So 3 years ago I met this bihh living 5hrs from where I live...

so 3 years ago I met this bihh living 5hrs from where I live, and everything went great on a pseudo summer-love stuff until she went away, out of fucking nowhere because "overthinking"? Whatever.

Fast forward 3 years, Meet her again, give her my number because "why not, maybe she made up her mind" and something similar happened. She left me out of the blue. I even think she blocked me from WhatsApp.

I'm seeing her in 2 weeks in a music festival. What should I do. I'd really like to talk to her in person and ask why the fuck she dumped me. But I'm scared she will screw me OR she'll want to fuck or something. What should I do.

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you really need to move on mate.
She considered you not worth her time so why the fuck should she be worth yours?
Just enjoy the music festival and ignore her, it's time to move on. You'll feel like shit for a while but you'll thank me and yourself later.
If you are in doubt, google book of pook pdf and give that a read.
In time you'll find someone else who Does give you the time of day, in the meantime enjoy life and focus more on self improvement -
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bamp

The thing is, for the conversations we had, I can say that she really liked me. We have lotsa things in common and we talk very fluently (hard to say bc im autist as fuck). She even talked to me EVERY FUCKING DAY, and I wanted to just talk to her from time to time to hang out or talk abaout our lifes or something.
Out of all the things I fear, is that her was lying for something and the 'her' I knew was not the real 'her'.

Never speak to her again

Take the fucking hint, dude. She keeps running away because she doesn't want to be with you. Understand that. You're creeping her out. Leave her the fuck alone, goddamn.

She keeps running away even tho she was the one that caught me in the first place? and talked to me everyday? even twice when I couldnt respond? Even asked for my number?Seriously, what the fuck. I'd know if I was harassing her but it's not the case, or at least she made it look like she enjoyed talking to / hanging with me.

It's possible, but women who are like this see you as 0% more than a friend at most.
I know this because I had a female friend who was similar to this.
Then when I went to meet them after not having seen them in 7 months, she decided to see her aunt instead who she'd not seen in 4 months and acted like I should just get over that.
So I did. I never spoke to her again and never responded to her text that sh'd got a new phone number (with the number) which was deleted long ago.
This was after we'd been talking nearly every day for years. (met up in the past more often too)
She doesn't value you as much as you value her, you really need to move on with your life. Block her, ignore her. She's holding you back and probably only because she wants 'someone' to talk to, to use.
Stop being used OP

prolly got a bf.....the block is so he doesnt find messages. Pump n dump.

It's probably fun at first but then she gets bored because you make it too easy. Be alpha muhfucka, blow her off this time. Guarantee she'll be on them nuts within the week. Were I you, I'd bring another girl to the festival, and make her look dumb as hell. (If you really want to commit to this get an escort.)

Haven't you over-reacted? I mean, she was just going to see her aunt and for some people family is more important than friends.

The best thing you can do is make friends with other people. Find things you have in common with them - the music and festival for example.
You'll find as soon as you have a stable support structure (google that) then you'll feel far less dependent on this girl.
You need friends, stop clinging on to her, she damn well knows you need her more than she needs you.
And KEEP IGNORING her once you've started, as she will start asking questions, teasing with attention etc to "win you back"
DON'T FUCKING FALL FOR IT no matter how nice it will feel for the few hours or days - it will put you back at square 1 and you'll be no better off

Probably THIS

The thing is I'd screw her. But this time I know how she works. I'm gonna have a conversation about why she's acting this way and try to make it clear. In the worst of cases, she's just crazy.

I should have put more detail in there.
We had already agreed to meet, weeks in advance, and as I mentioned, 7 months is longer than 4 (4 is the number she claimed so I only had her word on that) as soon as she arrived at the town we were to meet at she stopped responding.
Only did after I'd pestered her with calls and texts and met me for 5mins to tell me essentially she was going to see her aunt instead and it shouldn't be such a big deal essentially.
She was 1 of my only friends at the time and knew it.
I'm glad I moved on after that day. Enough was enough.
I think she's a single mother now

I've had someone like this before. We would literally talk everyday for 3 years. All of a sudden she just abandoned me and called me annoying for wanting to talk like we've been doing everyday for those 3 years. They're quick to abandon you OP, just move on. Trust me.

You would if you could. Which is unlikely since it's not happened or come close yet right?
If you do meet her you'll either get no answers or accused of being wierd or mental yourself.

This is how you test it - ignore her once and see how she reacts.
don't meet with her next time she wants to meet, if she does at all since it sounds like she only ever wants to talk.

If she tries to guilt trip you or blanks you for a few days then she's playing you for a fool

This guy gets it. I'm not falling for it again.

OP as the book of pook stats - "a servant you be, a friend she will see"
if you've been trying to hang on to her all this time, she's got Zero romantic interest in you,
see youtube.com/watch?v=6PqG1r9jolM

Had sex 3 years ago. This time we just made out and she coulnt go further because we were at a festival, without tent and she was on her period.
Anyway before she got mad this time she was asking me to sleep in her house so...

You should ditch her. Sit at home and fap with us here in Sup Forums. If she texts asking where you are, block her.

Try and meet another chick at the festival, introduce her to her replacement, sit back, eat popcorn.

still not worth it mate, find someone else who you''re not in a friendship and occasional booty call with. She sounds pretty damn weird tbh
got any pics of her?

nope

well whatever you do, take our advice into consideration.
We're all saying roughly the same thing to you so it's pretty likely we're seeing something you're not right now, but may do in the future.

It's up to you to make the decisions you make.