Found my husband of two years looks at guy cheating on girl with new girl hentai on /h/ (Reverse/Guy cheating NTR)...

Found my husband of two years looks at guy cheating on girl with new girl hentai on /h/ (Reverse/Guy cheating NTR). What to do, Sup Forums?

Porn is porn, just ask him calmly if you're nervous

Have a healthy discussion about your sexuality? Most of us have looked at porn we aren't trying to replicate irl.

Okay, thank you.

How to be calm is difficult for women to grasp.

Well I like to do things I'm not allowed to do. If he can look at cheating porn, I should be allowed to do things like ERP with other chicks and dudes on the internet like I want >.

Nothing at all. Porn is just fantasy, people look at porn of all kinds of fucked up shit they'd never actually do. Unless you have reason to believe he's cheating on you (this isn't that), leave the man alone and let him have a fap to whatever depraved shit he wants.

He just woke up, wish me luck!

that's a hell of a leap.

Looking at porn, regardless of the fetish, doesn't require other people. Erp is actively engaging with another human sexually.

Not quite the same thing. He's looking at porn. The porn is not interacting with him back. You're making an emotional connection and sexually interacting with another living human being. Some might consider the latter cheating, no one would rationally consider looking at porn cheating.

Oh okay, Just trying to get a rational side of things.

Thanks guys, I'm trying my best to not act emotionally.

This is bait

roleplay with him

I personally don't see a problem with ERPing. Especially if it's done in character, not like.. inserting yourself into the RP. My wife ERPs sometimes, doesn't bother me a bit.

Sexual interests are very different from sentiments. He loves you but horny horny with the idea of sexually cheating you but not with the idea of a new wife.

For his fetish to work, it has to be you and no one else. It may seen contradictory.

I would recommend you to try to explore fantasies, dirty talk or looking at porn together. Sexual fantasies are cool

A bad thing would be to avoid this fantasy, this would leave him unsatisfied and frustrate at you for not participating in his fantasies.

That's you, though. It's borderline. Some guys might have a big problem with that and consider it emotional cheating. It depends on how your guy sees it and if you want to remain faithful, you'll have to respect his wishes on the matter.

If OP wants to do that stuff, she should ask him about it first. From the way she phrased it, I assume she already has and he said he wasn't cool with it.

It's only emotional cheating if there are emotions involved. But w/e.

No different to me than his looking at cheating porn and getting off to the idea of cheating on her.

>OP claims to be a woman
>doesn't show tits
gtfo

He's not getting off on cheating on her, though, he's getting off on porn about people cheating. That doesn't mean he wants to cheat. And again, he's not engaging another human being sexually, he's just jerking his dick to some drawings.

And if he feels betrayed, it's emotional cheating.

There is no "her".
It's just a drawing.

"I feel betrayed, you looked at another guy.." yeah, emotional cheating is when the other person forms attachments to someone else.. not how you feel about what they are doing.

Now he certainly has a right, being in the relationship, to say he doesn't want her doing it. But it ain't emotional cheating if there aren't emotions involved.

Its apples and oranges. In one, youre looking at pictures of other people doing stuff, which cant even get close to cheating. In the other, youre activley seeking out partners to get off with. In character or not, you're fucking around with other people. At BEST thats borderline cheating, which is far worse than NOT cheating.

You're obviously not satisfying him, have more sex, better sex, more often