i cant stop thinking about my ex and it's been a month and a half. we only went out for 6 months and it's still fucking with me.
she was my first real experience with love/sex/everything.
how the fuck do i stop being a depressed faggot and get back on track?
Wank 5 times a day
Stop being a pussy and listen to the guy above me
>inb4 she's already sucking a big black cock
i know and the thought is seriously making me contemplate suicide
It never stops hurting user but it does start to hurt less as time goes by.
Best thing you. Can do is find somebody else or just try to chill out man.
If you do anything at all, don't fucking call her back.
Men need to start showing we have some balls and stop grobbling to women.
You will date other people man.
I know it seems like you won't fond somebody but you will man
fpbp but also fuck everything that walks until you forget her.
>it's the only way
t.norman
move on. start talking to other girls as fast as possible. get on tinder. be social. go outside alot. go to parties with friends that you like.
How old are you?
23 which i know makes me seem like a loser. i should be more experienced at this age
> how the fuck do i stop being a depressed faggot and get back on track?
Simple. Hookers and Blow
your full of shit. it stops hurting after about a year. or when OP finds someone else to stick his pecker into. its life kids. its how its supposed to work.
since you're on /b
and asking
i'm going to have to say
you're a fucking faggot
and the ride you're in, never ends.
Find another woman
That's it
OP I still wank over my ex it's been 5 yrs but it's nice to stroke to her
The best way to get over someone you love is to get under someone you don't so much
You're not a loser, stop being down on yourself. I'm 24 and I've only had 3 sexual partners. I'm currently going through a tough time myself, my girlfriend might leave me so I can understand how you feel.
First off 23 isn't old, you've got a long life ahead of you and tons of time to meet new people. What were the reasons that you guys broke up?
Who cares if she sucks a black cock dude tbh. seriously if you would kill your self over that you're pretty weak and I've been there, you forget about her and find a new bitch who wasn't raped by her daddy while your old bitch is there sucking nigger cock in an abandon home at least you won't be lonely with a new bitch
Its took my about 3 years to fully get over my ex and I was only with her for a year. During those years I hooked up with and dated a few other girls but she was always in the back of my mind when I went home. To this day I still compare every girl I talk to to her and they cant compete. It sucks dude but it does get better. Time heals all. Stay strong and find some new tail
Nah man you are not it's not a race. Also it doesn't matter how long the relationship lasts you don't have to reach a point after which you are entitled to feel sad. Don't beat yourself up over it man you are not a faggot or a loser and you will find someone eventually.
Stale pasta is stale
>never been dumped
It feels good, but I know my time will come.
her parents found out we were having sex, we fought them for months but eventually they gave her an ultimatum of either being with me and getting disowned or breaking up with me. she obviously chose the latter and i dont blame her for it but it does suck.
Not OP just lurkin but you you sound wise bro. How old are you?
Get on backpage and find an escort
Get fucked up with your friends
Meet new bitch
Have kid
Get married
Get shit job
Kys
Interesting how old is she and where do you guys live?
It gets better dude, its been 5 years and I still think of my first love every day. They say your first breakup is as hard to get over as a cocaine/heroin habit, which is why you feel the "How can I go on without her in my life" thing. You need to realise that she probably isn't as perfect as you think she is and no doubt she'll have a laundry list of flaws to go with all of the traits that you find attractive about her; try to concentrate on the shittier aspects of her personality before you get all sentimental about her.
I suggest cutting contact completely tho; block her Facebook twitter etc. because seeing her pictures/knowing what shes up to will make life much harder. Do not initiate contact with her at all, no happy birthday texts or whatever because she'll either lead you on or she'll ignore you and make you feel worse.
Hate to be the person to say it OP; but you're never gonna have her again but life will most certainly get better and eventually you'll be a stronger person for it.
I'm almost at the kys stage. Got to go get the kids in an hour and might make the final stage by the end of the night.
Don´t wank too much because that will make you more depressed, but if you feel generally horny wank. If you don´t, the thought of sex with her will make you think that you could have a chance.
Second step: Use your fucking brain (logic). She doesn´t want you anymore, she probably just jumped into other guy, and getting her back would only repeat the cycle, making you suffer. You have to assume that she is no good for you before you can move on and it stops hurting.
Faggot
20, but her mom was filipino and had very conservative views on sex before marriage. any time i would pick up my ex to hang out her mom would have a melt down at home. it made her parents fight alot at home and it got so bad at one point she stopped taking her heart medication and she nearly died. not only that but she forced the entire family to go to counseling to discuss the situation.
all this because i was having sex with her daughter. a consenting adult.
basically the most messy relationship you can imagine but i still loved her to pieces
discord
dqeeS
Join and post her nudes
thanks for the kind words and advice guys. im going to try picking myself up now
Old fag here been hurt and I've also hurt women, 23 is no age the best thing to do is to get yourself a girl to occupy your mind and more importantly your dick. Don't go all out looking for the new love of your life that will happen. Just get a girl who's decent company and wants to practice at getting better at sex as often as you do. Your first love will slowly but surely become something that happened in the past. Also while your fucking a new girl don't try and compare her to your ex your not signing a contract of marriage your both just having a good time. Also a good top I can give you enjoy your drug of choice on a weekend but don't you ever start hitting that drug during the week. Enjoy your life user onwards and upwards you'll know when you've found the right one
Try being on the receiving end of a glory hole. You'll forget all about her.
O man, I knew a guyin that exact situation. They were both 20 and her mom was really strict about the relationship. That's a barrier that you unfortunately cannot break. You can't break up a family even if their rules are crazy. Were there any other things that may have hurt the relationship besides that? When they didn't know you were having sex how was your relationship with her parents?
I could understand why it hurts because you both still like each other and it's an outside force that is affecting everything.
her parents were really cool with me prior to knowing about the sex. the second they found out it all turned into a shitstorm.
they found out because my ex wrote about everytime we fucked in her journal/diary like a tard.
they read about it all and freaked out hard
At what point in the relationship did they find out? Like how long had you been dating?
we started having sex a month in, 2 months later they found out
And you guys broke up soon after that?
nah we fought the parents for a few months then were forced to break
fuck someone else
Interesting that you guys were able to date for a while after that. I'm guessing tensions ran really high.
Have you talked to her in a while? Is she seeing anybody else?
yeah we tried very hard to keep it together but shit was so fucked up the last few weeks we couldn't keep going.
the last time we talked was when we broke up. I've blocked and deleted her from every social media
...
Then I've gotta tell you 6 months isn't a long time and if you guys can't make it work now it won't work for the near future. My advice is to try to not hold a grudge. A good move blocking her, it's easier that way. You've got to do something to keep your mind busy. Get really good at something or work on a hobby. Don't sit at home a play video games and don't hang out on Sup Forums too much.
Try to figure out who you are and what you are really passionate about. Stay active and go to the gym or something. It'll help build your confidence. When you know who you are you can find someone who you can work things out with.
Non shallow people won't care about your sexual experience. If they want to be with you they will be with you for your personality and you can work together to make sex great.
Don't base your life off a relationship, have your own goals and shoot for those. Everything else comes through that.
Not too similar of a situation for me, but i understand the pain.
Broke up with my girl of 4 years, high school sweethearts.
wanted to party and be with friends...
ended up hurting her really bad. After the friends phase wore off I beat myself up bad.
Drank more, experimented with drugs, fucked all kinds of randos from the bars.
I will never forgive myself for what I did to my ex, she didn't deserve it at all.
As time goes by you'll slowly be able to cope more and more.
>allot yourself some time each morning to think about her and mourn the loss
>Don't look at her profiles on anything, or do too much that reminds you of her.
>I hope the best for you, OP, I've felt the pain too
Dude.... thank you for this message. I feel 100x better after reading this. I copied and pasted it into my phone so I can read it whenever I start thinking about her. I'm not OP but you helped me out big time. Thank you.
Not OP either, but we need more people like you, man. Definitely appreciate the read. I wish I wouldn't have started abusing drugs to cope, even though "coping" wasn't my goal with the drugs... so i thought. Thank you for the post