2 months ago my girlfriend of nearly 3 years left me. It was all so sudden, she left to go to a friend's house saying "I love you baby"as she walked out the day, then the next day she moved out all of her stuff before I got home from work, I haven't seen her since. I was going to propose to her on our 3 year anniversary which was 2 weeks after she left. I already had a ring picked out (not bought though) Since she left my job performance dropped hard and I was fired. Now I just sit at home all day, playing games, on Sup Forums and drinking heavily too depressed to do anything
Found out she left me for a drug dealer too, started fucking him for some free drugs. Before that I was only guy she has ever been with. Finding this out crushed any hopes of us getting back together.
I'm sitting at home looking at the nearby train station and just wondering, should I just jump Sup Forums?
what a faggoty thing to ask. You're pathetic if you think that a woman is worth killing yourself.
Logan Wilson
As in the story? thats the major stuff, theres little bits here and there but not super important
Or my life? in which case I dont know
Nicholas Flores
It's always pretty rough at first, user. I could say that you should keep your chins up because something else will come along. I get that it's hard though to even get to the point where you want to make that effort (especially when you weren't aware that there had been a problem until well after the fact.). If you're hurt enough you might even consider telling her family that you think she needs help (assuming that you've at least met them in the last three years.). I would advise against that though, it'll come off petty even if your intentions are noble. In so far as job goes, file for unemployment ASAP, get into the Craigslist want ads, look up local jobs every where you can, arrange your damage plan and find out if your friends (besides us OP, you can't crash on our couch) can put you up if you're ever homeless. I guess also be glad you don't have a kids with her, that shit is maybe your best break in all of this.
Brody Thomas
Every day is just a little bit worse than the last, its not just her, but work, friends my overall enjoyment of life. It all gone
Logan Baker
that sucks user, I've been there before. the best thing to do at this point is anything but off yourself. she is ruining her own life over drugs, you should try to improve yourself to the point that you get over her.
or, if you really care instead of killing yourself over it, you could get revenge on the "drug dealer" if you know what I'm saying
William Gonzalez
You're sad about some woman who seemed like a good girl until she exposed herself as an apathetic slut. So, you're sad about being ditched by an inferior human being. Remember, she was probably like this the whole time, but she never the primer (drug dealer bloke) needed to leave you.
tldr; Stop grieving, she was a terrible person. She's always been a terrible person but she had hidden it from you. You'll find someone better eventually if you simply get out of the gutter and socialize.
Zachary Young
But he also lost his job. I'd say go for it OP.
Jack Hall
Yes and do a flip, faggot.
Michael Myers
yea, like the other user said. You might as well kill yourself if some cheating drug whore made your life 'worth living' you must have been really pathetic and weak minded to begin with.
Oh and a needy/attention getting loser too.
Logan Watson
this sucks pretty hard and it will for a while, but you will get over it, that's just a matter of fact. i am amazed though that you rather want to kill yourself than that bitch. not that you should do that but i could understand if you had an urge to see her dead. she really fucked you over and all i could ever think of in such situations is a passionate hatred towards that person. maybe just be glad, when time comes, that she fucked up before you really committed to a drug addict whore.
Chase Gray
I would suggest going out with a real bang. Spend all remaining money on hookers, drugs and weaponry.
Colton Lewis
I've got a place set, and actually have lot of money saved up, so housing isnt a real issue
Honestly thought about it, but I have no idea where she has gone and no way of finding out
Thats the thing for 3 years she was the sweetest girl, I believed perfect It really did feel out of no where
Ryan Collins
Just fucking end it, pussy.
Brayden Cook
you din got cuckd
trump voter?
Wyatt Stewart
nah not even American Australian actually
Brandon Howard
Shit bro, I've dealt with everything getting fucked because someone close got stupid and got addicted to something hardcore before. Just a couple years ago, my dad started doing meth. At almost fucking 40. My mom wasn't having any of that shit, and (quite rightfully imo) kicked him out of the house when he showed no signs of stopping or trying to seriously get help.My siblings are all way younger than me, and were still in the house. A lot of shit went down in the middle, but in order to prevent all sorts of messy complications in my own life, I've ended up just not talking to anyone on either side of my family for the last year. Anything less than isolation, and I end up getting begged to support my father/be a witness in a hearing/some other shit every fucking week, to the point that that becomes my life.My shit isn't quite stable enough on my own to have that shit added on. I work at a fucking department store, for fuck's sake.I kind of really fucking adored my sister, too, which pisses me off a lot. I'm a little buzzed and not exactly sure why I shared that. I guess just to say "I feel you bro; shit sucks". Still, I wouldn't recommend killing yourself. Time heals all wounds. Latching onto anger and regret can make it last longer, but I can promise that in a few years, you'll be 100% over that bitch, and glad you didn't an-hero.
Camden Lopez
Bro, don't quit life over a chick. Exercise, get a new job, live. Life is more than just a chick, man. Get over her.
William Clark
Seriously, though. Who starts meth as a grown adult with a fucking family? I really thought that shit only caught dumb teenagers.
Ethan Mitchell
Jump
Brandon Collins
Your problem is self-inflicted. Put this behind you. It's either that or go into a self-indulgent downward spiral. You don't mean anything to her, so she shouldn't mean anything to you.
Jayden Flores
thats actually kinda similar to me My dad was always addicted to drugs, but it got harder and harder until he was constantly violent and paranoid I also bailed, havent spoken to any family in 5 years now
Its hard to think that sometimes, my whole life was planned around her. Getting married travelling the world, opening a business. We planned it all together
Aiden Williams
Dope man checking in here. I started banging some dudes whore gf and she eventually left the loser for me.
Luke Baker
Welcome to 2017 kiddo.
Elijah Ward
Well, just find some way to survive the next few weeks, and you'll recover. From my last few breakups and ugly breakups my friends have had, it takes a bit of time, but you feel really... unburdened once you pass the hurdle. I'm sure you'll get back on your feet and be stronger and wiser for it if you can just last a couple weeks. Generic-sheesy-hang-in-there-cat-image just for you.
Jonathan Perry
Did she die in a tragic train explosion too?
Chase Stewart
I never did coke until a year ago, I'm 42. But, I have a decent paying job, no debt, and cash in the bank so not your typical drug user.
Jordan Wilson
you can still do your plans even if you're alone, and you can still try and find someone. As sappy as it sounds, you can pretty much choose to be happy. Sure, you wont just start feeling great just like that, but understand that your life is in your hands, and just start trying to get back on your feet bit by bit. Start going out to exercise, start going out on dates when you feel a bit better, start trying to find a new job. You got put into a shitty situation. What you thought was true, actually wasn't. But realize that you are responsible for your own happiness, and just start moving forward again.
Oliver Foster
You're upset about bitch? What kind of man are you. Find a bitch online.Beta fuck.
My gf did the same shit and dumped me through a text after over five years of living together. Is your gf on antidepressants?
Oliver Hernandez
Chad Thundercock here is drowning in online, std-riddled pussy.
Camden Flores
Assuming this isn't pasta or otherwise bait, Congratulations! You win the game of "whew, I almost got royally fucked there". Now take that money you were going to spend on her and go on a vacation with a good friend and drink a toast to not falling into a bottomless pit.
Gabriel Adams
If you wrap it, no probblamo.
Tyler Lopez
I mean, most people who do hard drugs do a stimulant, so sorta.
Easton Turner
Fuck out of here with your fucking teenage problems.
kept going on and off them constantly One bad day and she'd go on them, but she was always happier without them
Thanks guys, my friends say stuff like this constantly, but it feel like they're forced too
Adam Bennett
I'm 25
Well the ring alone was $2,000 (super glad I didnt buy it) Plus $4,000 saved on for a trip to America or Europe
Lincoln Green
Yeah. It is, but a lot of people get into it cause they are chasing a bigger high or cause they can't afford coke.
Gavin Gutierrez
why kill yourself over a skank?
Mason Thompson
>should I just jump Nah man, you need to work on yourself. Start by cleaning up your house/apartment, your clothes, etc. Then take a shower. This will help you a lot more than you'd think. Gets you on the right mindset.
Then you're gotta start job hunting, now more than ever your career/job should be your first priority. Follow a daily schedule as if still had a job to get to the next morning. This will help you get your life on track.
Then comes the psycological shit, when you get cheated on all your memories with your partner are affected, and so are the last 3 years your life. You need to accept she isn't who you thought she was, she's ok with lying, with cheating and didn't even give a shit about giving you an explanation or anything. Not saying she's the devil, but she's def not an angel. You need to re-articulate your memories with this in mind so you can move on from them and start looking for someone new. This will help you heal.
Good luck Sup Forumsro.
James Sanders
Trip to America or Europe? Where you live, bro?
Cameron Rogers
They're lying to you. They also want to see your faggoty ass plastered on the front of a train.
Lincoln Kelly
Over in Australia
Ryder Bailey
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Xavier Lee
Wow man we are in a similar boat, same age. My gf had just tried a new antidepressant before she did it. She never said anything to me in person just sent a thoughtless text. Stupid bitch too because i just found out im inheriting a few 100k this year.
Adam Ortiz
>im inheriting a few 100k this year. Good timing, you dodged a bullet.
Henry Cox
Also my gf has gotten chubby from her antidepressants so if i am so inclined i can buy two hotter younger girlfriends and send her our sex tape.
Cameron Davis
Reminds me of this: youtube.com/watch?v=LO1mTELoj6o Cool. I always wanted to go to Italy. I'm huge into Mediterranean food and culture, so Italy or Greece makes sense, and Greece from what I hear is a bit shittier lately. see Good timing. Someone as thoughtless as that would've sucked you dry with that kind of extra cash.
Brandon Myers
Drug dealers in australia are pussys, kill him
Jordan Howard
I dunno man. I don't fuck with anyone who has to fight off giant spiders and poisonous everythings regularly.
Blake Edwards
Thanks man, you might be right. I actually would have paid off her school loans and bought a house with her if she hadnt done this. Love is stupid. I loved her so much and i don't think ill trust a woman again. Also she had sex with me every night the week before including the night before she did that where she requested my sex.
Robert Rivera
Speaking of I had a fuck tonne of nudes of her and a sex tape She went through and deleted them all without me knowing (except for one super shit picture)
yeah but I also am someone who has to fight of giant spiders daily
Connor Campbell
You may think that I'm crazy... But It was a Win situation for you in a way. If you had married someone that you've known for 3 Years but she left you for a drug dealer....how would've you know if she wouldn't leave you after you had married her? I know it's a heartbreak for you but say F**k it and move on because you shouldn't cry for sh*t. btw....Suicide isn't an option for someone else's fault.
Blake Ross
Probably felt guilty and was trying to "make up for it" in her mind.
Nolan Cook
Hhahahahah OP you are such an imbecile
Happiness is the best revenge. While she gets fucked over by drug lords and becomes addicted to drugs, pushing her to suicide, you will be happy and prospering with another girl. At that moment, she will feel what you're feeling now and you'll be even more happy than she is now.
Get your life back on track, go find a new job and hit the gym. Try finding a new girl too.
Caleb Rodriguez
>I'm sitting at home looking at the nearby train station and just wondering, should I just jump Sup Forums? No you should start dealing drugs, what the fuck, have you learned nothing?
Nathaniel Garcia
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Parker Cooper
I'd probably hold off on a new girl for a short while. Rebounding from a long term relationship straight into another girl can cause issues.
Levi Gutierrez
Well it was only proposing, we had the wedding planed for after she finished uni, which isnt for another 3 years
Angel Russell
kek
Angel Clark
you are a colossal faggot, op no woman is worth suiciding over, plenty of fish in the sea
>Found out she left me for a drug dealer too,
You are clearly a BBC cuckold fetishist
Kayden Sanders
Oh shit, her shit was together enough that ahe's working on a degree? RIP degree and future career; that'll almost certainly go down the drain now.
Carson Rogers
If she left you for a dealer you should A)become a cop and assfuck him with the law B) poison him with arsenic and tell her employers about her using illegal drugs and her history of mental illness. My gf is the bitch on antidepressants too, but im not going to take revenge on her stupid fatass unless she gets a new bf.
Dominic Harris
I mean idk what forced means in this context. It's pretty much the truth. Do you really think you're the only person in human history who has gotten into a really shitty situation? Do you think no one has ever gotten out of said shitty situations? Like I said, you can choose to try and get over this, or you can kill yourself. Your call m8.
Parker Wilson
What part of australia mate, I don't mind breaking a drug dealers arms, no one calls the cops
Aiden Ross
Meh. Now that she's made her choice, she's just a meth whore, and should be treated as one. Not really even worth the time to try and get revenge on -- her life's about to fall to pieces anyway.
Ayden Wilson
fuck women bro, one key to success is to focus on you and only you. if anything you should be glad that you found out shes a piece of trash before you got engaged/married. yeah the feels get to you sometimes but emotional shit is for women and little bitches. there will always be plenty of women, but your days are limited so dont waste your time hiding away when literally anything you want to do is outside your door.
One man wolf pack bro
Luke Brooks
I also fight off fuckoff spiders in upside down land, our drug dealers are fucking nothing Easy to make one disappear, no one would give a fuck
Austin Cruz
You ought to get on your knees and thank the gods. Son, you dodged a fucking bullet. What kind of sane women leaves her boyfriend to hook up with a fucking drug dealer? She is not exactly looking for stability there, now is she? She is unstable and wants to lead a life of chaos and bullshit. She is probably a druggie herself and Pedro is going to give her a steady supply of drugs and AIDS. You need to get yourself checked, just in case. The bitch is crazy and you are lucky she left. Now go find a boring bitch who won't give you any drama
Cooper Bennett
all these bitches are like that op watch out for yourself
Joshua Rogers
eh..fuck he OP, can I call you OP? Let's break this down barney style one time so we don't have to go over this again. Oxytocin: In the hypothalamus, oxytocin is made in magnocellular neurosecretory cells of the supraoptic and paraventricular nuclei, and is stored in Herring bodies at the axon terminals in the posterior pituitary.
Hope that clears this whole thing up for you. Before you do something radically stupid at least read this and understand how your neurotransmitters are fucking you around.
your circle of pals & drugs & where they get together is a circle jerk
how many have no jobs,alcky parents,divorced,some dead from drug use,,,,,,,that is how,why to get screwed by the barfly go home pick up the pieces,a whole lot has gotta be changed.
Austin Hughes
Fucking upside-downers. "Oi m8 I'll kill a bloody drug dealer. Ain't no biggie, m8."
Julian Nelson
Yes it is a hard time, but in time you will be on top again. Fuck that bitch she doesn't deserve you if she fucks a low life scumbag drug dealer. Do everything you can to get in touch with another girl, and you'll probably feel great again. Keep on moving, cause life has hard times, and suicide is the pussy way out OP. When you look back at it, you will think how much you hate your past self for even having those thoughts
Justin Smith
Possibly this. Friends on his side might not be related to her drug-shit, though.
Tyler Sanchez
Picture is of her (Though in face make up)
Ayden Young
Im the guy with the antidepressant gf and my gf would never go for a drug dealer. She just has dwindling mental health and doesnt sleep much because her shit job and lowsy academics.
Connor Diaz
Basically
That filopino guy has the right idea
Benjamin Powell
Another aussie here, and I know how you feel. Girlfriend of two years lied to me for months then left me for someone she claimed to hate, then expected me to still be friends. Felt right out of the blue.
Hunter Williams
not yet . try killing a couple of bullies first . that helps the majority of people
Easton Gray
You know, user, I was madly in love with a chick when I was about 20 years old. She was 17, truly a babe, and we were together for 2 years, before she dumped me for someone more interesting. I was devastated. But what I didn't do is take drastic steps to punish myself for something that wasn't my fault. I'm 65 now, and the memory of that 17 year old girl pales next to the dozens of other women I have been with and even loved. Everything got better as life went on. Sure, a lot of relationships eventually ended -- some sooner, some later, but even those were worth having and experiencing. I'm presently seeing a 30 year old babe who likes my money. We both get what we want out of the relationship and have a good time doing it. No matter where you are in life, things will always change -- remember that your attitude and goals will determine whether they change for the better or the worse. Don't give up; quitting is for losers. . .
Andrew Foster
Not OP here, just thinking. I could probably deal with a woman who clearly liked my money, as long as she was honest about it and we at least casually got along. The honest, no-bullshit approach sounds kinda nice, like having a roomie almost.
Justin Watson
You probably can't jump the whole distance.
Wyatt Scott
I'll admit, I chuckled.
Daniel Richardson
You found this out before you married the cunt. Celebrate.
Dylan Evans
I've always been opposed to marriage too She was the first person ever that I wanted to marry, she'll also be the last
Angel Myers
you have an opportunity. sell everything you can't carry and leave. live as a nomad until you find what you are looking for in life
Xavier Turner
Looks like this chick I sell drugs too
Liam Fisher
This Get a decent 4x4 and see Australia
Ethan Sanders
to be honest, no. you just learned an important lesson that will benefit you the rest of your life. you just learned that magic love isn't real. it's all just some gay fucking chemicals our brain realise so we get to reproduce instead of doing nothing with our lives.
here is what you are going to do. don't think about it. you are currently sad because you didn't get to reproduce with the women your subconscious brain deemed fit for reproduction with. take a time to fully realise this. after that, you are going to go outside and meet people. try to get a job as well. after a while, you will find another woman, but this time you're prepared. compare her to women that cheat. is she a cheater or a keeper? to see this, you need to look at her friends, her family and her personality.
if she never gets enough attention, she'll cheat for your attention, or because she got more attention from another guy. they don't even need to be attractive.
if she is fat, then its no go. she is fat because she doesn't think about how thing will affect her in the long run. she will cheat if the opportunity rises, especially if it's a small chance of you finding out. she'll cheat with attractive guys.
if she has a slutty personality or dress like a bitch, then she will cheat if an attractive guy walks buy. especially if she does drugs.
you want a fit girl, that don't have any major issues like daddy problems or attention problems. she can't be egoistic either. if you're unsure, just hit it and quit it.
Ryder Torres
user, I know it sucks big time. Nothing hurts as bad as finding out someone you love is not the person you think they are.
I would like to offer some advice that comes from someone that went through something similar.
First, you can't think about getting back together. I'm not saying it could never happen, but I'm telling you to stop thinking about it. You have to have the mindset that you will never see her again.
Second, this is not worth an hero. It's simply not. There are literally millions of women available! There are literally millions of places to meet them! There is someone out there for you.
Third, focusing on the past is keeping you from moving forward. You had a great relationship for almost 3 years. That's fantastic, many people never do. Now you are entering a new phase of your life. We all go through phases. But we can't keep thinking about a phase that is over. Decide that tomorrow you're going to do one thing that is a step towards your future. One thing where you go outside, interact with people, have a conversation. Maybe you could volunteer at a food bank. TAKE ONE STEP TOMORROW.
I'm not trying to minimize how badly you feel, I'm only trying to show you an alternative to how you're living today. There's a lot of life ahead of you, get started on living it.
Doing one thing a day to move forward was what got me going out of the rut of despair and staying stuck in what might have been. And my life is shitloads better than I ever imagined it could be.
I wish you the best, user.
Cooper Hernandez
I have experience as I have a friend that have had 3 girls in a row, cheat on him. he is attractive, strong, funny and tall as fuck. still, he got cheated on. why? because the girls were the problem. they are cheaters. finding a girl online won't help. they are desperate. therefore, go outside and find the girl. now you know what to do, and what not to do. suicide is unnecessary. you are sad right now, but do you really think this all will even matter to you in 5 years time? no. the only thing you will bring with you is your experience.
Dominic Rivera
The 5 year thing is actually something that gets to me In 5 years I had planned to marry her, open a business, travel the world. My life felt set. One of the big things getting to me isnt just losing her, its losing my future.
I can still find someone else, I can still travel, and I can still open the business. Its just the shakeup of it all has got to me