Loser thread.
>27
>no gf ever
>will never get a girl like pic related
Here's the kicker: I can't aim lower than 7+/10. Almost every girl average to ugly have cashed in their chips and are either in relationships or married.
>inb4 aim higher
No common interests/friends/social circle. I'm like 10-15 years behind everyone else.
How do some of you guys stay alive in your 30s/40s and beyond? When you're incredibly miserable and cut off from the world (and pussy)?
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Could be worse.
I'm 28.
welp, I hope you like raising someone else's children
Contrary to Sup Forums, even single mothers have higher standards than an user.
I agree
I'm 29.
I mean shit sucks but what the fuck are you going to do.
>If you were a woman and rapidly approaching 35 I'd be worried but men are good till their mid 40's. Enjoy life
>but men are good till their mid 40's
That's kind of a moot point. There's this odd assumption on Sup Forums that once you reach your mid 30s, women are going to be jumping onto your dick. But like, if you were a manchild before 30, chances are you are going to be a manchild in his 30s.
Even if it were true I don't want to be alone for another 10 years.
>Almost every girl average to ugly have cashed in their chips and are either in relationships or married.
Yeah because there are no single girls
>Just keep finding excuses not to go out and find a girl..
How do you catch up on 10 years of experience?
When I turned 21, I had zero friends so my party was just me and my mom. I kind of broke down and told her everything. She suggested that we go on practice dates together, and she could teach me all kinds of things. I'm pretty sure if she didn't do that I would be in your situation now. What my point is though, ask your mom for help. She'll understand, and like most mom's will want to help.
>25
>No degree
>Good job offers but I want to do something that only requires a degree
>Still live with parents
>No job
>Can't decide for 9 months whether I should go back to Uni or accept the job offers..
>Wasting my youth
>Only had girlfriends who brutally dumped me
Rate my loserness
>What my point is though, ask your mom for help. She'll understand, and like most mom's will want to help.
I'm 27, you were still at the front end of social ineptness at 21. Besides I don't really have a relationship with my mother like that.
Accept the job offers. Trust me.
At least you are getting job offers and had girlfriends. Nice humble brag bro.
There's literally millions of fuckable single women in the US at any given time.
Sign up for every free legit dating service you can. Highlight your strengths, be positive. Don't be fucking weird or depressing, have some self confidence and seem like a fun outgoing guy. Don't be afraid of rejection either, its going to happen, but if you keep at it you will find someone.
>not even gf but gfs
>>will never get a girl like pic related
This girl is a whore on a video shoot. For her daily rate anyone can get her. You're not a looser or ugly. You are poor.
You can not get a powerful or rich woman to advance your beta status. Most people can't. You can however buy any beautiful girl you see. All girls are whores, including your mom and the virgin marry.
I'm 29 in the same position
You don't
Anyone that would be nice enough to condescend to your level and date you doesn't deserve the burdensome hassle of trying to help you up. You can add nothing to their life, you can only hope to receive benefits from being socialized by them. That is selfish; to act on the desire to have someone else in your life because you selfishly want to feel better or feel acknowledged and important or have someone to share your life with, without being CERTAIN you can add to their life and help them grow.
When you get lost in wanting someone around like that, you can convince yourself it's because you really want to care about someone else, but if you begin with that without knowing the specifics of the other person, you are still practicing a one-sided obsession, which is not love although it is easily mistaken for it by those without romantic experience. That is a manifestation of your desire-for-yourself to be the selfless caring type of person you've heard people in relationships are supposed to be, like you've seen on television. You want to be that kind of person, and have those positive attributes attributed to you, it's all still about what you want for yourself, and nothing about the other person.
If you find a petty selfish repulsive person, you may have a chance with them, because those principles of love and caring could go out the window in favor of a pragmatic arrangement of having someone else around. The other person will almost always selfishly demand that you pretend your situation is based on the selfless principles of love outlined above, and the tension from having to pretend to still believe in love while in a pragmatic arrangement will isolate you as an individual an destroy your soul while also taking up most of your productive capacity in terms of providing for yourself. So even these pragmatic arrangements are untenable.
It is hopeless.
>How do some of you guys stay alive in your 30s/40s and beyond? When you're incredibly miserable and cut off from the world (and pussy)?
2/2
I'm 43 and get pussy all the time. I buy it. 4s cost $60 and will spend all day with you, and 9s cost $1500 for an hour. And if I find someone who is within my status that is date-able and clean, then I will date. But for the most part it's all games and BS so I buy time since it's cheaper and I know I get laid.
>be me
>21
>big fucking deal
>"hey user what'd you do for your 21st?"
>"you didn't do anything? why?"
>"not but really... why didn't you do anything user?"
>"but user, you didn't do anything for your 21st?????"
Why do normies feel the need to ridicule you for fucking everything.
I don't think it's ridicule, it's more surprise that you didn't do anything. While loneliness is felt by most people I don't think most normies have experienced social isolation.
It's not the question itself, it's how smug they get. As if it's impossible to imagine someone, whether they want it or not, to be alone.
>As if it's impossible to imagine someone, whether they want it or not, to be alone.
Maybe, but most of the time I got a confused retort. I mean, human beings are social creatures. Stay alone for an ungodly amount of time is probably alien to them.
But there's something that I really really wanna do but it requires a degree.. should I not go back and study?
Your late 20s is an odd place to be isn't it?
Like you're not old enough (or experienced enough) to be jaded but not really young enough to start from the beginning.
Get the job as a solid foundation, and study later. The more years that pass by without you working the harder it will be later on. Some jobs will even have programs so you can study while working. That's how I got my IT certifications. Which led to a promotion afterwards.
Turned 20 2 days ago. Neet, sociopath, no friends, not birthing but I've never been able to get a girl on my own. Is suck
How do you find them? And how is it dating, they actually are open to a romantic future?
>20
>neet
>sociopath
Please fuck off
I'm 36 and I fuck 18-26 year old girls on the regular. I guess being in a college town and in a band helps.
I'm getting help but I just don't know how to talk to people. I really want to go back to college.
And if your so much better what would you do?
You're fucking 20, your whole life is ahead of you.
Being social retard is still acceptable at this age.
And you're not a socipath you fucking retard.
Go out there and make mistakes, you won't get a later chance to do so.
>Virgin
>Autistic
>No talent
>No hobby
>body dysmorphic disorder
>Depression
>socially awkward
>Ugly
>Small dick
>fragile
dumb, but atleast i'm smart enough to know i'm dumb..
only reason i'm alive is because i don't want to dissapoint my family anymore.
Rape is your only option.
A couple of weeks ago I was diagnosed with antisocial personality disorder. Ive been in therapy literally my entire life. I'm not here to complain. I just want to stop this before I turn out like you guys and its too hard to reverse.
We don't lack empathy like you (claim to).
I can pretend well enough that people can't tell. It gets hard after a while. I end up quitting jobs because of it. Recently I just had a great job in a pharmacy here in town but I was too lazy and ended up quitting 3 months in because they were working me worth of two employees
What happened to all the dorky girls who reached their late 20s? Did they also cash in their chips?
SAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCCCCEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
fucking sauce
Not OP but I'd much rather be alone.
Im 36. worked in a bar as a glassie, 15 years later run a bar, about to buy a bar. Im a looser but i love my life. i just gte fucked up and fuck 19 year olds
OP ?
I'm not. Your putting pussy on a pedestal. Its a waste of resources.
Your only miserable because you make yourself so.
>pic related
Its my waifu
>She suggested that we go on practice dates together, and she could teach me all kinds of things.
...g-go on...
1st lower your standards. Think about to be around girls in the beginnign and not start with think how to fuck them.
I had my wake up with 28. Ok one hooker at 25 - but this was a desaster.
1st GF was also a desaster. She was a crazy one. Cheate with her ex after one week. But I didn't want to lose the sex so I stayed with her for 3 4 years knowing it's not for ever. I even pulled out despite we were using condoms in the end. I just didn't want to get her preggo. at the end she ruined someoneelses life and I got a good wife and a nice kid.
BTW I prefere "trustable" over "good looking"
>36
>about to buy a bar
>fuck 19 year olds
This is what you call a loser? That sounds like an amazing life.
Holy fuck plenty of people work and go to college at the same time.
You can do one or the other or both on a part time basis
Your parents would probably be glad to help you with groceries if it went getting you out of the house
nah im an aspie, so i need to really load up on citalipram and rubifen to be able to even get out of bed without killing myself. i fucken hate people. but ive found being stoned and drunk as often as possible really helps me manipulate people into thinking im normal
Don't know man. I just have this. Easier to explain than why you have a folder of you love you lose type pics/vids.
I think that's buulshit.
There are a lot of women who were fucked over by previous BFs and they have no problem with missing "experience" if they know they can "trust" you and both work on similar goals.
source me: my wife if pretty happy with me. Her hex fucked the village whore and she had to wait 6 month for the HIV test. Not very funny.
Hot. Should have thumped her
Take the job whilst you still can
Fuck you, I do all that shit and I DON'T fuck 19 year olds
I smoke but not in front of other people. You should look into phenibute if you have anxiety or anything like that. Works wonders but you have to schedule it for use
>condescend to your level
>condescend
Nigga wat
>Her hex fucked the village whore and she had to wait 6 month for the HIV test. Not very funny.
I dunno, it's kinda funny.
She is conventionally 'sexy'.. but i want to punch through her tryhard face
This is why i love the nice girls, and intelligent ones, and feminists(no not sjw, the big titted tough girl that just want bitches in the army, and actually gets shit done, not complains about everything)
"oil overload 11"
enjoy sauce
Still sounds like you're humble bragging.
To be honest I'd rather hookup with someone my age than a 19yo.
the booze kills the anxiety from the rubifen, but i need to take extra rubifen to stop myself getting too watsed, the problem is i then need the weed to be able to goto sleep cos i took too much rubifen. then when i wake up i need the rubifn cos you know , i blazed up too hard to be able to get a 4 hour nap. its a balancing act, but it means even at 36 i can keep up with the 18 year olds when they party.
>26
>living on inheritance
> no job
>going to rehab
So what faggot, everyone has fetishes
nothing humble or bragging about it , everyone i have ever known thinks im a looser, but it stopped me killing myself 10 years ago when i realized life had passed me by and i will die alone.
I'm just saying.
I would recommend switching the rubifen for adderall and using that with phenibut. Makes you socially invincible. The weed is good but I would start vaping it if I were you. Makes for a cleaner high.
Listen here you fucking asshole, work on yourself, let's not live in a delusional reality where neckbeards date pamel anderson (more like fucking palmela handerson)
Go out, right now, it is the wewkend and the weather is beautoful, ppl are in good moods. Go out RIGHT FUXKING NOW and ask out the first girl you really like.
NO not some unrelatable little cumdumpster that gets ur dick hard, find someone who looks like you can connect on some plane, and just think of something fun
Protip: ordering food ask for the meal and at the end of the order add, "..and your number"
BALLS TO THE WALLS YOLO seriously tho FUCKING YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE, and you could have a brain aneurysms like RIGHT NOW, FUCK IT, BALLS TO THEM MOTHERFUCKIN WALLS BOI
DONT THINK, GET UR FUCKING LAZY, DOING NOTHING BETTER RIGHT NOW ASS UP, HAVE A SHOWER, PUT ON SOME DECENT CLOTHES (NOT A FUCKING FEDORA) AND GET YOUR ASS THE FUCK OUT THERE
you will probably get shot down so many fucking times you'll think of kysing. I'm good looking and i get shot down all the fucking time, but that's kuz i always go for what i want, but being a beast and taking every opportunity is the way a man should be, it pays off when your dancing on a table at a clyb that your sugar mama littered in bottles then you get her number (HANDS DOWN HOTTRST GIRL AT CLUB) and fuck her a week later with straps and dildos hi af on molly for 3hrs
Im telling you right now, your living inside you head and the beast os fucking winning
Go do this
I can't even read this jarbled shit. Are you doing this on purpose?
bumppp
meninanua.
com/novinhas-atrevidas-parte-1/
What the fuck is this shit?
And who might this be?
I'm 26... Virgin beta male too...
I think about killing myself every fucking day :(
I literally typed it as i went no paying attention to structure, basically how i would tell it to you
Now stop auti'ing out, take the advice and git fucking gud boi
Like i took my fucking time to give u real advice that will help you, and instead of taking a minute to take it in, you are going to be a little itty bitty baby bitch about fucking grammar
This is why your single, you can't see the fucking hills through the trees
grammar my ass. like, 50 percent of the words are spelled in ways that are so incorrect it's difficult to decipher them.
You cunts should learn that the value of life is not within others, but within yourself.
Why care if you have had a gf or not?
You can have the hottest broad in the world but she could be the greatest cunt and divorce you for money or whatever.
A gf or bf doesn't define you as a person, if you want to stop being a loser than make something of yourself.
How do you contact them?
Come on man, I don't use hookers and I know where to find them. They're in the local papers under escorts. Hell, go to a phone box (provided they're still around) and ring one of the numbers on the cards inside the booth.
>A gf or bf doesn't define you as a person, if you want to stop being a loser than make something of yourself.
People still need outside validation, you can only be by yourself for so long before it starts to grate at you.
Honestly, if I had no family obligation to stay alive, I would've hired an expensive sports car and driven it off a cliff.
"It is the wewkend and the weather is beautofuL...RIGHT FUCXING NOW"
these are my apelling mistakes, you're tellung me you can't decipher that given all the contect and basicallly the ebtire fucking word spelled out
Fuck this shit, i tap, maybe you are hopeless, positively if you keep dredging this god forsakend path
Context*
Nah m8
People need to learn to care for others without needing to be validated by them.
The key to true happiness is not in the outside world it is within.
If I had no family or friends (like they just all died tomorrow) I would still live on, I would mourn their loss but live on.
I would still be happy regardless, I mean people die... that's what they do most of all and it's only natural.
Not sure if I count as a loser but I'll let you guys be the judge
>24
>Never had a gf
>Lost virginity to escort earlier this year; fucked two more escorts after that
>Fucked my female best friend because we were both drunk and she refused to leave my bed (She's a 4/10 landwhale who has a boyfriend)
>Work at a warehouse despite having a university degree
>Haven't worked out in ages, don't even know how to lift properly
>Get nervous and anxious around girls all the time, avoiding eye contact and talking very quietly
Continue whining, girls are very impressed by that.
>Haven't worked out in ages, don't even know how to lift properly
>Get nervous and anxious around girls all the time, avoiding eye contact and talking very quietly
>Work at a warehouse despite having a university degree
Ktf
I feel like you're one of the normies who don't understand social isolation and alienation.
I spend a lot of time alone, and I would like for people to recognise I exist.
I've been in social isolation too.
And I've also suffered losses, but over time I found peace with it all...
I actually prefer to be alone rather than to have people around.
I might just be weird or maybe I just know how to be happy regardless.
Either way everyone has to make something of themselves, the world won't do it for you.
For the average man sex is everything
If you think that way you're in the majority and I feel bad for you. I've had plenty of girlfriends and sexual partners but there are more important things than fucking.
You may be 27 but you need to grow up.
>normie talk
>I've had plenty of girlfriends and sexual partners but there are more important things than fucking.
It's like you just posted to brag. Every time this sort of thread pops up some normie fucker has to tell you sex isn't everything.
Guess what fucker? We know. Being a virgin in itself isn't a bad thing, it's the fact that you missed out on the usual milestones that lead you to being a 25+ virgin.
And I'm DAMN sure that sex is a desire that you NEED to sate healthily, (which is why a lotta wizards have such odd fetishes) /r9k/ was lying when they said you can be a robot and not want sex.
In a simlar situation myself, but I'm only 18, so I suppose it could be worse. The couple friends that I do have are pretty distant (figuratively) and I've never had a gf. Heck, haven't ever kissed anyone. Mostly just pissing away my time at a minimum wage job until I get my A level results which, no doubt, will be royally fucked. The real kicker I find is that there was one girl who my friend tried to set me up with, but I backed out cause I was too much of a pussy. About 2 days after they started going out and now, over a year later, I'm starting to feel regret for having no balls. Every time I ask the manager for a day off I'll ask a minimum of a week in advance, but you can bet your ass he'll have me booked in for at least one shift. In the year and a half I've worked there, I've only gotten one day off. I'm just hoping that my I get the results I need so I can go to uni and make a fresh start.
Your reddit is showing
This is what is wrong with western society.
Grown who can't do the natural job that is getting offspring
Bet you're depressed
>what is a prostitute
Should've went for it. You have social immunity at this age. You could set your friends pubes on fire and it will be brushed off as a dumb thing you did when you were young.
How is that even remotely reddit?
I've stopped masturbating to straight porn cos it's depressing. I masturbate to trap porn only now.
It's a hell of lot easier to lay a trap.
bump
Has there ever been a successful user story?
Would pewdiepie and that steroid guy count?
moot
Moot doesn't count.
Bitch who the fuck is Moot?
Gangly looking guy, you know, the guy who built Sup Forums before he sold it to jmoot, who I really don't think actually cares about Sup Forums.