Why isn't a larger percentage of the population into being swingers at this point?
Be honest. Your mind drifts to the idea of fucking other people. And she just as well considers how other dicks would feel.
No one needs to be a cuck. You could just be fucking honest with each other and enjoy life.
because im not a commie and my women are my property.
This
Thirded.
We're slowly getting into it.
Might start having sex at a swinger club in front of others then start exploring
Quaded.
It's not the 60s anymore, Austin.
So insecurity. Fair enough.
Good luck, user. I just don't see the point of faking otherwise at this point.
I really wish I could have gotten into swinging. It's just that I've never been comfortable being naked around other guys. A real shame.
well, if locking my house, needing a key to start my car, and having a pin for my bank account makes me insecure too then alrighty.
Yeah, I get it, property. If you found some shitty chick who's down with that, kudos, man.
i like having sex with many other women.
i do not enjoy my wife having sex with other men.
So what i do, is i do this new cool thing, called "cheating"
it's pretty awesome, and it works way better than letting fat old hairy faggots fuck your wife, and then smile and shake your hand afterwards.
My way is better.
lol, looks like we found the cuck, guys!
catching stds like pokemon lel
real men dont cheat.
they make their own rules.
She's probably cheating on you too, then, bud.
your wife probably also knows that "cheating" strategy
You win. That's me.
real men don't do what user's on the internet tell them to do. they do what they want.
I hear what you're saying, but in this case, you aren't correct. We have 4 kids, she never leaves the house. (I ask her to go out, ALL the time, and offer to watch the kids, happily, but she never does... it sucks. i wish she would go do something, for her own sake.)
Tryed it, finished before the whole action started. They continued, i could just watch them having fun... Not as fun as it sounds
You don't just bareback it indiscriminately. Who just doesn't fuck someone they're into because STDs are a thing.
I'm sort of a cuck anyways but I've been swinging around with my friend's and their girlfriends just out of shear boredom. It's been like two years now since we started and I'm to use to it that at this point seeing other people sleep with my girlfriend doesn't even phase me anymore.
I've gone that route, but it ends up feeling crappy, when you can just be open with each other and do what you want. If you like fucking other women but don't want your wife to fuck other men, you're a fucking insecure piece of shit. There's no real discussion. You're a fucking faggot, and it must suck being so insecure, but you're fucking sad. No one cares.
well, none of those things are true. but it's fun to assume things, so i get it.
Have fun with all that.
But do you swing as well, or just her? Not that I actually give a shit, whatever works, but it's not really swinging if it works one way and not the other.
I guess.
My wife is bi so we bang chicks together, never had a better wingman.
If she wanted to have sex with another couple I'd try it, but can't complain here.
>she's bringing dudes back to the house to fuck while you're gone
Then., again, fair enough. I don't get it, but if it works for you, whatever. Have fun with your thing.
You say at this point, but why? Swinging was much bigger in the past. 60s 70s.
I swing as well with my friend's girlfriend and swing with my friends. Otherwise that's just being a cuck if she just does it by herself.
IMO the least you can do is be honest with your significant other, otherwise you are a piece of shit
The thing is I consider having a legacy to be super important. I don't want to dilute it by fucking around and opening the door to fucking useless drama.
Because part of being human is being capable of rising above the barnyard. Not for everyone, obviously. No one expects nigs and you and other lesser mammals to transcend.
The drama thing's way valid. No one needs that shit.
Know the feeling. Gf is bi. Went to Thailand with her. Shit was epic.
You deserve to be cheated on though.
again, no she doesn't. If she wanted another dude, she knows i wouldn't get in her way, and wouldn't bring it around the kids. our house. neither would i.
you're clearly 12 and don't understand shit. it's fine.
i'm not sure if you're Op or not, but if your thing is swinging, i have nothing against that either. it's fine.
Although my current situation is as descibed, we had a 3 year run of having an "open relationship" which is pretty close to swinging, except i don't have to meet the other dude.
Anyway, yeah, whatever works.
I also wanted to clarify that my wife is aware that i occasionally sleep around. and she also has the right to do so (but rarely does)
Our relationship isn't founded on monogamy, it's founded on 'love' as gay as that sounds.
Haha, you tell me what you've done that's so great, and I hope it's impressive.
probably, yes. but i'd be fine with that.
agreed my chick is mine
Jealousy is insecurity and immaturity. I would never be with a guy who would want a monogamous relationship because he saw me as his property and felt threatened by other guys. That's pathetic.
So you might as well swing and at least be honest
becouse me and my girl don t measure our success in life by how much sex and how many partners we got.
but we are not 17 anymore, so that s a point.
My wife and i I are considering inviting another couple into our bed, finding a dude for me and a girl for her, were both bi and I'm a top. She wants to watch me fuck another guy. I'd love to watch her and another girl fuck. We've just never done anything like this and have been talking about it, but we are looking for another couple
i don't like meeting the other guy.
and, honestly, i've pitched swinging to her, and she has no interest.
the wife doesn't have an exceptionally high sex drive these days.
4 kids, she's either pregnant, or breast feeding. Hormones fucked. can't drink boose... not open to new sexy ideas, lol.
I think maybe i'm being too 'open' for a Sup Forums thread...
whatever....
But yes. you aren't wrong. we're only a few cunt hairs away from swinging. but i still stand by my original statement.
I'm going to assume most of the population are insecure about the idea of having their partners shared with someone else. Totally understandable since I use to be insecure but after I went out my comfort zone I found my relationship to be more opened and meaningful. Sex is just sex but at the end of the day if she really cares or loves you she'll come back to you.
It's a struggle to find a good gf so why would you ruin it by letting a random dude fuck her. The whole point in having a gf/wife is that she's loyal to you.
Tits or gtfo
Kudos for owning it cuckboy. Enjoy never having a woman respect you.
A dude wrote this. Not many women are into swinging unless they have no at atraction left with their current partner
what
Whatever works, man. Do you. I may not get it, but if it's what works, fuck it.
Why have a relationship when you can be room mates and/or basically friends with benefits?
Agreed, pretty much. Monogamy is fine, but it either goes both ways, or don't be a fucking faggot, basically.
UK here.
Me and my wife go to swingers clubs but she only fucks other women while I fuck her or just watch. I never fuck other women and she never fucks other men. Works well for us.
We can compare life stories some time. I have plenty of respect. I'm not saying monogamy sucks, but if it's not your thing, then just fucking own it, that's all. Clearly, this doesn't relate to you.
Ehh "not many" means that there still are women who would swing. I personally don't do it because social anxiety, but I would like to do it. My boyfriend is find with it, if I did it, he also fucks other girls, and I really like when he tells me about how he fucks them. Its fucking sexy. I think most people would like swinging if they weren't so, what is it called, "I own my partner"-like.
Then you've got it made. Whatever works 100%. Nice.
You just don't know how a healthy relationship works. If you like your current partner then you wouldn't need to be fucked by another dude. The few women who are into it are forced by the man or the man has no sex drive
My wife expects monogamy
I want to fuck other women but I don't want a messy divorce so I jerk off to porn regularly when I am horny
And the men who cheat are...?
Maybe women like getting fucked as much. It's not such a stretch.
>every woman demands being sole property of man.
>jealousy is not over what happens to man but attention paid to other woman
>women desire to be SOLE property of man
Holy fuck, shut the fuck up cunt, like you know anything about what works for other people. Stop being arrogant. "the few women who are into it are forced by the man". You really couldn't be more wrong.
The key to swinging is make the rules first. If you trying to get your girl to go make it about seeing her and not about you with other women because most women don't like the idea but I've seen many new couples come threw the club doors who were "just coming to look" and 2 hours later were in the middle of a orgy.
Anyone UK based should check out Atlantis evolution in stoke. My advice is go on Saturdays because it's couples night so it's 50/50 where of you go on a Friday night and singles and couples and it's prob 90% men. Just remember only 30% of people actually do full swap swinging. The other 70% just go to watch and they enjoy being watched or they just soft swing.
Either way give it a go it's amazing!
Herpdy derp, retard.
>never been with a woman
>poli-sci-fi creation
You answered yourself in comment. women get fucked. by man. they also get pregnant dipshit. which just so happens to be the point of sex.
they give birth to things and not always actual children.
Agreed, you know it beforehand, or it's a fucking disaster. Sometimes it's still a disaster because the other person doesn't know what they're signing up for, but the up-frontedness is HUGE.
only property is still property you glib fuckwit. But no- that SOUNDS sexist or whatever so herpa derpa diddly doo, let's all be retards about everything and act like we're on fucking dawson's creek.
They don't get pregnant if you know what you're doing, dumb fuck. Yes, that's always a risk, but you don't fucking just pump your seed without discrimination.
Don't give a shit. Enjoy your property, I'll enjoy my ladies with a brain. No right or wrong, I just don't need that level of pathetic.
learn to read you dumbfuck. All the people on here suggesting men and women are the same, especially when it comes to desiring sex are deluded assholes.
>but muh tinder
>but I just wun have fun
>but I know this perc'd out bitch
>but muh politics
Well, I gained a PhD, married a woman with a PhD, went into academia and got tenured, had two sons.
But look, mere bestial rutting is fun. I fucked lots of women before I settled down.
As a place to stay, though? Pathetic.
What people don't realise is there is a small swingers party on pretty much every housing estate in the U.K. Every weekend where couples online open their houses to other couples for fun.
Only dumb people don't think this is going on and it comes from all aspects of society. Killing kittens is pretty much the high end of the scene and I'm happy to have been a member for 2 years, it's not cheap and you have to submit pics for full memberships but when you get there you see why is a bit more
Choosy.
Yeah, Ok. You live in a social construct but call reality one as a socialist.
Women have brains as women. They don't have brains which form other brains inside themselves.
Yeah spot on, prob seen about 50 couples come into clubs over the last few years and seen them storm out because the partner did more with someone than they agreed to. It does happen that's why you have to make the rules first.
Women don't have a lower sex drive than men, it depends on the individual and no I'm not talking gender politics. You obviously just attract boring girls.
Who here likes dp?
ok ill bite.
fucking another girl isnt worth someone fucking mine. unless i specifically had that kind of relationship with a girl, which i usually don't really want.
What does sex drive have to do with anything.
They're sex drive is directed at themselves and foundationally desires to be loved- esp. emotionally and intellectually. They desire to be paid attention to by someone who loves them.
The sex drive is not just a corrupted male libido.
IOW, women can desire sex not in the same way as manchildren who use women to rub their wiener, stimulate nerve endings and make them feel 'alpha' in the most pathetic way imaginable.
tl;dr
>men and women are different
>esp. sexually
>women have sex drive doesn't mean they have same sex drive as nu-male faggots
In reality women desire sex, not men. Men desire women, not sex. How absurd sounding that last part is how fucked up modern people are re: gender a evidenced by this faggotry, ..
Wrote all that for a fucking 404- you faggots.
Sounds kinda AIDSy.
>they're = they are
>think you meant, uh, THERE...
Fuck off back to r-e-d-d-i-t with you're pseudointellectual bullshit. It belongs their... And learn how to spell...
Hm I'll think more about that.
Tits, ass, hands, feet, armpits, face, hair, thighs-
Everything but pussy. There's no pussy in this pic.
Some stupid assholes mouth is blocking the pussy.
Some other man is blocking my pussy...
Women are more fulfilled when under the caring control of a dominant man, even if they would not consciously choose that state in so many words.
Status and the feeling of being desireable is at least as important to them as sexual release.
Some of this incentive structure is tied up in the family culture that we have been eroding for decades, so I'm sure we'll see this behaviour become more acceptable, as people become more atomized and unfulfilled.
Because most people don't want herpes?
Its the woman who have complete control in 99% relationships and I guess that's because they like being the one charge.
I read this post in Norm MacDonald's voice and it was glorious.
Oh do behave
What the hell are you talking about? Get your butthurt out of here. If you can't handle a different kind of sex then go be a normie elsewhere
Same. And same.
Because jealousy is a thing
I do the same, bunch of people will sperg out but I cheat on my wife and have for years.
I have no love lost for her but when some easy sex falls in my lap I accept it
I'm bumping because my girlfriend and I are talking about this thread and I like where it's going
One half of people here says they cheat on their wives and the other half says that they would like to fuck other women but wouldn't like that other men fucked their wives. Seriously. Same rules for for both.
That's not it. Stop believing your own delusions.
Yes I was generalizing people in this threat, but it is still true that most people here say that. What triggered you?
Haha, I reread it in his voice. Kudos, user.
Fucking fantastic man lol Reply of the year. Someone screen capture this
Nice.