Should you ever double text a girl?

Should you ever double text a girl?

I met this girl,she seemed really interested, asked for my number, we texted for a bit too, then i sent her a text and she hasn't responded and it's been 3 days, should i text her again or just delete her number?

>should I be a beta faggot


Kill yourself for even thinking about texting her again

>Having to ask

Kill yourself for even thinking

>pussy slayers

Do it. If she's ghosting you you have nothing to lose. My personal rule of thumb is three but you need to assess by situation.
Send a text that really demands an answer. Ask her out.

I was actually thinking about asking her out as soon as she answered me, but thing is she didn't, should i just start a conversation again and ask her out or ask her out directly?


Keep in mind she hasn't answered in 3 days, although things clicked in real life, she was into me, and out brief conversation was also nice.

I fucking hate texts ..

If she was really interested,she would reply. I am not being an asshole I am just telling it how it is. Look at it this way,if she is interested she will reply. Go on with your life,if she replies,good,if not,don't feed her ego by texting her.

I know she's interested, she even initiated the first conversation, she asked for MY number, it's weird man.
I guess you're right, fuck it, her loss, if she wants to talk she has my number.

>I fucking hate texts

So call her then faggot. If she doesn't answer leave a message and if she doesn't respond, burn her house down.

man i sometimes quadruple text girls
its not about how many texts you send but what you send
if you are whiteknighting already with the frist one youll lose

>inb4 i have a gf
>inb4 i just experiment on what would work with girls and what not
>inb4 not giving a fuck is one of the most important things i figured

meh i might send her one more text, if she doesn't reply fuck it, gotta be sure at least.

what do you suggest sending then?

>I guess you're right, fuck it, her loss, if she wants to talk she has my number.

My exact point! If she likes you she will contact you. You did your part,you sent her a text and now it's on her.

I say that, but something tells me she MIGHT have not got the text, MIGHT have been a problem, i don't know.

Her phone may be dying, the girl I like's phone stopped receiving texts so I bought her a new one.

>best reply ITT

This guy gets it

I never understood shit like this... I want to talk to her, so I text, or go over.

Hey haven't herd from ya what's up?

Doing any thing Friday, was going xxxxx.

Are you ignoring me? Because I am going to wreck that ass next time I see you.

Any of the above works.

Faggot

>Are you ignoring me? Because I am going to wreck that ass next time I see you.

I lost so hard and this isn't even YLYL thread
also im guessing youre not getting laid much do ya lad?

Unless you have supernatural abilities to sense it,she got it. Listen,it's obvious you want to text her and nothing will change your mind. But listen to me please. IF you have to text her, wait for a week or two and act cool. But I will repeat this,I don't think she is into you.

Its literally "plz respond " level of beta my man

man whatever you want basically just dont think too much about it. if you catch yourself thinking about what to write and how to Phrase it stop immediately

also dont confuse "whatever you want" with f.e. sending her your gore folder or alike

if you send something "extreme" be sure you send it someone how understands that or knows the context (only be complete bananas with already good friends)

also if conversation is boring, dont try to keep it up. nobody will profit from that

what i like to do and most girls enjoy is just talking about things that happened to me that day or week ... (real things, dont lie, people will know)

f.e. if i went to uni and saw some huge ass whale ill make a snap and send it to her "hey saw you at uni today, dem cheeks Girl ;)"

also i cannot tell you how to chat to strangers. most girls i talk to i met atleast once or know atleast a Little so she isnt like "who are you, why you send me this, wtf"

but again, dont give a fuck, tell stuff that YOU find funny/exciting etc and dont get discouraged if something "doesnt work". like if she responds to that fatgirlpic with "wow you are an asshole" just be like "meh sorry didnt want to be mean. whatsup? everything fine?"

OP, I can 100% assure you none of these faggots actually interact with girls.

Is on the right path. If you're sending her stupid cringe shit or stuff that's begging for her attention you'll dry that pussy up like a shamwow. By no means should you blow her phone up but if she hasn't replied there is no harm in sending an extra text.

PS. you are kind of a faggot for asking Sup Forums this, just have confidence in yourself Sup Forumsro. Whatever you do, it's you. Stop giving a shit and it won't matter.

What do you suggest sending her then?
Any examples of texts with the "i don't give a fuck mentality" ?

This
Just send her something like "thx 4 answer dude"
Guaranteed response.

The fucking irony...

Direct to the point asking her out. Easier and probably more successful if it's something you already have planned with friends as chicks fucking love a dude with a social life (the majority at least).

If you're not doing anything with friends, find something cool or original to do with her. Make sure you clearly state "what" you are doing and not "when" you are doing it.

Example: "Hey *insert girl name here* do you want to go hiking this saturday?" not "Hey *ignh* what are you doing saturday?"

If she doesn't reply to this, then I'm sorry to break it to you homie she's probably not down. Don't distress though because women are whores and there is a whole globe of them so it's easy pickings.

Chill g, we all have to learn our way into this shit.

The true "i don't give a fuck mentality" is not sending the text. Find another girl,jesus.

Post the gist of your texting and tell us what your last message was.

That's good, she told me she loves music etc and there's a music festival coming up, i actually thought about asking her out but since she didn't respond i left it like that.

So basically "Hey xx, wanna go to the music festival tomorrow night?"
out of the blue? like the fact that she hasn't replied never even happened?

She texted me at night, we talked about music, school etc.. she told me it'd be cool if i can come and see her play, then she went to bed and that's it, a day later i sent her '" hey, what's up?"

>someone isn't a beta like me so they sure never talked with a girl


Hahaha enjoy being the guy that she only talks to when she is bored with a 0 change of fucking her

bullshit

i often have no time to text and want to do it later but then forget to do so

>t. female

You have to treat girl like your not interested in them to get any attention these days.

What the fuck is this, that's why you're a virgin.

>I like to someone so I totally forget about him all the time and I never check my messages

100%, if not just say you're going to the music festival and ask if she'd like to come along with you. You want to establish that you have your own life rather then one that is solely focused on this girl. Don't act aloof or anything, but just make sure she understands that she is not the turnstile to your existence.

Would recommend "Hey ****, I'm heading to **** festival tomorrow night, you in?"

Again cunt, make up for your lack of penis size noone is impressed. I'm saying this because I have been on both sides of this lmao. Sometimes you just forget to reply but again please CHAD TELL ME HOW MANY PUSSIES YOU DOZE

Truth

no sometimes im just busy with work, and uni

maybe you just dont know that since all you do is shitpost on Sup Forums in your basement

You're both right, just depends on the girl. No girl will ever like an overly clingy guy and most girls do not like an overly distant / abusive guy. Just have to find the balance.

Hahaha, cuck. She's probably using the phone you bought to send nudes to nignogs and spics. kys

>lack of penis size

Hahahahha

Man your life must be really sad, especially if you have to lie to yourself about that.

If someone is into you they won't ignore you for 3 fucking days

The fucking end
Xoxoxoxoz

I don't know who's baiting more, you for replying or him for posting.

I go to college and I work too, that doesn't mean I will ignore a girl I like for 3 days

Kiss

thats what i like to hear

Yes but you can not be that bussy that you not even check your phone once in a while

The fact you're still having a cry over the fact I said you don't talk to girls show's how much of a fucking virgin you are. The fact you're using DBZ as a reaction pic only adds +10 to your virgin points.

GG faggot; continue to jerk off to traps and call it dating.

>i'm heading to *** festival tomorrow, you in?
>no response
>has to go to the festival alone

??? your point being

>music festival = win
>music festival w/ pussy = win and pussy

Don't be a fag about it. No, "hey did you get my last text?" No, "hey u there?" None of that shit. You can send her ONE more text that acts as if the previous text never existed, and that is all.

"Hey, saw that lemon Monkey Butts are playing at the Spergodrome on Friday... wanna come with?"

Do not under any circumstances reference the previous message. If she ignores the second, she's ghosting. Let her go.

i dont ignore people i just sometimes forget to reply

didnt ever say this happens often or i do it on purpose. but it happens. you cant just say "hurr she would reply if she cared" well no maybe there is another reason

true but maybe sometimes i forget. sometimes im at the lake and leave my phone at home or whatever.

i really dont get how you guys get so anal about someone not responding sometimes. just send another message and ask whatsup.

When did I cry about you saying that I don't talk to girls?
Also enjoy being a friendly obiter and getting being laid

And never getting laid*

not only continues to cry but cried in
Done with you pussy boy, stop wasting my motherfucking time. Noone cares about you, you're fucking irrelevant.

>I like someone so I don't check our messages


>I like someone but I won't start a conversation with him
I not sure if you are just lying to us or you are also lying to yourself

nibba you obviously have never had more then 10+ people message you in one day. Shit get's pushed down and lost.

Thanks, the festival is in two days, so i'll send it to her tomorrow, what's the worst that could happen?
She comes? great, she doesn't respond? her loss.
I'll meet new people there anyways.

Im not anal about this, but seme of you bitches act retarded. you see a message but dont react to it. if you like someone and see the message you can just react. we wont think you come off as needy. any attention from a woman is good attention for a guy!

EXACTLY BRUH, that's the way you gotta be thinking. I know being single can be fucking tough but it's just a waiting game my g. I wish you luck.

anything below a 7/10 is bad attention

she was interested in that moment, clearly she doesn't give an actual fuck

I had, but if you want to someone you would make sure you saw what they said

why cant you accept that people just forget things?

here a scenario for you. maybe you get it then
>wake up late
>see i got message
>no time, need to catch bus
>forget phone at home
>get home from work
>meet buddy
>go for a beer
>wow fuck its so late
>go home watch movie on tv and fall asleep
so impossible to happen right?

people must really like you if you judge situations like not receiving a response immediately with "welp you probably dont care about me"

sounds like when my gf is hungry as fuck while on her period

completely irrational

You go fuck yourself you homo. dont come around with that number bullshit. grow the fuck up

How about you start up a new conversation?

That's what most people do when they want to talk to people.

Not sure if you're autistic or just socially inept.

SEND HER A FACEBOOK MESSAGE
THAT WAY YOU'RE SURE SHE'S GHOSTING YOU FFS.

Nope I have ignored plenty of fat/ugly girls before


Attention is only good if it comes from someone who you like

idk man, personally it happens to me all the time. Only a week ago I was messaging on and off with a chick, got a bit sick, had some projects to do and just kinda forgot. Not because she's bad looking or I didn't like her, pussy just aint the first thing on my mind.

You're probably a 5 yourself

I haven't texted since 2011 when i deleted my facebook, i just hate it, i love talking to people, looking them in the eye, touching them ( girls ).
Texting feels mechanic and weird as fuck.

some of us are ugly and some of us ain't. fact of life my friend

i mean the feeling you get that people actualy want you. dont be a fag bro you know what i mean

>3 days
>hasn't checked his messages

h'okay buddy.

Truth but I dress well and I have my own hobbies, still manage to pull 8-9's

How the fuck would you forget?
The message is still there, dipshit

but if your confident enough you can get any! people dont just say that its true

>making up fake scenarios where someone forgetting about you for 3 days, even when you sent a message, still can mean that said person wants a relationship with you


That really made me sad my man

Are you op? Not sure how this pertains to what I said.

Other than maybe not knowing texting etiquette I guess.

I grew up on the internet, so texting and chatting is my preferred method. That being said, I'm pretty socially inept, myself. Just observant enough to know when other people are doing poorly. Lol I couldn't help my own situation if I tried.

3 days, new girl, she's probably testing you herself.

Do you think people are constantly checking their inboxes when they got shit to do?

100% TRUTH PREACH MY BROTHER

>girls
>not doing EXACTLY this 24/7

Pick one.

It isn't email you dumbass, there's a big ass notification in your phone that won't go away unless you open the message

Are you dense?
She opened it, thought fuck i can't answer now, forgot.

How fucking hard is it to comprehend?

i urge you to not be THAT faggot. we all know THAT faggot. we have been THAT faggot at least once before. we all laugh at THAT faggot.

if she had any interest a) she would have replied and b) she would text you without even you texting her first. so just move on. she either gave you the wrong number or she's not interested. either way, don't be THAT faggot.

when im abroad i dont even take my phone with me. im off the grid for 1-2 weeks then.
so what? normal people dont overthink everything when they dont get a reponse.

ofc its still there and i will respond to it for sure but maybe not the same day. man a friend of mine often responds after a week and it doesnt even mother me. i know he is busy alot and has things more important than a fucking message. and if its really important for me i would just call him *mindblown*

implying its fake. just because it seems so unreal for you to meet people outside doesnt mean it is

Yeah and you can swipe it away immediately because it's blocking the porn.

Jesus Christ y'all make too many assumptions. Besides all op has to do is try strike up a new conversation. "Hey what's up, seen any good movies lately". Or let the endless possibilities of being ignored run through his head. If she keeps ignoring him, then it's time to move on.

you have time to open it but cant answer it??? to the guy you like???

its hard to understand for people with no lifes it seems

>I like someone
>so I won't check our conversation in 3 days even through we used to talk everyday

Responding definitely takes more time than just reading.

Also you're assuming she likes op. And you're assuming whatever op sent even warranted a response. Maybe op said something super weird that she doesn't even know how to respond to. Maybe she's tired of OP's bullshit and started texting Chad for a good fucking.

Maybe she's DEAD! !!

Op should call the police to check in on her.

just for you another scenario (which happens often to people with a life)
>get shitton of emails
>be in multiple whatsapp Groups
>get tan Messages
>get 1 message from someone you actually care about in between of that
>oversee it
UN IM AGINABLE

Yes, i like him,i dont' want to blow things off,maybe i'm checking to see if he's needy?
How long won't he respond for?
What should i do?
Should I respond? no i'll wait.

These things go on in girls minds more than you think, they're complicated, they're not men.
That's how i know you're a virgin.
>he didn't send me a message today
>i'm gonna not send him one for 4 days !
is a completely rational thought in their minds.

Thatn she should say shes not interested any more. how you gone give someone hope than just ghost him or her. its not hard to say im not interested but apperatly woman do

man when i watch what people in this thread post im not sure who is more complicated here

that overanalyzing bullshit with no knowledge of whats actually up just amazes me

>inb4 nolifers everywhere here on Sup Forums

In all this scenarios op not sending a message is the best thing to do you dumbass

ok, she ghosted intentionally, what should OP do?

>They're always talking to 10 other guys
>Them seeking contact with certain typed of people is sometimes determined by hormonal cycle
>You may have said something that turned her off
Either way just let her go. You can try again once more for good measure. Like I said their attitudes vary daily. That said just assume she won't back and start dating with other chicks. Once they find out other grills are interested in you, chances are she'll be back anyway.

>I like someone
>so I won't check our conversation in 3 days even through we used to talk everyday