Forums okay, I used a fake name because I don't want people to find my profile. I forgot I named that pic. I wish I could delete that filename.

this desu

tits, timestamp and sharpie in pooper or gtfo. No free advice here.

You see? That's the problem, you got married very young and you didn't have the time to live new experiences with other people.
Kids these days, shaking my fucking dick.

Dumb slut. Marrying at 19 yrs old? Come on now lmao.

> But he is the love of my life!
Said every teenager ever.

You idiots. Replying to this dumb bitch w/o timestamp? I'm out. By the way you're a slut OP.

Don't get what's so hard
Just talk to him about it, he is your fucking husband after all...

Well done brother, well said.

That's the thing I can't.. I love him too much.

You ever had depression, I found happiness and I wanted to grasp it and make sure it never went away and now I feel like I'm trapped... But also not.

I'd say they're just as important as each other. My depression is sort of coming back making me moody, why is cheating so bad when it keeps everyone happy? I mean, why is it such a bad thing?

That's actually really helpful... But how do I bring this up without offending him?

i would recomend you a swinger club

>everyone
Everyone but your bf. Quit your bullshit and leave the man at peace

Because I didn't know what I wanted, I only started getting these sexual feelings after I lost my virginity like my libido went up. I don't know why it's so hard to understand the concept of marriage.

Also... .i am not selfish, I am sorry okay I'm trying to make things right.

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OP u ve been discovered. but it does not matter. its normal for women to dream of life whenever they had the freedom. But u could not handle the the unsafetey, so this is where you are at.. Feel free to do whatever u want. its ur life.

just leave him
you're only making his life worse

Most likely bullshit troll, but in the off chance you are legit, I hope he's at least had several opportunities to pelt your face with semen. It's also a good bet he rubs his ham candle while thinking of other women. Your thoughts are not exclusive, but your self-absorbed cunty nature won't let you believe otherwise. In any event, your life is doomed and nothing will ever turn out the way you imagined with your Barbie dolls and EZ Bake.

>I am 22 years old and married
That right there is your problem. You are too young and have chosen to ignore your biological urges and try to live by Disney-level BS about love conquering all. Newsflash, humans are NOT monogamous, no ape species is and we are apes and, no, love doesn't conquer shit, you will still have your biological urges and they will make your life a living hell if you try to repress them and pretend they don't exist. Specially at such a young age when your hormones and your body is full ready for reproduction and has extra energy for sex, getting married or into stable relationships is more than dumb. That's why divorce rates are so high among people who marry young while they drop dramatically among people who marry in or after their 30s since you basically already dealt with all your urges and you can now settle down with a peace of mind knowing you already enjoyed your sexual liberation. So my suggestion is that you talk to your husband and convince him to have an open marriage using scientific facts as to why it will be better in the long wrong.

Damn girl you'd make a good cum dumpster. Ever considered doing porn?

Ok OP. I'm going to tell you like it is as a sensible answer.. Craig is not the right guy for you. What you did was completely wrong, and you can't change the past. So we can only work with what we know within the moment right now. Here's what you need to do. Cut Craig loose. You may love him and have strong feelings for him, but it sounds like he is not the right guy for you. When you meet the right guy, you won't desire other people. Trust me on that. It's because the other person completes you. Craig does not complete you. In fact, he is lacking something in a partner that you need subconsciously, and you may not even be able to figure out what it is exactly because it's an abstract feeling. Please OP, let him go. I know it's going to be sad. You both deserve somebody else, and if you continue the relationship, I fear that it may only go downhill from this point forward. Oh, and always remember that cheating is never the right thing to do. Don't ever do it again. You're not only hurting him deeply, but you're hurting yourself too if you really think about it. I hope this helps.

No. Timestamp first. Then we'll talk

Pic is you and Craig huh?

And james.jpg? Who's that?

How goddamn dumb do you think we are you retarded faggot?

I hope you get raped by meth-crazed Somalis.

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Do him and every good man a favour and leave him. He deserves far far better than this. You're giving into temptation. Now hurry up and leave him, fulfill your desires by having the worst sex of your life with strangers and then beg for him back while he takes a true lady into his life.

Also tits or gtfo, you know the rules.

Don't listen to this, this is BS. There's not such thing as "the right guy" or "the right girl". There is the right guy or girl for a moment or a time during your life but everything wears out, including relationships. The moment we start living in the real world and stop trying to think reality works like a fairy tale is when we can avoid many unnecessary suffering. So what if a person was everything for you at one point but not anymore? You still lived amazing moments with that person and will remember them so why not accept that things, including feelings change, and that people need to move on to different things like contexts or other people? Just grow the fuck up.

Cheating is never ok. Would like you like it if he fucked the cute blonde he knows?

If you want to fuck other people then break up first so he can go fuck other people or so he can find real wife material and live a truly happy life.

Lies lies and more lies.

You're scared of being found out so you change the filename of a PHOTOGRAPH?

If you don't realize how fucking pointlessly retarded this attempt at trolling is I change my mind; I don't just want you to get raped by meth-crazed Somalis, I want them to also sell you into the underground snuff trade after smashing out all your teeth.

You need to get weird with your husband but slowly. Try new shit so that you are constantly sexually engaged. slowly introduce him to kinkier and kinkier acts. Then start having threesomes, swinging etc. Be sexually liberated together. If he isn't into it and you still feel bored you need to leave.

Nobody cares, especially me if you believe me or not...

I was just telling you as it is. I am not trolling.... I named the pic James ages ago on my desktop and forgot to change it to Craig and didn't notice . What does it matter? You're probably a teenager who thinks 911 was a conspiracy.

wrong, there are "right" people out there for everyone, and even as feelings change, nobody is willing to work on their relationship anymore, which is why relationships fail these days... nobody sticks together anymore and its truly sad

WHY THE FUCK DO YOU STUPID FUCKS GET INTO RELATIONSHIPS THEN FUCKING CHEAT. ITS NOT LOVE ITS CALLED LUST THEN YOU RETARDS. For fuck sakes you guys are morons. If you truly fucking loved someone you wouldn't cheat on them. You all dont deserve to be in a relationship. Kill yourselves please. Its ridiculous already.

>craig treats me so well, he cared for me

>he is so perfect

>time to cheat on him

Please off yourself you complete fucking selfish bitch.

You are one stupid faggot.

id fuck craig in the ass and make you watch, whore

I'm upset now, wanna see my tits?

It's Samantha.halliwell at Gm ail

TITS OR FUCK OFF YOU NIGGER BITCH

I agree with this post. Especially the part where user said "Craig is lacking something"... leave Craig and let him meet a girl who he deserves and she deserves him... you will meet a guy in the same way too

I second this

You're being a typical selfish American who needs to grow the fuck up and take responsibility. Stop treating your husband like garbage.

You got merried too early. You should live first. So fuck around, enjoy and take care that you don't get cached.

Why the fuck would you marry someone in your 20's the fuck did you expect you dumb cunt you deserve theese feelings

BS. There's no person in the world that can give you everything you need. That's a fairytale mentality. You will always need others to really live a fulfilling live maybe not this year but probably next or in a decade. Marrying a persona and thinking that person will supply all your needs for the rest of your live is like having spaghetti for food for the rest of your life without eating anything else. Sure it will keep you alive but, even if spaghetti was your favorite dish, you will always need other types of food to really enjoy and develop your tasting potential and to be, overall, healthy. So fuck off with your Disney-based theories.

Lame. You tried to get the name "Craig" as close as you could to "Chad" without spoiling the troll. Right Becky?

You got married at 22, thats your problem. Its called settling down for a reason.

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I'm engaged. It's normal people will tell you otherwise because they never experienced it. Can't go through life eating big macs everyday. One day your gonna want to the try the whopper. Or Dave's hot and juicy never frozen beef.

Also tits or gtfo

>james.png
>Craig is the only guy I've ever had sex with

Get the names right at least next time.
Sage

No that's when your supposed to get married but we live in a time of the death of the adult.

wrong, we aren't talking about spaghetti, were talking about a fucking human being... it takes hard work and effort to stick together, and people do change, but that isn't enough to break an unbreakable bond between two people who truly love each other... like my grandparents... and I don't believe in Disney-theories. I go off of something that I have seen evidence for that I know exists... and yup, this is reality, not a fairytale

>I split up with him or whatever?
Whatever? You should have been more confident in your decision to get married. Either suck it up, talk to him about it or do some dumb shit you'll regret which would result in splitting up. Which would be an absolute waste of time, especially with the divorce papers.

Thank you. You've reminded me that I dodged a bullet and didn't marry a whore. Close one though.

You just can't get rid of stupid bitches on Sup Forums.
Nobody cares, kys OP. Sage.

since you only ever had sex with one guy your puss wants something different, so you cheated, when one is horny they cna do weird things but hte moment they come, they feel bad, its a human trait..now that you know that you will feel bad after you cheated on with your husband, DON' o it again...once is OK, twice makes you a whore, 3times makes you a SLUT.

There's an option of going on a short break and understanding yourself. You can always break up but coming back together is a different story. When I was reading your text, there were too many "but"s which tells me you are quite lost. Live alone, without him - understand whether you can do it or not. Maybe if you try what you desire so much - you will get over it after a few times. You never know until you try.

You're a piece of shit. Kill yourself.

can anyone track down this girl?
and ruin her life if possible
WE CAN DO IT Sup Forums

This.

Yes, it's normal. By today's standards, 22 is very young to be married, and wanting to play the field and get more experience is understandable. It might very well be something you regret if you don't do it. Not saying you need to, you have to make your own choice. It also might be the kind of thing that destroys the relationship later on down the road as that desire you ignored comes back undeniably, and then it's even a bigger deal than it would be now.

You can love someone forever. As a human finding you need to satisfy your own desires is normal. Shameless fun sex with a woman or man shouldn't be frowned upon. It satisfies that desire that's been eating at you. What's better going through life not full filling desire or holding your self back

>Hey, Sup Forums. This guy I keep on stalking on social has a lovely woman by his side and I'm feeling distraught because I'm a homo faggot and I am so desperate to jerk off to whatever shit you guys want to say about the girl or him because I secretly wish I was either of them!

Go back whence you came, degenerate.

Would you anyway show your titts to us?

>By today's standards, 22 is very young to be married

Buy todays lack of standards, rampant degeneracy and perpetual adolescence yes.

Currently running an image match scan across facebook and a few other sites, once I find the source of the image I'll be sending your husband screenshots of this thread. Enjoy, you little slut.

TBH I'd tear your little ass up as you're pretty hot, but gotta back a bro on this one.

HUSBAND???

TITS OR GTFO you disgusting piece of shit.

ITT someone jealous of Craig is posting as his wife out of beta frustration, and most of Sup Forums who replies is too fucking stupid to see that

Fakeandgay

I wasknow reading almost everything posted in this thread, and I assume youre stuck on choosing what you want

your husband or sex?


why not both? tell your husband you have other sexual desires and let him do that, ask for threesome or whatever, have a sexual adventure with your husband

chick, you just didn't want to hear that answer, that doesn't make it less sensible.
that dude is right, how would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot

What has Sup Forums become? Why are we starting to accept women who don´t show tits?
Why is the TITS OR GTFO rule ignored so often nowadays?
Has feminism beaten Sup Forums?

Your husband is pretty, any nudes of him?

who the fuck writes this shit seriously how fucking retarded are some of the people on this site