I already lift and I bench 250 and squat 315, bent over row 225 for reps at age 18, but people still fuck with me at school and I don't do anything about it. I am exactly like pic related expect /fit/.
I make the same stupid fucking face when someone throws a paper ball at me and I don't do a fucking thing. I hold in the frustration and angry until I get to the gym, in the moment I feel powerless and weak. I am a doormat at school, even girls despise me. Ive been a timid pussy all of my life and have resorted to pulling a knife out on someone at school before and got kicked out for a while.
I am a loner with no real life friends, I usually work alone because I am usually kicked out of groups. I am 5'10" and have another year of this fucking hellish high school to go.
I don't want to be a pussy once school begins. I've had gfs before but they knew I was a pussy and other guys would always feel them up Infront of me, I reacted like a pussy by acting like it was some kind of joke. How do I train myself to just act without thinking?
Like if someone spits on me how can I just straight snap and beat the fuck out of them without choking on my thoughts?
>turn around, do nothing >if assaults gets suspended
Education is more important
Jaxson Barnes
Pic related is me for those that don't believe I already lift.
Jordan Miller
user, fights are no joke. Don't get into one unless you or a loved one is in danger.
That being said, learn to have some dam self respect. The fact that you allow yourself to be disrespected is sign that you don't feel worthy of respect. You feel like you don't deserve to be respected, and thus, you don't do anything when you are disrespected.
Make sure that you don't use the gym as an escape mechanics to get rid of those feelings of inferiority user. I've been working out for over 10 years and that is a common sight: an insecure kid coming in trying to not feel inferior when compared to others.
Reading your post, I'm thinking your have a sort of inferiority issue user. Consider seeing a psychologist. If that's not in your reach you're just gonna have to dig yourself out of that hole little by little.
Start small: if someone cuts you in line, tell them it's bothering you. If your GF does something you don't like, tell them it makes you uncomfortable. You don't have to be a fucking asshole, all you have to do is assert your preferences.
Easton Thomas
>junior in high school underage, faggot.
Tyler Myers
Spoken like a true beta
Ethan Perez
I am popular at my german school and would like you help I know what your problems are, your Mental attitude. This to fix takes a little bit of time but the gains are it worth. My facebook : facebook: wiekels.meier.
Luke Rogers
Kek midget body
Grayson Sullivan
Have you got a deep voice, usually just standin out of your seat and telling them to stand up is enough to make them shit themselves. At which point they don't stand up which makes them the pussy. Checkmate.
Aaron Sanchez
good advice.
remember when getting bullied there is two parties: the one doing it and the one accepting it. next time someone calls you a bad word, slap him full force. noone deserves to talk down on you, no matter how little you may feel. you must stand up for yourself.
second, people joke a lot. if you are an autistic loner like I was, you might take a lot of shit way too serious when its in fact just banter. make sure to avoid that, its autistic as fuck.
third, are you good at school? work for a longterm goal. lets say you want 30k dollars in your bank account by 22, anyone can easily achieve this, you could buy a nice car or an apartment for this and rent this apartment out for a steady money flow for example, and it will have paid for itself after a certain amount of time, after which it will be flat monthly profit.
just an example. if you dont know where you want to be career wise, just set a random goal and work towards it.
all these people are irrelevant in the end. you might find one or two worthy of being around with for a while or even after school but most you will never see again.
Camden Reyes
How the fuck do you get bullied, next time someone mocks you grab 'em by the fucking neck and don't say a word. Ever. Don't turn around when they throw you a ball. Grab 'em by the neck when they get out of class. Say nothing. Same applies to any situation. Don't chocke them too hard, just enough to let know you're the boss.
Jackson Foster
just learn to be funny and make fun of them it worked with me
this guy use to bully me i called him gay
found out he was getting mollested he didn't do fuck all latter on he did beat me up but he never did fuck all after i made fun of him
still had no friends but still the last few years of school was decent
Luis Turner
lmao just hit em and dont get hit to hard back
Nathaniel Reed
start drinking and beat everyone without reason
Alexander Russell
Just repeat what this dude says in the video with a facial expression similar to pic related
wait for them to be in a position of comfort, like when they are sitting at their desk not facing you, walk up from behind them, take your heaviest hardest text book and smash their face with the binder of it repeatedly, try to get them to bleed a good bit, don't allow them to get up and fight back, just fucking wail on their shit, take your punishment and move on in life, you may have to do this a few times to a few people who have fucked with you, but once they get that mentality to keep an eye on you they typically will move on from you to someone else
you've established that you're weak already, the only way to fix this, especially in an ever increasingly diverse world is to show your strength through violence, it's pretty much the only thing most people respect anyway
Nathaniel Parker
You can practice your "Hey, stop it" in the mirror a few times even. Try saying ith with your moth full of water. Choke it out. Learn to say it at the strangest times.
Kayden Cruz
Fuck this faggot, see instead
Brandon Lewis
This op. Works everytime.
Joshua Kelly
Don't act all hyper alpha and threaten to beat the shit out of someone or actually fight anyone. Do what this guy saidNothing to intense like choking them to death but just corner them after class and tell them to back off. Nothing makes you seem more like a dick than embarrassing someone in front of everyone. It should be your presence that scares someone, not your outward threats and demeanor
Cooper Cooper
lol this guy has never been a in a fight with a real asshole before
yea that might work on some pussy bully in a mostly white school, but in a more diverse school just turning around and looking at the fucker who threw the paper ball at you is enough to get your ass whooped right there, these good boys who don't do anything will literally just fucking sucker punch you for being alive
paper balls? that's lightweight nice neighborhood bullying
Cameron Robinson
I've been in fights, but as you say, most guys will run away from a real confrontation.
Austin Miller
OP here, someone once attempted to chemically burn me when I was 12, but I managed to wash the shit off before I did severe damage, still carry scars tho.
Tyler Wright
I got sulfuric acid thrown onto my left hand.
Colton Cook
bide your time
Connor Nelson
In highschool i used to be on the same boat though i was an inch taller but didnt have as good lifts as you. When they disrespect you, respond accordingly with strength. If they throw a ball at you, pick it up, get up no matter if class is going on, walk up to the guy and hold his chin and press his cheeks to open his mouth. Then push the ball into his mouth and close it. Say nothing. When you obviously get questioned about it. Tell them this (btw this is what i did) "He dropped his food and i gave it back, since he is not capable to figure not to mess with his betters, i taught him how to eat it. Just being a good student." With a smile.
Never flinch if they punish you or anything. In time they will get used to the new pecking order. Others might attack you after school so when that happens be ready and avoid it. If you get in a fight then after you win make sure to piss on the guy. You will be surprised how effective it is in establishing dominance.
Matthew Anderson
Remember to tell yourself that you are the one guy they can no longer fuck with. Find friends who are like you band together but make sure you don't turn into what you hated to begin with.
James Hughes
I'll never get over how fucking ugly he was.
Adrian Morgan
your first paragraph was just fucking cringey bullshit
but the part about pissing on them, yea that's definitely a good way to scare the shit out of anyone, but the guy you pissed on might be so badly fucked with that he might end up trying to kill or severely maim you
Adam Turner
lol this is some cringey ass faggot shit, typically the advice here is given just for the sake of helping the dude, but in reality the dude is a pussy and isn't going to follow through with any advice
>but make sure you don't turn into what you hated to begin with
hahahahahahaha
Sebastian Nguyen
let me get this straight...
you feel weak, because your arent exploding into anger and aggression?
you feel like a pussy because your gut-reaction isn't just "HURRR SMASH"?
you feel lesser, because you have control over your actions and emotions?
You willingly want to be a meat head who thinks through testosterone, cultural normality, and praises ignorance?
I need to lie down. You people are fucking lost. The normies have devised such a perfect culture to pull you back into their game.
enjoy, user, you'll be missed
Daniel Jenkins
Yea it sounded cringy but i do not see you coming up with a method that worked. I did exactly this and had a very comfy highschool life. I will take a moment of cringe over you faggots trying to blow every guy in the class so they might not fuck you as bad. Take it as you wish.
The guy got pissed on actually apologized for what he did and we became bros really. Weird how people work.
James Campbell
have u ever been bullied asshole? thats not how it works.
Carson Murphy
the guy is trying to break his faggot conditioning, men should behave like men
men should be violent, fight and grunt, it's biologically normal
it's not normal to be brainwashed into a submissive pansy who ends up taking hormone injections to feel more like a girl
James Morris
There's a reason you monkeys stay in urban areas, bullying one another. "Real assholes" like you desribed have a habit of getting dragged behind a 4x4. Keep pretending you're hard though.
Justin Young
MOOOOOODDDDSSS!!!!!
Ethan Perry
Catch them outside of school and kick his ass. They'll know why you did it.
Juan Ross
yes, a lot. the most effective way to stop it was to become their friends. They bullied me, I just pretended like I never heard it, and start talking to them about whatever it is I knew they liked.
eavesdropping is an easy hobby. I didn't have to know anything about fucking motocross to get a bully to want to talk about it. They calledme a faggot, id ask him about his race.
Really, it's not shocking what acceptance can do. We're social creatures. nobody desires to be an asshole.
I still don't understand. He's already conditioned better than most. He has control over his mind and body. He sculpts his Temple, and commands his inner followers.
he is already stronger than most.
Fear, aggression, ignorance, impulsivity, are all traits of a worm. a scared little worm, who is too scared to admit that he needs to change. too scared to change, in a world based on changes..
what the fuck?
Jeremiah Myers
OP here, one of the guys who fucks with me, likes to have his GF around when he mocks me. This guy likes to flex Infront of her and accuse me of having steroid muscles. I have a much bigger cock than him (I assume this cuz I caught his GF staring hard at my grey sweatpants). And like I said I lift and I am physically stronger than these people, but I lack the dignity to do anything. But as crazy as it may sound as I am a wuss, I have a fetish for "cucking guys Infront of them" what if I beat the fuck out of him Infront of his gf? Is it at all, possible for me to steal his gf?
Jason Russell
you have mistaken me for a dindu, i've grown up on both sides
i know you too and your little 4x4 rant is total horseshit and you know it
Daniel Miller
Boi that is easy.
> beat the fuck out of those niggas during a friday night when they are drinking. Beat them up good, hide your identity tho.
Easy.
Zachary White
And let me guess, your conditioned response is to shave all the hair off your body, tuck your tiny dick between your legs and let dudes fuck you in the ass? I'm about as politically left as a sane person can get and even I think faggots like you are what's wrong with men these days.
Aaron Jones
You sound gay af
Just slap him one good time and stare him down.
Ian Clark
sounds like OP needs to shoot up his school.
Zachary Rogers
Would I do that user? Go on the internet and tell lies?
Levi Smith
>He sculpts his Temple, and commands his inner followers.
Julian Gray
Jesus Christ dude, what is this, a sophomore short film project? you're going to beat him up, and her pussy will just moisten on command, right before you set off into the sunset on horseback giving her a series of cream pies?
you need to work on yourself before you ever try to date. Until you repair that kind of thinking, you will find love impossibly evasive to you.
Come back to reality. Put down the fantasies and start looking into the world from a perspective of realism. Watch indie movies or documentaries of real relationships, real people, real issues, real bullying.
you're living in a world that nobody else does. It's okay to have fantasies, but you can't seriously think this one will work out.
Owen Ramirez
>too scared to admit that he needs to change. too scared to change, in a world based on changes..
yea change can be good and bad, and in his case change is bad, OP can be both intelligent and defend himself with violence and aggression
people like you have been trying to convince men that submission is synonymous with peace and being violent is never the answer and that's total bullshit
people like you are only concerned with your sexual deviancy and perversion because you've been led down the false feminist path of sexual liberation, you continue to chip away at the men in your society and other men will come and destroy you
Anthony Wood
I literally have no idea what you're talking about. the pic I posted? that's not me you fucking retard.
You have an archaic and ever-restricting definition of what a Man should be. Why do humans so often go against the very grain of life?
you make these tiny boxes, cram an enormous concept into it, then you're shocked when the planet didn't conform to your baseless logic?
boo fucking hoo. Pick up a book, there's a lot more life to explore than you're allowing yourself to
Oliver Collins
>kill or severely maim you No.
Owen Rodriguez
Show them you're not someone to be trifled with, show them how alpha, uncaring and ruthless you can truly be when people mess with you. Get in their face when they start talking shit and trying to bully you, it's a form of intimidation people use. If you get up and confront them face to face they'll likely back down because most people really can't fight and you being the size you are in their face will make them think twice.
Don't just let them continue their bullshit though, or you'll continue to be treaded on by people like that your whole life. Basically what I'm saying is stick up for yourself, faggot.
Jaxon Cooper
Try not to hit anyone. But if you can do it, lift someone up. Just grab them, lift them from the ground. Look them in the eye and tell them to stop fucking with you. Calmly. Make sure to do it where people notice.
Juan Cruz
I had dated in the past and already had sexual contact. I just don't know what to do when someone fucks with me.
Luke Ward
You'd fit in a lot more in 1546. It amazes me that people think violence still has merit. There are so few situations where violence is the answer, and even then, I'm hesitant to say that, because genuine medieval peasant soldiers such as yourself are so caught up in a mentality of "dis make no sense, me smash"
life is easier when we can just destroy our problems, huh? And they magically go away?
just like when we defeated the Nazis.. oh wait..
just like when we killed the terrorists.. oh.. nvm..
just like when we stopped communism..uhh.. hold on..
just like when humans thought we could solve anything with violence/elimination.
Lucas Turner
>lift someone up Have you ever evem tried that? It's fucking difficult even if you're strong enough
Camden Jones
Yeah, I know. Not like lifting them up straight from the ground, but maybe against a wall. I'm not talking Hulk mode here.
Lincoln Adams
you have dated in the past... I believe you.. it's unsurprising that it didn't work out for you.. you aren't confident with yourself, how can you support a relationship if you can barely support yourself?
Try Buddhism. Try stoicism. Try Mindfulness. Try getting out into nature more. Try ANYTHING but what you're still doing.
you need to enact changes into your life. The first change, is realizing these bullies mean nothing to you. Realize that they are so far behind you. until you can look at your bullies and litetally feel sadness for them, you have more work to do.
They're suffering so much that they're targeting you. they have so much pain that they need to share it with the world. Don't accept their "gifts".
You have to focus on being the best person you can be. You have to adapt a new lifestyle to suit your changes.
I was both the bully, and the one getting bullied. changing myself changed my life.
Aaron Watson
Even more difficult due to friction. Are you considering the fact that you have to lift ~80kg only with the strenght of your biceps and shoulders?
Ayden Harris
it's true? Watches at 0 $?
Jordan Turner
Woah dude. Just tell the fucking teachers that you are being bullied. Do some after school activities to get friends.
It's pretty funny I had to go through the exact opposite, I'm pretty sure you don't want to go there. Being a violent psycho isn't fun. Not being violent is good, now you just need to deal with your inner turmoil and get some friends. I suggest meditation.
Bentley Allen
I fucking love you. I didn't know there were sane people on 4 Chan
OP please listen to this guy.
Anthony Howard
What kind of trashchimp school do you go? I was a fucking dorky wimp in high school and was friends with half the cool kids despite being a bigger jerk than almost any of them.
If you're that much of wimp despite being fit, then don't fight it. Just make sure that anyone who is awful to you suffers greatly for it and that you don't get caught.
Jaxson Cox
This exactly. Real advice is rare as fuck in here.
Angel Rodriguez
You two are both retarded. He's not "in control of his emotions" he's got no control and just freezes. The alternative isnt being a hulk mode retard either.
You can be masculine and assertive without being a fucking caveman.
Jason Bell
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Ayden Perry
Friction? Holy shit, I'm not sure if you know what you're talking about. Or you're imagining rather strangly. If you'd ever have lifted heavy objects, you would know that you don't lift from the shoulders or biceps if you can avoid. Doing what I'm talking about is about core and upper body strength, for sure. You grab them, lock your arms in position and flex your back. You're not lifting someone above your head, but like three or four inches.
Luke Lopez
sounds like you're trying to convince yourself more than me
i know violence works against people who are violent, you might see that as circular logic but it's true that you can be both violent and peaceful
you sound like a very privileged person who hasn't really lived among different cultures, I have, I have witnessed this pointless violence from all sides
we are having a peaceful discussion right now but you're not seeing that, but you need to understand there are people who delight in just hurting other people and these people aren't even psychopathic or sociopathic
if you can't understand the need to fight fire with fire with these types of people then you may find yourself being tossed off a tall building one day
Jackson Wood
People bully other people because they are bored. If it's not violent or personal (like paper balls), then engage yourself in the act.. trow that shit right back, have same fun with it... you will make friends. If it's getting personal or violent, just warn them to cut that shut out.. be verbal, loud and clear about it. If they do not listen, only then get more serious and violent. Tell teachers that you kick that guys ass if he will not stop treating you like that. But use physical violence only as last resort.
Zachary Miller
>The first change, is realizing these bullies mean nothing to you. Realize that they are so far behind you.
how is he going to do do that when the motherfucker is hitting him and throwing shit at him? lol
Gabriel Adams
Yeah, but that person you're lifting is infront of you and you're trying to lift him from the neck.
Josiah Perry
what do you do when the teachers don't do anything and your parents contact the principle and they do nothing as well
you people are living in a bubble, however nice it may be most of the world doesn't get along
Jace Morales
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Parker Long
>I am 5'10" thats the reason. get a knee surgery you fucking manlet
Luis Collins
>You can be masculine and assertive without being a fucking caveman.
exactly but in his case the masculine and assertive man is picking on him and gets the girls all while being smaller and weaker than him physically
OP, there's only one way to deal with bullies, hurt them and try to humiliate them
Connor Williams
All this tryhard bullshit about asserting yourself is not going to help you. Keep working out, keep getting bigger, take the hits and the insults and just sit on it. Join the military.
Jack Phillips
haha.
Oliver Wilson
I. >no work to do i take a rest >the female coworker >tell me what to do, give sugar in to coffee to all coworkers >triggered, iam not your dog >i go away >she come to me and apologies like she is not like this >don't lie to me.gif
II. >be at work >do my work >iam alone everybody take some rest >all come back >the same female coworker play jokes and talk like ima not there >an pretending then make shit face oh here user is >what to do.jpg >don't know what to say >finish my work, don't talk to her >at job >she say will you go home, not a lot work, to many people >i had 1 thing left to do i dont do it >she tell me to do it >refuse to talk.jpg >she come to me >will you go home, no work story >she don't know what to do no more >she go home >next day she try to make joke about this i dont say nothing >she stop soon >i don't react she lost interest >user win this one, when i was just thinking wtf, what to do
You are smart and you maybe don't realize it.
Daniel Perry
>Join the military. where you will continue to >tryhard bullshit about asserting yourself >Keep working out >keep getting bigger >take the hits >and the insults >just sit on it >not going to help you
I'm all for defending your own country but the modern military isn't there for defense of the country, it's there for the ultimate cucking, o fight for so more 3rd worlders can move into your home and eat up your taxes and vote against you
Parker Adams
you are dumb and maybe don't realize it
Angel Smith
Word!
Angel Gutierrez
You write like an asian
Owen Jenkins
Join military. You make friends and btiches want to fuck just because.
John Watson
Do nothing in high school but work out, work on your grades & keep doing you. In 10 years you'll look back & wonder about why you gave 2 shits about all those fools you now outshine.
Grayson Ortiz
This, or just wait till college bro. Life changes A LOT once you get out of high school and away from all the people you grew up with. Keep getting stronger man, and don't forget to work on those abs, never skip leg day. And soon, you'll be at a house party surrounded by drunk girls and all you'll need to do is whip off your shirt, flare those traps, pinch those cheeks and flew those quads and bitches will suck your dick right then and there. Keep up the hard work dude, things will get better than highschool I promise.
Evan Lewis
O thats why they are fucking with you, because you have muscles. They wanna fight someone who looks tougher then the average Joe. The more roided you get the more knuckle heads will try and confront you. Getting a flabby body isnt the answer, the problem is probably in your speech.
Work on your speech and your ability to convince people. Few things are scarier then picking a fight with a guy, then finding out after the rumble that he can talk his way out of punishment/jail time. It is very intimidating to deal with someone who knows how to break the rules. Dont look for a fight, but if it comes to it, make sure you can talk your way out from the ire of police/principle. The best is if you walk and they are suspended.