Aight Sup Forums did i fuck up?

Aight Sup Forums did i fuck up?

>Britbong in college
>Two girls hit on me
>gottachoosefml
>one is gamer, nerdy, cutie, shy, reserved
>the other is fucking nuts, once told me she wanted to walk on me wanking and then join me
>feel like the crazy one would cheat
>pick qt
>fast foward 3 years
>mfw serious relationship with this girl
>she constantly annoys me, gets fucking nuclear when i even mention seeing my friends let alone the fucking explosions she has when i actually see them
>refuses to succ dicc, cries after sex, extremely vanilla, despises porn
>could be in a life with crazy kinky girl, having fun, drinking, no worries
>killme

Did i fuck big time? should i have chosen the crazy girl?

should have fucked the other girl also

They're all crazy, user

you fucked up, shoulda asked for a threesome and dashed

>Britbong

yeah you fucked up.

i tried having a threesome kinda thing, the crazy one was down, the qt got a trauma from me asking and didnt speak to me for like a while

yeah i fucking realised that now

> cries after sex
Please tell us more

This, just ask her to suck your dick user. My girl is kinda like that too but I get blown oh well

When are you going to dump her user?

Leave her then OP if you don't like her you tard.

We'll, maybe both were not for you. I would give your girlfriend an ultimatum: she has to check her shitty temper and be less of a prude, or you break up. She isn't the only option for you. You can move on.

The only reason you may stay with her is if you like to feel miserable. This kind of shit never improves, believe me. It's all downhill from here.

Enjoys sex for like 10 minutes, tight as fucking fuck > randomly starts crying and asks me to stop.
She was a virgin, at first she said it was because it hurt, now she says its because her emotions overwhelm her? the fuck ?

I do, whenever i do and she says yes, she does a terrible fucking job, i dont even bother asking anymore

Thing is ive grown to like this chick, she just has this bipolar fucking personality. When shes not busy being lucifer she can be somewhat aight

You sure dawg? i mean she is definitely better looking than the crazy girl, i don't wanna lose this 9/10 here. its probably the only reason why im still sticking around

Its my first kinda long relationship, anything before was hookups and shit so i got no fucking clue how bad it gets

The feels man, I ask my girl too and it's a fucking chore to her. I'd rather not get my dick sucked with her fucking whining it's such a turn off I don't even bother asking anymore. I noticed she blows me whenever I eat her snatch extra good I guess. Whatever fucking begrudged blowjob

>now she says its because her emotions overwhelm her?
Jesus user, you've got a real winner. Haven't you thought about keeping fucking her while she cries? Just for the fuck of it to see what happens.

>Has a qt yandere nerdy shy loyal gf
>That cries during sex
>Still finds reason to complain
Some people just can't be happy, can they?

Is this a common thing? I couldn't keep my dick hard if my girl started crying. What kind of bullshit is this "muh overwhelming feelings" why are women such fucking psychos?

No idea

Jesus i feel you, i dont know man, im fucking 21 now i feel like i should be having fun sexually and not bothering with emotional shit? the fuck am i doing with my life

I did, it was really fucking weird, i felt bad for her? it was a genuine cry. Thing is i probably could have kept going for a bit more if her pussy didnt fucking become the nevada desert while my dick was in her. Dont think ill do that again

>i got no fucking clue how bad it gets
Believe you me that it gets really really bad. There is no limit at how crazy can a female be. Even if you put them in their place and cut their bullshit often, they are just insane. Better to stick with the fun to be around girls just for the fun part and avoid all the hassle. Unless you are into emotional masochistic shit.

The point is that you never go to the normal one. Only some times shy girls are kinky and jinxy. But most of the time is only a mith. All girls are crazy, so crazy is the normal. Picking the quiet one was a big mistake. Leave her. Talk to the other one, get in her head. Then you preceed.

>3 years
You're doomed for a shit relationship regardless if you have such little self respect that you let this go on for that long

The only answer is to dump her. What the fucks the point in a relationship that just pisses you off?

Thats what is keeping me with her.
I dont know if im fucking retarded for not just appreciating what i have and moving on with life

It is very common. To the point where we've only both finished about 15 times. out of the hundreds we fucked.
Idk i suggested going to a doctor she just fucking doesnt want to because shes embarassed

Fuck nigga. I fucked up. how old are you wise user ?

assuming your mindset is closer to the crazy girl then yes you fukt up

advice for next time is get to know both and ask the hardest questions first
that way you get a good idea of what theyre actually like as it puts them on the spot

>I dont know if im fucking retarded for not just appreciating what i have
Now you do, you fucking retard.
The other one would probably have cucked you 16 times by now and then asked you for an "open relationship" or break up.

This. Try to make it a weird fetish.

Nevet stick your dick in crazy
Also, dump the gamer girl

Find someone else

You're right on the money user, when I got with my girl she was a massive prude (lesser so now barely) took us 3 months to have sex. I wasn't having that shit so I fucked my ex every single day till she put out. My girl said that she didn't think I was gonna wait that long. Kek I regret nothing, my ex picked up the slack bless that woman

Thing is the crazy one is probably out there sucking infinite dick, i dont know if she still wants mine, i dont wanna leave this girl without knowing for sure i will get pussy straight after

Lets say 75% of the relationship is her annoying my fucking ass, 25% is actually decent. something i legit enjoy and want to keep. Im holding onto those 25% like theres no tomorrow. Am i doing wrong?

Its not a matter of mindset, i just want a normal relationship with no fucking hassle and cancerous annoyance all the fucking time. is that impossible ? am i fucking aiming too high ?

>Did i fuck big time? should i have chosen the crazy girl?
Dude, you have chosen the crazy girl.

goals

just go /lgbt/ for gods sake youll get with someone whos fine with answering questions

>how old are you wise user ?
40
Choose wisely, you are young, you can cut your losses. Either fuck her with some lub for as long as you want + teach her to suck your cock or dump her right away.

Im starting my 3rd year in uni in a few months , should i just fucking start fresh and clean?

holy shit user, thats legit im speechless

Aight im legitimately mad now

>She was a virgin, at first
Weren't we all.
Consider the possibility that you weren't her first and that her first time was so traumatic that she represses it. From your description she might have vagismus, which is an inability to relax the muscle at the vaginal opening.

>bipolar
And aren't we all.
Reflect on her unpleasant episodes and try to identify any variable they have in common. Ditto for her pleasant episodes. What role do you play in each?

If you really want to keep her, go to couples therapy with an intelligent counsellor who understands sexuality. Otherwise it's time once again to commit serial monogamy.

Then tell her to stop fucking if she can't handle going to a damn doctor for it. Obviously has some sort of mental issues going on. Has she been molested before?

Tell her you didn't sign up for a platonic friendship. I don't think your girl likes sex user, no fixing that unless you cheat on her with the intention of her finding out, Turing her into a massive slut

If the girl is 9/10 just real with the crazyness. Crazy pussy better than 0 pussy

(You)

Im starting my 3rd year in uni in a few months , should i just fucking start fresh and clean?


Its just a girl, plenty of them in the world

Tried different lubes, and having shit ton of lube .She just complains it doesnt feel right? We tried different positions i keep telling her to check with her doctor and she refuses. Might have to dump, i dont want a fucked up relationship sexually for the rest of my life

Holy fuck, i mean you sound coherent. I mean i could try suggesting it, but if she doesnt wanna see a professional doctor, what makes you think she would see a professional couple therapist?

Molested? dont think so, she did have some fucked up relationships before me but i mean a relationship at the age of 16 is bound to be retarded anyways

Oh shit, wont i get cucked after? im scared it will turn her compeltely insane

Fuck.

Am i making a big deal out of this? i dont fucking know man, im like a 7/10 so i dont know if i will get anything like this again

My ex would start acting crazy on me while I was stoned, like exorcism shit twisting her body around and making weird noises. I'd tell her to stop but I legit could not.
Then she'd start fucking me like a maniac. Yeah, I like crazy chicks.

therapists are better recieved by people like that because they are very good at talking and have been through many more probably worse cases

if youre doubting it THIS much and things dont change after continued therapy then dump

> (You)
>Am i making a big deal out of this? i dont fucking know man, im like a 7/10 so i dont know if i will get anything like this again

I think you are, drop the girl and be with your friends until you find someone better

idk man my ex was crazy (would self-diagnose herself as borderline, go to the doctor, get told it's bullshit, rinse and repeat with multiple other diagnosis - bipolar, concussion, etc.) and extremely emotionally unstable.

Dumped that retard when she got in a car accident, tried suing the girl that tapped her car for 30k in emotional and mental damages for driving PTSD, and tried milking her for everything because she couldn't keep her fucking money tied down without spending her way into debt.

Best decision of my life. She came back 2 months later telling me she was pregnant. Jokes on her, it'd been 3 weeks since we had sex when I dumped her, and I made sure she had her period before I broke up.

Don't stick your dick in crazy.
There's better shit out there.
Love is literally a drug.

Is that the entire relationship ? Weed>exorcism>dank sex ?

Aight ill do that then, guess i gotta go through everything before dumpin

This. Do this, faggot

You dont have to leave her to talk to other girls. So window shop and ask for the odd brochure.

Also couples therapy may work. Have you asked her how she feels about your relationship and if shes happy?

Sounds too easy to be true

>love is literally a drug

Holy shit that hit me hard. That's gonna make me think

> (You)
>Sounds too easy to be true

you say you are a 7/10 and dont think you will ever get a shitty relationship again?

What a waste of trips

Op man your gf sounds like someone fucked her up emotionally and probably sexually, why not asking here where all this shit is coming from, think of it this way if she disliked all of that shit so much as to explode at it why the hell would she be there, so she's clearly invested. And also why is here reaction just to over react, just talk to her and try to find out if there's anything undereath that she needs help or to get past. And if not give her some suprised anal then drop her ass bc she's insane

If I get quads you post her nudes

I wasn't stoned 24/7. She knew I liked fucking stoned, so sometimes she would fan service me lol.

Get out while you can. People don't change. You are young and there are better companions out there.

dump her you twat. you dont like this about someone who would be a decent life partner.

youre only sticking round cos her looks, shes bipolar, lucifer, doesnt suck dick, 'terrible fucking job', 'she contantly annoys me', wont let you see your friends

cut your losses, youre worth better (well probs not really, since you talk like this about gf, but whatever)

>7/10
No big deal
Find a 7/10 girl
Work out, become 8/10
9s and 10s are out of range of people like us

>Tried different lubes, and having shit ton of lube .She just complains it doesnt feel right? We tried different positions i keep telling her to check with her doctor and she refuses. Might have to dump.
I'd say there is no way to fix that. What about the gamer girl? Can you still reach her? Dump this nut job before it's too late. Do it quick, like a band aid, say it's all your fault, that you can't make her happy and that you've decided to move on because there is no point. Don't tell her the real reasons and just GTFO as soon as you can. What you've got now is literally worth nothing, a crazy girl that won't fuck and complains. cut your losses while you can and start pointing to a new target.

How to evaluate your relationship:

Love is a drug based off brain chemistry. The more you're around people in general, the less you're able to objectively think about their worth. The more time you spend with someone, the more you have invested into being with them.

Hedge your investment of time and emotional capacity, realize that there is more than likely someone every bit as attractive and caring as them, who will share a greater level of interest and compatibility with you.

Take some time out to think about things logically. Odds are in your favor of improving your situation if you aren't around them.

Finally, remove the vagina from the picture; how much is she worth to you now? You can get vagina anywhere.

A date costs money. Clothes and bags and shoes and shit costs money. Commuting to her place costs money. These require investments in time, money and emotional availability.

For less emotional and monetary cost, you could find girls quicker and easier. What is making you stay?

And this wasn't a red flag because?

Fuck you're stupid.

>>she constantly annoys me, gets fucking nuclear when i even mention seeing my friends let alone the fucking explosions she has when i actually see them
Put. Your. Foot. Down.
Letting a woman dictate the way you act is 100% in opposition to Human nature. Get aggressive user.

Sounds to me like you chose the lesser of two evils.

Sauce on the pics OP is putting out?