I was accused of raping a girl in college, and I just graduated today. If you want to ask me anything about it, here's the place.
>Nothing that would identify me or her, other than that it's all fair game
If you also just want to call me a degenerate for having sex outside of wedlock, that is fair game as well.
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So did you look at her funny in passing and she cried rape?
what were the red flags?
I am gonna asume you are innocent, how did you come to get in this pickle.
Why? Not that it's automatically degenerate, but why would you have sex with someone who would make that accusation? It usually isn't something they hide in their mannerisms and opinions.
Your race and hers?
You should have actually raped her after she went spaghetti
We had sex after meeting that night on a dating app. I took her virginity when she said she wanted to try having sex. Then 5 months later BAM I got the letter saying there was an investigation beginning.
You will never know. I can say for certain you should never drink and have sex, especially in college. If you have both been drinking nothing you say can save you unless you had people there that night corroborating your side of the story, which was the only thing that saved my bacon.
Kind of gave some details above, she felt slighted by the above somehow. She stayed the night and left like normal in the morning. Resolving the case was the worst 4 months of my entire life, I had to get a lawyer and work within the rigged Title IX courts of college campuses (in the US). I can give more questions on that if you want more specifics.
You just can't know, she goes to a super liberal college nearby and they've been telling the girls there that anything that makes them feel uncomfortable is rape. She made no indication that something was wrong, and that's why I was so shocked when I got this accusation in the mail after some months.
White and white.
>pic related was me, I really wanted to die the whole semester
Not going to ask anything, just saying... Any time a feminist speaks to you then you're a victim of sexual harassment, any time a feminist touches you then you're a victim of sexual assault, and any time a feminist has sex with you then you're a victim of rape. Follow that and you'll survive college.
She filed a no contact order, I could be prosecuted for even sending a text to her. I really couldn't stomach the thought of ever seeing that person, though. She put me through hell by her actions, simply trying to save face for what she thought was a bad choice (having sex with a stranger)
She in no way came off as a feminist. She seemed completely normal through the whole night - no dyed hair or any super liberal leanings. I can't emphasize enough to the college anons here that you are playing with a loaded gun having sex on college campuses. STDs and pregnancies are preferable to being expelled, at least if you really care about your future.
Yeah, you should have raped the fuck out of her
>>>pic related was me, I really wanted to die the whole semester
Do you still feel like you'd rather sleep most of the time?
I don't see life getting much better after college. Sure, there will be more money, but I foresee working the bare minimum hours to sustain myself, living modestly, and ignoring just about everyone and everything.
I have an intense disdain for modern Western women, but you have a visceral experience that must give you a bit of revulsion toward them on an instinctual level at this point. For me, I still have to remember all of the stories of how reckless and malicious this modern empowered Western cunt can be.
How old?
Thank you Australia
There were a lot of days I skipped class and wanted to go to sleep or just stare at the ceiling. My parents were incredibly supportive because they 100% were on my side, but initially telling them was really painful. They believed me though, and the fact that all the evidence was on my side (roommate testimony, timestamped texts, receipts etc) really helped, especially when her story was so inconsistent each time she retold it.
Listen though, college is worth it. I graduated with a good degree, am a personable person, and have a job I'll start this summer. Lots of internships and being able to communicate/properly apply to jobs goes a long way. What you make that out to be will be your choice, but don't write off everything completely.
I don't trust women, especially now. But I don't have disdain for them. I'm going to keep on living my life, just without the alcohol in sexual encounters. Don't meet women at bars or clubs, it's just an accusation waiting to happen. I still have sex with different women, except I've slowed down a lot because I'm trying to not be so paranoid anymore. Meet women and get to know them, if sex is going to happen, go for it. Just not with alcohol or drugs.
Mid-late 20's. I already see my 30's being a blur of everything seeming like a waste of time, and more happy when I'm in the shower or taking a shit because at least I know that has to be done with no contemplation of the value of it.
But don't you have some lingering fear in the back of your head that women are so empowered now that should you piss one off for any reason whatsoever, she can completely destroy you by crying rape?
How old was the bitch?
What's your life and reputation like, and what's hers?
Can you sue for defamation of character because I assume no rape happened, just that you fell into a SJW trap?
and this was what happened to that Q broadcaster guy Ghomeshi or whatever his name was, I think. And the woman who accused him got on a radio show and said "I'd just like him to say he's guilty, but I don't want him to do any jail time."
That's pretty much a fucked up admission that she falsely accused him, and takes it as a trivial matter.
WHY DIDNT YOU LISTEN
thank god I dont go to college or do drugs
im safe
Yes, but I feel "empowered" that the US justice system puts the burden of proof on the accuser, not the accused. That standard is flipped in a Title IX case; there you basically have to prove you DID NOT rape the girl, and I successfully did that by proving all of accusations to be demonstrably false and back it up with my roommates' testimony. I had to go through a Title IX procedure in the campus case, and as a man it is hell. But so long as I'm not enrolled in a university, I don't have to worry about getting wrapped up in one again.
19 or 20
I'm a smart enough, likable guy. I wear glasses and do my best to act like a nice person. I have a good reputation on campus, except by the feminist cadre on campus that find out about these cases from the adjudication and can spread rumors about this sort of shit. Maybe none of that is actually happening and is paranoia, but I don't care anymore since I'm graduating and moving on in life. You cannot sue for defamation of character since it's all done in secret, and the Title IX proceedings has framework in place to prevent someone from suing the accuser; what you're left with is a free pass for women to accuse whoever, whenever, with 0% chance of repercussions for falsely accusing people. That's why some women are told to just go ahead and make an accusation "even if they aren't sure" since nothing will happen to them no matter what.
A lot of women on campus don't care in the slightest about guys like me in my situation, even though the likelihood of a person like me jumping off a roof or blowing their brains out grows exponentially once thrust into one of these fucked up scenarios.
YO, I listened to this a few weeks ago and gained so much respect for Patrice. If you are reading this in this thread, LISTEN TO THAT. That is exactly what it's like to be accused, except his situation is so much more fucked up due to the fact that he did jail time. (cont)
I wonder how often judges "throw the book" at women who do false rape accusations.
If you don't mind me asking how was anyone able to corroborate your story? Was it as simple as having asked a roommate to leave for a bit beforehand or did you have to do some major work to get a good alibi?
And also, I've met black dudes who said they won't have sex with white chicks because they know if they had to take the stand, wherever it was, they would get no pity from anyone. I'm not a BLM person at all, but I definitely feel for those dudes, because it's true: if I had a bad reputation or was black, I can't guarantee right now that I would be alive. I probably would have been expelled and in a coffin, having killed myself.
Yeah, true. If you have a plan for doing something great, go for it. It doesn't matter if it involves college or not. But remember, alcohol will fuck you in my scenario.
Also, fun fact, gay men don't really have this problem.
Rarely, they usually just drop the charges. At least that's my understanding. Unless it's blatantly obvious that the women made up the accusation to gain something.
>Rarely, they usually just drop the charges. At least that's my understanding. Unless it's blatantly obvious that the women made up the accusation to gain something.
Proof of gynocentric misandric society if I ever heard it.
So I live with a few roommates. One of which is gay. All are really active and bright people. I walked in with the girl and talked to her in front of my roommates before going to have sex with her. We had sex for a few hours, and they were outside my room that whole night. She also bumped into a roommate when going to the bathroom. All of this shot down what she said had happened: she said she got to my room blackout drunk and falling over, she said she didn't feel like she was safe or could run away, and she said that she had SCREAMED in the room when being "raped." Even having presented all of this evidence once I got accused, the university STILL went forward with the procedure to try my case.
I'm not an MRA, but that's where the world is right now.
What the fuck is with all the boots and jeans? They all look like shit. That look is way overdone.
>I'm not an MRA, but that's where the world is right now.
I don't identify with MRA either. It's an admission of weakness if anything, simply because they want a "political fix", which is ludicrous. Asking women to go back to what they were is the equivalent of asking niggers to go back on the plantation.
I don't say that from my perspective, but rather the modern western woman's perspective; that's how she'd see it.
Anyone have the porn video that she did?
>not taking photographs and recording conversations with everyone you plan to have sex with
No one's fault but your own. I was accused of rape three times in high school. When you are somewhat unattractive and have a low social status, girls will literally re-write their memory if people hear they had sex with you. I realized I needed to do this as a safety precaution. Don't include nudity, just in case they claim that they didn't consent. Instead, when they're under the covers say "hey cutie," and she'll see your taking a photo and smile and then tell you to stop. But you have that photo now, and no one has smiled for photos after being raped.
My favorite is a recording I took of a girl I frequently hooked up with but then stopped. It's a selfie video recording of me, and she grabs me and tries to kiss me and I say no and she says "you can't just not kiss a girl who is trying to kiss you"
Going to be fucking funny if she ever tries to accuse me of rape with a thing like that
But for real, women are subhuman and you should treat them like it. Don't trust them absolutely.
Shit like this helped my parents understand what was happening. They didn't know that accusations were so common on campus, and they actually still thought that the Duke lacrosse boys were guilty. Only after talking to them, and telling them how the case concluded (and sending other cases like NYU mattress girl and the Rolling Stones frat case) did they start to see how fucked up it is being a man on campus.
They're really boring, too.
Yeah, MRAs, MGTOWs, and PUAs all seem like very weak people to me. I don't need a support group because I have a penis, but laws do need to be changed on things like divorce and rape accusations.
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>a man filmed himself "raping" a girl as "art" for her "thesis" after she accused a man of raping her a few months before
>what could possibly go wrong
He got lucky... this time.
An MRA would say that now the pendulum has swung, and its men that are now under women, and they just want to return the sexes to an equal position.
I did, bud. Girls in my area are very professionally driven and would not be cool with any photo ever, but I saved all the pics of her dating profile.
Women aren't subhuman, but I felt that way after the accusation. And by women, I mean college aged women (I don't know what you feel like though, that's just me). I grew out of that, because they're human with deep insecurities from being fucked up by toxic modern culture pushing radical feminism and white guilt down their throats.
I don't trust women though. I don't trust most people but especially not women. I trust my parents and that's about it.
They can say that but they won't achieve it by acting like a bunch of whiners complaining that women are treating them unfairly. Men seize their goals, and MRAs cry about their problems. Men will earn back their rights from being respected as role models and by slamming that muthafukkin VOTE button
Any words of advice for men in college who want to fuck but don't want to go through bullshit litigation?
It's kind of the same though as David Duke on youtube saying something about how it's unfair that niggers get hired for jobs because they're niggers over more qualified whites.
The people who run the show -- which is currently Jew liberals -- aren't going to regress to a previous position, knowing full well they have moved the ball up the field toward our destruction.
It seems like OP was unattractive and the girl was ashamed of having sex with an unattractive man.
I guess you could try being handsome and lean and muscular and tall
Yeah, and I would say it sounds tough but don't. If you have the willpower and can make the sacrifice, you will be safe. Maybe try a girlfriend? I don't know because I just had sex with women from the internet and super casually with friends but it may be worth a try. I just don't know about that because I heard horror stories about women accusing their bf of rape after she thought he would break up with her or he was cheating.
...buuuut, if you don't want to sacrifice the most prime fucking years of your life, I can maybe give some pointers (based on my own fucked up experience and nothing more, mind you):
1: Never use drugs or alcohol if you are going to do anything with a girl. Make sure she is sober. If she is not sober, don't have sex. It's really that simple. This is the only way you can feel somewhat safe about having sex on campus. This will also force you, as a man, to be better at seducing women. Alcohol and drugs will be seen for the crutch they are, and you'll likely have to interact with women in a method with more proof (which may be vital later on): a dating app gives you the chance to converse politely and flirtatiously at length with a woman. If you're having less sex, congrats, you are less likely to be accused of rape.
2: Find a fuck buddy. If you have sex with a good friend, you will be better off. I have a girl right now that is not my gf but is a friend, I have no obligation to her and don't buy her anything ever. We still have sex. Is she the most attractive girl in the world? Definitely not, but there is lots of communication between us via text and people know both me and her in our friend group, and know that I am not some psycho rapist. Fuck buddies are also easier on your wallet, so I definitely recommend this option.
3: Using a condom doesn't make a difference when you're facing an accusation. It doesn't prove consent or anything, so if you go raw or not is up to you and you will face the risks of STIs.
Get evidence. Take photos/videos with her before fucking, smiling selfies and the like. Also text her the morning after and say how you enjoyed it and complement her, she should respond in kind. If she stays over get smiling photos with her in the morning.
how can they prove that you even had sex?
Yeah whatever, if you think you're better than black people, prove it. Actually be better than the majority of black applicants, then the job will be yours. If you're not, then don't be a sore loser because there might have been some gray area you were both in where an employer picked the subhuman caricature you drew up in your mind over you (who I assume is obviously a strong Teutonic Knight who has over 1000 confirmed kills in Call of Duty: Medina Crusade).
To respond to you more seriously, I think that all of this rape hysteria is a phase, and will be recognized as such within 10 years. We're not there yet and many of us will be casualties because of that, but you'll just have to either enact that change or deal with this shit for a while.
I would say that I am slightly more attractive than the girl. I am not a narcissist, but to be honest I am a taller person, lean, and dress as fashionably as I can with my college job. I can see the attractive / unattractive balance coming into play in my sort of case, so I get where you're coming from. But I think that in my case the submitted testimonies played more of a role than an attractive vs unattractive thing. That and the fact that this was her first time having sex. Also, being muscular and tall is not exactly a benefit, since then the girl can say you frightened her so she was too afraid to resist.
Kek, you got out of it better than me OP.
>Be in University in 20XX
>Meet up with girl
>We both get on, no alcohol or drugs involved
>Eventually fuck each other like mad, she sleeps over at mine
>She kisses me and acts really nice for 10-30 days
>One day get arrested while I'm at home, instantly expelled from University without any say in the matter
>Have to go to court, only got out of charges because of various reasons
>Can never go to another Australian University ever again, most western Universities and Colleges are off the tables now
>Work at a shitty McJob and live in a Unit because of that slut
>She had no repercussions
Listen kiddies (Yes, I know under 18s are on this site): DO NOT STICK YOUR DICK IN A WOMAN UNLESS YOU HAVE COMPLETE PROOF SHE WANTED IT.
DO NOT STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY. DO NOT STICK YOUR DICK IN A WOMAN WHEN IT'S JUST YOU AND HER.
DO FUCKING NOT EVER DO EVERYTHING IN PERSON WITHOUT A PAPER TRAIL.
WHAT IS A PAPER TRAIL? SOMETHING YOUR DEFENCE LAWYER CAN BRING UP IN COURT FOR YOU THAT DIRECTLY CONTRADICTS WHAT SHE'S SAYING.
TEXT MESSAGES CAN COUNT, PHONE CALLS CAN COUNT IF YOU'RE SMART ENOUGH TO RECORD THOSE OR HAVE A VALID REASON TO GET THEM FROM THE PHONE CARRIER (YES, IN SOME CASES THEY DO RECORD CALLS, IGNORE ANYONE TELLING YOU OTHERWISE)
DO NOT FUCK THIS UP, IT'S QUITE LITERALLY YOUR PROFESSIONAL AND PERSONAL LIFE AT STAKE.
IF YOU GO TO PRISON, YOU WILL GET THE SHIT BEATEN OUT OF YOU. KEEP THAT IN MIND.
DO NOT FUCK UP LIKE I DID.
ANOTHER NOTE:
BECOME GAY.
THIS SOUNDS WEIRD, YES. BUT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD JUST STICK YOUR COCK IN A MAN OR TAKE IT UP THE ARSE, THAT'S PRACTICALLY AN INSTANT DROPPING OF CHARGES.
Maybe if you had sex the normal way, with a girl who was your girlfriend, instead of a random girl you met at a bar, this wouldn't have happened. Yeah, it sucks having to wait a month or more to have sex, but it does significantly decrease the chance of this happening.
If you can get all that shit, then I agree. However, it doesn't necessarily mean jack fucking shit. She can say she was "confused" and didn't know how to feel. She could say she later changed her mind and realized that she was raped later on.
While what you're suggesting is 100% recommendable, it doesn't mean that you're completely good to go. We're talking about a legal minefield here, and any of that could be seen as "stalking," or she could be just say that she was "still in shock." While that did not happen to me, I did make a mistake the next day with a follow up text. I asked her how she was doing and asked her why she left so early (just to start a conversation). She spun this in my trial to be some type of evidence that I knew I had hurt her somehow. It was something I actually had to counter with even more evidence of my own.
Modern medicine is very advanced. Did you hold her arm when you fucked? Maybe you caused a bruise. Did you put your (condom wrapped) benis in her bagina? A gynecologist can detect this in many cases, from stretching or tears that are normal after even healthy sex. ESPECIALLY if she is a virgin.
>met at a bar
Have you seen modern universities?
They're fuckfests. People share girlfriends.
>TAKE IT UP THE ARSE
Shitposting to the highest caliber, literally
1) what was your opinion of feminism/rape culture before this happened?
2) what is your opinion now?
I'm an oldfag (30) so I'm a bit out of the uni scene. Back in my day, you'd meet a girl, and be exclusively dating for a month as boyfriend and girlfriend without sex, before attempting sex. To simply pick a girl at uni and fuck her within 8 hours sounds like Russian roulette, and I'd say you and OP were simply the inevitable consequences of a degenerate lifestyle.
I'm 23. I didn't actually see this as a thing that women did, and the pickup culture was seen as normal by the time I was in year 10 at high school.
Damn man, thanks for sharing but good advice. Phone calls? Fuck that. Hang up and tell her to text. Or just don't answer.
Funny side note: I was still fucking girls after the accusation and did in fact stick my dick in a super crazy bitch DURING my investigation. I didn't realize it until she was tonguing my taint after my 3rd cumming, and it all started to set in that this bitch was completely off her fucking rocker. I quickly saved all the evidence of our encounter, and before she left introduced her to my roommates and we had a conversation so they knew she wasn't "terrified" or "confused."
THIS IS MY BEST PIECE OF ADVICE. It may be awkward, but introduce your fuck buddies and one night stands to your roommates after having sex. Have a conversation with them and escort her out the door after chatting. It might just save your ass!
>Also, my mom suggested pretending I was gay in the evidence book, but I had the second best thing since my roommate was gay and had my back (no homo)
Well...
...did you?
I would consider it an occupational hazard of the hookup culture. Yes, you get the benefit of easy sex, but you also have to deal with rape accusations if the girl doesn't like you.
I suggest going the more traditional route. No need to wait until marriage, just find a girlfriend who really likes you. You'll no longer have easy sex as you look for a girlfriend, which make take months to find, but you won't have to deal with all of this.
If you're too degenerate for a committed relationship though, perhaps you deserve all this rape accusation legal trouble.
>Actually be better than the majority of black applicants, then the job will be yours
We need sex contracts where both parties sign,date and finger print stating that they are going to fuck each other. After the contract is signed they should then each take a photo on their phones for final verification. Maybe even upload them to some security website that they both can access should they need it.
why only one?
>be better than the majority of black applicants, then the job will be yours
No wonder you were dumb enough to get accused of rape if you believe that shit too
Since the topic of attractiveness came up, would calling a chick ugly get you off of a rape accusation?
>Your honor, please just look at her. Would you risk 10 years in prison for 5 minutes with this, monstrosity?
That's a lot of fat girls.
What happened to the girl once it was proven you were innocent?
How did you prove your innocence?
Not necessarily, see my earlier post She could turn on you the instant she thinks you might be cheating, or lying, or whatever. Again, maybe I'm just paranoid, but I'm not going to trust some person because I've been thrusting my member into them for over 30 days.
Listen though, this is a rape accusation prevention thread, and being that that's the case, this is in fact solid advice. That's where we are right now as a planet.
I already knew it was fucking cancerous, but it became so personal after the accusation. I don't go around spouting MRA shit, but I was well informed about all of this. Now, I feel the same, but I also feel like I've learned a lot from being through hell on earth. Not on an opinion level, just on a personal level. Feminism and rape hysteria are still cancer, but it made me a tougher guy.
You are the first post in this thread to call me a degenerate, congrats. Maybe I am a degenerate, that's fine if you think that. I just don't want a girlfriend in my life right now because I don't think 99% of the women I meet are worth it, but I still want to have sex as I am a mildly attractive young man. Sue me.
Pickup culture is alive and well on campuses right now, but so is rape hysteria. That's why I want other guys to be informed. Please read this thread if you have a penis that gets hard for women.
No, German man. I had normal sex with a virgin but she was a bitch. It's funny because when I told my gay roommate that she was accusing me of being too drunk to consent, he was quiet for a minute and then just said:
WHAT A FUCKING CUNT
It made me feel really good. He knew she was a liar.
Fuck I was accused of molesting some girl at school at 8 years old. I had literally never seen her before and I got pulled into the principle's office with her accusing me of grabbing her pussy.
>rigged Title IX courts of college campuses
can you go into more detail about this, and any tips you can give?
I also got accused of rape in college about 11 years ago, but my circumstances were a little different. I had drunk sex in a motel room with a woman I picked up. We were both pretty smashed, but she was a lot more sober. I asked her many times if it was cool to go through with it and she said yes, come over here and fuck me.
A week later cops bust down my door with an arrest warrant. Went through a year and a half of litigation before the judge sentenced me to criminal sexual abuse for 3 years. Did a year and a a half. My prison experience was not so spectacular.
I got accused initially of aggravated criminal sexual abuse, aka statutory rape, but I thank the Lord every day for finding me an effective sex crimes lawyer who found out the "victim" was 18 at the time but said she was 15 to get me more jail time. She even altered her birth certificate. Because of this, they bumped it down to a year instead of 7.
Oh yeah, I also registered with the sex offender list. What happened to me after, you ask? I dropped out of college, live in a studio apartment near the ghetto and work a dead end job.
>Oh yeah, I also registered with the sex offender list. What happened to me after, you ask? I dropped out of college, live in a studio apartment near the ghetto and work a dead end job.
fucking raged
I'm sorry man but I think you're missing some details on what it's really like on college campuses. Girlfriends accuse their boyfriends of shit all the time. In fact my OP pic is NYU girl, who was friends / fucking the dude who got accused for a while. Just being in a traditional or exclusive relationship is not a guarantee of anything today. And I mean that consent-wise.
Ever heard of signing under duress? It will nullify any sort of contract like that. Was she afraid? Was she drunk? Was she pressured? She'll say she was.
Yup you might as well wipe your ass with that hypothetical documentation, it won't help much in a case.
Because out of all the women I had normal sex with during my 4 years of college, it only took one to take the rape hysteria to heart and accuse me of rape. In her mind, I raped her, and that's all it took for her to forever believe that I'm a rapist.
Ok Ausbro, your inferiority is plainly showing now since you believe yourself to be worse than all of America's black. Please keep your chin up, you'll do alright in this world.
I was asked by my lawyer if I thought she was attractive. I said her pictures looked attractive, but in person she had bad posture and was chubby. I mean at the end of the day I still had sex with her, so I guess it doesn't really matter much. If a girls is naked in my room, I'm probably going to have sex with her if she's down.
Welcome to college mang
So, did you make her cum?
You think the Duke case was a miscarriage of justice, take a look at this one.
I'm trying to respond to almost every post in this thread. If that's unnecessary let me know, there's just a lot I want to share because I want to get it all off my chest.
Well it was a combination of a lot of things, I've kind of gone over bits and pieces in this thread. I had a lot of evidence on my side, and she had none. She had a bruise on her leg, but she told the nurse during an examination that she had it from bumping into a table the day before she met me (I never said she was intelligent). I had to hire a lawyer and keep my cool when responding calmly and consistently with the wealth of evidence at my disposal. It was hard to clear the accusation because the laws in these types of cases (Title IX) stack the deck in favor of the accuser. I had witness testimony and photographs/text messages proving she was lying to the judging panel and that I was telling the truth.
Once I was proven innocent, I was sent this shitty letter saying that the university could no longer continue its investigation into my guilt since not enough evidence had been presented against me. In the U.S., that's a direct slap in the face of my constitutional rights, but fucking whatever.
Having this happen to you when you're adult is shit tho. I was applying for jobs at the time and interviewing with huge companies for very competitive salaries. When you're a kid you get at worst a spanking but this broke my willpower during the most crucial moment of my college career (the hiring process)
Why would you take somebody, you fucking degenerate?
...
I deleted my post because I decided that I don't even want to risk my identity.
Tl;dr, same shit happened to a guy I know.
I'm raging so hard.
Not even an apology?
>"Oh hey so we got nothing else to go off so we're gonna stop fucking with your life now k"
Shit is down right retarded and I understand everything you went through.
I apply to study abroad and start sending in tons of essays for scholarships and other financial aid to do it as cheaply as possible. Overall I got so many scholarships and other aid that my study abroad got paid for completely, and I had like 3k extra for spending while i was there for 3 months (ignoring my own money). I detailed a list of scholarships I got in a brochure I made for one of my scholarships (to show that its possible to do it if you are poor). Before I left to Japan, couple of exchange students that semester arrived early. I thought I hit it off with one of them (we went on multiple dates, motorcycle rides, etc... and kissed her on the cheek on the final "date"). I hoped to keep in contact with her, and left to Japan. 1 week in and she sort of cut contact, i said whatever, im in Japan. Best 3 months of my life, and I come back to welcome a shit show that awaits but I didn't know about.
Granted timelines on me finding out a lot of stuff is not perfect compared to what I'm writing here, adding to how fucked up this situation was. Second week of spring semester, couple of "friends" in this group (all part of this same school organization as well) pull me aside to talk to me, and accuse me of something, but wouldn't tell me what, and tell me I can't touch any females in the organization anymore. I wanted to know what they were accusing me of, wouldn't tell me. One of the dudes freaks out and takes this to the university, who gets the dean of students involved.
Three weeks later I find out that I'm being accused of sexual harassment and harassment of multiple women. While this unfolds, pretty much all my "friends" do jack shit to help me for the most part, and the Japanese guys I met a few weeks before I left think this is all kinds of fucked up. Want to know why? For 3 months while I was in Japan, my "friends" talked shit behind my back. Continuing in next.
Jesus christ. Scary stuff.
The tips I'm giving you are mainly to attempt to avoid any interaction with the Title IX system altogether. That's because the Title IX system is a panel created to indict and expel you, with little chance for redemption. For more information, you can read: en.wikipedia.org
or
thefire.org
Once the Title IX has you, it is very tough to break free. All I can say is: get a lawyer. You will need one, and you will need to ask your parents to pay for it since they may have to take out loans to pay for it. It will be worth it because it will be the only way you have a shot at innocence.
I'm sorry for saying this because it won't make you feel any better, but that was my literal nightmare. I hope you make a good living for yourself but I would probably have killed myself if that happened to me during college.
Yes, my penis a good size and she legit enjoyed having sex with me that night, but even you know that that doesn't matter
Yeah, but even so, it was such a relief. When I got that letter, it was like fucking Christmas. It was a sunny day and I was just so happy that I had a letter that, in writing, said that it was all over. I fucking hate my university though, I'm glad to no longer have any affiliation with it.
>tfw army ex wife accused me of rape prior to divorce
>tfw find out after getting a phone call from, i guess, the victim advocate thing or something
>blah blah blah answer our questions
>if i raped her why would she drive me out of state for our divorce (we carpooled kek)
>if I raped her why didn't she go to the police
>you know she's on all kinds of drugs right
>okay sir thank you for your time, bee tee dubs you can never work for the federal government in any capacity ever- we don't do due process
>hear nothing about it again
>a few months ago get a text from the ex """""""I forgive you"""""""
>I forgive you
that doesn't make sense, she accused you falsely she should be asking you for forgiveness
Men and women have never been equal though. THat's the folly of that aspiration, the same as cuckservatives accept the Left's premises by trying to defend themselves against false accusations of racism. THe point is never to accurately accuse, but to trick the victim into supporting beliefs and assumtpions. While men fight for impossible equality, they serve a feminist agenda, and thus, a leftist agenda.
hope you end up in jail you oppressive cis scum
>my penis is a good size
>she legit enjoyed it
A politician's answers. She didn't orgasm, did she?
She's 30 and threw away the best person who has ever been in her life because she thought she could upgrade, and instead got discarded. She has no kids and the divorce alienated her from her parents.
I am 90% sure her psyche has shattered
why should I assume some Sup Forums shitter would tell the truth over the internet and you didn't just jump at the chance of losing your eternal virginity with an unconscious woman
Cognitive Dissonance.
That still doesn't address the issue where she says "I forgive you" she should've said "I'm sorry" or begged you for forgiveness
Soon as I find this out, I figured it's 95% due to this one malicious bitch in the group, who has gotten multiple people kicked out of this group before. (btw im right) I consider fighting it, but the dean of students gives me an out "leave the organization, and don't go to any of their events". I make sure this isnt some bullshit plea bargain or something, and im admitting guilt. I take it on behalf of some peoples suggestions, and just in general so it doesnt show up anywhere on my record. I feel this was kind of a mistake because I would of won hands down, and overall this situation ate at me hard and made me become a recluse where i was normally incredibly social.
I finally learn of the accusations a couple weeks later.
Malicious bitch: No dates, no time, no witnesses. "He beckoned for me to sit closer to him on the couch, multiple times". Side note, I fucking hated this bitch before all this because I thought she was vulgar in both personality and looks.
Oblivious freshman: "At a gathering, he brushed his hand against me as he walked by". Take note, this freshman actually eventually became friends with me and she recanted her statement because she learned who these people were, who i was, and how fucked up that situation was. She apologized multiple times to me. Shes cool.
Walk over me female: Female in the group who i tried dating once, but she was fickle, and we ended on good terms, thought we were friends until this situation. She's easily persuaded / pushed / follows the group so they obviously made her come up with something. That something was "Took a picture of me with my eyes closed, don't know if he deleted it or not". Take note, This was me taking pictures during a public event FOR THE ORGANIZATION, where we were all exhausted and it was a great "exhaustion picture". I deleted it anyways when reviewing it the next day and she didn't like how she looked.
Continuing in next.
I think that she thinks I honestly raped her. That somehow verbally asking her if she wants to have sex, making her cum, asking her AGAIN, then sticking my dick in her is rape
but i gotta say, i miss the shit out of her
What was her major, OP?
How do you deal with that shit man? Like what do you even say? What did your parents and friends say? and most importantly did she get away with it?
>corroborating
>White and white.
You get a lawyer and you don't talk to anyone, not even the police about it.
Admit nothing, say nothing and get a lawyer, Title 9 is a huge pain the ass that doesn't follow the normal legal guidelines. The school can just evict you for it regardless of the reason
That's fucking insane. So what if a guy accuses some fat bitch? same thing? or does it just protect cunts?
i graduated but this bitch i was banging recently got a bf now she's acting cold af
impending accusation, or what?
>So what if a guy accuses some fat bitch?
Theres an issue where the subject is highly political and gendered. Any man you see attempt to force it the other way around will probably get ignored and pushed away.
I did not ask for this amount of rage fuel...
I'm going to muttering "day of the rope" all day tomorrow.
Yeah that's so chicken shit
The fact that you miss her is disappointing. You're better than that, So just move on and date someone hotter.
fugg
All of the posts in this thread are made by the same person (me) with many proxies. Except for you
History, I think. I believe the accusation had something to do with her being a virgin and that she went to an ultra liberal school with a very high level of rape hysteria on campus.
Ok I admit it, I'm not white, I'm Italian American. Sorry to lie.
what a time to be alive. fuck sakes.
Hey while we're on the subject. Just how often does this type of thing happen. we are constantly fed these "rape statistics" but I've never once heard the amount that people have cried wolf about rape and it not being true. I'd really like to know.
Japanese Gal I saw before I left for Japan: Easily persuaded, probably didn't even realize fully what she was doing since english isn't her first language and she doesn't know the whole Title IX bullshit in America. She detailed some of the dates we went on, how she felt uncomfortable, and I was a little forward with her. (Japanese are more reserved, but we had like 4 dates and I did a kiss on the cheek) Either way, 90% of this wouldn't of even happened but my "friends" were told, LIKE AFTER THE FIRST FUCKING DATE WITH HER, that she didn't like me, but couldn't tell me directly and wanted them to relay it. (Japanese can be TOO nice, so instead of her denying the dates, she just kept going). Either way, miscommunication, misunderstanding, but according to the university, dates can be sexual harassment.
So, instead of the dean fucking seeing these accusations and laughing like any fucking sane person would about how stupid these fucking things are (or at least two of them, and one of them having 0 fucking identifying information, and the other being the girl who later recanted her statement), I get the "Sweep you under the rug, and make the problem go away". I didn't realize this at the time, but that is effectively what happened, and here's why. I went to a few events that said organization was AT, which was okay, since they didn't host it, and i still wanted to have a social life. They went to the dean of students, and complained of not feeling safe, and he attended this event (even though I could), etc.. This happened multiple times, I told him this is effectively becoming harassment (HOW IRONIC). He wouldn't do fucking shit.
Eventually a combination of dealing with all those friends backstabbing me, female trust issues, losing 80% of my social group at the university, my grandpa going through dementia, and a few other things, I became a recluse and dropped out with a 3.8GPA. Good Job university.