Hi /b

Hi /b

What should I do to be able to maintain an erection for more than 10 seconds?

Has anyone effectively found a solution? Either being stop fapping, stop watching porn, hypnosis? I'm having a hard time penetrating my wife.

viagra should work

>maintain an erection for more than 10 seconds?
Jesus dude you have horrific blood circulation.
Try exercising and eating better foods, cut out soda and sugary drinks and drink water instead.

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that's the only way I can get my dick rock hard anymore

stop masturbating... especially if you have a wife

Maybe you're a fag.

i may have exagerated...

I can maintain an erection while I'm touching my dick, but if i stop, specially if i'm fapping, it'll start going away really quick.

I am healthy, I work out every day, yet, i may have been ingesting too much sugar.

I do it only once or twice a week


The thing is I don't get horny/turned on anymore. Could this be chemical?

Stopping jerking off helps, but takes well over a week minimum. Also, imagine someone you actually wanna fuck.

This is probs due to lack of arousal man, and that can have varying causes. Either the porn you watch/ the things you think of don't turn you on enough, or you have fapped too much for a too long period of time and you're still recovering.

The point is it sounds like you're not really getting horny anymore. Think of what you think you should do to get horny again. Still, erectile dysfunction seems to be pretty common so you could also see your doctor, he'll probably have better solutions.

yep, lack of arousal is exactly it.

You're fat as fuck, right?

I mean it could be stress, do you feel stressed during sex?

Nay

6'3''
230 lbs

Nope

It happens when fapping too

>more than 10 seconds
you might be gay

Get your testosterone levels checked, trust me my man. Everything you're saying points to that, how old are you? It doesn't really matter though, can happen at any age post 20ish.

I'm almost 32 man. I'm suspicious of my testosterone too.

Same issue man, though my issue is i'm fucking 20... I would attribute it to faping to much/often but i about 2-3 times a week really that bad?

Stop jerking and watching porn completely. Shouldn't be too hard anyway if you're not longer getting aroused, right? Then if you do happen to get aroused go and fuck your wife instead of rubbing one out. It's that simple.

Maybe you're afraid of your own boner then?

Interesting note: my girlfriend once said that if she masturbated to porn, she wasn't nearly as sensitive for like a week or maybe even more. She could come within minutes but it would desensitivize her a lot. Try abstaining from things that arouse you too much and you might get your sensitivity back.

Work out. Seriously. And stop watching porn. If you have a range near you go rent a gun and shoot it.

Hah

Yup at your age I'm 95% you have deficient testosterone levels. Be happy, it's an easy fix. You'll be back to raw doggin your wife in no time.

i work out 3 times a week, im in pretty good shape.

Yeah but the gun tho

Listen to me carefully. I have been suffering from something similar for the past two years, but I feel I might be getting my mojo back.

Do you suffer from fatigue and back pain as well? What about muscle tightness or feeling like you need to stretch all the time?

Nice. I'll talk to a doctor then. Maybe it'll help me grow more muscle too

Well, I work out heavy every day, I wouldn't say I'm fatigued, I'm just "meh", no back pain, no muscle tightness.

I'm curious, what are those simptoms for?

Something I am doing research on. How does it feel when you try to get erect. Does your penis hurt, "burn" etc. Does it feel like your brain wants to get horny but the signal isn't going to your dick?
Did you lose interest in sex suddenly or gradually over years?

For fapping:

search for a good video
start rubbing
get erect quick
(if i stop, it'll drop quickly too)

for sex:

intense kissing is enough to get him hard
it'll stay like that for the first few minutes of foreplay
switch to penetration/or pre-penetration plays he starts to lose strengh, to the point that i have to stop and fap a little to wake him up a bit again

doesn't hurt or burn in both cases

I wouldn't know if the brain wants to get horny, it's like sex and fapping are just something i HAVE to do although i really like it and want to do it. It's weird, it's conflicting.

Gradually over the years but the more i think about it the more my brain fucks me up

Adding to the above, it is kinda like what i felt when i used to smoke. It was purely a psycological addiction, because i was able to quit smoking with no drama, overnight, yet i still feel the urge to smoke in some situations.

I can easily not fap whenever i want but my brain keeps telling "go there and fap, you know you want it..."

That is what addiction is

Okay, your symptoms sound psychological, but go get Test. and other hormones tested.

I'm researching how our posture for many hours a day affects the nerves in the spinal column from sending proper signals throughout the body.

You can try cutting out mobile phone and computer use for a week cold turkey. Make an extra effort to keep good posture and ensure your arms are relaxed backward and not hunched forward all the time. See if it helps idk.

Well, I'm a programmer so i can't cut computer use but yes, It's hard to keep a good posture while sitting all day long specially avoding the arms and shoulders to hunch forward. I do a lot of back workout and it helps a lot, making the muscles stronger and so on,

Well I'll use that advice as one more reason to keep the posture good.

Two words. Cock ring

Medfag here, when you mastrubate it causes your testosterone level to fall. Testosterone is your main sexdrive hormone. If you're saying like op that after you stop touching your dick you lose the erection its because of two possible things. You have issue with bloodflow or mastrubating too much so your testosterone level is falling down and you're basically forcing an erection by fapping (mostly the cause) . You need to lay it off for at least a month and you'll see the increase of your sexdrive. Also , do you have issues with depression, or feeling down? (specially after ejaculation) Orgasm isnt called petit morte for no reason (or little death)

So afraid of gangrene... lol

OP Here

I don't have bloodflow problems since my morning woods are all i wish i could obtain lately lol

Mostly, when i cum I feel like "damn today could have been another day without fapping, this was worthless"

Bruh you need to actually STOP the bloodflow completely to a part of body for a long time. When you get in the state of erection there is no blood leaving the penis. But not a fan of the cock ring tho, never used it as well

Morning wood is actually a good sign of testosterone. Meaning its not that big of a deal.
However as you just said you feel like shit afterwards. Its psychological , just cut it out. It will take some time but your sexdrive will replenish.

I suggest Viagra, it will help a lot

Gets you addicted and dependent. I'll try to avoid that for now.

One gets an erection as part of the 90 minute sleep cycle. If you happen to wake up at that point, that's morning wood.

That's also how they tell if ED is physical or just psychological, if you still get this sleep cycle wood or not.

stop being a fucking cuck

I haven't fapped in about 4 days to my usual 2D shit, so I was actually genuinely lusting after my wife. Last night, I ate her pussy to orgasm, fucked her for a few minutes before I turned her around, and told her I wanted to fuck her ass. First time I've ever done anal with her in the 9 years we have been together. I kind of felt guilty after though, because she wasn't expecting it. Almost felt like I've crossed a line, good or bad--I don't know, but I liked it and had the hardest boner in months.


>TL;DR: fuck her in the ass.

4 days? You're fine man

I've gone for 2 weeks and my dick completely died. They say it's a part of the recovery from fap addiction but i can't go for weeks and weeks without sex with my wife. I can't explain to her i'm addicted to porn.

you lot can thank me later
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Shit, I don't know if my wife thinks I don't watch porn, or is blissfully ignorant. Regardless, regular porn doesn't do it for me, I have to have some 2D in one form or another. That's the reason why I personally lost interest in my wife, as ridiculous and petty as it sounds, because I wish I was fucking one of my 2D waifus instead.

That, and the fact that I felt our sex life had no variety, hence anal really did it for me. I'm only 24 though, so this isn't expected from someone my age. If I tell my wife I'm not into her and only 2D I'd probably effectively end our relationship.

I got problems, man, but I can keep an erection when fapping.

Go see a fucking doctor.