I just found out this morning my gf (of 3 years) cheated on me multiple times with one guy over the last few months...

I just found out this morning my gf (of 3 years) cheated on me multiple times with one guy over the last few months. She said she was sorry, begged for another chance, said she'd do anything - but I'm really torn. On the one hand I kind of don't feel like I can do any better and I'll just end up single if I walk away, on the other I cant handle the thought of being a literal cuckold.

Anyone been in similar situation and how did it go? Or just make me feel worse by taking the piss or whatever...

Walk away right now OP
Never respond to her
Never speak with her
Never acknoiwledge her
EVER
AGAIN
Stop thinking like a faggot and go and slay some pusy

Hang in there faggot. Being a little bitchboi isnt so bad. Buy yourself a little dick cage and a large bottle of tequila. You'll feel better soon enough.


Or...you can do the right thing and dump her ass.

Or you can go into an open relationship and keep her around for sex and company until you can find someone else.

thats the thing I just keep getting stuck on. I mean after 3 years you cant just turn off feeling for someone, but everytime I think maybe I should give it another go I feel like I am just allowing myself to be made a fool of.

cease all communications, do your best to fuck her over, work on improving yourself and find a better gf.

Dump her ass

everyone I have know that has stayed has had that person cheat on them again

Just dump her and go hit on women at a bar

Leave her now. I promise she'll do it again. Move on, you will find some better. Otherwise, each time you fuck her you will think of his cock in her

She was able turn her feelings off for you so she could go have another guy fuck her pussy and cum on her face

Faggot, walk away, don't look back, and post those sweet nudes for payback

you shoud get revenge and post some pics

leave her srsly, sorry though

This.
I have experience, kept on dragging on with the relationship for a year. You'll only make things worse. You are on a sinking ship. Get off a.s a.p.

just post noodz OP
shes a bitch make her pay

Yeah bro, it's hard. It will be difficult.

But you must walk away.

These are the situations that end up defining us, and if you react to your feels instead of pushing through you'll find yourself giving in like that all the time.

The trick here is to not let this person know or understand it hurts. Don't be a dick. Don't be dramatic. The only real power you have is to cast her aside without it seeming like it hurts you. If you're whiney or cry about it, or if you stay, you define yourself as someone to be walked upon. Don't be that guy OP.

I guess that's true.

And it pissed me off a bit how when she confessed (after I'd already found) out she was crying and shit when I'm the one who ought to be upset.

But I haven't had a huge amount of experience with girls in my life... and the other side of I just keep thinking maybe at least having someone who doesnt really love me or respect me is better than being alone.

I understand what people saying are right, I should leave, and she will do it again, and letting her will just demean me even more... I dont know. I just wish she hadn't done it.

It is always the same question. Would she react in a kind way, if you had cheated on her? Or just leave you

The relationship is already over.

Staying will show her she can continue cheating with no consequences.

not going to post any pics of her. If people can look her up then they'll look me up to - and I've had enough humiliation for today.

>your girl cares about other guys penis more than about you

top cuck imo its really better to be alone rather than to be with such trash, but its your decision. As for you, my advice - introduce her to the BBC. That way she'll experience the big cock and you will experience more pleasure than you can imagine.

Break up. If she did it once, she'll do it again, and you fucking know it.

Im not knocking people who are into that sort of thing although I dont understand it myself - but the thought of my gf (if I can even call her that now) being fucked by someone else doesnt give me any pleasure, trust me.

Taking the piss is an English phrase so you are probably British or maybe Australian. So she is probably banging a BBC refugee. You have no choice but to let her continue her escapades or you can end up in jail. You might as well embrace your new sissy cuckold lifestyle by getting some pretty clothes and a cock cage. She is probably fucking more than one guy, more likely it is three to five. So now your job will be to suck them hard so they can fuck your girl. And while the others are waiting you will let them fuck your ass so they stay hard. Then since condoms are haram when one is finished cumming inside your girl you will have to lick her pussy clean so the next may fuck her, because it would be gay if their dick touched another mans cum. Get used to only cumming from a man fucking you and the closest you'll be getting to her pussy now is to lick cum out of it.

Tell her you'll take her back if she'll let you fuck her sister. Otherwise never talk again.

You're better off leaving her. Take it from someone who was in the same boat, she will cheat again. For all you know she's already cheated with other guys.

OP does a murder

Oh look, it's one of these faggots again. How many threads have you made today, cuccboii?

This is exactly what I do when I break up with a girl. Works like a charm and makes you feel powerful over them.

Leave that cunt, OP. Go out and destroy her friend's use and make sure everyone knows it.

Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, you're gonna get fed to the niggers after I rip out your spine and flog you with it.

>tldr ditch the Bitch

make her think its all fine and good - 2 weeks from now dump her and disappear without reason

>And it pissed me off a bit how when she confessed (after I'd already found) out she was crying and shit when I'm the one who ought to be upset.

Cunt of an ex did this to me when he'd cheat. I swear it was to distract me from beimg upset myself as the natural instinct was to comfort him.

>implying anyone give a fuck about you
your the most beta user we can find we'll not do anytin except fap to you girl just post them

She WILL do it again, I promise you.

>Go out there and destroy her friends use
>destroy her friends use
>her friends use
>her use
>use
>u
>u wot m8

Best :ddddd

dunno - many
I lost the count as the only person making such things is me

Bounce.
Don't look back.
Get out.
She doesn't respect you

been in same situation... i got mad as fuck when i found out. Joke is on her.... i cheated on her with +30 others, multiple hookers, multiple secret tinder sexdates. All she did was suck off a guy and kiss with 2 others.. I guess i am the bigger problem. Never told her and never will. I continue to cheat when I get a chance

if you don't walk away you are cuckold, if you dont walk away you ENJOY that she cheated.

Legit just fucking leave her man, a cheating ho is always a cheating ho, they never change their fucking ways, happened to me before and it happened again after I stayed with her. Best bet is trying to get another girlfriend

Post more pics

go and have a wank over some random pics of girls and pretend its her if it makes you feel better mate, I'm not going to post any pics of her.

>hohoho merry cucksmas

Hey op
my gf of 1 year cheated one me and literally stopped caring about me. im a mess and never recovered. i dont have any advice for u

Yep exactly.
And I kind of did, because its just in your nature if someone is there crying in front of you - but the whole time I was thinking "why am I hugging you, I'm the one who's been fucked over."

Fucking dip, bro. She's not worth it

I had a girl who cheated on me and t hurt, and I cheated on another girl who never found out, but it still makes me feel shitty. People who love each other sometimes do shitty things to each other. Just make it a part of what you've experienced and try to have a relationship that you feel is worth having. Friendship or lovers, whatever is appropriate for who you really are to each other.

i know why she did cheat on you OP, your the most beta cuckold ive met, and ive seen some shit on the internet

Walk away right now OP
Never respond to her
Never speak with her
Never acknoiwledge her
EVER
AGAIN
Stop thinking like a faggot and go and slay some pusy

What he said..donthe be a fucking sub par human,man up you cunt

pretend to be nice to her for as long as it takes to get any of your shit back, if you want it. then tell her to fuck off. never talk to her again, and find someone who respects you.

Cuck thread now to celebrate OP's new found fetish.

The best thing was, after having seen both sides of it, I dated someone else who had also seen both sides, and we were really honest with each other about when we would break up and see other people and when we would get back together. It was nice dating someone more mature and being more mature myself.

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Look at it from her point of view.

If you cheated on her and she forgave you, would that not be an admission that you could do it again and get away with it? What would you think of her if she did just brush off the fact that you fucked another girl several times? Would you respect her? Would you admire her? Or would you lose respect for her and believe she was a pushover? Do you want her to feel those things about you? Do you want to be with someone who does not respect you?

I wouldn't. But you may. Life may teach you self confidence and self respect if you are open to the vagaries that it will throw at you. And you will find on that day that you have no time for people who treat you like that.

Dude, you will find someone else. No matter how much you feel like you are destined to be alone, you're not. Dump the bitch and a better one will come along.

true love - caring about giving benis / receiving benis from strangers more than about your relationship, your soulmate's feelings, honour, and broken promises.

Shit quality of people we have on this world... ad its only getting worse with time

I'm speaking from my experience here, brother. If she cheated on you, she liked it. She liked the idea of fucking another dude, had fantasies, and all that shit. So she's a fucking slut/doesn't really find you interesting anymore, even if she says the opposite. So just DON'T fucking talk to her anymore, for your own good. You'll find plenty of fucking girls dude, which are cute and won't cheat on you, it's easy filtering those from the sluts/the girls who are living more on the "lust" style.

Actually. This is the best advice yet.

why would you go through the effort of writing this bullshit?

A cuckold is the husband of an adultress.

You fucking morons need to stop this shit.

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obviously using the word "cuckold" in the original post was a mistake. I am not into this shit. But I suppose I did invite people to take the piss and make me feel worse...

Sup Forums cant give you advice on this. You have to decide how big of a cuck you are, and act accordingly

This

You are not a literal cuckold. A cuckold is a man whose WIFE cheats on him, not his gf.

That's a normal relationship in England now. It also didn't take much effort to write.

I dont know - I never even considered cheating on her. I think she'd just dump me. I guess thats the point youre making - if I dont then the relationship will always be unbalances and unequal.

I know what people are saying is right (other than the femdom fetishists) I guess I just am trying to talk myself into doing what I know I have to if I dont want to make a cunt of myself

convince yourself user

Nothing to do with convincing. Simply a matter of understanding what words mean.

Well, a cuckold requires being married in the most technical sense
Also you didn't know, and presumably it doesn't turn you on

If it does then you kind of are a cuckold but whatever

She has no respect for you, and neither will you if you stay with her

You came asking Sup Forums what to do to an obvious question. Any normal man would have broken up with her on the spot. Since you are conflicted the only option is you wanna see Mahmoud's large powerful penis pounding into your girlfriend. You should marry her so it really does make you a cuckold.

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Two options

1. Just say nope. Break up, clean break, don't have any further contact. But there's no need to be a dick about it. Be a real man and just say, that's not acceptable, and leave.

2.tell her you want a threesome that she has to arrange. Do that, enjoy it, then break up with her anyway.

Once a slut, always a slut

I guess, then why is she begging for another chance though? Just do make me feel even worse? or does she just want to leave on her own terms?

forgive her - just to use her as fucktoy untill you find non-whore girl.
stop treating her so good, give no new emotions towards her as she is unworthy with rotten cheating soul. She already values other cock more than you, all her memories with you, and all the time you invested in her.
Use her like tool she is now, plan your vengence carefully and realize it then you finall find a real gir as goodbye gift. Shit in places she that she will never find your dump, cum in her food, piss on the sofa, and let the whole world know what a whore she is.

It's not that difficult to look it up in a dictionary

Option 2 is a solid choice

if your not married and be with a girl for 10 years while shes getting bangged by other dude your not a cuckold
That make sense to me

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well who is normal. I have to admit that this stupid shit you are chatting is actually starting to genuinely annoy me now - but what difference does it make for that?

Get practicing Op.

Here's what you do:

kick her to the curb
don't shit talk her to other people.
if other women see you treating yourself with self respect but not being petty and shitty about her mistakes your social value goes up. A lot of guys make the mistake of publically shitting all over their exgirlfriend. That only lowers your social value.

Hey, I'm not arguing that OP isn't a fag, he totally is

But when we start ignoring the actual meaning of words we may as well all speak gibberish

try to be kind user :'(

Yeah... if you are the type of person to do this shit over something like being cheated on, you're not going to find a good girl. They'll all stay the fuck away from you, or run away once they realize what an immature idiot you are.

Walk away. Being single is still doing better than being a cuckold. If she cheated once, she'll do it again.

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look I'm not complaining - I knew some people would take the piss when I posted this, I'm just saying what good does it do this guy pissing me off further?

Just post pictures of her we will be kind after that

Simple, girls hate being seen as sluts.
She just wants your forgiveness just to not feel guilty.
She'll continue fucking other dudes from time to time 100%, but if that's ok with you, go with it.
At least go fuck other girls (even if you decide you're staying with her), and don't think of it as a serious relationship.
Be a confident, independent man because that turns girls on the most

She will cheat on you again in the future. I can guarantee you that.

Dont be a cuck and move on. Its gonna be tough, but it will be for the best

This.

Once, maybe that could be forgiven, but multiple times? She is only sorry she got caught.

She WILL do this again. Hell, she'll probably even get angry with you when you next catch her at it.

It will be hard, but leave and don't look back.

>Admitting that the trolling is getting to you

Gee user, what next, stab yourself with a knife in shark infested waters?
Walk around with your wallet hanging out in harlem?

I dont think I can do that.

Honestly even now I couldn't hate her and I dont want to hurt her. That might make me beta or whatever else but its just how it is.

But I do think I need to walk away. She lives in my house for nothing, contributes next to nothing to the bills, she probably only is sorry cos she doesnt want to go back and live with her parents. If I take her back I'll be accepting what she did.

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whats worse in relationship than cheating?
its called justice
you can avoid all of this with one simple trick - not cheat. Is this really too much to ask from a relationship? You talk as if all girls were cheating whores. Fuck you, only literal cuckold would forgive

>She lives in my house for nothing, contributes next to nothing to the bills, she probably only is sorry cos she doesnt want to go back and live with her parents. If I take her back I'll be accepting what she did.
Kick
Her
The
Fuck
Out.

You can rid yourself of a dead weight.

Because it will either make you shut up and go dump her like you should have originally done.
Or the pics could give you some ideas on what you will be doing now.

obviously it would get to me. and I suppose the silly twat will keep posting his porn images... what I was saying is it doesnt mean anything. If annoying someone who is already pissed off gives someone a thrill then congrats, I can confirm I have been further annoyed.

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