Hey Sup Forums I'm 19 and about to enlist in the air force should I marry my girlfriend that I've been dating for 3...

Hey Sup Forums I'm 19 and about to enlist in the air force should I marry my girlfriend that I've been dating for 3 years

No. You should not get married to a girl you met in high school when you are 19.

Nope.

FiddlyDingus

There are hundreds of millions of women in the world close to your age, and tens of millions who are close to your age, single, and eligible.

Of those tens of millions of women, you think the one who might be a fantastic fit is the same one you were forced to attend classes with for a few years.

fuck off normie

You'll never see her again if you don't. Military marriages go through strains. She might not be able to hanle that.

if you marry her, cheat on her every single opportunity you get, she'll be doing the same.

she WILL be doing the same.

OP here. I mean she has never cheated on me before. Do chicks really turn into whores when their husbands are gone?

She is 19. Her history is nothing. She has had 'someone' with her since she was in the 10th grade. She has never been alone. Hell she hasn't even been an adult for very long. She will find that she has a ton of offers and interested parties who want to give her attention and you will be away.

look at the statistics of marriages working for first term enlistees.

Think to yourself: What do I got that can beat those odds?

to add to that, is the potential for every shitty thing involved in divorces worth the extra $1,200 per month for housing?

The Air force already has the best standard of living for its single junior enlisted as it is, is it really worth it?

If it were me talking to someone else I'd say fuck her and enlist and go fuck whoever you want, but I love her

Don't marry until you're past a year in so you can be sure it can be worked out.

elope don't marry.

well your choice is marry a girl you have known for years who is young and a virgin before you came along (hopefully) or you can break it off and fine some girl 5 years later who is several years older and has ridden the cock carousel for years and couldn't give a fuck about you as a person

choice is yours son.

This

When I was in, you went to an Afghani whorehouse and got 5 tokens for $50 and each token was good for a pop

Marry but make sure she still lives at home not only would you get BAH but also separation pay, and you'd be living in the bricks making bank

The bulk of the benefits you will work for will go to her and she will leave you. Especially if she is good looking. She will be in a position where she can find a better guy and YOU will pay for it.

Prenupt

>about to leave for airforce
>marry girlfriend
lol what

quite likely, shared background is VIP, mknowing some1 when u were at ur peak hotness iis gud too

NO NO NO NO NO

Those only cover assets you went into the marriage with. If you are married for any length of time they mean very little. I know dudes who owned companies before they got married, like good size dozens of employees millions of dollars per year companies. Then they got married. Had kids. Their wives did nothing. When the divorce came around the guy didn't lose half of his business shares but did he did lose 1/3rd of them. She also signed paper work that was notorized twice stating that the ownership was exclusively his during their marriage.

All it did was prevent her from getting half. A prenup may get you 1/3rd of loss instead of 1/2 of a loss. If she is smart and greedy she will be pulling money out ahead of itme anyway.


Serious dude. On one hand there are young guys who think prenups will protect them and on the other hand there are guys in their 40s and 50s who the prenup did nothing for.

Fuck. Her grandparents are lawyers so id be boned. I'm fucking poor

Let me tell you a story. Listen up, this is important.

I met a girl online when I was newly single at the age of 18. I had been with my previous girlfriend 4.5 years. This new girl was everything I wanted: Asian, track star of her college, slim, fit, super hot.

We became fast friends, she was perfect. Dressed sexy but classy, invited me over to cuddle and watch anime. We took care of each other when we were sick.

Literally pretty much my dream girl at this point in life. I supported her life goals, she supported mine. We equally drove to each other, never had any issues. Just lots and lots of fun. We became really close over time, sharing secrets, and bonding to the core.

Eventually, it led to more. Things got pretty hot and heavy, and I was super happy about that. She seemed like she was too. I really couldn't believe it.

At this point it was like I was dating my best friend, I was so happy. Honestly sounds dumb AF but I felt like I found "the one". She matched everything I wanted.

Well, one night we're watching something. Things get hot and heavy again, then in the middle of it she gets a phone call. And she answers it.

"Hi, hey babe how are you?"
>wtf. jpg
"blah blah blah... yeah ok, love you too, bye!"
>explain.gif

......"Oh that was my husband"

your fucking WHAT?

We were 19 at this time. Apparently she explained to me she was married - her husband was in the military (airforce I think) stationed in some far-away state.

We hung out, dated, etc, for like 7+ months before I found this out. Everything I wanted crumbled around me in one single night.

She tried to stay friends with me, but I found out she visited her husband, got pregnant, had an abortion, then became a relatively well known pornstar later in life.

Now I get to watch her getting dicked down by lots of different guys online.

Moral of the story: Don't ever fucking marry your 19 year old girlfriend and especially not if you're going into the military.

if you do it at least wait a deployment dude honestly its not worth it

And whatever you do make in the AF will go to her.

Do not get married. Its hard to accept that at 19 you are stupid. I didn't want to. But I look back on my 19 year old self and fuck I was dumb. Your 30+ year old self will come to the same conclusion. DO not make such a big decision at this dumb point in your life. If she goes then let her go. She has more options that you do and will for another decade or so.

I mean that's a fair answer, but it also depends on state, my first marriage failed while in the marine corps, had her dign a prenuptial, and made sure she worked, reason being in my state, prenup or not if I supported her for more than 2 years, she'd be entitled to half regardless, either way OP, do what's best for you, echo 6 mike out

Do it op. Get that bah.

underageban

No. Go enjoy yourself, see the world, bomb other countries, fuck their women.

give me her porn name faggot.

this is 2017 not 1939

You've probably already seen her, and I don't want to contribute to it any more than need be.

and you are officially a faggot who made that story up.

KYS degenerate faggot.

If you both love each other then marry her OP. But first do a degeneracy test - if she has any leftist tier view kick her to the curb.

Believe whatever you want, it's not made up. But this is the internet so you're free to choose.

why would you marry her so in the very likely chance you grow apart she gets money from you the rest of ur life

Do not marry her. Was with girl for 3 years ( I was a year older than her) When I was ready to attend uni, she said if I moved away that I would be around hot girls and would cheat (even though I really thought I loved the girl and had NO intention of doing so). So I cucked out and commuted 4 days a week. When she signed up for classes the next fall, she moved a whole state away but promised it would be alright. Within 2 months, she called me up one evening and told me some guy in one of her classes danced with her at a social and she had feelings for him. She broke up with me over the phone right then and there. No, do not revolve your life around a 19 year old girl. You have your whole life ahead of you.

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