>Be me 33yo, 6 years together with my girlfriend 31yo >Decides to break up for no reason, doesnt want to talk in person, just disappears. >Two weeks later she changes her profile picture for another one hugging a guy. >Kept avoiding me, didnt want to meet. >We were about to get married, it hurts like hell
8 months later
>New girlfriend, everything nice, she is 20yo. Doesnt have a lot of money, works and study hard. >Today I receive a message from exgf
Don't fucking talk to her. She's toxic, got bored, and thought she could do better. Deserves whatever new dicks put her through
Lucas Campbell
I'm an 18 year old kissless virgin and even I know what to do in this situation, cmon OP!
Adam Moore
be nice and don't do anything you will regret, but throw your gf in that salty bitch's face
Ayden Sullivan
This
David Green
Don't talk to her. She left you to go ride some others guy's cock and then came crawling back when it didn't work out. She's toxic and she'll take what you have now and leave you with nothing. I know it hurts, but you can't change your current life for an ex who clearly doesn't want to be with you that badly.
Thomas Perez
Say nothing. If she wants any of your attention, make her come crawling back to get it. And then tell her you want nothing to do with her.
Brayden Cook
Depends how happy you are not with your new girlfriend if you think hooking up with her again is better than your current relationship try it, she's probably just had an argument with her boyfriend or some shit and feels like she's not getting enough attention. If you're happy, block her. Do what you want, all girls are crazy. Except for you Megan, I'm sorry for everything.
Evan Rogers
You're a stupid ass if you text back.
Michael Myers
I mean, see what she wants? be civil make it seem like you're an open person subtly keep her at arm's length always say you're busy, never meet her in person again
Henry Hernandez
I agree with these anons. OP she ain't worth it. If you're happy now, leave her on read and delete the messages. Don't even acknowledge it. It isn't worth the broken heart.
Matthew Taylor
fpbp
Cameron Mitchell
Post her nudes OP
Jose Gutierrez
ignore her, shes jelly you have a new gf
Noah Adams
Just ignore her. If you ask why she left, she'll just give some bullshit excuse. She's no longer a part of your life and she needs to know it.
William Cruz
ex was clearly cheating on you and had cold feet about marriage to begin with. Dont go back to her
Julian Long
Do not talk to her. Block her on all communication lines and erase her from your life forever.
There is no reason to talk to her. Move on or you will get screwed again.
Owen Ward
Dont leave corrent gf, for that toxic bitch. If you won't hurt your gf, you can try to have revange, but that's your call. Dont invest any emotions in her.
Parker Rogers
Ignore her. Whatever guy she left you for didn't work out. Now you're plan b. You have a gf now. You've moved forward. No going backward now.
Noah Russell
the new guy has a cock bigger than you...kill him
Jace Phillips
Don't reply. CuntAnon here, I don't usually post replies or when I do I don't reveal being a chick but I gotta tell you, I can assure you that she's only messaging because things either didn't work out with her new guy or she's bored with him and she's counting on you being a sucker and taking her back. Either way, DON'T REPLY. Block her so she gets the message clearly. This is toxic and it'd also hurt your new gf if she found out, and we always find out.
William Miller
Dont answer user. Fuck that ghosting cunt. You will never have closure, but you will have your self respect as a man. Don't be a beta. I know you probs still care, but just remember that she ghosted you. That shows a level of cunt hag at max. There is no win position, instead just grab your 20year old and spend the next few hours slammin that pussy. Embrace your new life.
Ryan Baker
Literally retarded cuck.
Zachary Cox
OP here honestly I dont think Im answering her. even replying with another Hello could mean a lot, its better to avoid contact. If she is still with her current bf I know she is hiding him she is texting me, so she keeps cheating in some way.
Im currently happy with this new girlfriend, maybe she isnt the final one, but theres no need in going back again.
Juan Mitchell
Can almost guarantee you once the 20yr old either turns 21 or finishes schhool u can kiss her ass good bye...
Elijah Johnson
Ignore ex. Post both of their pussies and let Sup Forums guess which is which
Bentley Bell
That's best OP. Even just a hello would definitely give her the wrong idea.
Camden Evans
I think that's a smart move OP
Brody Brown
smart
Jayden Peterson
this is exactly what happened to me, months later when i had gone trough all that pain i had my life set with some one new, x tried to come back and open that door i noped my way out blocked her and just moved on f that self respect bro you already have a new gf be happy
Matthew Parker
Op, be civil, but at a distance. I would not meet her, period.
Ethan Adams
Also, for a woman over 30 to ghost on a good guy is INSANE. Like really, completely crazy.
If she was hot and in her early 20s, she has plenty of time to find another dude even if she fucked around like this. Early 30s though? Very different story. No man old enough to date her is going to want to deal with her shit.
OP, stay with your new girl.
Josiah Martin
Proud of ya, OP. Keep your head up.
Nolan Jackson
If she didn't say who it was in the message and there was nothing identifying about it(not a facebook message or some shit, but a text,) just say "Who is this?"
When she responds, hit her back up with "lol, no. bye." or don't even respond after that.
Believe me, this will make her salty as fuck.
Ethan Ramirez
Say nothing. She decided to kill all communication, so all communication is dead. She doesn't get to sit you down and pick you back up whenever it's convenient for her.
Evan Lee
Don't answer op, post nudes tho
Sebastian Wood
If you are exclusive with the new chick- ghost the ex. If not keep her around as a slam pig- do all the vile things to her she wouldn't let you do when you were dating. If she gives you any grief, or shows any resistance, put her on the shelf for a week.
Grayson Young
Fucking this, be an alpha OP
Jacob Hughes
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Owen Price
being a chick is irrelevant you attention slut. all humans act like this.
Colton Myers
Yes, she got cold feet. Yes, she left to see if she can do better.
Put her on your phones / messaging "Block" list.
But you may run into her in person, be civil, offer WARM HANDSHAKE ONLY, not even hug, nor cheek air kiss...
IT WILL TEAR HER UP INSIDE, YOUR REVENGE.
If she asks why you dont text nor call, just tell her truth: "I am involved with a lovely woman, I.m not the kind to cheat on her nor talk secretly behind her back"
women are such fragile creatures when it comes to verbal communications.
playing it cool, aloof, unreachable and non-chalant, will tear her up inside.
YEARS later, if you want to talk to her, act like it was no big deal, keep up with the "only 1 woman at a time" story, and that you dont call nor text ex's when in a relationship.
Lincoln Johnson
yea im dating a 28-29 year old she puts up with alot of my bs lol because she knows its the end of the road
Landon Rogers
send her meme or link to this
Liam Wood
no, dont send her link nor meme.
women are fragile, the cool aloof unreachable not a care in the world response will kill her inside
Oliver Campbell
but bro it depends how much self control OP has because i know for a fact I have to cut off the head so the body dies, i love pussy that's why i blocked my last x too many feelings there
Logan Johnson
>Hey long time no see! I'm doing good, other than missing you so much *^__^ >plz come back
this is the only true alpha response
Ethan Fisher
block her /thread
Eli Kelly
THIS RIGHT NOW I'd do it out of pure spite
Ian Edwards
FUCK YES. doing the right thing OP.
Chase Cooper
She doesn't like that you've found someone else. Women are selfish whores, and would rather you be sad over them than find and be happy with another woman. Don't let her get in the way of what you've got now, just ignore her
Nolan Cox
Dont fuck with the old bitch. New girl doesnt deserve the same pain you felt, and old girl sounds like a hoe who left you for someone else only to realize she fucked up. Let her live and regret that fuck up her whole life. Put salt in her wounds by doing better and being happier than you ever were with her. Fuck the hoe.
Andrew Barnes
reply with "never reply to me again"
Jaxon Wright
this
Josiah Scott
Never try to contact me or my childrens again
Cooper Myers
Don't give her the time of day
Oliver Rivera
DO. NOT. REPLY.
Blake King
Ignore, post tits if you got em though.
Benjamin Flores
Your ex is a fucking coward and you should tell her
Anthony Evans
OP, not replying actually shows her that she still matters. Be civil but aloof. Don't ve an asshole, that's what she wants. Reply with delays to show you're busy and uninterested. Once you inevitably get her back in bed take photos when she least expects it, say it's a little souvenir, then leave.
Dominic Wilson
OP once again
Im surprised everyone else thinks like this, I was expecting the "cuck meme" or other kind of replies, but honestly, I like no matter which part of the globe are you from, cheating and women are the same.
I deleted the message. As you said, new gf doesnt deserve this. Exgf had its time, she fucked it up, I cant go back and keep doubting about her all the time.
At first I thought about giving her a single Hello, but as I said before, that wouldnt help. Its better to leave things as they are
Wyatt Carter
Isn't it obvious? You let us roll dubbs.
Brayden Stewart
She was obviously cheating on you for months with a fuck boi he left her ass & now she might be trying to get you off the rebound I'd say just question what she wants and ask her what happened to her fuck boi
Joshua Sanchez
only right thing to do also bann her nummber
Juan Peterson
you sir, are a hero
Nolan Murphy
this.
Easton Flores
Trips of truth
Jackson Hall
Sauce, I feel like I recognise those tits.
Jaxson Morgan
Tell her to fuck off
Cameron Smith
"Who is this?"
Liam Perez
mom?
Jaxon Rogers
The sause is Sup Forums.org/random/
some user posted his gf, there's not any more, sorry bud
Like other anons have said, block and ignore the whore. She made her decision, now enjoy watching her trying to live with it from afar.
Dylan Gray
be less like the way you are. thanks.
John King
tell her to fuck off and kill herself. I recently did the same thing, after agonizing about my ex for a year. She's toxic OP, tell her how much you hate her and move on with your life.
Eli Butler
OP. You did the right thing. But be honest with your current gf. Tell her you heard from the ex and deleted the message so she knows you have no intention of talking to her.
You don't want the ex calling your current gf and blindsiding her. Be open and honest with your current gf, just as you expect her to be that way with you.
Colton Smith
This, just ignore that bitch, unsless it's your fault and you're not telling us something, but if it was for no reason. dump that bitch like a turd
Camden Bailey
>we always find out I thought South Park was joking about how funny women could be. I've been proven wrong.
