Whos got some advice in introducing kinks into a relationship with a very vanilla partner? Every once in a while she'll drop hints and play like she wants to do something kinky like handcuffs or something but then when I try and act on it she flakes. She had a real shit childhood (her father used to sell her sisters for drugs when they were as young as 11) so she has some trust issues for sure, and I really don't want her to be scared of me as a dom male or something. I'd even be down to get tied up first if she wants idgaf. What yall think? Anyone turned their vanilla partner kinky?
Jonathan Evans
just rape her
Nicholas Ramirez
Ten milligrams of Ambien and a glass of wine will let her freak flag fly.
Jackson Young
Bumping until I get some insight
Brayden Wright
Yeah we really don't drink. I've thought about alcohol to loosen her up some. Want it to be something she's comfortable with and not something she has to be drunk to do.
Adam Peterson
Actually talk to her about it. Safe Sane Consensual
Her dropping hints and you just trying to make it happen isn't going to work, especially in the long run
Michael Johnson
We have man we have. She'll drop the hint and I'll expound on it and she'll say she's down, but then when it actually comes down to the act, she backs out. I'm not just trying to pull a rope from a drawer and go to town, we'll both agree first.
Isaac Lewis
amateur bondage is the best
Grayson Williams
>(her father used to sell her sisters for drugs when they were as young as 11) why would anyone believe you her or any of this fuk u fgt opee
Thomas Lee
Agree 100%
>that's why I'm trying to do it
David Ortiz
It's ok if you don't believe me brohan, I have no incentive to lie.
Colton Cooper
Bumper car
Jack Hill
Same girl? Got sauce?
Cooper Jackson
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Grayson Edwards
First two are same girl, third isn't. This is other pic in the set of first girl
Juan Cruz
Also her, had to find her on reddit again, u/jokerphreak
John Flores
thanks dude
Dylan Lewis
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Cooper Walker
Np my bro
Benjamin Harris
Will bump with amateur bondage for a few more minutes
Love this black chick
Nolan Turner
Try and really set the mood for her, don't try and go into a new kink head on. Get her really turned on, really into it, and then try and add something new to it. Think about it like doing something new in general, if you were in a shit mood you are far less likely to do it than after you had the best day ever.
Owen Bennett
I'm enjoying, thanks for sharing
Joshua Morgan
what kind of kink would you like to introduce ?
Thomas Kelly
Yeah I've tried that too. It's really strange, she let's me practically hate fuck her, really rough and she's so into it, cums buckets on me, but as soon as i mention trying some light bondage she turns off.
Honestly I don't bring it up much anymore because I really get the feeling she has flash backs to her child hood ptsd style or something. But I don't want to give up completely, am I being insensitive or selfish? I think we'd both enjoy it if she'd give it a chance
Evan Peterson
tying loose ropes around a chick is a kink?
stupidest fucking shit ive ever seen
Chase Sullivan
See Over time I'd like to introduce a ton of kinks, my list of fetishes is long. But I'd like to start slow of course
Joseph Fisher
check out this badass over here
Landon Martin
It sounds like you need to make it clear to her that she is safe, and make her feel both safe and comfortable to explore new things with you. Talk about the idea of a safe word, and ease lightly into it. Maybe don't ask so much about the VERY light stuff. Don't tie her up without her asking, but maybe hit her lightly while she is in the mood, or whatever you had in mind. If she responds negatively, then thats a no go and back the hell away from that.
Hunter Watson
Lol, you know how I know you're 13?
Anthony Peterson
I see. Maybe fuck her while you hold her hands up. Slowly build up the level of of intensity and get her to like it.
Eli Brooks
Also get into spanking
Henry Campbell
not needing to tie disgusting ropes around my bitch makes me young? enjoy your stupid bullshit
Christopher Taylor
hey buddy, the whole part of her fantasy that she wont tell you is she wants to be forced
Colton Jones
Checked Honestly I do all that, pull her hair, spank, hold her arms or her legs up etc, it's just as soon as something that's not my hands come into play, it's over