Hey Sup Forums. I need your advice/help...

Hey Sup Forums. I need your advice/help. I've been with my boyfriend a year amd recently he's brought up wanting a three way. I'm the only girl he's been with, and he mentioned he was bummed about that. I'm not the absolute skinniest, but I'm not fat either. The idea of him touching someone else makes me cry yo because (despite him saying it isn't) it feels like he'd be cheating on me. Have any of you wanted to have a three way while having your partner self conscious? If so, did you go through with it or no?
Pic related becauae its what he wants.

Tell him you'll do it but with two guys, not two girls.

This is partly to do with self-esteem, partly to do with the fact its a bad idea to have a three-way with someone you love.

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Tits or gtfo

>I'm not the absolute skinniest, but im not fat either

Lose some weight, i guarantee you that's the issue. You're fatter than you think.

He refuses to do anything with another guy. I used to be bicurious, so he keeps adding in that "well you like women so what's so wrong with three people?" He's also into impregnation type things.

I'm only 150 and the majority of weight is in my tits. I'm not as skinny as him though.

Literally just tell him you're uncomfortable with that because you would get jealous, and take a strong stance on it. If he's any kind of lover he'll respect that.

Guy has an urge to spread his seed. I felt the same way a while with my girl. Almost made it happen too, but I decided the bond would be sullied by it.

All you have to do is turn him on a fuck ton then give him a mind blowing orgasm. He'll be alright for a good while, just keep it up and he's yours

>only 150
I hope for your sake that's you're a fair bit taller than average.

Dump him. If your man doesn't love you and only you he is wasting your time.

If you are open to the idea at all, just make the deal that you get to pick who the chick is, and pick someone you want to fuck, or someone you feel you are more attractive than. Your man won't care if she's not as attractive as you, he'll just care that he has a 3some about to happen. And if it's someone that you want to fuck, then it won't be like cheating, it's more you are getting what you want and he gets to benefit from it too. The only other suggestion would be compromise and tell him only if you get to have a MMF 3some first, but you would have to give him the same concessions of choice.

tits with time stamp or gtfo

I'm willing to do anything he wants me to do, except this. He's made comments about being bummed I'm the only one he's ever had, but I'm not his only.

Post tits

I'm not open to the idea though. And he told me i can pick the other person so long as they arent ugly and fat. They can be bigger than me, but can't exceed 200.

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How old are you and your bf?

People are different and can handle different things.
If you don't like the idea this will always end badly. So just say no.

He's 23 and I'm 21

It isn't about how you look like, or what are his feelings for you. You're the only girl he's ever been with, and he's probably thinking that he'll spend the rest of his live with you.
He's just envious of all the guys who got to sleep around before meeting "the one", so he wants to see what it's like to be with other girls, but doesn't want to lose you. If you plan to go through on this, you have to acknowledge that this is just sex and the only girl he truly wants is you. Try to make it an experience you would both enjoy, just pick a girl you also want to fuck and make that threesome into something like a fun couple activity, pleasuring the girl together.

>guy wants sexual satisfaction
>"give it to him yourself"
>"I'm willing to do anything except that"
You wot?

>bummed I'm the only one he's had
>but I'm not his only
Bitch do you hear yourself?

If he's this set on having his dick in another woman then he's going to do it with or without your permission at some point. Once he's got a taste, he won't stop there. There is no way this can possibly end happily. If he relents and says he won't do it, he'll always be thinking about it, resenting you for not going through, you'll always be wondering who he's thinking of fucking. Dump him and find someone who wants no cheating/to be monogamous only. There are 7 billion other humans out there, there will be someone else for you guaranteed.

tits and timestamp or gtfo

Just fuck your boyfriend then fuck the other girl together

Team building exercise.

He's not my only*
I'm willing to do anything except a three way*

I'm on my phone

Tell him you'll do a mff, but only if he does mmf first.

Then get the other guy to fuck your bf in the ass, and break up with him for being gay.

First realize sex and love are two different things. He's probably freaking out about only ever being with one person. I'm guessing you've been with more than one?

THIS /thread

say you'll do it but you get to fuck someone you've always wanted to. If he agrees its fair, if not then you know he just wants to cheat without repercussions.

Ask him to do a threesome with another guy... if he's down, then shut your mouth...if he gets weird then tell him that's how it makes you feel

>but can't exceed 200

Just go to Boston and book a whale watching excursion. Sounds like you'd both be happy.

Me too. Anyways, find a way to satisfy your man and you'll keep him. Don't go asking him what he wants, just go for it, you know him

I've been with three. One not by choice though. My ex boyfriend cheated on me for months then dumped me because i found out and got upset. One of the major reasons I have an issue with this is i find someone sticking their dick in someone else while with someone else.

He refuses to evem think about it because he's straight. He won't even watch open if there's a guy in it.

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agree to take part, but only if he only fucks you. You can interact with the other girl, but he can't.

I pushed my ex-gf to have a threesome with another chick towards the end of our nearly three-year relationship (and we did). I'm a guy and was wondering if grass was greener... and I'm fairly certain it was one of the reasons she broke up with me, since ever afterwards she wasn't the same person.

That's a double-team, not a threesome.

Idk it seems kinda selfish that you want to be his only sex partner for however long you guys have been together/are gonna stay together. Like I said love and sex are separate things and just because he wants to experiment physically doesn't mean he doesn't want you emotionally. But then idk how long you 2 have been dating or if it's all that serious

>I'm the only girl

Tits and timestamp. You are male until further notice

if i found out a girl had a threesome id think less of her for it, as any healthy person would

good job

But the whole point of him wanting a three way is so he can stick himself in someone else. He wouldn't do it without my consent, according to him.

I'm the type that is very monogamous and hate the idea of sharing with anyome else when I'm in a relationship. We've been together a year and have started to talk about a future together.

So many white knight replies and still no tits

You're obviously uncomfortable with doing this. If he's uncomfortable going mmf, then he should know exactly why you're uncomfortable.
Who cares if you're bi or whatever -- you're not comfortable with him being with someone else. If he doesn't want to see another dude naked because his masculinity is that fragile, then get him to close his eyes. If he's too uncomfortable still, then I guess he's not getting his fantasy.

then he just wants to cheat. He doesn't care about you and only cares about fucking someone else. He'll do it with or without you. Leave him and find someone more confident, your sex life will be better for it.

So you want him to be with one person for the rest of it when you've had your chance to experience others?
Kinda seems selfish

In my defense, i was younger, stupid, and felt pressured and the other one i didn't get a choice. If it were my choice, he would be my only

That's not the whole point of having a threesome. My wife is chubby and we carried on a relationship with a skinny chick for half a year. For me, a big part of it was seeing my wife interact sexually with another woman, while I'm also involved. Having three people in a room enjoying themselves sexually is pretty fucking hot, and if you strike the right balance, can be waaaaay better than 1 on 1 sex.

not if the guy fucks her boyfriend

HASHAAHAHHAHAHAHAH

oh ok

yeah have fun with this dude and your happily forever after fantasy while it lasts

But it's too late for that and even if it wasn't you can't honestly say that you don't ever think of the possibility of sexually exploring.
Everyone even those I'm commited monogamous relationships at least think about it

Im on the same boat as your bf OP. Only been with my gf. And i was fine because she told me shes only been with me. Turns out she lied and found out that she was the cum bucket of her high school. Your bf probably thinks it's unfair or some shit.

I can sense the denial already

Realize that since your bf hasn't been with anyone else, you're statistically unlikely to stay together without some kind of cheating and forgiving going on. I hate to bum you out, but that's reality.

I'd move on personally. He's right that he needs experience. Hes wrong to think he can get it while will with you, considering your feelings towards the idea.

On a side note, it's not as exciting of an experience as one makes it out to be in their head, but it's even less so if you're already inexperienced.

Also, consider the hypocrisy of your boyfriends reluctance to the mmf threesome. Any reasonable person would realize that there's going to need to be some kind of quid pro quo.

Good luck.

The more you talk with him about a future, the more he'll start thinking about the sexual encounters he might never have if he remains monogamous. Having a threesome is a milestone a lot of dudes have. If you aren't in a place emotionally to enjoy a threesome I'd be honest and straightforward with him. It definitely won't get better for both of you if you go through with it.

>He's right that he needs experience.

No not really, people used to marry the first person they had a relationship with and spend their life with them

He needs experience OR a girlfriend who didnt bang a load of dudes in the past

it will probably take him years to even realize the latter part

Do you weight more than your boyfriend...

You fucking prude. It's just sex what's the hang up? It's not like he's asking for you to co-sign a loan or something. Get drunk as fuck ask one of your friends to do you a favor - watch needle dick blow his load in like 2 minutes. Move on.

Tldr, Op finds out shes a fattie. /thread

Key words 'used to'
It doesn't really work that way anymore.

wait a second, why the fuck are you all huggin her dick?

tits or gtfo you fat cunt

Can I get some help too? I'm seriously interested in becoming a cuck and letting my gf fuck some one else, how do I approach her with that?

psychology hasnt changed

i guarentee if his GF didnt bang a bunch of guys in the past he wouldnt feel the need for this, because mine didnt, and i dont

>everyone else is just like me

Just tell her D'quan is down for railing her pussy.
Wait for response

>implying the sub-conscious doesn't work the same way in every human

Psychology hasn't but people have

if your gf was a virgin and you were still completely hung up on making her have a threesome then you are really a mindless hedonistic piece of trash who will make it nowhere in life

...

Doubt it, she's not really that kind I think

>every successful person has the exact same christian values that I uphold

People are different. They think differently and feel differently. While monogamy can work for one person it might not work for another. Seriously. So if you have someone you love but they are you two have only ever been with each other sexually you're automatically a p.o.s. for wanting to explore sexually? Dafuq?

>every

no, i was making a generalization of course, butthurt degenerate

also im an atheist

>not by choice
Raped?

I dont give a fuck if you're a satanist, dipshit. You're assuming every person should uphold the same moral code as you, and also somehow tying that together with "success".

Seconded

the only one besides me making sense

No man she just regrets it. Wait so yeah, rape.

Lmao yeah do this op. And call him a faggot

Yes, this used to be common practice.

That doesn't change the fact that if she sticks around with Mr. Inexperienced that's looking for a mff threesome, he's going to cheat. Staying together will almost certainly require a shit load of forgiveness on the part of OP.

To be fair, this is much more likely of a scenario these days anyway, with the opportunity to cheat being so easy.

Rape!

people who portray certain behaviors associated with morals easily correlate with people who are successful

if you cant delay gratification, you will engage in more immediately rewarding acts, and sell yourself short in the long run

this is also a symptom of low IQ

>That doesn't change the fact that if she sticks around with Mr. Inexperienced that's looking for a mff threesome, he's going to cheat.

thats what im saying

>Staying together will almost certainly require a shit load of forgiveness on the part of OP.

idk about that, her boyfriend kinda fucked it up by making himself out to be wholly unsatisfied and degenerate

Thanks for the insight, Dr. Phil. You sound like a walking self-help book.

She may not be... but she'd be lying if she told she hasn't thought getting guck by someone else. If you're really serious about getting cucked, them bring her out out of her. Get some dildo play around with those. DP her. Get a wall dildo haver blow or fuck the dildo. While you do the other. Eventually she'll get the hint or come ip with the idea herself. Pic related

Maybe so, but he's right.

Think about something sexual you've always wanted to do but he's reluctant to try, then do a trade. He can have his threesome if you can fuck him in the ass with a strap-on or whatever the fuck you want.

Other than that, the only thing I can suggest is a 'relationship holiday'. Since he's a virgin, give him a week where he can explore things sexually and get some new pussy, get it all out of his system and then go monogamous again. But he's gotta let you get some new dick yourself during that week otherwise it's unfair.

Sorry, *was a virgin until you rooted him

That's a train not a threesome

>since he's a virgin he can fuck some girls to even the count

>oh except you get to suck more dick too

>thinking this will actually work

Sup Forums relationship advice, top kek

We're pretty vanilla right now so showing up with a dildo seems odd, but I get what you mean. Make her want it, do you have any other less straight forward tips?

Also, have you done it yourself?

If your boyfriend won't watch any porn with guys in it but says he's straight that means he's not comfortable with his sexuality and looking at dicks makes him feel funny and tingle inside. So he's secretly a faggot, just in denial. And honestly being with another person just cause you're his only WILL NOT take away his curiosity. You guys are young and human you will both feel the urge to be with other people it's normal. I say tell him no it's a bad idea it will ruin your relationship you guys aren't mature enough or at that level yet.

>even the count
If he's only doing this to even the score he's an immature cunt and the relationship is doomed anyway because of his insecurity. If he's doing it because he likes this girl but is curious about other girls because of his inexperience, that's a different matter.

that is like 70kg... even if your tits are 5 kilos, youd be fat everywhere but america, unless you are like 1.8 m

>evening the score is immature but being "curious" isnt

Getting cucked, no. Never had mmf either. But i had ffm with gf. I dp my gf with a dildo and cant wait to get tbe wall dildo. And even though i joked around abot a ffm threesome before, the only reason it happened is because she was open abot it after dildo play. I thing ima have to suck it up and put up with a mmf in the future because i think she thinks its only fair

Well yeah, curiosity is normal and usually harmless, point scoring and needing to be ahead or equal in number or partners is cuntish

I see, you night just enjoy mmf!