hello, b. i, feel kinda generous today. no way i can help you materially (like buying you a game or transfer you money), but i just want to help anons in any other way; of course if i can.
i can be your psychologist, therapist; give you an advice or two, some tips.
i don't know if it can really help, but i want to at least motivate you by giving you some kind of support.
motivation annon just got out of a 2 month rehab
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didn't get. were you in a rehab?
Sup Forums is kind of lonely these days no real good threads just the same things every night,ig Im just bored enough to say this out loud on a thread that isnt a repost.anyway how are you Sup Forumsro
yeah man for 2 months and i forgot what life on the outside was like we had no contact w the world
i would love some motivation for my upcoming exams
i thought you somehow knew who i was and mocked me, because i was in a rehab too because of drug-induced psychosis. i was there for two weeks and after that i was locked at home for two months because my parents were afraid i would continue doing drugs.
please, don't stay at home; be social. sitting at home and being alone 24/7 gave me me hellish depression and weird anxiety.
stay in contact with people as much as possible; hang out a lot. believe me.
>how are you Sup Forumsro
i am feeling normal, dude. what about you?
thanks man i really appreciate that, i know the depression and anxiety all to well ill be as social as can be and stay clean
>10 years ago lost virginity to a cute girl
>sex is terrible, very awkward experience
>one time only
>she goes around the block, eventually my friends hit her up too
>everyone else gets a good fuck when i barley got a piece
>i ask her out a few times and get a no, have a bf, lies
>friends laugh at me, im considered a creep, weirdo, possibly gay.
>10 years later, present day
>see her working while im talking to a desk clerk
>see her walk around talk to other desk clerks near me
>i'm handling my business while she walks around probably scoping me
>she walks to a file cabinet behind the desk clerk that's servicing me
>i don't pay a attention to her or even acknowledge her keeping my focus at the conversation.
>im anxious as fuck tho
>overhear her talking, apparently she knows all my friends
>shes practically would be someone mutual had it not been for such a fucking rollercoaster of humiliation
>im going to stop by again
>i'll wave at her, but man.....talk about miscommunication and cringe.
>everyone probably told her im gay.
>i have a deep social akward manner because ive been excluded alot
what do? im like 32 now
Can you give dating advice?
sure, you can. keep in mind i have gf.
you have slight psychosis and delusional disorder. aint nobody is going to say that kind of shit about you. you are paranoid af. you just think people are occupied with you more than themselves. i can relate; i have had shitloads of this kind of embarrassing and awkward moments. however, as time goes by, i learn not giving a fuck and being brave enough to beat the shit out of anyone who even says something that's little disrespectful to me.
Ok i get alot of attention from women nowadays due to very good lifestyle changes but im a bit rusty with my women skills. A chick i like just dumped her boyfriend because he cheated. How long should i wait to talk to her (i used to know her and have a great conversation starter for her) . I know i could just talk now but it just happened and i really dont want to be that asshole who looks like hes trying to take advantage of a girl when shes vulnerable. What do you guys suggest i do.
Diagnose my sorry ass.
>Used to fap to porn a lot but stopped when i got my first girlfriend
>turns out she's a bitch as was my second girlfriend but 2 years on I'm in a happy stable relationship
>throughout all of these relationships I've had problems with ED and, specifically with this relationship, really invasive thoughts about her old partners and guys hitting on her in the street which happens a lot to her (like 2/3 times whenever she leaves the house)
I even had a nightmare for the first time in like 4 years about her cheating on me, despite her being incredibly loyal and wanting to marry me and all that shit.
What do?
my advantage is my honesty. i am honest when it comes to that kind of issues. you know why? i just feel comfortable and don't have a fear of being caught anymore.
if i was you , i would be drunk (i drink always anyway; try yourself 4-5 shots, why not?), and would tell her with kind smile and slight laugh on my face "daaaamn, girl, just liked you for a while. that little jerk, right? hahaha, what if you deserved it? lol, treat good otherwise i'll cheat on you too. haha. listen, as i told you, i liked you and kinda have a crush on you. im not being "heyyy you broke up? lets date"; i was just keeping myself from admitting it to you because i didn't know to give you any problems. however, if you are single now, i am just telling you i have liked you and still do. i don't say you should say yes or no. just told ya. ya know? you can tell me if you ever need anything; i would be glad to date with you, by the way.
This is not gonna be the typical Sup Forums post. A few years ago I was a weeaboo which passed every single day in my room, masturbating and playing minecraft. I left that lifestyle and now I exercise daily, try to educate myself and honestly I'm a pretty good looking guy, as well as being a good person.
I'm chasing that one girl from my college - I want to fuck her so bad. However she doesn't want to get laid with anybody from her college, idk why. I'm pretty sure that she would be onto me but I don't know how the fuck can I convince her.
Thanks the thread in this whole shithole place. Have a good day. Everybody, keep the faith Sup Forumsros
if they still hit her, kill those shitass muthafuckas. if they don't do it anymore, tell your girl seriously that one single behavior that will let anyone feel it's good idea to hit her and you will leave her and never get back to her.
also, you have low self-esteem; that's why you are so jealous.
Ok then..How do i get her attention without seeming like an opportunist? Im sorry, im literally autistic and getting a girlfriend is annoying for me. Keeping one is easy as fuck though.
>i can be your psychologist
2 years ago I was molested by a middle aged strange man in his car, this was after I tried to cast for a tv commercial.
Shit is I've always feel kinda gay, I've felt in love with two people in my life and both of them happened to be men, so the whole shit of being molested made me feel more insecure about my sexuality.
I don't want to be gay, I fucking despise gay people, I despise gay community and I despise knowing that I'm mentally ill, just like an old man with Alzheimer hates his fucking condition instead of trying to "b ur self" or "accept ur self" kinda bullshit
I fuck women, I'm extremely fucking good looking and I like women as well, and they like me back. How, just fucking how do I face this?
I tried to kill my self right after being molested, and I have constant nightmares of the man trying to rape me, I get a al shaky and my chest feels like about to explode. But at the same time I don't want to seek help, I just want to forget all about this, I just want my mind to stop.
I can't help it, I don't run away from things, why god doesn't gives me the chance of just stop this, just this one time, what I did to deserve this?
so is it a good idea to say hi or wave? i really need some communication of the opposite sex
She's one of those nice to everyone all the time forever people and wears artsy revealing clothes like fishnets which is probably the issue.
Any suggested solutions?
tell her that your relationship definetely requires this: 1. stop being overly nice to everyone 2. stop being close/open to everyone 3. stop wearing this much teasing shit.
not only she should care for your relationship in itself, but for your, her loved one's, feelings.
did he rape you or what?
you are gay, dude.
>you are gay,
no shit idiot.
He stripped me naked inside his car after he convinced me because it was part of the casting. Ran away with my clothes in my hands after he tried to jerk me off.
Felt completely embarrassed and cried myself after that in the subway and in my dorm thinking on how I should've punched him on the face or fight him back.
You don't want to help, you just want the attention. Fuck you.
how the fuck can i get satisfied by an attention when no one knows me who i am? what's point of doing something for attention purposes without your name?
Hey OP, I'm a recovering neet. Now see i've got myself back out there, got a job, i'm seeing someone and i've got a car recently.
Im trying to fix everything wrong in my life, but there's 2 things that bother me. I dont think I can keep my girl when she finds out I've no friends. I always struggled making friends because I never really felt that little social desire people have.
I mean I can talk to people sure, but I don't have that desire people have, you see it from time to time, people at work talking absolute shite just for the sake of it. I think my nondesire to socialize has fucked my ability for banter. I can small talk but very rarely banter.
So Op if you can help me become decent at banter (holding a convo rather than starting it)
And be able to make friends, I would be eternally greatful.
hey OP how can I get a doctor to prescribe me modafinil, seriously what do you guys look out for when you assess ADHD
You are a worthless sack of shit. Nothing you do here will help anyone but yourself. Fuck off you selfish faggot. And anyone who thinks this is help is a retarded pathetic excuse for a human being.
How can I tell my people that I have depression. I've tried for a while and am just to afraid every time I try to bring it up.
At 34 years old I feel like I have no direction in life. I have an ok job that pays more than minimum wage that I just kinda fell into. Doesn't inspire me, gets pretty stressful, but it pays the bills and I'd be hard pushed to get the same salary starting again in a different field so I just put my head down and get on with it.
I own my house, have a car, motorbike etc. I'm due to have my mortgage paid off in 2 years time and I need to decide where in the world I want to end up.
I got rid of all my friends, don't have the time, patience or money for realtionships anymore - had too much bad luck in my love life and given up now.
Don't have any hobbies apart from playing vidya, drinking and weed. When I'm not at work, that's usually what I can be found doing. Alone, at home.
I like food. I have a passion for cooking and eating. I was thinking maybe something cool revolving around food would be good. Maybe some sort of pop up fusion shop? Don't want to be a chef as I like my working hours to be during the day.
What do I do? How can I get some passion and motivation back in my life?