I'll be 30 in a week Sup Forums. Scared to shit, no friends or girlfriend, I don't know wtf should I do with my life

I'll be 30 in a week Sup Forums. Scared to shit, no friends or girlfriend, I don't know wtf should I do with my life.

Any oldfags figured it out?

Bump

Nice time to commit soucide. 28 yo here. Ill do it with gas, inside my car.

Start saving hard. Just do all work and when you have about 80 grand, start a business?

26 in exactly a week and in the same boat as you

idgaf

i don't even wanna get into the war i'm going thru with my problems but you probably have it way fucking better than me so stop being a fucking moppy cunt over not having a girl to fuck and some fake ass fucktards who don't give a fuck about you who will end up hanging out with you just so they can take advantage of you in every possible ways

There's more to life than those 2 fucking things you cry about

fucking hell man

bump for oldfags

How? Can you do it with new cars?

>Any oldfags figured it out?

Save your money.

Literally all you have to do is try faggot. Try to make yourself stronger smarter more talented or whatever and stop being holding yourself back because of your fear and insecurites. Stop fapping every day to porn amd for God sakes quit playing so many video games

I'm weak mentally user, how do I fix myself?

acceptance of what your life is and when the day finally comes where the brutal realization you can no longer handle it, push further and when all that's used up with nothing to drive you forward then and only then can you off yourself, because life has become meaningless...we did it to ourselves and i am quite sure others will try to spin some sort grand spectrum of things and that may be true for them, but the reality is we are more often than not horrible beings and deserve what's coming for us.

tl;dr stick around for a couple years and try out new things or up your skill set on things you do know and when the day comes then you may exit.

Shit tier bait

How is it possible to not find a single friend in 30 years? Do you live on an island?
A good way to meet people is going to random events. Facebook is full of that shit.
Need a gf? Download tinder and swipe right to all the girls. Maybe you will get lucky.

I'm being serious. 10+ years of being depressed and alone has done that to me.

>How is it possible to not find a single friend in 30 years?

Been depressed for a long time. Got my degree at 29 and now work at a small company where I can't make friends due to only being 3 males of 40+ and me.

It's very difficult to make friends after a certain age. A LOT of people are newly married and/or with children, these people don't want/have time to make and keep new friends.

do you have a job? get online dating people are whores on those sites, dont go around asking let them come to you.

That is a weak excuse. Understand that this world will move on with or without you. It's up to you to decide if you want to experience it.

Not OP but in my area Tinder is mostly 16-18 year olds.

OP says he 30 and that would make him look like a creep.

no these fail hard, maybe open up a franchise like mcdonalds?

In the same boat more drugs work booze that's how I've done it and more going out to do it your 30 so no way can you give a fuck

I open a conevince store. It is all about location.

You know like new places that are designed for community i.e. no major shopping centers etc but need a row of shops to provide goods for community next to sports field etc.

The extra consumers are just gravy on top of normal shit neighborhood corner shops. Just gotta know what to look for.

I once went to a random board-game evening. A lot of lonely autists with no friends. Maybe you can find some there.

Maybe its better to look like a creep than being lonely.

well it is easy af to be honest. get money fuck bitches what else is there to think about

Maybe but we need a pic of OP to determine if he is hardcore wizard or not????

If so, then even if creep, still not gonna work.

you can adjust the age range of the people that appear, you muppet

He doesn't have to swipe whatever direction means plz gib sum fuk on the 18 year olds.

Some other posters explained that in different age groups, it gets a lot harder and mostly 16-18 is not gonna help.....

OP show us your face!

You're still good bro. I'm 33 and just starting to get my shit together. If you want to meet people, find social groups that share your interests. I made a lot of friends in college playing magic and shit.

>drugs work booze that's how I've done it
This seems like a depressing existence.

Well said user well said

32 here, have a wife, have money, have freedom.

What do you give a fuck about? That's all you need to figure out. Find what you give a fuck about and put your time and effort into doing it in a productive way.

Stop wasting your time in Sup Forums, videogames, shit like that. Work hard and make money, the work bring you friends and the money bring you a wife, with the wife come the kids and oh maboy u end with your time and your life when u have kids.

Learn some damn social skills and get off here, or meet larpers on mmo games don't be so lazy ..

Do you have a mental illness? Because if you don't then there really is nothing holding you back.

I think I may, is depression and anxiety a mental illness to you?

I think this place is full of 40 year olds
I've seen 60 yo guys here
you're still a young man

36 years old and don't have a clue..don't look for something, you don't need a goal..enjoy yourself, that is life for.

Just buy a generator and put it in ur car with it all sealed up fag

Yes it may be an underlying symptom to something bigger if youre not taking anything for those id see a doctor

Focus on science

>be me
>29 in october
>no job
>terrible marriage
>disabled child

I wish I were you OP

Yea man I was you once. I just let my intuition take me wherever. What does your gut tell you? That's your answer

I turned 31 in June. When I was 30 I still didn't know what I wanted to do. I own a house and business now, engaged. Most people don't know what the fuck they are doing at 30 but eventually figure it out.

Plunge yourself into work-land.

I'm turning 25 in a couple of months. I changed majors about a year ago as a senior, had to start all over as basically a sophomore. I haven't been to school in a year, because I was tired of it. Wasted money. However, as I was getting ready to go back this upcoming fall, family circumstances made it so that I take over the family business or we go bankrupt. I have been busy, about to start working a lot more.

Should make good money, but this is definitely not what I want to do for the rest of my life. I am going back to school next spring, I'll officially be a 25 year old sophomore. Shit sucks, I know I'm not that old but I feel like I've wasted so much time dicking around. I have no friends at all, and I attend a university I don't even like (but it's one of the top in my state). My saving grace has been my wife. I've been with her since we were both in high-school (together for 9 years and married for 3).

In other words, don't feel so bad if you don't have anything figured out. There's a lot of people out there in similar circumstances.

join the military

I dunno man... so far I enjoy being 30+. Your problem is not your age.

Thankfully my husband to be doesn't want children. We work, hang out and travel when we can.

This nigger gets it

25 here, 26 in a month. Same boat as you OP. Our issue is undoubtedly, irrefutabley, that we can't cope with failure. As little and stupid as that sounds it's what's up.

We both need to simply get out there. Bite the bullet ignore the anxiety/depression and simply "do". Good luck man, I need it as much as you do. We'll make it through this.

Go buy a bike and travel with said bike. Fuck everything else.

I'm too scared of failing so I just never try.

Wow, seriously? That sucks man, I'm sorry. What disability does your kid have?

i'll also be 30 in a week. i have a few friends but like being alone. no gf. Yea it sucks, but stop worrying so much OP

I am gonna guess autism.

Idk if you're OP but yeah, that's the whole root of the problem. The only solution is getting out there and dealing with failure and loss. It's scary and stressful but necessary and tbh my short experience with it wasn't too bad. It was actually a little easier than I expected when I finally started trying.

i became 30 this week :D

DO NOT GET MARRIED !

What would Vegeta do?

She had a stroke and now she's got left-sided hemiplegia. Fortunately she doesn't need a wheelchair, but she waddles and her lefthand is spastic. She's only 4, I hope one day she will be fine.

dont understand why guys want to get married.
f here

So she's like her dad? Kek

>Scared to shit,
It's OK to shit.
Old people do it all of the tiem.

tax benefits.
guaranteed fiscal arrangement outcome.
equal rights to assets assessed conjoined without noted ownership.
in order to inherit pensions/savings accounts/assets/goods without tax due.(38%)
custodity over living/exceptional goods.
marriage arrangement to bind a partner to preforementioned promises prior to marriage.
VIP/couples clubs/hotels/theme parks/cooperations/government buildings have deals/oppurtinities for wedded parties only.
only option for s shared grave.
devotion to relation/social stigma/normalization.
mandate by law or religion.

>soucide

haha lost my shit (literally)

:)

hope for you. Having a sick/disabled kid might be my only fear, except being a poorfag. When I think about the time of my life I was a poorfag, I cri evrytiem

kek

This

33 yo here, the secret in life is to not give a fuck. If you don't care, nothing can penetrate you. If you give afuck, then you can get dissapointed

no but you can be a disapointment to everyone.

>VIP/couples clubs/hotels/theme parks/cooperations/government buildings have deals/oppurtinities for wedded parties only.
lol what

yea bro just go fucking work out and get few fat bitches on POF
you doing allright - bitches will come when you get little cash in your pocket and confidence in your face

in a relationship without marriage. you may not comply with demands/standards of special arrangements made for families and couples.

in example
theme parks offer free returns to married couples with children(their preferred guest) they move slow and consume more and add to the image of the theme park. a endless shroud of goths on rollercoaster adrenaline is bad for company image

Good things happen to those who stop caring.

>in a relationship without marriage. you may not comply with demands/standards of special arrangements made for families and couples.

this also applies to high end retailers/spa's and wellness centres/private banks/lawyers with personal connections/ private hospitals etc.

for instance some higher end wellness centres do not alow unwedded couples due to the potenial sexual nature of a unwedded man under law of god near other visitors.

in which retarded country do you live?

I'll be 34 in October. I used to be pretty miserable until I realized and accepted that nothing matters and that existence is meaningless. I thus became a Buddhist and now I can actually say that I am able to be happy/content.

Buddhists don't use Sup Forums, pleb

I'm 20, and I really hope things turn around for me for the better in 9-10 years

You don't need people, stop being a betafag. It's just a number so it's not a big deal. If you feel you need to do something then lock yourself in your room for the day, get drunk and/or high as fuck and reminisce about the years before this milestone. Or be a pussy and kys.

Change yourself. And by change I mean actual improvement, not bullshit "change your apperance/clothes/style"...
Get fit/reduce your weight, because I bet you are at least overweight.
Try to learn something new, or at least read actual books: no fuckin teen/tween/bitch fantasies, read about politics, economics, filosophy, or at actual literature, Joyce, Heminway.

that woud be the us. in example. live amsterdm :D

Next month I'll be 34. 8 years ago I was a fuckin fat virgin just out of college full of rage, wasting my life with videogames.
Now I've been with over ten women, been in an LTR for 5 years, finished my PhD last month, and my ereader is full with Machieveli, Descartes, Marx, and some books friend in the private sector recommended on DevOps.

Change is hard, change is painful, BUT more important, CHANGE IS POSSIBLE.

That sounds undergrad shit tier.

You changed from pathetic into a pseudo faggot?

Next please

43fag here

I'd give my nuts to be 33 again, much less 30. Do it all now while you've got some life left in you.

>pseudo faggot
kek

I always have been fascinated by failure. Do you consider your life a failure? If yes, how does it feels like to know you had one chance and you blew it up?

You're only a couple years older than I am. You can still make friends and find a mate, if you truly commit to the cause. I'm sure you have interests and hobbies, go out and pursue them to the fullest.
There's people everywhere, my man. Just be confident but not pompously arrogant. Make people smile and laugh, just because you can, and in time someone you're nice to will end up your friend.

Also don't beat yourself up if someone happens to reject your friendship. Think of it as their loss, not yours. There's plenty of other people out there worth a chance if that one doesn't work out.