Im a 33yo guy dating a 20yo girl

Im a 33yo guy dating a 20yo girl.

And I mean dating, not paying dinners or buying her presents and gaining her trust with money.

Anyone else around with a age gap partner?
Which problems do you usually find? Do you think it can work?

can't even get into a bar. won't last more than 2 years. get her to sexually experiment and take as many pics as you can bro. enjoy it while it lasts.

My wife is 9 years younger than me

>can't even get into a bar
that's fou 20yo neets and weeaboos, not for girls.
remember, girls have tits and pussy. No law can stop that.

I'm not into normal couple relationships, i'm heavy into the dom/sub dynamic so i've got two girls who are mine to control/play with. I'm 30

One is a little submissive and the other is a total sub/slut.

Both are 19 and while they are fun to fuck, have sexy looking tight bodies especially in outfits their brains are pretty bland when it comes to any pillow talk or general conversational peices.

It's all in a small bubble related to their social requirements and what people think of them, so that's really draining, couldn't do it full time.

At the same time girls my age are heavy into the generic "I've been with all the good and bad boys now I want a house, babies, generic boring fucking copy/paste life please" and conversations are so dry and boring, it's almost like they would vomit if someone did a fart as it offends them so much, almost like they don't know that the internet is around.

Fuck that.

She knows very well what she wants, and she looks for a full relationship. But obviously there are issues like she is still studying but also working for paying her studies.

We dont go out a lot as she is currently working every weekend, but I have to say shes been more mature than my previous exgf (30yo).

In our country you can go everywhere if you are at least 18. She doesnt look that younger though.

My little user wife is 11 years younger.

Dating that much younger is a different type of relationship because you've already seen all of what she's living. You don't really have an equal to help you through all your problems, and hers are things you've already solved.

I think these relationships work best for men who have seen their fair share of serious shit, because the girl is still young and innocent enough to give off what you've lost.

Im kind of worried about spending too much time with her -years- and becoming "old" only for finding she has left me for other guy and Im still single at 40.

This week Im going to catch a plane for a very important job interview, she wished me good luck and all those things, but she is worried at the same time. Relationships with distance in the middle dont really work at all.

One of the problems I found about her age is she is constantly worried about things like
-my parents dont support me
-I dont know if I can continue studying as I dont have any money
-I cant pass math, if I fail more than 2 I wont get my scolarship so I cant continue my degree.
-We cant go out for having a drink, I need to prepare X instead.

Idk y it replied to your post, should have been op.

When I was 17 I dated a girl who was 13. Ofcourse everyone in school talked. The girls were telling me she is to young for me and my response was "why, you looking to fuck me instead?" The guys never hazed me to hard either because they knew I never cared about being part of the group or they would fuck her to. It's been 9 years that we have been together and our first child will be born this September, we are having a boy.

Take what you want OP, why order a salad then complain why everyone else is eating a burger and how you would love a burger.

OP here
Thats what is currently happening to me, most of the things she thinks right now have an easy solution.
And even if I can be confindent and show respect, there are times where I can easily fall apart and show my holes.

I was fed up with my previous relationships and Im discovering a new world with this one. I just dont know if she is worth more years of my life, specially when having to wait that much to see her.

> 3 year age gap...

I am 28 and my girl is 21 the difference is she does not have much sense on how to do things (non sexual) without me telling her to do it.

Also the backtalk immediatly when i am calmly pointing her out on things that should change. She feels like she is being confronted or attacked so i have to raise my voice before she listens.

She does not talk much about things i am a deep thinker and like to have my own vieuws on certain things. She just follows what she hears and thinks its true without doing proper research.

Also copying me i dont like that shit.

Age gap user here.

I'm 33 and in a relationship with a very cute 19yo Russian girl.

She's living and working in my country as an Au Pair. I was in a relationship with a 19yo German girl before her.

I love how easy they are to dominate in bed, love taking their anal virginity, giving them creampies, orgasms..

The lack of compatibility in terms of life experience is worth the primal teenage sex: my dick is rock hard as a rock, my loads are bigger and stronger. The looks on the faces of people we socialise with when they discover our age gap is beautiful.. my ex girlfriend's jealousy is almost palpable.

I know it won't last, so I take as many videos and pics as I can and do the most degrading sexual acts with them that I can get away with.

Think Mike Adriano from Perv City and Evil Angel..

Being hung like a horse is also going to warp their perceptions of normal sex too.

Ahh the life.

X

My last relationship I was 37 and she was 22 it was fun but later her talking just bored me to death

U a Virgo Sup Forums ?

Not even close Sup Forumsro

I'm fifteen years older than my gf. Biggest issue is some of her interests bore me but not sure if the age gap is the reason. Pussy is so goid tho it's worth it. I'm 27 btw.

stop daydreaming and go out from your mom's basement.

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>U a Virgo Sup Forums ?

Also she is actually the first girl i waited to have sex with for 1 month. Others just immediatly got fucked .

Beta cuck detected :)

Enjoy your jealousy, little boy, it'll keep you company in your journey of never ending lonliness

OK

I'm 41. My gf is 24.
I own two companies and worked really hard to get them. I make really good money.
She is in school going for a music degree and works at a chain restaurant to support herself.
She worries about things that she thinks are problems. But I've lived, and know that they're not. Sometimes she says things that I'm like WTF?? Then I have to remember that I'm almost 20 years older than her.
She likes to pay her own way, tho I'll book all the hotels and things for trips away.
I don't mind it user. She's fun to be around, very affectionate and honest and I take it for what it is.
Don't stress about not lasting. Nothing does. I thought my marriage would last forever. But she was a cheating cunt.
If you're happy user, just be happy.
She's young, so treat her well and she'll treat you well.

30 dating 20 here. the biggest problems for us is that she texts me at like 11:30 asking if I want to go out and i'm like, already falling asleep to the daily show.

I recently gave her a key and now she sometimes shows up at like 3am when she gets home from the city without me, wasted and horny. That may sound hot but half the time I'd rather just stay asleep.

Mine only talks about her job. Nothing else.
How much she likes what she does, -working with children- how much work she has and all those things.
Worst part is whenever a new week is starting she always has it free. But somehow she fills it from friday to sunday. So we cant go out anymore, and she doesnt care about it as she says she is too good with me already.

Thats really driving me nuts, I cant say I hate her job because she would think Im a jealous and selfish bf. But I just dont know what to do anymore.

I hate having to stay at home alone every weekend.

You're gonna lose her eventually.

Get back on the horse user, party with her

Amen and what's to all girls love dancing!

Finally a girl who pays for her own and is not some money gobbling succubus good for you !

I meant as in Astro sign not sex.

I dated a younger girl for 3 years. By the time she finished college she was a different person entirely.

Your description of dating a college student is accurate. Waitresses and college students have crazy schedules and think that they work harder than everyone else on the planet.

>15 years older
>I'm 27
Fucking kek'd.
Well done user. So subtle they missed it.

OP here
yes mine too. she likes to pay everything with her work, so she accepts every kind of work like fast food restaurants or child-nursing.

most of her problems are really dumb, and she usually says I dont understand why they are so important to her, but I guess she loves being with someone older than her.

low tier b8

Ah no i am a taurus

user, I'm not in your circumstance but I'm the same age.
I have a brother in law and an uncle who were both in 40s and married women in their early 20s one of which is a literal 10/10 the other is 8/10 on a bad day. I hate them all but they seem happy.

KEK yes i failed to notice. well played user well played.

something about a guy called Chris and a comfy chair beckoning you.

Thanks user. Yeah, finally.
My ex wife was a thieving cunt and appreciated nothing.
My gf is young, but everything I do for her is greeted with astonishment and appreciation. It's a really nice fucking change

I am 28 and have a 17 year old fucktoy, does that count?

All of these "problems" were pretending to be concerned about.. the fact of the matter is the tightness of their pussies and buttholes, the firmness of their nubile buttocks and breasts make any and all difficulties a trivial problem to seal with.

Nothing like gazing into the eyes of a teenager as you cum inside her, feel her nubile body under yours.

Well maturity gap will strike. But because you are an old fuck posting on a pre teen fuckfest board I'd say she's maybe not the most immature of you too. So you may be fine.

this board is 18+ try again fuccboi

Multi kek

So much thisssssssss

I understand. You went from bad to better enjoy user!

>85 y/o dating a 12 y/o
I mean it's all fun and I'm glad she's gotten into her extreme zoophilia pretty deep, but I just have a hard time when I want to talk about something seriously like my medication and she just wants to watch spongebob.

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One of the problems I find is she doesnt talk about us to other people. Its still 2 months together, but her parents know she is dating someone older but dont know how much older.

She told this to a few friend and most of them told her the typical stuff like she is crazy doing that. So we have to take everything in some kind of secret, which I dont like.

>can't go sit around in a loud area with overpriced drinks
Yea, cause that's like the defining point of all relationships, not just the good ones, right?

>been here since 2006
>now come time to time when I run out of fap ideas/material
>it gets worse everyday

My GF is 4 years younger than me (22/26) and I can attest, while it's rough sometimes having to deal with many of my problems alone (bc gf hasn't seen anywhere near the shit in life I have), it also feels really nice to regain a little of my innocence back vicariously, through her. It's also really rewarding for me to help guide her away from making the poor choices, and having the regret that I did/do. It's a different dynamic than most relationships I've been in, but I love it

Saw an 18 year old briefly last year

The idea of banging 18 year olds is great until you have to interact and talk with them and you realise they're all vapid, immature annoying teenagers who don't understand the basics of life- like everyone on Sup Forums

It's like trying to hang out with the average Sup Forums user- naive, edgy, annoying and not worth the time

They're usually shit as sex too

I'm a 27 year old man that's voluntarily lived a very sheltered life, I've never had a gf and I don't really like to go out at all, I was basically a forever alone till I got on tinder and fucked a chick, I'm afraid I'll get to be an old man eventually that's had next to no life. I have hardly any friends. What advice do you have for me?

Was 31 btw

Make friends and go out more.

Pedo here (Not really)
I'm 32 in love with a 12.Calm down i didnt touch her.
My step daughter (Soon to be ex-step-daughter (Divorcing)) is a perfect.
She is bright, mature and reponsible.
My wife is a fat lazy cunt, and her daughter was doing most of the work for her.
I hope to have chance with her once she reach 18

>stops himself from living life
>wants to know how to live life
First id accept the fact you're mentally retarded, after that you should probably work toward being less mentally retarded.

I'm 24 and my girlfriend is 19. All I could say is, as long as you both are in a legal age, there's nothing to really worry about. People may look at you both wrong for dating someone with a large age gap, but if you're both happy then leave it be.

Going out with a 20yo girl, I'm 29.
She can be goofy at times, like, goofy as a child,
and has no clue whatsoever of the things I talk about, but she likes to listen.

>1 month younger than me
I can really add to this discussion... AMA

What if I told you I don't drink because I have a incurable disease that affects my balance and progressively gets worse as I age, which will eventually kill me. Imagine your average 27yo 4channer that doesn't leave the house but also is a ticking time bomb.

34 yo dating a 25 yo here. i usually date in the 22-27 range, recently moving it to 24-29 due to the fact that its becoming harder to find girls who didnt bang the whole lacrosse team coming out of college who arent already married or in long term relationships.

mostly the issue was her drinking. she doesnt drink a lot often, but she did drink often or a lot. we've been working on that (myself cutting out alcohol pretty much entirely for health reasons- i dont have bad health i just want to be healthier)

she dropped a lot of her party friends as well which i think is important if youre gonna date that age range, as a lot of these groups consist of people not looking for relationships and think none of their friends should be in any. i didnt ask her, but she said shed just rather be with me than with them and realized they were trying to tie up a lot of her time.

in the end im not sure if its gonna work out. i really just take this a week at a time. if anything worries me its the life shift/change people usually hit between 28-33.

also im pretty decent looking, know how to dress, dont make a lot of money (was 40k, now 60k and this is in nyc so its not a lot), no kids, no marriages, and have manners.

so really i just take this shit 1 week at a time.

Dated a girl who was 11 years younger. Me roughly 33. Her 22. If she wasn't bipolar and a former heroin addict who still had the addicts mentality (willing to lie, cheat, and steal to get what she wanted) if probably would have worked out well.

pedo

Kek!!!
OP, talk to this user. Sage advice right here.

What's wrong with your dick?

I mean my parents were that same age gap but that was decades ago, early twenties women weren't as awful as they are now. Good luck to ya.

If a young 20 something is even moderately attractive they are usually basic bitches.

OP here again
I dont know if I have the good one. Mine doesnt like to go out a lot, -since april we didnt-
Focuses a lot on her work, making money for living and saving it.
I wish sometimes she was more like people around her age, with parties, college life, beach and trips around. But I guess if I want someone mature with around her age this is the best choice.

We barely see each other, but she is the first person in letting me know she is always, and that kind of trust is something very important to me.

you are one pathetic neckbeard

Half plus seven dude

I am a 36 year old, dating a 19 year old. So far things are going great. Her parents absolutely adore me. She is studying Law, and she knows I want to have a serious and stable relationship. In 3 months, she will move in with me, and we will see what happens from there.

And, the sex is awesome

Did you pick up your 13 gf in the same English class? Too* too* too*

I'm 37,
My current girl is 24, but I was with a 18 year old when I was 34.

>Dating that much younger is a different type of relationship because you've already seen all of what she's living

Truth. But I find that this is actually beneficial to both of you. Through explaining what I was dealing with I was able to understand it better and it built our communication.

>You don't really have an equal to help you through all your problems, and hers are things you've already solved.

This really just shows a lack of empathy for a partner. While true in letter, she's a completely different person, her experiences aren't going to be yours. You can't expect a woman of any age to just see things your way, it's a two way street which makes the you an excellent adviser, but more of an aid that a problem solver.

>Im still single at 40.
C'mon. You could be single at 40 if you dated a 39 year old.

>Relationships with distance in the middle dont really work at all.

I'm fucking busy. I try for logistics in all my relationships as I want to make spending time with her an event up until we live together, then I like to emulate that event by traveling together etc. If you both really want to be with each other, the distance is as insignificant as the age gap.

>Problems
>Family Concerns
>Financial concerns
>Prioritizes school over libation

Seems like you have a keeper user, if you want a teenage party girl, go hang out at the sororities. You want to make this girls parents accept you? Be good to her.

Gf is 11 years older than I am. A very hard working woman with good values and a deep love for me.

Just reading about these relationships bore me to death

I don't think you understand the concept of dating.

>I just dont know if she is worth more years of my life, specially when having to wait that much to see her.

Don't waste her time because you're not all in, user. Go fuck other women, or at least, find the woman that makes you never ask this kind of thing.

If you've been together for less than a year, try finding more common ground and spend time together enjoying it, then build your advice off of it because conflict resolution can always return to a good base of good times.

>She worries about things that she thinks are problems. But I've lived, and know that they're not.

Not to you. Help her work through them as if they are and you'll have a more well rounded young girlfriend, rather than a spoiled brat.

>30 dating 20 here. the biggest problems for us is that she texts me at like 11:30 asking if I want to go out and i'm like, already falling asleep to the daily show.

>Amen and what's to all girls love dancing!

This is literally the best part. I dunno, I worked hard early in life and missed out on a lot of this as I built my corporation. Now? I love fucking getting wasted on a Friday in a college dance club.

>I hate having to stay at home alone every weekend.

Sounds like she may be going extracurricular on you. Why aren't you active?

I am 33 wife is 22

Is it true?
Watches at 0 $?

t. Edgelord

I am 32, dated a 21 year old. It was terrible. She was literally a child with childish ideas. I no longer have those ideas and tendencies that I used to have back in college, so it was really weird to hear her and her friends talk. The sex was just okay, and the relationship did not last long. She really needed to grow up and become her own person.

29 with 21. She's so fucking immature. Full angering and retarded, but I figure she's just young so whatever. Sex is tight. Ass is delicious.

>Sounds like she may be going extracurricular on you. Why aren't you active?

I work from monday to friday, when I reach the weekend all I want is to rest or have nice plans. We can always find time between those days, but its not the same. She is always to busy or tired -working 14+ hours straight, not even eating sometimes-

My wife is 12 years younger than me. We've been together since she turned 18 and I was 30. We focused our energy on working and making a comfortable life for ourselves. We've been together about 17 years now and just had our first child last month. So having a younger woman doesn't always mean you'll be alone at 40.

When I was 22 I was dating and later living with a 44 year old woman. Her son was younger than me. Everywhere we went people just assumed she was my mother, and we let that be. Didn't really tell many friends or family. The whole thing was a little awkward.

But the sex, holy shit! She was just getting divorced from a pretty lame guy, and my dick was how she worked through it...

Saving moneys always a desirable virtue. So drugs if ur bored smoke a jay

welcome to Sup Forums

Get outta here you piece of shit douche, this is /b and i was Bet that you're an ugly virgin neckbeard

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Good perspective. Thanks user.

Everyone in this thread keeps complaining about young people not being able to carry a conversation. Well yesterday in the car with my wife she was talking about the same topic she has talked about for the last 3 months and I just tuned her out. After a while even if you are compatible you run out of topics to discuss.

No matter the age gap eventually it ends up being about the sex and taking care of any kids you have. Conversation is pretty low on importance after 10 years. At least for us.

And that's why am totally into dating milfs, fucking cheers mate

I'm 5 years older then my girl, her parents have an irrational hate for me. It's actually pretty devastating mentally.

I'm a self reliant guy with a steady career making 100k a year, not much but decent I don't beat her or treat her badly. I don't appear like a goon.

They just hate white people, they are Catholic Mexicans.

Cut it off op no matter what she says what you think. Just end it now and avoid the shit. When she is hitting your age you're going to be approaching 50. She will be looking for something younger and more vibrant. Plus how do you even communicate with a 20 year old. They know nothing about life. I am 31 and i wouldnt date anyone under 24 because i am not going to be their new dad. And if its a serious relationship thats what it will be for the next 5 years for you.

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>I am 31 and i wouldnt date anyone under 24 because i am not going to be their new dad.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHA

And now you're going to explain why your age gap is ok or the women you pick are better suited while assuming OP's is not.

Amen. I probably bored the shit out of her, but she said she enjoyed having a man around to take care of. She liked cooking for me and making me drinks. I did a lot of guy stuff like painting her new place.

She taught me how to eat pussy, fuck ass, and make a woman squirt. Seriously grateful for all that...

when i was 24 i had already served 4 years in the military, held real jobs, killed people. Im not saying every 24 year old is the same but they are more likely to know the world. and 24 to 31 isnt a big gap 6 years isnt a big deal 11 is pushing the line. In 6 years my 24 year old will be 30 and ill be 37 not a crazy difference. op however will be 39 maybe going on 40 and his girl will be 25 maybe 26. I dont know many 25/26 year olds clambering over dating a 40 year old

I don't think it's the age gap user. 5 years is nothing in Latin American cultures.
Maybe take off your Trump ball cap when you're in their house, and eat más tacos and they'll come around.

A) Thanks for your service, I mean that.
B) Pull your head out of your ass. Your definitions of what is and isn't a big deal is totally arbitrary and will serve only to fit your interest in the moment you have it.