Having trouble getting hard Sup Forums. What to do?
I'm 19, can get hard any time I want, when alone. When I'm making out with my girl, it's very inconsistent. Sometimes I get hard, other times not. She tries stroking my tiny unerect shell of a penis but it doesn't work. While making out I'm obviously aroused, but still nothing. Then I go and hug her while saying goodbye, fucking diamond. What gives?
I assume it's just anxiety and general nervousness, I'm not a virgin and we haven't had sex yet. My only sexual experiences are while I was hammered on alcohol or drugs or both.
> stroking my tiny unerect shell of a penis but it doesn't work > Then I go and hug her while saying goodbye, fucking diamond
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Jason Murphy
I know the feel, user. Stop watching porn.
Charles Reyes
your overthinking it just relax
Colton Turner
i have exactly the same problem, help
Brandon Wood
Wank less, drink less alcohol.
Asher Stewart
Could it be porn? Thought about not fapping for like a week, but I don't want to last only a few minutes the first time we have sex.
Austin Sanders
viagra or brazillian wandering spider for perma erection!
Camden Ortiz
And enjoy the journey, as opposed to the destination, fam
Jayden Rivera
There could be many reasons: - Death grip when masturbating - Too much porn - Too much masturbating - Anxiety about performing
My bet would be death grip along with pornographic impotence. Try and get aroused using less and less stimulation (grip/porn) and you'll be fine in four weeks.
Cheers, user.
Caleb Wilson
Too much sexual pressure released by masturbating. Cut down on the wanking and porn, your brain has already started recognising this as sexual intercourse.
Brandon Fisher
Look, as a 30+ wank fiend with a perma-grill, I recommend easing off the porn.
Nigga after gym and after waking up, I need to bust, so I do it with or without my grill.
Alcohol engages soft peanut mode.
I've noticed that if I don't even mention, hint, ask, try, with the grill, inevitably I get devoured by pussy. Play the long con.
Win win win nigga.
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stop putting all of the emphasis on hard dick + insertion. just get naked and hang out, cuddle, feel her up, touch each others dirty bits a little, ease off, eat her out, watch a movie. not necessarily in that order. stop viewing sex as a linear progression of making out > feeling her up > clothes off > oral > in-and-out and just have fun with it. take the pressure off. tell her you might not feel like having sex, but you just want to have fun.
once the pressure is off you will find yourself with a boner that just wont quit.
Anthony Bailey
Probably anxiety dude
Jonathan Ramirez
alyssa hart. yw.
Lincoln Flores
this
Ryder Johnson
who is the one on the right?
Jackson Miller
I will find you and cut your arms off so you can't fight back and cut your legs off so you can't run, my own fresh juicy fleshlight, i wanna see you bleed and scream..
Ian Robinson
Too much fapping. I'm 20 except I get rock solid but can never climax with my chick under 40 minutes
Charles Taylor
Non-nigglet English version please?
Jaxon Reed
When you're getting down and dirty are you thinking about how sweet her ass feels in your hands or are you thinking about your penis?
Gavin Butler
Thinking about my penis and how I want it to be hard/er. I've read all of the advice to just chill and explore and have fun, but I'm not sure how I would be able to apply that in practice.
Christian Torres
No.
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Ryan Brooks
I thats the root of your problem m80. Thinking about your penis isn't going to get you hard. Focus on the girl and how awesome tits and ass and puss are.
I know its easier said than done, cus obviously its a worry that you won't get hard. But yeah learn to focus on the girl. Try mindfulness/meditation and you'll train your mind to focus and let your emotions like worry about your dick wash over you
Jackson Jenkins
If it's anxiety driven, this is the best advice possible. Get comfortable with the girl, and instead of you fretting about what she'll think, bring her into your world and own the situation. Sometimes acknowledging it at the beginning helps... some girls look at it as a sexy challenge to get you diamonds. Once you're able to do it once with a chick, it'll get easier each time.
Caleb Jenkins
this. this also. don't watch porn to fap. stop fapping unless it imagination. also you gonna be quick, just pull out hold off a sec and plunge in. if you come early learn a lesson. if she doesn't come it her loss if she held off too long.
you get better over time.
You also prob thinking to much into shit. relax and let what happens happen. Enjoy it and help her enjoy it.
hey, and next time your busting a but spare a thought for me user.
Charles Smith
Try having a freezing cold shower, make sure your balls freeze. This causes your semen will become more active and you will be producing a lot more and healthier semen. This isn't dangerous and is scientifically proven to be healthy
Eli Martin
Listen, if there's only one reply you take advice from here, let it be mine.
I went through the exact same thing whenever I tried hooking up with flings, only time I had consistent boners was with a girlfriend who gave me time. That being said, after we broke up, I could never count on getting hard when hooking up with new girls. I read countless forums and countless tips on relaxing and nothing worked. I then tried all these over the counter supplements that didn't do shit. The anxiety got so terrible I almost gave up on girls all-together.
I decided to go to the doctor to get a physical, and explain my ED problems. Physical came back fine, he said it was probably nerves. I went ahead and asked for a sample of Cialis, because I'd read how effective it was. He gave me three pills, I split them into thirds, and holy fuck did it ever work. If you are at all turned on and have any stimulation, you can count on a rock hard boner that will last until you're done hooking up, none of that all day boner Viagra shit.
After the supply ran out, I found an online supplier of liquid cialis, and over time took smaller and smaller doses until I "cured" myself.
Honestly, if you are struggling as hard as I was, take some medication. Remove the mental aspect, fuck girls with your power boner, and feel like the man you really are.
Good luck.
P.S. I can't give out my online supplier, but dig around and do your due diligence, and give something a shot. It's not that expensive, and really for what it does for you, I'd pay 10x more.
Colton Cooper
I totally respect the ambiguity of where you get your supply, but is there any direction you could point us in without giving away too many details? I'm not OP but I've experienced this issue from time to time in the past and was always curious about a pharmaceutical solution.
Easton Cooper
I recommend digging around on the bodybuilding dot com forums, search for what we're talking about. Then if you find a site or two, google them until you're comfortable you've found something with some sort of track record or reviews, and go for it.
All this advice here about "relaxing" or jacking off beforehand or whatever is BS in my opinion. When you're in the moment, and you know you can have sex, and the everything is contingent on your getting a boner, it adds SO MUCH stress you can't just tune it out. Take some medication, take the thought process out of it, fuck around for a while until you're seasoned, then cut back and youre good.
Good luck!
Jonathan Morales
I feel like this is the best, most realistic advice given on this subject ever. Thanks user.
Kevin Lopez
All your trouble is your mind...
Adrian Stewart
>hug her while saying goodbye, fucking diamond you love to watch her leave :^) in all seriousness, if i don't fap for a week i get boners when the wind changes direction
Matthew Robinson
horny after gym? personally i'm fucking drained after gym and couldn't even get semi-hard if a hottie put it in her mouth
