Hey faggots

hey faggots
basically just broke up with someone because I have erectile disfunction. any help?? nudes and story attached

> never really went out with someone seriously
> virgin
> meet older chick with super similar interests
> can't necessarily get turned on by her
> becomes bestfriend quickly
> shes a horny fuck
> I eat her out - cool (im not hard but she likes it)
> she gives me blows - super good (dick is fine, no spludge though)
> we try to have sex, we are drinking, my dick aint having it
> "what are you gay?"
> "you have a baby dick"
> ok fuk you too

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STORY CONTINUES

it should also be mentioned that I have been masterbating like everyday for 5 years prior to this relationship

> after that incident, she is concerned
> months go by, we sort of keep trying
> i dot know what the fuck im doing, she does
> shes telling me what feels good and what doesn't, not really letting me explore by myself
> pretty discouraging, my dick goes flat
> anything that is new to me, any tention between us, she mentions my dick isn't as hard, or a postion I dont feel like im dominate in, my dick gets soft
> one day we try again when we are both a little drunk
> its like fucking with a flat tire, its not the best, but it gets the job done
> i get too excited and I cum like really quickly
> put on another condom, and cum again
> whoooo doggie this feels way better than jerking off
> I like choking girls when I fuck apparently, she also gets wet waaayy easily - cool
> for a week or so I feel like the problem is solved
> finally can masterbate again (saving up my loads for her
> we try again, doesn't work again
> I start panicking, shes getting more concerned and frustrated
> i start working out, taking maca pills, and looking stuff online
> we "try" for a few weeks
> all I can do is finger her bascially and then my fingers start hurting lol
> blue balling a bitch bascially
> shes telling her friends, dudes shes had relationships with previously
> fuck you, why
> she says shes never had a problem like this before with othe partners
> her pussy which was super wet for me dries up like a well in the desert
> "lets not try anymore"
> "Im not going to keep getting disapointed again"

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is anyone listneding to this?

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> im like, what the fuck
> "you just going to give up?"
> "we can still hangout and stuff, I just don't want to have sex anymore"
> ok so im basically getting friendzoned
> we try a few times again, but its the same pattern
> I start off hard, we try a few postions, and then she mentions that im soft, and then I get even more softer, and se gets off of me and tries to say nothing
> last time we tried
> "I hate having to always be on your schedule"
> " I dont know whats wrong, I can't help it, and your not being very supportive"
> "ok seriously, lets stop"
> we do a job together, thats really stressful on both of us, first time working on a music video together
> lack of sleep, pressure for deadlines, and sexual frustration results in us having an attitude towards each other
> we start arguing a lot
> I cant pick up the phone when she rings without getting pissed off at her
> we do the music video
> I work as hard as I can with a proudtion crew and make a point to not argue
> the msic video comes out, Im not in any of the BTS shots, a bunch of dudes are flirintg with her on the shoot, and she doesn;t give me any credit for the music video online
> in the next few days, she breaks up with me

results in the next post you fuckbags

Diagnosis: you are a PMO junkie with an addiction to internet porn, and you choke your dick with a death grip twice a day or more, so that when you are with a seriously sexy piece of ass like in pics, you can't perform, you can't get and stay hard, and you can't cum.
If you don't want to be a pathetic ED faggot forever, drop the porn and embrace nofap.
That is all.

AFTER MATH

> she has a lot more options as far as dick
> like a lot more options
> shes probably getting fucked good right now, by a blakc dude (shes into blakc dudes) (im white)
> trying to foget about her
> burn all of the clothes and shit she left at my house
> go to a music festival and talk to other chicks, but doesnt really feel the same
> I call her after the music festival, want to be on good terms
> she blockes me on social media
> im wrting this post so I can get rid of these nudes shes sent to me
> I guess start over and see if my dick just didnt like a bossy ass bithc with perky tits?
> whats the problem here?

any advice would be appreciated

>Go to a doctor.
>"why can't i stay sexually aroused"
>get prescribed either testosterone or viagra
>fuck for hours straight
>problem fucking solved (lol)

thanks for the analysis doc,
but I think its a little more than that, more psychological, now that I knew that she was expecting it, that on its own was a turn off for me

now every girl im with these events are going to be in the back in my head

even when im 69ing someone while standing up

i looked into that, that shit is too expensive. and you develop a need for viagra and shit
its not like I cant get hard, I can jerk off fine, and when she gives me dome I REALLY enjoy it, she just doesn't finish me off. her jaw starts hurting and she thinks im not enjoying it lol

Damn dude. Fit and perky as hell tits. I feel your pain but damn I would have torn her a new asshole.

I was in a similar situation to you - hadn't dated in forever, fapped multiple times a day. Started seeing this girl and couldn't get it up the first time we tried.

Assuming your ED is mental and not physical:

Lay off the porn for a while, buy a 100 pack of knockoff Cialis (less than $1 a pill) from alldaychemist and just pop one of those the night before you plan to get busy with a girl. No you won't develop a tolerance / need for it that's a load of BS.

Once you've been doing this for a while it will start to feel natural / more comfortable and you will learn the kinds of things that turn you on during sex. (In my experience what I get off to in porn is very different from what makes me hard / cum during sex)

After a while you will just start getting more naturally aroused by real intimacy without the need for dick pills

Seriously dude look into Cialis - you won't need it forever, knockoff brands are less than $1 a pill.

I was almost exactly like you and a doctor gave me 5 pills for free and that shit brought me out of my funk and it's been years since.

Tl;dr
If you can't fuck a hottie like that just kill yourself, because there's nothing you can do and all scientists and medics will be too busy to fap at her pics rather than investigating on your diseased penis

I think a nofap period will fix you up,as long as it takes, also maybe you should try go to gym or some shit to feel better abt yourself overall (if you already dont). If that dont fix you user then go to medicine i guess. Like the others suggested, although ask a doc first always.

well thanks for the compliment i guess lol. her body was very nice, and she was literally down for anything. fantasize about that lol

I got a thing for darker skinned girls, choking, massages, being dominant (for the most part), yoga moves that turn into sex moves, shower sex, bascially the same stuff I look up during porn.

so what im getting at is that I dont know if she just isnt my type, or if I will ever find someone like her again. because ive been in situations where ive seen a girls fat fucking ass and wanted to pile drive that bitch and gotten like horny butterflies, but I havent really had that feeling for this girl specifically. like I couldn't get hard from these nudes as easy as some other girls profile pictures

thanks for the support chief
really helping out lol

I was working out everyday for a bit, and it did seem to work. I was drinking super spunk smoothies everyday too, just incase she didnt want to taste salty cum

but i got too busy with my assorted jobs that I didnt work out as much, and thats when the dick game was weak

dont really want to depend of drugs to get me hard, doesnt seem like that big of a deal. but if I do take drugs, im goign to knock down her down her door with my dick and plow her until the cow come home. for the boys back home

Well if you don't find her attractive that's one thing. Did massages not work for you? One I start putting my hands on a girl slowly and and feeling her whole body I can't help but get major wood.

I still heartily recommend cutting back on porn for a while and using dick pills while you learn to enjoy the different sensations.

Also the drugs simply relax your blood vessels. You'll never depend on them physically, its just to help you learn to get into the boner state of mind more naturally because you're not anxious/focusing on your deflated cock

stop watching porn, if you feel like you have to jerk off, use your imagination, but keep it to a minimum as well

stress and being overaroused can make your dick flat (because there's a competing orthosympathic and parasympathic nervous system), so can performance anxiety. Try to relax as much as you can before and during sex, be into the moment and nothing else.

Slapping your dick on your own stomach area can greatly increase bloodflow. When your dick is getting soft, try for like 30 seconds, two times a second.

If blood flow is indeed an issue, try looking into a cock ring.

also try finding a girl who isn't such a cunt

Hi OP, seems like you only have an anxienty problem with sex. If you can jerk off and keep an errection when you are alone there is no need to worry about physical problems.
I personally suggest you to reintroduce yourself to sex. what i mean is: if you have these problems you can't just jump straight into sex, you need to find a nice girl and do a long slow walk to sex which means it could takes weeks or months.
start slowly with her jerking you off till you cum. maybe with her clothed so you don't get too excited too quickly. after a couple of days/weeks go on, make her naked, introduce oral sex. and so on so forth. Take it very slow OP so your mind has the time to digest everything and become more confident. With confidance also the erectile problem will go.
If you fail the fisrt times do not blame yourself, do not let her blame or humiliate you, it just can happen expecially the first times.
if this way doesn't work you may need a psicologial advice from an expert.

You just need to find a girl that will accept to help you and not one who want to rape you.

Oh, i forgot an important part: FORGET YOUR FUCKIN' PORN! they are useless and are not representative of any real sex scenario. they are shit just made for insecure people.

>no porn
>no fap
>no stress

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oh yeah hot oil massages worked well enough for me to hit a homerun with my dick bascially. it doesnt even matter if she was touching me or not, just giving one was enough

but

I dont jerk off with condoms (who da fuk does) and the process of putting on a condom and feeling a plastic layer between me and another warm being is kind of a turn off as well. fuck, maybe im just picky. I suggested raw dogging her but when we tried it felt waayy to good and I could of definitely gave her a baby in 9 months. she wasnt around long enough for me to anal on her

that asian chick has a nice skin tone btw

Super spunk smoothies? How did you make them?
Do they actually make your cum sweeter?

>(lol)

Some fruits' sugars can greatly influence taste. Vitamins and minerals (in these fruits) can greatly influence volume.

wow, it seems like we actually got a real doctor using big words that I dont really want to look up right now. thanks for the advice, glad you see that she is somewhat too pressuring on a young piece of shit unexpercinced fuck like me

she was slowly accepting that this could be more of a problem that I cant control, and was considering paying for sexual consulting, which was very cool on her part, but it never came to that pount. we only dated for 6 months.

ay i deliver bitch. this one is including me

just look that shit up online, its actually really good tasting. its like ginger, pineapple juice, nutmeg, vanilla extract, other fruits, cinnamon

last nude, im pretty satisfied with this post, thanks duys, ill take everything into consideration. these nudes are cream of the crop. exculsive. dont tell nobody. this one also features me without a fat looking arm

I'll explain it for you. You have a nervous system whose task it is to transmit messages. It is divided into a somatic ns (under your control, eg moving your arm) and an autonomous ns (not under your control, eg your heart beat). The autonomous ns is itself divided into an orthosympathic and a parasympathic nervous system that have different tasks, are active at different times and "compete".

Your orthosympathic ns is mainly a stimulator. When you fight, flee, get frightened or fuck, this one is very active. It makes your pupils dilate, your heart beat faster, your muscles tire slower, stuff like that. Arousal stimulates this ns, and orthosympathic activity is required for cumming.

Your parasympathic ns is the complete opposite. It makes you slow, sleepy, digest food quicker, but... it also plays a major role in getting and maintaining an erection.

This is where (performance) anxiety comes in. When you fuck, your orthosympathic ns is really active, but anxiety greatly increases orthosympathic activity even further, which decreases parasympathic activity significantly, which kills the erection.

When you orgasm, your orthosympathic ns also takes over again, decreasing parasympathic activity, which again kills your erection. This is why your dick goes flat shortly after you cum.

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I once had a bf who had the same problem as you do. He didn't get hard at all when I wanted to have sex. At first I would go into a total bitch mood, blaming myself for not being "atractive enough", blaming him for watching too much porn and shit like that.
But thing is, when we talked about it like fucking adults, I understood his reasons, he was under a lot of stress and depression so he just couldn't function properly emotionally speaking, let alone sexually.
So I decided to stop being a bitch and actually support him, if we tried to have sex and he couldn't get an erection I would just try to do something else entirely (another position, giving him bjs, fingering myself, handjobs, etc etc). I tried to let him know at all times that I was okay, not pissed, not frustrated, nothing. And I really wasn't, cause I loved him.

My point here, is you have to find a person who's willing to talk about problems in a mature way (not just saying childish stuff to you, with the sole purpose of making you feel useless), a person who's gonna put up with your temporal problem and will actually try to help you. Not some stupid girl that only wants to get laid without the compromise and support of a real relationship.
I sincerely hope you find a person like that someday.

Thank you I'll look it up online. Bf cum tastes like shit all the time because of all the red meat he eats. I wanna taste something sweet for a change.

Nofap is a meme. No porn is where it's at. I have/deal with performance anxiety (what OP has) and gotten through it by not looking at porn.

Look up "flatlining" OP if you don't believe me.

>the night before you plan to get busy

Do not do that, take it 30 minutes before you expect to fuck the girl.

I literally dont have any more, you guys ran me dry lol. unless you want to see some good ol windmill dick gif from your truly, your out of luck

the most important part of our relationship that got us through a lot of bumps in the road was our communication. the floppy dick problem was our biggest problem, and i explained to her that i was a virgin before this, didnt really have any motivation to date girls, and her doing all this sex stuff to me is a whole different realm i never experienced. and that i masterbated a lot to porn. that made her realize for a while that her pressureing me isnt going to help. but later on, it just came to a point where talking aoubt didnt really fix the problem, so we sort of avoided it. she is a sex driven semen demon who craved my cock specifically and would have wet fantasies about me, and I would just dissapoint her so much that she began to get sick of getting blue balled all the time. did she not have enough patience, or is it my fault for creating an fantasy that no normal girl could satisfy? sex became a stressful chore for both of us

yes dude, ya boy needs to lay off the fast food and stuff. working out helps too!

i started jerking off to her pictures and not cumming, i think that worked out somewhat, but not all the time