How do I get my girlfriend to be a freak again...

How do I get my girlfriend to be a freak again? It's been four years and she never wants to have sex and never feels confident dressing sexy despite my constant compliments.

You get a new one.

I guarantee the pussy ran dry because you are a faggot

I get that, and certainly have thought about it, but I don't want a new girlfriend. Sex isn't as important to me as everything else we have together. Plus it's not like we NEVER have it. Just not as often as I want it, and not as "spicy" for a lack of a better words. But I take as much responsibility for that as I'd give her.

Would you happen to have a sauce on that ?

You let her get away with not putting effort in for that long.

You're not good enough to manipulate her without consequences if you're really some guy asking for honest relationship advice on Sup Forums

Hate to break it to you, women don't dry up, they get it elsewhere.
She's either cheating on you, or cheated on you in the past and she has no respect for you

They all lose the freak streak once they get comfortable in a relationship. No longer need to lure you in with sexuality which is what most of them can only offer.

Marry her.

She's not "dried up" it's just other factors like stress from shitty job after shitty job and trying to decide whether to go back to school. Plus we don't get a lot of privacy with our current living situation.
Yeah I guess I fucked up asking on /b because now I feel like I need to defend her... despite my complaints. Bottom line, I come to b because I have depraved thoughts I'll never get satisfied in real life.

start accidently slipping scat porn into movies or whatever. works every time

this is the last thing you should do

Yeah I agree. I'll do it last.

She needs to feel relaxed and happy to be up for being a sex freak again.

Sounds like you need to help her through her stress and lay off the pressure to satisy your needs. She has a lot of rl shit to deal with by the sounds of it.

No privacy doesn't help either, girls aren't usually into being caught or heard being a freak.

Just be patient dude, sounds like she's worth it.

Also the same okd kinks get boring for girls, just like vanilla does for you. I'd bet your kinks are losing the novelty factor and she is probably getting bored.

Just fuck her, give her a break and some orgasms for stress relief.

Thanks man I appreciate that. I'm trying to hang in there. It just sucks cause stuff like this has happened to me in the past with other girlfriends where they would stop wanting sex and so I'd stop trying and then all the sudden they end up dumping my ass and making it sound like it's my fault the spark was gone. So I'm just trying to think of things that I can do to get those gears turning again.

>rape
>rape
>rape

the love's done m8
if she had romantic feelings for you she'd have sexual ones too, literally relationship litmus test 101

Get her to play out fantasies. Women always love that shit. Get her to post to gonewild and let her talk shit to the guys that pm her. Post her a pof profile in another state with some sexy pictures and let her see how guys want to destroy her pussy. She will see that she's attractive and how everyone else wants her and she will start getting freaky and horny all the time.

Did this with my wife 2 years ago and she's a filthy slut in bed who sometimes makes me question the the things we're doing in bed

That's one of the things I'm turning to /b to because kinks are what we know best. My imagination runs wild, but of course there are limits to what I have the courage to tell her about. But just an example, I dragged my ass to Spencers the other day and had the most awkward day of my life buying a vibrator. I got home, cleaned it with a special spray, put batteries in it, and got all ready for her to come over so I could blindfold her and surprise her with it. We went to bed and I put on an M83 record we listen to a lot when we fuck but instead she asked me turn it off or put something else on... okay... ends up not in the mood and we watch tv until we fall asleep. In the morning before work I touch her in her sleep and we end up fucking. I get ballsy and ask her what her fantasies are but she doesn't know. So I tell her how I want to make her feel good and maybe use a toy on her. She seems interested so I slip it to her that I bought her one. She said something like "you're all I need" then we finished... it's been a week and she hasn't asked about it and seems completely uninterested.

How do you bring that up to them though? Hey sweetheart I want you to act like a total slut and let other guys check you out? That's just crazy. However that's pretty much what I want. I want to buy her low cut shirts and shorts that show off her ass and bring her around my friends. I want to get her hammered so she dances on everyone and makes out with her girlfriends and just does all the shit I used to get mad at when we first started dating. I can't even tell you the last time she posted a selfie... I want her to feel sexy so she can act sexy if you follow me.

She wants sex I'd guess, but her energy and mood are gonna be pretty low. She's too distracted to think about making moves and indulging in kinks takes more energy from the girl than you think. Always seems like you're doing all the work there I know, but the pressure on her to get it right is the last thing she needs.

Just say you want to give her a really good orgasm, no strings atrached. Massage her tension away, give her a foot rub, let her vent and go down on her. It will most likely lead to sex.

Imagine being stressed as fuck and she blows you. More hurdles to jump through for women but relaxing first is more important for them.

Your fucking lack of creativity and inability to come up with shit to do w/ her is the only possible scenario.

Whatever shit you typically do, don't do that anymore. There is literally an infinite amount of weird fucking that can be done. Consult the fucking internet.

If you normally dress up like a horse and fuck her, make her dress up like a farmer and fuck you or something. Christ. Just come up with some new shit and surprise the bitch with it.

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Be honest. Bring it up one night.

Hey honey, I love you but you know our sex life sucks right now. I think a confidence boost would help maybe. Why don't you let me make you a dating profile out of state where nobody knows you and see what kind of hits you get. I'll set it up for you and let you look at it and if you like it keep it and if not then I'll delete it. I don't want you with other guys I just want you to see how desirable and attractive they may find you.

I know you think you're doing it for her, but again it is pressure she doesn't need. Let her use the vibrator in private, using it in front of you makes her feel like she has to put on a show for you. She's probably seen women in porn putting on masturbation shows, they're unrealistic and most of them are faking.

I planned on using it on her and then letting her take it home to try on herself

That would still involve her having to perform for you first. She'll feel pressured to act like the porn stars do it to please you. If her confidence is low this will stress her out. Just give it to her, maybe playing with it will make her more relaxed.

Also, have her be more vocal in the bedroom. Get her to start talking dirty. Telling you things she wants to try in the bed. Don't be shy or make her feel gross for anything she suggests. Be as open minded as you want her to be. Be prepared to give more than you get at first but the overall reward will be greater.

You can probably tell I'm a girl by this point. Not attention whoring, I have just been through the same thing. Working 12hr days, dealing with uni, stressing about all kinds of shit.

Couldn't even take a piss without my bf asking if I can piss on him. Couldn't even fuck him without him asking me to dress up as a loli or a cat and roleplay. Couldn't even suck his dick without him wanting to bind me up in restraints, which take forever.

All the equipment and outfits are bought by me, it's not that I'm not into it. I just didn't have the energy and wanted no pressure, simple, quick sex. I was too distracted and didn't have the time/energy. It was just another source of stress I didn't need.

It doesn't last, got back to myself when I dealt with the rl shit. It happens faster when there are no extra uneccessary stresses. Life gets in the way sometimes, it's temporary.

I appreciate the insight. Thank you!

Get her extremely horny (do the equivalent of edging for girls) so she begs for release, then make her comply with your demands in exchange for relief. Worked for me on 4 different girls.

Give me examples please

Drugs

Women become horny at the thought of a rival woman stealing her man. If your girl isn't putting in any effort to keep you sexually satisfied, you aren't pre-selected by other women and your girlfriend is literally the only woman in your life who isn't your mother.

wat

This. Also, learn to hypergammy. By constantly complimenting her, you are devaluing yourself. You are literally say, "you have higher social value than me" when her sexual arousal is based upon being with a man of higher caste than herself.

>my constant compliments
Found the problem

Tell her either she gets help with her issue or you will seek sexual fulfillment elsewhere.

Go back to school.

she's fucking somebody else. guaranteed.

Tbh she might b cheating on u, lack of sexual desire is a sign of that, is she gone for periods of time where she doesn't answer her phone or anything?

This

This too

...if you've been with her for 4 years you should know every bodypart that gets her off. it sounds like youre not even trying and just complaining

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Start subtly talking about other women's bodies in a lighthearted way. She'll begin to think you are becoming less sexually attracted to her and considering other partners. This will go one of two ways from here:
a. She blows the fuck up.
Or
Sup Forums. She starts exercising more frequently to keep you around, not only toning her body and becoming sexier, but in the process achieves a higher level of confidence in her sexual and physical prowess.

>sometimes, it's worth the risk.

do shit around the house for her, make her feel special but then when she asks for sex, say you dont want to (every once in a while), and she will get more interested. girls want to be able to chase a guy. Make her work to get you inside the bedroom, and work for her outside the bedroom

talking from experience here, lost my virginity to a girl, we did it atleast 2 times a day for 5 months straight.
then she stopped wanting it that much, but i was hooked/used to it. and i was sexually frustrated.
so i just denied her a few times
>bam
back to 2 times a day
been going stonk for a few years now.

Wrong. You start denying a female sex and she'll find someone who will fuck her daily. You even consider how many married or "committed" guys will fuck girls on the side in the blink of an eye? You're most likely being cucked, sorry Faggot. Wake up and smell the coffee.

dont know where shes going to get the time when we both do freelance from home and have sex twice a day for a pretty solid ammount of time.

is he sitting in the shower waiting for her to go take a piss?

>self conscious beta

Only 2 times a day? Me and one ex I had we used to do it at least 4 times a day and this, for at least 7 months no condom. It was heaven.

i mean we atleast do it 2x a day, we still gotta like work, cook, and shit ya know?

whenever we have time, shes most likely gettin a poundin

mfw he cant fuck her good enough for her to crave it if its ever denied

we work back to back, and shes into some kinky shit.
so when i say sex, im talkin both of us having an orgasm.
ill tease her whenever i get up to go do somthing, like tying her feet to the chair or play with the wifi vibrator she wears

Sadly yes, responsabilities and work, both fucking up the pleasure of having sex with your woman. We still made time, after work to relieve stress, after supper, before bed, some hours after bed, sometimes in the morning... She was exhausted when getting to work and yeah, it was too much, but it felt great for both of us.

Multiple orgasms is way better, I hope you give her all you got for hours and hours

>feelsbadman

shes great, ill never know what its like to have to wait weeks for sex since she was my first. been together for 6 years, going to propose soon. were going back to Taiwan in a few months to go visit her family, and i think im going to do it then.
on the weekends, for sure. she'll blow me, ill do shit for an hour or 2, then she gets tired and takes a nap for a few hours, and ill make some food for when she gets up, maybe go play some vidya or board games, then go see a movie. come back home do it again, make food again. pass out.

we had to get a rubber cover for our bed so she could stop ruining the mattress, she just drips a unbelievable amount

Sounds like you've got a great relationship with her, I hope you the best luck for your proposal and making her the happiest.

I feel ya, she would also take long naps after our intense sessions and I would just stay next to her, admire her and think how lucky I was for having her. After that it was always a great feeling of bringing her food to the bed, eat together all calm after all we did... Was great.

Ah yeah, mine used to leave those wet circles on my bed, it was a complete cute mess though