This just happened and I'm pissed at myself for being such a beta faggot

This just happened and I'm pissed at myself for being such a beta faggot.
>Be me
>usually somewhat alpha, but still socially awkward
>on road trip from Colorado from Montana.
>4 friends and I stop at someone's friends house
>it's a few guys and a few girls that live there.
>one of the girls was shy and cute
>spend all night convincing myself to talk to her
>ends up just me and her outside, around the fire pit
>instantly hit it off
>we have the same likes and similar personalities
>soulmate.jpg
>we both go inside
>fall asleep on couch, alone
>wake up
>plan to ask for her number
>she's gone
>went to a class or something
>pack up, get in car, leave.

Why do things like this happen?

Also, feels thread

With some effo3t and persistence, you can likely find out who she was and contact her.

House, send a letter to it, ask who the girl was, say you hit it off and would like to stay in contact, chat more.
Address the letter to one of the girls, they are more probable to pass it on to her.

In future, always always arrange to meet again, whether it be the next morning before she leaves, the next time you are in town - address, or online, email or phone number.
Don't hesitate or play it too cool, always arrange the next meeting. It is vital.

As for this girl, track her down and still play it cool. If you do obtain her contact, arrange to meet physically as soon as possible. Don't make a big deal out of it, say you will pass by again in a couple of weeks and you can hang out and do something when you are there.

She mentioned a Facebook. I'll find it somehow. Thanks user.

>sorry but I have to be honest here
>I think you're awesome, I'd hate to not see you again
>give me your number
>sure! Dick too while you're at it!

Because you're a pussy. It would've been that easy.

All of these are cringe and pussy repellent. Creep vibes/10

yeah always start with "sorry"

If you can remember her friends, or her college, or if your friends have contact with any of the others, you should be able to find her in facebook.
Play it cool though, no soul mate or love or over the top stuff.
Just make it happen that you'll meet her again very soon, weeks not months.
Even if you two don't work out when you next meet, you'll have accomplished something and turned it into a positive experience.
Good luck dude.

It's gonna end with sorry, set the mood

That's why you'll live in regret, from not trying and being too afraid to take a risk.

>contacting a girl you like and want to see again
That's how it works. Girls generally want the same things.
If he never contacts her, that is a 0% of seeing her again.
If he contacts her, it is anything higher than 0%.

"creep"
Honestly, you sound like a faggot.

>taking a risk
>online stalking a rando after a hang
>didn't have the alpha to do it in person

Believe me, showing up randomly online after a longish first meeting is a red flag

This is also a feels thread so you guys can vent

You can find her and win her, user!! I believe in you!!! Don't forget to come back post nudes!!!

>meet girl
>chat all night
>she goes to class, regretting that she didn't have his contact
>he has to leave, regretting he doesn't have hers
>contact lost, 2x regret

Yeah, FUCK YEAH ALPHA PROTOCO!!!!!!!
WIN FUCK YEAH!!! Now no one will think im ewww like what a creep, oh em geee, yah. like totally ewww

Or.
"hey I really liked talking with you, but didn't have a chance to ask your number, remembered your housemate's facebook and looked you up. how's it going?"

BETA FAIL. EURGH HE TALKED WITH A GIRL. RED FLAG RED FLAG DUMP ZONE WHAT A LOSER FREAK, CALL THE POLICE HE PROBABLY STAYED OUTSIDE JERKING OFF INTO YOUR USED TAMPONS IN THE TRASH LAST NIGHT.

You need some perspective and to stop being such a fucking pussy who is too afraid to do anything for fear of what others MIGHT think of you.

Chances are the shy girl will be smiling from ear to ear when his message pops up.
Chatting with her friends about it, and looking forward to seeing him.

She did mention wanting to be really good friends but I think I should wait a bit.

don't wait.
don't play games, don't over think it.

It is a simple equation - you only stay relevant for so long.
Spending more time together increases the odds of you being together.
So, find a way to contact her, do it, don't over think it, don't wait for "the perfect moment" - you already did that, and now look where you are.

Don't fucking procrastinate, it leads to nothing but regret.

We're a state apart so it'll stay strictly internet for a while. That's the sad part.

>one year later
Hi Sup Forums, met a girl a year ago and I can't stop thinking about her.
Found her on facebook a few months ago and she's now in a relationship with a guy.
Kills me inside, she was so shy and cute.
What do.

>10 years later
Hi Sup Forums, she's married and has 3 children. Wish I'd contacted her.
What do.

You could go every couple of weekends.

If you don't try, you'll never know.
Should have already sent her a message by now.
If you want to see her again, make it happen.

This. This is what I'm afraid of. I'm looking for her, trust me. But everyone's giving different outcomes it's kind of discouraging

She has one of the most generic names out there. It's gonna be hard scrolling through facebook

There is no outcome - you just have to go after what you want in life, do your best and see what happens.
It always feels better to try.

How about her friends, or someone in common, or narrowing it down with her college name or class subject.
Anything like that, write down what you remember while it is still fresh.

Also can just write a brief letter or send a card to the house.
How did you find the house, friend in common? Start through there.