I got a girlfriend, almost 3 years after the last one. I am 26, so is she. so, here's the situation:
She has Bi-polar disorder. We've been going out for a month or two and she seems normal sweet, introvert girl.
She is a virgin. We spent 1 night together, however I didn't go all the way, since she was very tense and I was a little unprepared for deflowering a 26 yo (it's like a fucking unicorn these days).
We are also thinking of renting an apartment for both of us, because we are both living with moms at this point and I have no intention of inviting any girl at my mom's apartment.
Here are some questions, I think about:
1) Is getting a beautiful virgin girlfriend worth the certified mental illness crazy bitch maniac/depression, which is inevitable?
2) What is the best known to pol treatment to Bi-polar disorder? Is it better to take the little white jew (lithium) and begin a lethargic existence without manic obsessions & depressions, but without truly being happy or self-aware?
3) And this one is on you pol: She is short and skinny, so I don't want to reproduce with her. Is my attraction towards her based on the couple of years loneliness?
People can live and function well with bipolar disease.
But think about this, there's a reason she's still a virgin at 26.
William Wood
get out while you can. or if youre ready to live an unstable life, go for it. when she gets pregnant and suffers post partum you're gonna drink drink cyanide like a nigger chugs down a grape drank
Daniel Nelson
How bad is it user? Will she take meds?
Could be worth it if you can handle it.
Jonathan Edwards
MILK IT WHILE YOU CAN MAN anyway if it does not work out you get to bang
Zachary Clark
fpbp
Mason Morales
>bi-polar Cease and desist user. All that lies ahead of you is scorched earth. Bi-polar people are shitheads.
Mason White
Don't get into a lot of mess for fucking a virgin. NOT WORTH IT.
Get a nice experienced girl that is not crazy. The longer you are with her, the harder breaking up will be. Not worth it.
If you go through with this, you will waste a lot of time, energy, love, money, etc. not worth it.
Cut ties asap
Henry Turner
I know it is not a serious mental illness, however it can fuck up your life.
She lost her father when she was 12 and her brother beat up her mom when she was 15, so she moved out with her mom. I think this made her have trust issues and being an introvert on top kept her from getting in a relationship
Gavin Clark
>daddy issues run bro I've never known a girl with daddy issues who didn't turn into a tumblrina or eventually
Jayden Howard
...
Carter Brooks
You know you can just fuck a girl and not marry her, right?
James Foster
Don't do it OP. Bi-polars are nothing but major trouble. Unless you're some kind of super alpha that controls every aspect about her and you can make absolutely sure she'll NEVER fucking EVER say shittalk you or fuck with you in any way, run. Run fast.
Angel Sanchez
She is a virgin because she is fucked in the head.
Bipolar is fucking shit, she will do CRAZY stuff when manic. CRAZY stuff I tell you.
Abot abort abort
Brandon Hall
wtf /pol. You basically glorify virgin girls and now you tell me to run like hell. Is bi-polar really that bad? red-pill pls
Easton Howard
Why would you want to though?
William Anderson
>Pipolar >She is short and skinny, so I don't want to reproduce with her.
see dead fkn srs
Chase Jackson
Yes, it is major fucking bad
Really really fucking bad.
If you want to experience how bad it can get, move in with her, convince her not to take lithium, wait half a year.
I dare you, I double dare you motherfucker, she will make your life so hellish that when she gets admitted to the mental institution you will be living in a cell next to her because you went crazy too.
BORT ABORT ABORT
Lincoln Brooks
>Is getting a beautiful virgin girlfriend worth the certified mental illness crazy bitch maniac/depression, which is inevitable? Depends on how bad her disorder is. Mostly, yes. >What is the best known to pol treatment to Bi-polar disorder? Is it better to take the little white jew (lithium) and begin a lethargic existence without manic obsessions & depressions, but without truly being happy or self-aware? You better do your own research on this, at least on /med or whatever it's called. I'd say meds+psychoterapy >She is short and skinny, so I don't want to reproduce with her. Is my attraction towards her based on the couple of years loneliness? Yes it is and you better find a wife material at 26
John Turner
.t someone who thinks bipolar is borderline personality disorder
Jordan Sanchez
Never fuck crazy
Lucas Garcia
>we are both living with moms > at the age of 26 > I know .... > I'll go to Sup Forums for advices. Those cats are totally on top of shit.
Welp. There's your problem right there.
Just stay in your mommy's basement. You are already never going to amount to anything, so please don't breed your autism with someone else's mental illness. The human genome is already pretty fucked.
Easton Parker
Psychos are fun for a week or so.
Remember those words when you regret 'loving' her.
Daniel Howard
OP watch this if you want a general idea of what bipolar is
I had to get my mom forcibly admitted to the asylum because her mania got so strong she basically turned psychotic, and she had to be strapped to a bed for two weeks before they mnaged to calm her down.
Mania is fucking serious business
Samuel Myers
Im bipolar myself
it manifests different in each person. with medication its very manageable for most people
Kevin Martin
I dated a girl with a bi polar disorder for three years believe it or not.
The only advice I or anybody here can give you is this Don't fucking do it man. If you got this far with a girl you can truly do it again. She will leave you with a pain worse than loneliness. Don't try and fix someone who is broken
Nolan Miller
Had a friend who was in a relationship with a crazy for 5 years. He said he should have ended it 4 months in. He is bald now.
Easton Rivera
Can't really say I'm surprised that the virgins on Sup Forums think that bipolar is the worst thing ever in a girl.
It's really not that big of a deal.
What is a big deal is that you say that you don't want to make babies with her, so why would you mess with her anyway?
Jace Rodriguez
>It's really not that big of a deal. When a girl tells you every single day she wishes she was dead it really wears you out over time. And no, stronger medication really did not help her. It only gave her mood swings
Mason Moore
user, you can trust me. What's the real reason she's a 26 year old virgin?
There has to be a reason besides her being bipolar. Bipolar chicks are usually dtf.
Matthew Bailey
No, you're best off not being labelled with anything any giving in to inferior prescription medicines. Smoke copious amounts of ganja instead.
Aaron Torres
>wanting people who can't be stable without meds in your life.
Kayden Rogers
can you really blame her? she was dating a pol tard...
Ryan Evans
Based on my experience I can tell you one thing:
Fucking run away
Carson Powell
>virgin at 26 >bipolat
lol i hope you're trolling, cause nobody can be that stupid
Dylan Mitchell
Wait what.
>Bipolar >Virgin
How about no.
Parker Gray
Fuck if I know.. I just feel good with her. Not my body type, however she turns me on.
I've had girls in bed wanting me to fuck them, but I couldn't get it up, so I have ended things right there. Not with this one though
tell me more about how you handle it and your quality of life ( i mean relationships with people)
Mason Wilson
OP your best scenario is to pretend to take the relationship seriously and wait for her to inevitably explode and force you away.
Then you run far away.
Brandon Edwards
>I've had girls in bed wanting me to fuck them, but I couldn't get it up
stop watching porn you idiot and go to a fucking doctor and get your cortizol and free T levels checked
Jonathan Williams
This. Run away. Run fucking away and never look back. This is one time the pussy ain't worth it. Also keep in mind that she may be lying about being a virgin. I'd rather date a schitzo than a bipolar.
Jaxon Roberts
Well I spend most of my days alone on my computer with very little interaction with people except my family. I've been hospitalized 4 times and was previously diagnosed as schizoaffective. I'm mixed bipolar so usually what happens is that I'm fine most of the year and then something will happen and I become manic and don't get enough sleep then become slightly psychotic and delusional then depressed but I still have energy,
I've had gfs and I never had a problem with when I was in a relationship.
Hunter Anderson
It actually really is that bad
Take one day at a time and think for yourself
Austin Collins
Don't stick your dick in crazy
Logan Campbell
sometimes being in a psychiatric ward i am glad i can keep my winkle in my panty-pants no cum accidents for me lately \o/
Lincoln Evans
With great love comes great suffering.
Jose Allen
And you call this not that bad? Sounds depressing.. no offence
Jose Gonzalez
My mum has bi-polar disorder, and even with lithium sometimes had swings.
She raised me fine, and my siblings and I are all at least 1 standard deviation above average intelligence. There is definitely a link between bipolar disorder and higher intelligence, but it's no guarantee.
Only you can choose.
Josiah Gonzalez
I'm a fairly introverted person so it doesn't bother me. Like I said before it manifest differently in individuals.
Caleb Wilson
i know that feel
not full blown bi-polar but definitely inherited exaggerated mood cycles from my mum, who has it pretty bad.
Alexander Jones
I tested myself with a certified MENSA iq test 2 years ago and got 155.
However I spent the last 10 years drinking and smoking pot (with the occasional hard drugs, no heroin though). I managed to fuck up my life really well.
I am on the path now to self improvement and being the best ME I can
You cannot run away from your self destructive personality though...
David Smith
OP if you make this big decision of moving in with her, you have to be sure about that and not flake out the last minute. you know she's bipolar and disappointment can actually drive her to commit suicide, so think about it really hard. you're having doubts now. i guess it's best you drop her than make things worse in the long run. hurt each other more, etc.
Jackson Watson
>can't run away from your own choices and turns alcoholic and addict >MENSA certified with 155 iq
Pick one
Oliver Clark
These mental disorders are not scientific. They are spiritual. People have have overcome being bipolar through Christ. Sounds like you have found a good girl though.
Anthony Torres
This is so true. I've known some and they hurt the ones they love FOR FUN. The worst part is they don't show the crazy right away u really gotta work for it.
Carter Peterson
This guy gets it oh you are schizo take these pills for the rest of your life
Benjamin Moore
it is literally impossible for a bi-polar bitch to not have had sex by age 26, because that is what they do when they go manic, unless there is something even more fucked up about her that she isn't telling you
Ethan Nelson
I am sure I want to do this with her. I started the topic wanting to discuss the bi-polar and virgin purity. Suicide is a bitch, however my last girlfriend was batshit crazy over me and she turned out ok after the 3rd breakup
Lucas Price
>26 >bipolar >virgin You're going to regret this you faggot
Ian Moore
I truly believe this is the case as well. I myself became more religious and spiritual last year
I don't want to force her to be more religious, however I truly believe this "condition" can be handled by self-control, awareness (like meditation)
Do you have something to read about the link between bipolar and religiousness?
Aaron Cruz
i am bipolar and i am in a relationship, break up with her, really, she will drive you crazy like i drove my girlfriend crazy, i just keep screwing her emotions, really, i hate myself and i want to die, please, go away.
Leo Allen
Slay that pussy and run away you faggot. Bulgaria is a tiny place so it's easy to find a ho that's not fucked up. If I were u, I'd slay, and be on my way.
Don't be a beta bitch.
Owen Wright
Try to find out what she's like when she's manic.
Bipolar people will do absolutely crazy things when manic- spend tens of thousands of dollars in a single shopping spree, drugs, sex blahblah. Don't underestimate this mental disorder.
Brayden Mitchell
>everyone telling him to bail
C'mon fambots this guy needs all the exp he can get
The worst he can do is not even try
Aiden Ross
Almost ended up in a long distance relationship with a bipolar and borderline girl last year. Fortunately she started going full crazy (emotional abuse, suicide threats etc) before I bought my plane ticket to visit her, but this shit still wrecked me for months and made me fuck up a few things in my life. But at least it was a major (albeit a bit too late) red pill for me.
I know your girl seems to be the best girl you have ever met and I have a strong feeling you can talk through whole nights and she makes you want to fuck her like crazy despite she is not being your type but run, fucking run.
Asher Cox
went out with a bipolar woman for 4.5 years so thankful it's over, not happy, just thankful. your life is about to descend into nightmare, get out.
Thomas Taylor
>I truly believe this "condition" can be handled by self-control, awareness (like meditation)
Confirmed for trolling. Nobody is this stupid.
Michael Evans
R 9 K
go there
Austin Martinez
>she has bi-polar disorder Oh, so she's female?
Gabriel Kelly
Bipolar girls are insane and will ruin your life, however all the ones I have met have been huge whores (positive reinforcement through male attention) so maybe your woman has a better handle on it
Eli Clark
This. She's probably lying because she knows being a "virgin" might outweigh her blatant cons. Don't waste your time, user.
Daniel Morris
Does she have actual bipolar disorder or just trauma?
Jonathan Richardson
Keep seeing her but be aware that it's not a matter of if she freaks out, but when. True bipolar sufferers are extremely irrational. She might attack you, hurt herself, sleep around, steal from you, and especially lie to you. I was briefly involved with one and she was a god damned handful. She used to threaten me with suicide to get her way. I eventually got fed up and said "do it" She didn't. Never heard from her again
Ryan White
She seems like she does.
Will orgasms and dick ruin her?
Tyler Foster
You've already deflowered her, so dont be a nigger and take responsibillty. If you leave her now she'll likely end quite fucked up.
Look, just give it a try. She might not be completely fucked. However when she starts acting really crazy, just run. You can't fix her. It's a typical beta fantasy that you can fix the crazy yet seemingly awesome girl and she will be yours for life. Been there, tried that, failed. But at least it will open your eyes up about being a nice guy.
Luis Nelson
>Bi-polar literally a get-out-of-rape-free card
Ayden Jackson
mine has paranoid schizophrenia. not that bad, women are nuts anyway.
Brody Walker
I have no material to give you right now. Do a google search and you can find tons of alternative arguments on mental health disorders, the drugs we use to treat them, and the whether these issues are disorders at all. I've heard personal testimonies from Christians as well as read them online. If you are looking for a secular opinion or a non-christian spiritual opinion, I'm sure you will be able to find it.
From a Christian perspective, you can pretty much find a testimony of a Christians overcoming just about any sin or affliction including homosexuality and gender identity. The Bible describes Jesus healing people with all sorts of afflictions as well as casting out spirits. There may not be tangible evidence that these mental disorders are spiritual in nature, bu t I think it would be better for somebody to heal through faith than to become prisoners to modern medicine that fails to provide much of an explanation outside of taking a pill for the rest of your life. The most important thing is being supportive of her. If you build your relationship with a Christian foundation, no mental disorder can mess up that kind of purity. Perhaps the Lord brought you two together for a purpose of healing her.
Brandon Long
bipolarity is just demonic posession in a nutshell , you can harness it to your benefit or be devoured by the entities instead.
i myself have em under my command - ive attoned and live in peace with my darkness and have made them see that they can still do good in this world if they want to.
jesus is our lord and savior , i bow to no men but him.
Ian Rodriguez
>2) What is the best known to pol treatment to Bi-polar disorder? Evacuate.
Anthony Ortiz
lol. Yes they are. At least this one knows it
I don't want to fix her so she can be mine forever, rather than just to prove it can be done.
Actual bi-polar. Doesn't seem very traumatized.
I am quite open and honest with her, and she opens up to me quite easy
Jayden Wilson
as long as she will take what she needs if it gets rough you're fine.
Lincoln Bennett
>she opens up to me quite easy >virgin
No she doesn't user
Aaron Hughes
You sound really cool man. Thank you
Mason Edwards
She just started a little late
think of it like this, a person who doesn't attend school for the first 12 grades, can catch up all his work in less than one year, if he or she started puberty.
Owen Brown
wait until she tries to kill you... I lasted one night with one then she tried to kill me. She is a virgin for a reason
Ryan Hall
take note
Ian Wright
I will do it for the lulz boys. Wish me luck
Henry White
>I will do it for the lulz boys. Wish me luck
You gonna get arrested for sexual crimes.
Xavier Wilson
You meantion in a post that she's Not exactly your body type. From experience I can say that her body shape and type will only get worse for you and that you will inevitably not want her sexually after a few months/years and this is not going to end well. All that aside from the Weird 26 year old virgin bi-polar issue. Just find another. You could really wreck your life with this girl or wreck the fuck out of hers. Drop it man. Keep her as a friend of you can though. Then you can watch and see what happens to her.