About to lose my virginity in two days. What do i do to make sure it goes well. Do i stop fapping? Do i fap extra...

About to lose my virginity in two days. What do i do to make sure it goes well. Do i stop fapping? Do i fap extra? Advice?

Just make sure your ass in clean, and don't let him cum in you.

dont fap for at least 3 days is what I do, 2 would probably work just fine

Yeah, for fuck sakes be showered and fresh. Everything after that can be worked on, learned, apologized away.

what about edging for the next 2 days? good idea? bad idea?

when do you fap best?
after a week of no-fap or after fapping the day before?

fap to be less horny or not too horny!
stop fapping to be enough horny!

assuming this is legit:

I'd say you'll probably cum in < a minute (in which case extra fapping ofc comes to your advantage) but you might as well fuck it up in different, more complicated ways. should you use a condom (which I would strongly recommend anyway) it'll help you last considerably longer, so you got that one going for you.

try to avoid going too fast, you'll most likely need some time getting an idea on how to move inside a vag, plus it helps with problem a.

also: its ok to be nervous, but dont try to smooth over it - she'll notice anyway so being honest is a way better option imo - no need for telling her in advance but if she asks, just admit to it

thats about all I can come up with right now, good luck user

you're gonna cum in 2.3 seconds anyway.
pull the fuck out
>wow u tight as hell
go down on her and get ready for round two

lots of foreplay, if you life depends on it

such as?

Fap literally right before u do it, you will last at least 30 minutes instead of 5

You have come to Sup Forums for advice? That's an interesting choice.

foreplay is basic. just keep stroking her gently while kissing and undressing her. dont rush it, especially if you're planning to stick a finger in her beforehand

don't fap. Anyone who says holding off will make you shoot quick is wrong. It's way easier to maintain a boner and stamina when you haven't been fapping

thats actually a really good argument. last thing you want to happen is losing interest and the thrill of the act because you just jerked

fap right before
eat her pussy like a retard eating a corn cob
go multiple rounds

jesus all this advice is conflicting. Half of you are saying fap beforehand, other half are saying stop all fapping.

just split the difference

so edging?

pre fap has its pros and cons

you'll probably last a tad longer, but it might take a bit longer getting it up. thats pretty much it in a nutshell

fap on the girl and tell her it will help you last longer. Girls usually appreciate that.

Terrible idea

Foreplay.
Sex is not srs bznz. Have fun.

Try different positions until you find one you both like. You don't have to get fancy, doggy and cowgirl are great.
You can stop and switch positions if you feel like you are getting close anyway. It's fine to say you are close to finishing, sometimes she'll tell you to finish inside her (assume she means with a condom on) and that mutual climax can be amazing.

If you are about to go down on her (and you should, it's awesome) and she smells down there, I sometimes use my (wet) fingers to play around then discreetly spit and wipe away from me a few times, can eliminate the smell completely.

Be careful of butt stuff, it is very easy to hurt her and then the fun's over.

Take it slow and try to have fun with it, rather than just burn your V-Card.

I didn't cum at all my first like three times so i don't think it's less than 1 minute

Everyone who's ever had sex knows the first time you don't usually nut
>fuckin virgin

Although you don't have the time now, for future reference.

In general an intuitive understanding of masturbating or not masturbating is correct: the more recently you masturbated, the less quickly you'll cum, and vice versa.

However, I've found that not masturbating for like two weeks before having sex leads to some interesting effects. At least in my experience, my dick is much more sensitive, yet I'm able to control myself better and last much longer, And because my dick is so sensitive, even just fucking is quite enjoyable, so it's great to put off cumming for a while because it still feels really amazing. Like, it feels so good I intentionally put off cumming until I can't stand it anymore. And then when you do cum it's mind blowingly good.

im typically a chronic masutbator. like 2-6 times a day for past several years. i imagine that will help me last longer since im use to something tighter than a vag.

i also bought a fleshlight like several years ago and i found i could cum in that thing. always had to finish off with my hand.

I don't think that's true. It's certainly not uncommon to be so nervous you can't cum, but it depends entirely on the person. I came my first time.

To say it like it's some fact of life is retarded, like there's some physical reason you can't cum your first time.

What? Why? I don't understand that at all, cumming in a fleshlight feels so much better than just using your hand.

You're probably just so goddamn used to using your hand your dick is confused by the sensation.

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Most important of all: STAY DOMINANT!

You need the testosterone to stay dominant, so lift a bit, eat and sleep well.

When the day comes, don't act like you're a pussy ass faggot who likes being shoved dicks inside of his butt.

By deconstructing the sexual act, I am hereby letting you know what you should do and don't:

1. Once you're in the penetration room, start kissing her and caressing her body. Don't be superficial, just go for it with all your might. Grap her hips, thighs, ass, tits with enough strenght to be "passionate".

2. Once there's less clothes on you both, start by playing around her pussy. Don't rush things, I know you will be edging all the fucking time, but do an effort to stay on a rythm. You can start by either entering a finger in her pussy or touching her clit, however you see fit.

3. THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF ALL: You shall always eat her pussy. Even if you don't like the smell at first, it has all the good juices to keep you hard and powerful. Eat her pussy until she begs for your cock

4. Fuck her right in the pussy.

5. profit.

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idk it just is. maybe deathgrip? i just got to the point that i would spend like an hour fucking like it was real to develop a rhythm or something.

Try not to worry about it. It's a natural thing and it will feel right when you're in the moment.

I don't think I came at all my first few times having sex, and we went for a long time each go.

Like others in the thread have said. Be clean and start with your fingers and you'll be set.

>dont fap
>do what feels natural
>yes you will feel like a shaking awkward human rock
>foreplay is important to build shit up
>dont be too eager
>there's nothing wrong with asking the partner things
>bring condom in case she doesn't
>be gentle the first time you put your meat in the oven
>yes you will cum quick, it'll be better next time
>dont try porn shit, she will notice and find it weird
>no dirty talk unless she's a 40 year old woman looking for 18 year old boys doing fetish stuff
>no alcohol if it's the first time
>do weed
>fuck the dog

>pussy juice makes your dick "hard and powerful"

What is this shit, some kinda new age sex magic? GTFO

>no alcohol if it's the first time

she wants to meet up at a craft house beforehand.

Just do whatever feels good. Foreplay is an important thing not only the first time but every time you have sex. I remember the first time I had sex it was in the dark with the girl (now my wife, it's been almost 10 years already) and I remember I couldn't cum (probably because of the darkness in which I still dislike having sex). While the actual penetration was a failure, I loved to eat her out (which I still do so not much has changed). Focus on the foreplay because some if not most girls get very much out of it. It's important that the sex is good and fun for both of you.

Fingering. Just - gently - stroke her lips and move towards the clit once the juice starts flowing, but be sure to not to be too rough as they generally don't like that right on the clit

>tfw 27 year old incel

When will it be my turn for sex?

Is the old alphabet thing on the clit a old wife's tale or does it really work?

was watching some nina hartely video and she recommended sucking on the clit like you're trying to drink the juice out of it.

user, your first time will be awkward, if not terrible. It is fully expected, and not some tragedy. Have a sense of humor about it, and know that sex will get better with time. It ain't that serious.

Oh, and don't use the free condoms from the campus health office. Cheap as fuck. They're too thick, and you won't feel shit.

what i have at the moment

Write the alphabet on her clitoral area with your tongue, find her favorite letter (you can tell by moaning, clenching, heavy breathing, sweating, etc . . ) and just drive her crazy.

Dont do gay shit like "does it hurt" "tell me if it hurts", etc .. but dont fucking rape the bitch ykno

Like user said, foreplay is extremely important, make her want you. Kiss her from the lips, down the next, collar, arm ches,t stomach, aroundt he vagina, down the legs then back up and then finally at the pussy when she grabs you by the head and pulls you in.

dont be gay

It actually works, but be subtle

subtle as in lightly pressing my tongue against her clit when spelling?

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