Mental illness vs. purity

Hello /pol.

I got a girlfriend, almost 3 years after the last one. I am 26, so is she. so, here's the situation:

She has Bi-polar disorder. We've been going out for a month or two and she seems normal sweet, introvert girl.

She is a virgin. We spent 1 night together, however I didn't go all the way, since she was very tense and I was a little unprepared for deflowering a 26 yo (it's like a fucking unicorn these days).

We are also thinking of renting an apartment for both of us, because we are both living with moms at this point and I have no intention of inviting any girl at my mom's apartment.

Here are some questions, I think about:

1) Is getting a beautiful virgin girlfriend worth the certified mental illness crazy bitch maniac/depression, which is inevitable?

2) What is the best known to pol treatment to Bi-polar disorder? Is it better to take the little white jew (lithium) and begin a lethargic existence without manic obsessions & depressions, but without truly being happy or self-aware?

3) And this one is on you pol: She is short and skinny, so I don't want to reproduce with her. Is my attraction towards her based on the couple of years loneliness?

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Run away, user.

I will take her if you do not want her.

People can live and function well with bipolar disease.

But think about this, there's a reason she's still a virgin at 26.

get out while you can. or if youre ready to live an unstable life, go for it.
when she gets pregnant and suffers post partum you're gonna drink drink cyanide like a nigger chugs down a grape drank

How bad is it user? Will she take meds?

Could be worth it if you can handle it.

MILK IT WHILE YOU CAN MAN anyway if it does not work out you get to bang

fpbp

>bi-polar
Cease and desist user. All that lies ahead of you is scorched earth. Bi-polar people are shitheads.

Don't get into a lot of mess for fucking a virgin. NOT WORTH IT.

Get a nice experienced girl that is not crazy. The longer you are with her, the harder breaking up will be. Not worth it.

If you go through with this, you will waste a lot of time, energy, love, money, etc. not worth it.

Cut ties asap

I know it is not a serious mental illness, however it can fuck up your life.

She lost her father when she was 12 and her brother beat up her mom when she was 15, so she moved out with her mom. I think this made her have trust issues and being an introvert on top kept her from getting in a relationship

>daddy issues
run bro
I've never known a girl with daddy issues who didn't turn into a tumblrina or eventually

...

You know you can just fuck a girl and not marry her, right?

Don't do it OP. Bi-polars are nothing but major trouble. Unless you're some kind of super alpha that controls every aspect about her and you can make absolutely sure she'll NEVER fucking EVER say shittalk you or fuck with you in any way, run. Run fast.

She is a virgin because she is fucked in the head.

Bipolar is fucking shit, she will do CRAZY stuff when manic. CRAZY stuff I tell you.

Abot abort abort

wtf /pol. You basically glorify virgin girls and now you tell me to run like hell. Is bi-polar really that bad? red-pill pls

Why would you want to though?

>Pipolar
>She is short and skinny, so I don't want to reproduce with her.

see dead fkn srs

Yes, it is major fucking bad

Really really fucking bad.

If you want to experience how bad it can get, move in with her, convince her not to take lithium, wait half a year.

I dare you, I double dare you motherfucker, she will make your life so hellish that when she gets admitted to the mental institution you will be living in a cell next to her because you went crazy too.

BORT ABORT ABORT

>Is getting a beautiful virgin girlfriend worth the certified mental illness crazy bitch maniac/depression, which is inevitable?
Depends on how bad her disorder is. Mostly, yes.
>What is the best known to pol treatment to Bi-polar disorder? Is it better to take the little white jew (lithium) and begin a lethargic existence without manic obsessions & depressions, but without truly being happy or self-aware?
You better do your own research on this, at least on /med or whatever it's called. I'd say meds+psychoterapy
>She is short and skinny, so I don't want to reproduce with her. Is my attraction towards her based on the couple of years loneliness?
Yes it is and you better find a wife material at 26

.t someone who thinks bipolar is borderline personality disorder

Never fuck crazy

>we are both living with moms
> at the age of 26
> I know ....
> I'll go to Sup Forums for advices. Those cats are totally on top of shit.

Welp. There's your problem right there.

Just stay in your mommy's basement. You are already never going to amount to anything, so please don't breed your autism with someone else's mental illness. The human genome is already pretty fucked.

Psychos are fun for a week or so.

Remember those words when you regret 'loving' her.

OP watch this if you want a general idea of what bipolar is

kisscartoon.me/Cartoon/King-of-the-Hill/S13E24-Just-Another-Manic-Kahn-Day?id=6980

and read this

wikihow.com/Deal-with-a-Bipolar-Family-Member

I had to get my mom forcibly admitted to the asylum because her mania got so strong she basically turned psychotic, and she had to be strapped to a bed for two weeks before they mnaged to calm her down.

Mania is fucking serious business

Im bipolar myself

it manifests different in each person. with medication its very manageable for most people

I dated a girl with a bi polar disorder for three years believe it or not.

The only advice I or anybody here can give you is this
Don't fucking do it man. If you got this far with a girl you can truly do it again. She will leave you with a pain worse than loneliness. Don't try and fix someone who is broken

Had a friend who was in a relationship with a crazy for 5 years. He said he should have ended it 4 months in. He is bald now.

Can't really say I'm surprised that the virgins on Sup Forums think that bipolar is the worst thing ever in a girl.

It's really not that big of a deal.

What is a big deal is that you say that you don't want to make babies with her, so why would you mess with her anyway?

>It's really not that big of a deal.
When a girl tells you every single day she wishes she was dead it really wears you out over time. And no, stronger medication really did not help her. It only gave her mood swings

user, you can trust me. What's the real reason she's a 26 year old virgin?

There has to be a reason besides her being bipolar. Bipolar chicks are usually dtf.

No, you're best off not being labelled with anything any giving in to inferior prescription medicines. Smoke copious amounts of ganja instead.

>wanting people who can't be stable without meds in your life.

can you really blame her? she was dating a pol tard...

Based on my experience I can tell you one thing:

Fucking
run
away

>virgin at 26
>bipolat

lol i hope you're trolling, cause nobody can be that stupid

Wait what.

>Bipolar
>Virgin

How about no.

Fuck if I know.. I just feel good with her. Not my body type, however she turns me on.

I've had girls in bed wanting me to fuck them, but I couldn't get it up, so I have ended things right there. Not with this one though

tell me more about how you handle it and your quality of life ( i mean relationships with people)

OP your best scenario is to pretend to take the relationship seriously and wait for her to inevitably explode and force you away.

Then you run far away.

>I've had girls in bed wanting me to fuck them, but I couldn't get it up

stop watching porn you idiot and go to a fucking doctor and get your cortizol and free T levels checked

This. Run away. Run fucking away and never look back. This is one time the pussy ain't worth it. Also keep in mind that she may be lying about being a virgin. I'd rather date a schitzo than a bipolar.

Well I spend most of my days alone on my computer with very little interaction with people except my family. I've been hospitalized 4 times and was previously diagnosed as schizoaffective. I'm mixed bipolar so usually what happens is that I'm fine most of the year and then something will happen and I become manic and don't get enough sleep then become slightly psychotic and delusional then depressed but I still have energy,

I've had gfs and I never had a problem with when I was in a relationship.

It actually really is that bad

Take one day at a time and think for yourself

Don't stick your dick in crazy

sometimes being in a psychiatric ward i am glad i can keep my winkle in my panty-pants no cum accidents for me lately \o/

With great love comes great suffering.

And you call this not that bad? Sounds depressing.. no offence

My mum has bi-polar disorder, and even with lithium sometimes had swings.

She raised me fine, and my siblings and I are all at least 1 standard deviation above average intelligence. There is definitely a link between bipolar disorder and higher intelligence, but it's no guarantee.

Only you can choose.

I'm a fairly introverted person so it doesn't bother me. Like I said before it manifest differently in individuals.

i know that feel

not full blown bi-polar but definitely inherited exaggerated mood cycles from my mum, who has it pretty bad.

I tested myself with a certified MENSA iq test 2 years ago and got 155.

However I spent the last 10 years drinking and smoking pot (with the occasional hard drugs, no heroin though). I managed to fuck up my life really well.

I am on the path now to self improvement and being the best ME I can

You cannot run away from your self destructive personality though...

OP if you make this big decision of moving in with her, you have to be sure about that and not flake out the last minute.
you know she's bipolar and disappointment can actually drive her to commit suicide, so think about it really hard. you're having doubts now. i guess it's best you drop her than make things worse in the long run.
hurt each other more, etc.

>can't run away from your own choices and turns alcoholic and addict
>MENSA certified with 155 iq

Pick one

These mental disorders are not scientific. They are spiritual. People have have overcome being bipolar through Christ. Sounds like you have found a good girl though.

This is so true. I've known some and they hurt the ones they love FOR FUN. The worst part is they don't show the crazy right away u really gotta work for it.

This guy gets it oh you are schizo take these pills for the rest of your life

it is literally impossible for a bi-polar bitch to not have had sex by age 26, because that is what they do when they go manic, unless there is something even more fucked up about her that she isn't telling you

I am sure I want to do this with her. I started the topic wanting to discuss the bi-polar and virgin purity. Suicide is a bitch, however my last girlfriend was batshit crazy over me and she turned out ok after the 3rd breakup

>26
>bipolar
>virgin
You're going to regret this you faggot

I truly believe this is the case as well. I myself became more religious and spiritual last year

I don't want to force her to be more religious, however I truly believe this "condition" can be handled by self-control, awareness (like meditation)

Do you have something to read about the link between bipolar and religiousness?

i am bipolar and i am in a relationship, break up with her, really, she will drive you crazy like i drove my girlfriend crazy, i just keep screwing her emotions, really, i hate myself and i want to die, please, go away.

Slay that pussy and run away you faggot. Bulgaria is a tiny place so it's easy to find a ho that's not fucked up. If I were u, I'd slay, and be on my way.

Don't be a beta bitch.

Try to find out what she's like when she's manic.

Bipolar people will do absolutely crazy things when manic- spend tens of thousands of dollars in a single shopping spree, drugs, sex blahblah. Don't underestimate this mental disorder.

>everyone telling him to bail

C'mon fambots this guy needs all the exp he can get

The worst he can do is not even try

Almost ended up in a long distance relationship with a bipolar and borderline girl last year. Fortunately she started going full crazy (emotional abuse, suicide threats etc) before I bought my plane ticket to visit her, but this shit still wrecked me for months and made me fuck up a few things in my life. But at least it was a major (albeit a bit too late) red pill for me.

I know your girl seems to be the best girl you have ever met and I have a strong feeling you can talk through whole nights and she makes you want to fuck her like crazy despite she is not being your type but run, fucking run.

went out with a bipolar woman for 4.5 years so thankful it's over, not happy, just thankful. your life is about to descend into nightmare, get out.

>I truly believe this "condition" can be handled by self-control, awareness (like meditation)

Confirmed for trolling. Nobody is this stupid.

R 9 K

go there

>she has bi-polar disorder
Oh, so she's female?

Bipolar girls are insane and will ruin your life, however all the ones I have met have been huge whores (positive reinforcement through male attention) so maybe your woman has a better handle on it

This. She's probably lying because she knows being a "virgin" might outweigh her blatant cons. Don't waste your time, user.

Does she have actual bipolar disorder or just trauma?

Keep seeing her but be aware that it's not a matter of if she freaks out, but when.
True bipolar sufferers are extremely irrational. She might attack you, hurt herself, sleep around, steal from you, and especially lie to you. I was briefly involved with one and she was a god damned handful. She used to threaten me with suicide to get her way. I eventually got fed up and said "do it"
She didn't. Never heard from her again

She seems like she does.

Will orgasms and dick ruin her?

You've already deflowered her, so dont be a nigger and take responsibillty. If you leave her now she'll likely end quite fucked up.

>be in relationship with bipolar woman
>be in army
>get posted to Germany
>split up with her before I go
>has sister call me saying she's eaten slug poison, slit her wrists and crashed her car deliberately
>week 1 in new unit and have to ask my troop commander for leave to see my gf who just attempted suicide
>get back to England
>She picks me up in her (immaculate) car
>WTF you're suppose to be in hospital?
>Lol user, I'm not ill
>split up with her on the spot and head back to unit
>apologise to troop commander and return to duty
>she sends me loads of pictures of baby scans with not explanation
>Any demands for an explanation are met with more baby scans
>eventually find out that her sister is pregnant with her fiancé
>scans are pics of her sisters baby

Bipolar is crazy,

Look, just give it a try. She might not be completely fucked. However when she starts acting really crazy, just run. You can't fix her. It's a typical beta fantasy that you can fix the crazy yet seemingly awesome girl and she will be yours for life. Been there, tried that, failed. But at least it will open your eyes up about being a nice guy.

>Bi-polar
literally a get-out-of-rape-free card

mine has paranoid schizophrenia. not that bad, women are nuts anyway.

I have no material to give you right now. Do a google search and you can find tons of alternative arguments on mental health disorders, the drugs we use to treat them, and the whether these issues are disorders at all. I've heard personal testimonies from Christians as well as read them online. If you are looking for a secular opinion or a non-christian spiritual opinion, I'm sure you will be able to find it.

From a Christian perspective, you can pretty much find a testimony of a Christians overcoming just about any sin or affliction including homosexuality and gender identity. The Bible describes Jesus healing people with all sorts of afflictions as well as casting out spirits. There may not be tangible evidence that these mental disorders are spiritual in nature, bu t I think it would be better for somebody to heal through faith than to become prisoners to modern medicine that fails to provide much of an explanation outside of taking a pill for the rest of your life. The most important thing is being supportive of her. If you build your relationship with a Christian foundation, no mental disorder can mess up that kind of purity. Perhaps the Lord brought you two together for a purpose of healing her.

bipolarity is just demonic posession in a nutshell , you can harness it to your benefit or be devoured by the entities instead.

i myself have em under my command - ive attoned and live in peace with my darkness and have made them see that they can still do good in this world if they want to.

jesus is our lord and savior , i bow to no men but him.

>2) What is the best known to pol treatment to Bi-polar disorder?
Evacuate.

lol. Yes they are. At least this one knows it

I don't want to fix her so she can be mine forever, rather than just to prove it can be done.

Actual bi-polar. Doesn't seem very traumatized.

I am quite open and honest with her, and she opens up to me quite easy

as long as she will take what she needs if it gets rough you're fine.

>she opens up to me quite easy
>virgin

No she doesn't user

You sound really cool man. Thank you

She just started a little late

think of it like this, a person who doesn't attend school for the first 12 grades, can catch up all his work in less than one year, if he or she started puberty.

wait until she tries to kill you... I lasted one night with one then she tried to kill me. She is a virgin for a reason

take note

I will do it for the lulz boys. Wish me luck

>I will do it for the lulz boys. Wish me luck

You gonna get arrested for sexual crimes.

You meantion in a post that she's Not exactly your body type. From experience I can say that her body shape and type will only get worse for you and that you will inevitably not want her sexually after a few months/years and this is not going to end well. All that aside from the Weird 26 year old virgin bi-polar issue.
Just find another. You could really wreck your life with this girl or wreck the fuck out of hers. Drop it man.
Keep her as a friend of you can though.
Then you can watch and see what happens to her.