How/when to come out to my parents?

How/when to come out to my parents?

I'm 18, Going away to uni in September. I want to tell them but also have no idea what they'll say and think.

don't. go to college have an amazing time and thennnn tell them
trust me - i told 'em before i went and they freaked out and ended up annoying the shit out of me while i was away. drove us apart for years :/

Only faggots go to uni. If you've made it this far; then they've already done the legwork for you.

Are they paying for your education and are they kind of people who would stop if you told them?

If not, then tell them. Don't let it fuck up your time at school.

Only faggots go to uni? Awesome, I will have a great time then!

I have to pay in the form of a lifetime of student debt. They did say they'd send me some money regularly if they can afford it.

Are they Christian?

You're gonna need all the help you can get then. Don't fuck it up until you're done.

Well faggots and communists, to be fair. But at least the communists will champion your lifestyle until Western Civilization is nothing more than a smouldering wreck.

Dad believes in weird stuff like conspiracy theories, he thinks there's a god but hasn't committed to any religions.

>how should I tell them
With words obviously you idiot

Why exactly do you need to tell your parents about how much you like to be fucked in the ass, again?

I think I missed something here. Your father will probably be overly enthusiastic to know his baby boy will never give him a grandson, because he would rather drink cum from niggers. You should definitely rush to inform him about the greatest disappointment of his entire life.

Retard.

How did they annoy you from far away?
I don't think mine would be too bad, but I can see it getting very awkward.

Well, I'd be dissapointed. But listen, is ok if ypu wanna go to the Uni to suck dicks, don't let anyone tell you otherwise! You are a strong beautiful black women! You can do whatever you can!
Btw, the fact that you are asking here means that you don't trust them that much, maybe it'll be wiser to wait some time until you make up your ideas. It really isn't that much of a deal in today's world

I hate children and they know I won't have any anyway. My two brothers can give him grandchildren, one is already on the way.

They know.

TIME FLIES WHEN YOU'RE A FAGGOT

Maybe. When they ask me where my love bites come from I never say. Never brought a gf home.

It will be a huge disappointment nonetheless. Nothing makes a father more disappointed than finding out his son isn't a real man, and he would rather be fucked in the ass.

Even if they accept the gay kid, deep down they feel like they failed somewhere because instead of making a strong, and productive alpha, they raised a queer who will die of aids and be worshipping cock on the streets.

If you killed yourself you wouldn't disappoint him as much as becoming a queer. Just so you know.

In your suicide note faggot

>lol don't fall for the commie college meme just like be a car mechanic all your life lol

>be you
>finally had the miraculous chance of meeting the woman of your dreams
>somehow got lucky and she loved you back
>get marry and have a son
>raise him for 18 years with your hopes and goals and that one day he will have kids of his own to pass down the family legacy
>the day comes for his departure to college
>son comes in to your room as your looking at pictures of your boy when he was little
>you feel tears swelling up recounting the years but you drown them down since youre so happy and proud
>"D-Dad...im gay"
Wwyd Sup Forums? All those years down the drain

I'd rather be a mechanic than a faggot.

I'm a top mostly anyway, not a sissy fem gay, normal, straight acting gay. Won't die of aids as I use condoms unless they've been tested. No one worships cocks of the street except dirty hookers who are usually female. My parents love me and who I have sex with wouldn't change that.

I have two brothers, they know I don't want kids already.

You're better off getting a couple semesters of good grades under your belt first.

And it'll be easier to swallow if it's something they think "happened at uni" versus right before you go.

I say keep it quiet for now.

You don't have to tell them

This would definitely be the worst day of my entire life.

There's nothing worse than failing as a parent in such irreversible way. Your entire bloodline completely erased from existence since the down of times just because of YOUR mistakes as a parent. Your only chance of passing on your virtues and your genes destroyed by an ungrateful kid who would rather suck dicks. If this isn't enough of reason to end your own life right there, I don't know what is.

This.
Millenials don't give a fuck about legacy or sensible tradition.
The West, in general, doesn't seem to give a fuck.

Ending my life would still result in no children from me, so I may as well live and enjoy myself, I fucking hate children anyway and never wanted them whether I was straight or gay

>My parents love me and who I have sex with wouldn't change that.
Keep telling yourself that. You're a walking disappointment who will never give them grandchildren and who will NEVER do the only thing you were born to do: bring another child to the world.

A gay son is the worst nightmare a dad could have. You could only make it worse by becoming a transvestite. Even killing yourself wouldn't be as bad.

>I fucking hate children anyway and never wanted them whether I was straight or gay
That changes when you get older, Sup Forumsreh. Kind of like voting for Obama when you're 18-24 and then realizing liberalism is mental cancer by them time you're about 27.
It takes time to understand the world in a deeper, more complete way. Your mind is still changing and developing new perceptions of concepts long after you stop growing physically upwards.

What you want now, you will probably regret in as few was 5 years, but most likely in 10. It's a common distinction between older people and younger individuals.

The fact that you can't have children and pass on your ancestors genes for being dead is ONE thing that is unfortunate, but understandable. You are not failing as a human because you can't, you're failing as a human because you WANT to drink cock juice from niggers. You are INTENTIONALLY assassinating your family's bloodline for cum.

You're a disgrace to any father.

Who says your purpose is to have more kids?

The world is already over-crowded.

I think our purpose is whatever we think is best for humanity, not simply to make more people.

We've evolved to work together. Homosexuality wouldn't persist if it didn't serve a purpose.

A gay guy would be able to spend more time on non-child-related tasks, such as hunting or developing technology.

I guess it's subjective, but your idea that our "purpose" is to reproduce is not necessarily true.

More accurate to say we define our own purpose.

How do we fix this? I dont want to have my son and let him be exposed to these degenerates

Tell them by doing the right thing and checking into a mental health facility or by killing yourself.

Serious.

Just hang yourself up, faggot.

Thank you, I couldn't agree more. My purpose is to be successful, have fun and I want to become a professional in Computer Science. Not have baby that sucks up all my time, money and is a constant pain in my ass for at least 18 years.

There aren't nearly enough white kids in the world.

If you are white you are a disgrace not only to the world, and to your parents, but to your race as well, and even the entire civilization. You are a failed human if you're white and choose to suck dick instead of keeping your bloodline alive and prospering.

You don't deserve what you have. You are betraying those who fought for your existence, by allowing niggers and other inferior shitskins to spread even further while you sit back and feed on their cum. You have failed as a human being.

>How do we fix this? I dont want to have my son and let him be exposed to these degenerates
Real talk, aside from genocide? I really don't know.

Me and my old lady will be having a kid in the next few years; it's time. I worry about what you worry about constantly. I think I'd be an OK father; I wouldn't force my son into any religion, hobby or activity. I would guide him, but not force him.

But I see what liberalism has done to this country and to younger people that don't know any better (I'm only 28 fyi) and it is a brainwashing cancer. It's regression. not progression. I constantly wonder how I can shelter my future child from that.

I wanna say raising him the best I can is the answer...but my half-brother turned gay, and then into a rabid "white privilege reparations for slavery" liberal about 3 years after turning gay and moving to Oregon. My Dad IS disappointed in him, we all are really.

Too young to understand. I promise you'll get there one day, probably soon.

Your parents didnt have to put up with your whinybass but they did
Abort yourself now

You raise him well, you love him, and you hope for the best.

Children who choose to be gay instead of furthering your bloodline are disgraceful, but there's nothing much you can do once they're already corrupted.

As long as he tries to play sports I couldn't care less who he fucks.

As long as you parent are not complete weirdos, you should come out as soon as you're confortable with your sexual orientation.

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Your mom already knows. Dad's still in denial.

Not sure why it matters what you like to jam your cock into unless you and your parents openly talk about sex. In that case, they're probably cool.

I can't tell whether these homophobes are joking or if they actually believe this shit but either way it's hilarious.

This user here is right nothing makes you regret your life choices than realizing you're in your 30s, you're old, and don't have a family of your own.

You'll die alone and miserable, all because you want to suck dicks. That's the worst destiny anyone can have, and these degenerates are intentionally choosing it without realizing how irresponsible they are.

It's no wonder the vast majority of faggots commit suicide by the time they're 40.

Nothing worse than being old, lonely, ugly, and single, without the prospect of ever being truly happy again, because you never made anything out of your life.

Faggots don't know what they're doing with themselves.

You guys are obsessed with this having kids thing. If I change my mind and do want kids, it's not that fucking hard. I can adopt, or get a surrogate. I may be 'too young to understand' now but I can still have kids you retards.

This isn't "homophobia" this is reality.

This is the part your leftist politicians never tell you about. The shame you bring upon your family, and the sky high rates of suicide once the gays realize they're old, that no one likes them, and that they're bound to die alone because they never had a family of their own.

The gays are setting themselves to be miserable, but they never think about the future this way, they think they will be young forever, without realizing their friendships and lovers are only temporary entertainment.

Gonna let you in on a secret, Sup Forumsro.

The cute boipucci twink phase that you see all over amateur gay porn? That phase doesn't last. In fact, it's a very small window of your life--not much larger than 10 years.

I know you think you're gonna turn into a silver-haired fox and play older daddy to some young femboy, but the vast majority of them aren't into that. And if you do manage to find a boytoy that is into it, you're getting older much quicker than him. He's going to want younger cock--for the experience. He will leave.

And you'll be alone.

Homosexual suicide rate at or around 40 years old is pretty fucking high. Because they all end up alone.

Maybe you'll meet an older guy and become actual partners, but that would be the EXCEPTION. Not the expectation.

All of this assumes, of course, that you don't get AIDS. Then you'll REALLY be alone unless you're an 11/10 cock with a fucking ripped body.

>I can adopt, or get a surrogate.
You are a moron.

No wonder you chose to be a faggot. You don't deserve to live.

> If I change my mind and do want kids, it's not that fucking hard. I can adopt, or get a surrogate.
Yeah just go pick one up at the 7-11 down the road. I hear they have a buy 2 get one free deal this week.

Missing. The Point. Completely.

I couldn't give a fuck about my genes. They're terrible anyway.

No, when you come out as gay your dick is chopped off so you're incapable of having kids. Don't you know anything?

>I can adopt

It's not about picking up some random child and raising it, you fucking retard.

It's about creating a family. It's about building something out of your miserable existence. You're not the fucking center of the universe, retard, and the sooner you realize that, the better are the odds that you won't grow old absolutely miserable.

Ask any single faggot older than 40 if they're happy with their own lives.

You're living a fantasy if you think the average gay grows old happy. Unless you're a millionaire, you'll probably be miserable with your life once you hit your 30s.

What a fucking ungrateful fuck. You're a disgrace to your race.

Degenerates like you should be shipped to Africa to rot with the niggers there, just so you'll learn how good you have it here.

>choosing to be gay
>2017

Kill yourself.

>A gay son is the worst nightmare a dad can have

This is why I'm scared to have kids. If I have a boy, I'm going to have to show him subliminal pictures of tits so he stays normal.

Come out as bi. That way you get to fuck all the cute boys you want now, and if you change your mind when you get older you can fuck girls instead.

>I couldn't give a fuck about my genes. They're terrible anyway.
And that right there, in my eyes, summarizes your homosexual tendencies.
Unwarranted self-loathing.
I've had a longstanding personal theory backed only by my own observations that homosexuality and transexuality stems from lack of self-respect.

With transexuals it makes perfect sense; they don't respect themselves, or like themselves, and instead of addressing the issues head on--which can take months or even years--they take the easier route and hide behind a mask (cross-dressing, hormone therapy, surgery).

Homosexuals display similar behavior. You hate yourself, so how could you possibly make it in a normal relationship? Better to find a guy that's equally as self-hating as you are.

Mutually-assured depression.

>Unironically thinking 5 billion years of evolutionary tinkering would make 2% of the population genetic dead ends.
Stop sucking dick you degenerate. Pussy is much better. You'll get used to it, and be ever so grateful to me.

*3 billion

its more likely hes tried with girls and failed
and since guys always want their dick sucked he just went gay

>coming out
>ever

I don't get this. Why do gays feel the need to reveal their sexuality? Is that all they have? Is their entire identity just their sexuality?

There's no need to vocalize your sexual preference. Stop perpetuating this weird ritual.

Just don't try to control him, and he should grow up normal.

It's parents who try to make their kids overly polite and overly constrain them from being who they really are, by shoving medicine down their throats and reprehending them every time they punch someone, are the ones who make these gay kids.

Let the boy grow up to be a boy. Let him watch porn, let him be a FUCKING MAN and he will grow up to be a man.

It's when you start to trim him to comply with your expectations, like females do all the time, that they turn gay.

Once these degenerates realize they have male attention and love from people who are NOT trying to control them, then there's no going back, your son will be a faggot forever, and die of aids at the age 35.

The gays trade their identity for an ideology.

They think the gay is who they are, not just a confused aspect of their psyche they can't quite understand because they grew up retarded or damaged in some way.

Those people are broken. Why do you think so many people say they have a mental disorder?

I doubt he ever tried with females. He probably is so damaged he thinks he needs male approval in order to survive.

The gays have the mental capacity of a child. They never develop into fully functional adults.

Thanks for taking the time to type that, it's definitely be useful to know for the future

Having been a support person for a few (guys and gals) coming out to their parents one tip of advice:


Unless your parents are clinically retarded, they already know.

How, I like to think I've hidden it pretty well

Even if you keep it to yourself/hidden pretty well they probably have a pretty damn good idea.

Every time ive been there with someone (Im straight/little bi) who came out to their parents its all super dramatic "Mom, Dad, Im gay" then the super anticlimactic response of "Yeah we figured" is how its been every time.

Your parents (unless they literally are never around you) know you probably better than you know yourself. So they tend to have a pretty good idea. Besides its 2017, most parents dont give a fuck. My family is hard core southern baptist red neck republicans and my sister recently married her wife and they were all "Hey, do whatever makes you happy"

Gays behave differently. They really know, no matter how well you think you hid it.

Your interests and mannerisms aren't the same as of a normal person. Any parent can pick that up easily, especially if they've been around a non-gay child before.

I'm not into the whole dramatic coming out anyway. I've thought about coming out when I get a boyfriend, by introducing them to him normally.

Go for it. worst case they are disappoint. If they are you dont need them around.

Be who you are and love who you are. Dont let anyone make you feel ashamed for anything you enjoy in your life. As long as you arent hurting other people they have literally 0 say in what or who you do.

And never let some drama queer fuck up your life. Id say the same if you were straight and talking about women. You do you boo boo. .

I can't believe how retarded you all are here. You're the ones talking about gay people being a dissapointment when all of you jerk off to lolis, furries, lesbians and retarded degenerative shit like that?

OP said already he's not a twink, he's a man.

This coming-out at early ages is caused by the propaganda displayed by the pride and things like that. A sane gay man would know the best when to come out and if to do it, when you are not finalcially independent IT'S NOT THE FUCKING RIGHT TIME. WAIT TILL YOU GROW UP.


To the user who said most gays kill themselves when they turn 40 because of uglyness/loneliness/shamed by family. Why haven't you killed yourself yet when you're in the same boat?

And to the user who said that being gay is a choice, when did you choose to be straight?

Every decent parent I've met says the most important thing to them is their kid being happy and safe

suck off 5 dudes and hold the cum in your mouth so that when you say "I'm gay" to your parents, all the cum pours out and they'll know you're being for real

well i used to be a male escort, i made a lot of money, banged a lot of old dudes, some old ladies, bought a car and house free and clear and ive got some investments socked away to keep me the rest of my life and now that i have time and money i decided it was time to get a wife and kids, i just hope we dont have any huge expenses suddenly or i'll have to go back to the ol' dicksuckin' factory