ITT: Anons tell me what they'd like to accomplish and I coach them through it. Consider me your life coach for anything

ITT: Anons tell me what they'd like to accomplish and I coach them through it. Consider me your life coach for anything.

i wanna kill myself

how do i get faggots like you to stop posting retarded shit like this?

And what is your current reality at the moment? Why haven't you accomplished that already?

What is the goal you're trying to accomplish by doing that?

Planning on starting a band with some friends. Any band names or tips?
Probably gonna be playing a variety of grunge, metal progressive
So just rock as an idea

I need to buy something to drink.

What has stopped you from doing that up to this point?

to have you and other people like you to stop posting in this thread, and to prevent you and other people like you from making another one

What have you done so far to start this band? Why haven't those things worked yet?

>look i'm socrates

My girlfriend of three years broke up with me for being a negligent boyfriend. I'm 20, in community college failing, jobless, a little chubby, and hate my life. What do I do?

So the goal is to stop me from posting in my own thread and/or to get me to stop posting in any threads at all. I'm skeptical that this is your true goal.

Let me put it this way - what does you getting me to stop posting in my own thread or other threads accomplish for you? I think the answer to that question is probably your goal.

I want to suck and fuck my cousin.
I blew him once when he was asleep

perfect name for a band right there. Glad I could help.

Are there any barriers stopping you from doing that again? What are they?

You're skeptical but you don't know for sure, and you expect other people to take your advice? fuck off

I dont know what i want. Nothing feels worth the effort.

im not trying to accomplish anything, i just want to know how to get you to stop

I'm following a coaching model called "G.R.O.W." (Goal, current Reality, Options, Way forward) if that helps you understand my intent. This model involves giving the coached person a path to coming up with their own solution. Establishing the real "goal" is really the most important part of the discussion and getting it right pretty much guarantees the outcome of the rest of the conversation. Some practitioners of GROW would even say you should always challenge someones first response to "what is your goal" not to overturn it but to make them truly understand whether it really is their goal or not. But upon prodding, it is possible to accept the goal as the real goal after challenging the person being coached to insist that that is in fact their goal.
Ok. I think we recognize your goal is to stop me from posting in my own thread and not post in others. Next step: "current Reality". What have you tried so far? Why has it not worked?

Workout, study and read 4shits. Make sure your degree is in a tech field.

I want to bang my wife's sister.

i haven't tried anything and i had no expectation for anything to work, i could only wish

What is your primary goal right now? You're single, fat, jobless and failing classes.

Do you want to pass your classes? Get a job? lose weight? get a girl? What is it?

What are the current circumstances that have contributed to you not reaching your goal so far?

Do you want to know what you want?

Let's pretend for a moment you really could accomplish your goal. How would you do it? What are your options?

Yes. How would you go about this?

did u just recently have a psychedelic trip user

let's not

you could accomplish my goal for me if you just leave

or did you not actually care about helping us?

What have you tried so far to figure out what you want? What has stopped you from accomplishing that goal?

I went through corporate management training. Pretty similar though in almost every way.

I turned tricks on the street corner for a few weeks to see if that helped, but it didn't.

I care about helping you figure out how to accomplish your goal. That's my goal. I actually don't care if you accomplish it or not. That's your goal to care about that.

I feel like swallowing my own cum but I can never bring myself to do it

That sounds like it might narrow down your list of things that you want (or things you don't want).

What are some other things you could do to figure out what you want?

What is the closest you've come? Why did you back off that time?

Cause near the end I stop being horny enough to do it

I want to FUCK you help me.......
Please....

so you won't see how stupid you are and leave?

op please stop preaching this "anything is possible" mentality.

sure anything is possible if you work hard enough, i get your message. any obstacle can be overcome.

there are other factors in life and the way the universe works, some people are here to fail. some people are here to lose and be relatively nothing in the end.

the problem is individual motivation.
people can make their own reasons to live but things like mental illness and disability can indeed make certain things impossible to reach without help. some people just give up and cant be changed. its best to just worry about yourself and help when help is asked for. preaching all this everything is peachy and life can be great with goals just makes you look like an ass.

No-nonthing. How do oyu even figure what you want?

Everytime i've tried doing something, i quit in half year. I tried learning the instrument, left it. I tried learning prorgaming, left it as well. I tried loosing weight, at certain benchmark i started to feel weird, like disonance and got fat again.

I think what might work would be to try different experience, but those in itself seem uninteresting.

What's stopping me... probably myself being colossal faggot.

try changing your environment.
aka moving / jumpin state.

I want to find a gf

things preventing me
>height
>weight
>face
>social ineptitude

I think your stupid and don't see all the pocture op .............

shop in your budget. love is better and easier than sexy.

Is there any way you could stay horny after cumming?

Nigger you're supposed to have the answers here.

That's not my message at all. The job of a coach is to help people figure out how to accomplish something - or to realize they can't. My job is only to ask the questions that get you there.

Shut up. This thread is much more interesting than any of those porn threads around here. Sure, your right but i feel a lot of us is held by our rigid mind, by our fears, and prejudices and if OP will help us overcome those, it's awesome result. If not, nothing of value was lost.

why do you believe those things are stopping you?

I never said I had answers. I said I would be your life coach. This means helping you find the answers. If I gave you the answers, you'd be accomplishing my goals, not yours.

Ah you're shit and you have no answers at all.

fair enough. good luck thread

Want to wipe out the Jews.
Wat do?

I would like to have romance in my life

What is my goal?
>satisfy the biological imperitives of >sex and love

Current reality

>autistic
>adhd
>attractive but retarded
>shitty job but ok money

because no could love a 5'4 fatass with a face like mine, who talks to himself, and can's hold a conversation for more than a minute

What have you tried so far? Why hasn't it worked?

what have you tried to find love and sex, despite what you see as barriers?

what are ways you might try to overcome this?

I go to the gym 4x a week, pay more attention to my wardrobe and grooming

I try and put myself out there as much as possible and talk to anyone whether I would date them.

I haven't found anyone really interested in me, last date was 1.5 years ago.

lose weight, get gains i guess. my confidence issues are both kinda inherited and due to me being a 4.5" dicklet.