How do I tell my girlfriend that i'm bored in our relationship without totally destroying her heart? we've been together for a year and a half.
I honestly have a hard time getting sexually aroused by her sometimes. She likes to text on a hourly basis, but for the last 6 months I have waited a couple hours every morning so I can have time to myself because I often feel pestered by her texts. She doesn't know this. I feel like we argue a lot more than we laugh. But she still says how much she loves me and wants to be with me.
How can I tell her my feelings without her dying inside.
Levi Richardson
fake ur death like in spy movies
Liam Bailey
send her this thread
Matthew Scott
Just create a whole new life huh?
Kevin Jones
Don't be a fucking pussy. Tell her the truth. If you can't be honest, then you don't belong together. Also, a year and a half ain't shit bro.
Aaron Hughes
But the fucking feels. Im a pussy about this situation.
Ethan Ward
This is the cold hard truth. You might not like it, but it will be the best for her. Tell her you've been cheating on her. She will be able to leave and feel like she did nothing wrong and that youre just a piece of shit douchebag. If you try breaking up any other way she'll whine about how much she loves you and your breaking her heart and bla bla blah and it'll take her a very long time to move on and get over you. Telling her you cheated will help her to move on, end the relationship quicker, and ultimately help her grow as a person.
Xavier Wood
yea, or at least keep that plan B if plan A doesn't work
Carson Bailey
Im a fucking pussy faggot and cant muster the courage to break her heart.
Alexander Edwards
you have to tell her the shit she does that annoys you, otherwise she can't change or know that it bothers you. communication is key and fair. whether it saves the relationship or not, you owe that to her.
Robert Anderson
start sucking cock
David Lee
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Jordan Wright
this user sounds like he knows what hes talking about. rolling! dubs decides, right?
Josiah Brooks
rolling
Julian Butler
I'm in this exact same situation.
William Reed
what have you done so far
Carter Sanchez
sexually degrade that whore until she begs to be untied. also pics
Chase Reyes
Just be honest with her, OP. Don't lie or make up some shit to try and soften the blow. Be a man and tell her the truth. Maybe you guys can work through it. Maybe not. But you shouldn't stay together if it isn't working for you and you shouldn't waste her time with something that won't last.
Bentley Diaz
I'll tell you what I did and it took about a year for us to break up. I did absolutely nothing. I didnt respond to text for days at a time and would just leave my phone dead and say I forgot to charge it. Didnt have any social media so sometimes we didnt talk for a week. She'd get super pissed and think I was cheating on her. She got mad wed never hangout. But she didnt wanna break up either. It took us about a year of me doing this for her to finally end it. And I'm pretty sure she was fucking another dude for the last few months. Anyway, good luck being a cuck faggots
Levi Fisher
Thanks for the input, i hope youre right user.
Gavin Campbell
OP you worried too much about hurting her feelings but you are putting hers before yours. Smash her fucken phone. Tell her that you are tired of her bullshit. If this doesn't change. It's over!
Angel Hall
You'll get through it, OP. Best of luck.
Robert Parker
Just be honest. If you hold it back it'll blow up eventually
Mason Gutierrez
Just man up...shes clingy, and thats not a good sign... She wants to know where you are at all times, what you're doing, who you're talking to, where your going... Not a good sign op...I'm 52, divorced and have been through all that shit...it won't end well unless you end it. God speed user...
Jaxon Allen
this dude is right tbh if she doesn't know there is a problem it will also just hurts even more because it seems so sudden
Grayson Sanchez
I was in the same boat as you until I found an oasis called the strip club. If you feel that burning in your heart to leave the women you use to love, let it turn into dollar dollar bills to satify your need for intimacy.